Iibhulukhwe zehemhem ziya zithandwa ngakumbi kwaye amadoda nabafazi bazinxiba. Kwimeko yamadoda, zikhona iindlela ezimbini ngokubanzi ukuzinxiba: kunye okanye ngaphandle kweekawusi.
Inketho yokuqala yeyona isesikweni kwaye ihlala inxitywa ngeekawusi ezinemibala eqaqambileyo okanye ipatheni. Kukhetho lwantlandlolo kwiikawusi ezisisiseko okanye ngokuthe ngqo ukungazinxibi.
Lo mkhwa kakhulu ilungele ukuqala kwehlobo kuba akushushu kangako ukunxiba iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane kungabandi kangako njengeebhulukhwe ezinde.
Ngokoluvo lwam yindlela entle yokunxiba iblukhwe kwaye ijongeka intle. Ucinga ntoni? Hayi okanye ewe?
Nantsi imizekelo embalwa:
Andithandabuzi, ingakanani into enokuguqulwayo ukuze ibonakale intle, umzekelo ndingu-180 cm ubude kwaye ndineminyaka eli-19 kuphela ubudala, ukuba ndithe ndasonga phezulu kakhulu bandixelela ukuba ijongeka imbi kodwa ndiyayithanda. Ndicebisa ntoni?