Yintoni bathanda ntoni abafazi ngabesilisa?Yintoni eyona inomtsalane kakhulu? Lo mbuzo ubuzwe kuyo yonke imbali ngamadoda amaninzi angatshatanga abone indlela abanye abaphumelele ngayo, kwaye babekwimeko embi.
Kodwa izifundo ezintsha zifumanisa izinto ezithile ezimangalisayo. Ukuhlalutya eyona nto inomtsalane kumfazi endodeni, sinokubona ukuba bayatsaleleka kumadoda amahle, kodwa oko ukhetha iqabane elinobubele, elingenabubele nelinesisa, ukuthandana.
Iziphumo zazo zonke ezi zifundo zisinika zona ubungqina obutsha bokubaluleka kokuzincama kukhetho xa ukhetha iqabane.
Eyona nto itsala abantu basetyhini emadodeni
- Su uphawu oluyinyani, ubuntu bakho obuchaziweyo. Abo bantu bangazenziyo, kodwa bazibonakalise benjalo, abo bafikelela kakhulu kwabasetyhini, kwaye banokuphumelela iintliziyo zabo.
- Amadoda anesimo esihle sengqondo. Abantu abanethemba, abanesimo esihle kuyo yonke into abajonga kuyo, bahlala benesibheno esikhulu. Ithemba, ukongeza ekubeni namandla okuphindaphinda amandla, liyosulela.
- La Uluhlu lodweliso. Indoda eyazi kakuhle indlela yokumamela umfazi inamathuba amaninzi okuthandana nayo. Ayimameli ukurhwebesha, umfazi uya kuyiqonda ngokulula. Imalunga nokutshintsha izinto, ukufaka isandla, ukuba nomonde wokumamela kunye nokuvelana.
- Ukuqaqamba kwendoda nako kuyalahlekisa. Kodwa ayitolikwa njengamandla, imali okanye inqanaba lentlalontle, kodwa ngokukhanya kwayo. Umntu onwabile ngobomi bakhe, elungeleleneyo kunye nemvisiswano uvelisa oko kukhanya. Ezi ntlobo zamadoda zinayo yonke into eya ekuhendweni.
- Ukuhlekisa kubalulekile. Ayisiyo-sarcasm eqhubekayo okanye isiqhulo esilula, kodwa i-joie de vivre kunye nokukwazi ukuhambisa uburharha obuhle.
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