Xa sithanda umntu, sihlala sizama khumbula loo maxesha ukukwazi ukuhlalutya ngakumbi ukuba loo mntu uziva enomtsalane. Ngokuqinisekileyo sintywiliselwe kuloo aura yothando kwaye asikwazi ukuhlalutya ngesisombululo ukuba loo mntu unomdla kwiinkcukacha ezithe kratya. Siza kuhlalutya zonke amaqhinga ezengqondo ukwazi ukuba umntu uyakuthanda, ngenjongo yokuba unokunkqaya uze uzisebenzise kwintlanganiso elandelayo.
Kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kuzo zonke iinkcukacha. uhlalutye iintshukumo, ukubonakaliswa kwamehlo akhe kunye nendlela athetha ngayo. Nangona kusenokungabonakali ngathi, nganye kwezi nkcukacha ifihla eyona ndlela ichuliweyo yokwazi ukuba loo mntu unomdla okanye akunjalo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba konke esiza kukuhlalutya ngamaqhinga engqondo yazi ngenkathalo engcono ukuba sinokuthatha inyathelo eliya phambili kwiinjongo zethu. Yonke into esiyiphononongayo iyasebenza ngokulinganayo, kumadoda nakubafazi.
Iinkcukacha zengqondo ukwazi ukuba umntu uyakuthanda
Indoda utsaleleke emfazini, kufuneka abonakale ethambile kwaye enobubele. Uya kujonga emehlweni akho kakhulu kwaye uya kuhlala emomotheka. Kufuneka wenze omnye umntu azive ebaluleke kakhulu, uya kukhathala kwaye uzame ukunceda xa kuyimfuneko.
Umfazi ufihla iinjongo zakhe ngakumbi kwaye zisenokuba nzima ukuzihlalutya. Hlalutya ukuba ujonge emehlweni akho kakhulu, ukuba uyakuchukumisa ngokucokisekileyo, uba novalo kwaye ngaphezu kwakho konke, uyancuma ngomdla omkhulu.
xa encuma kakhulu
Asilubandakanyi uncumo olulula nolwesiqhelo, ngokuchaseneyo noko. Ngaba oloncumo luhle, lunyanisekileyo, ngokuqhutywa kakhulu kunye nomnqweno wokwabelwana ngawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda nabafazi, sityekele kakhulu ekuncumeni rhoqo kwaye ngamandla amakhulu xa kukho into esinomdla kuyo. kufuneka ufumane ukuba ibonisa amazinyo amaninzi angaphambili, ekubeni kuyindlela yokuncwasa nokubonisa ukuba kukho ulonwabo oluninzi.
jonga emlonyeni
Kufuneka ujonge ukuba umlomo wakho ukuvelisa amathe amaninzi kunesiqhelo kuba luphawu lomtsalane. Ukwenza oku, unokubona ukuba imilebe yakhe imanzi okanye ukuba uhlala eyikhama. Mqwalasele ngenyameko kwaye ujonge emehlweni akhe ukuba naye jonga imilebe yakho. Ukuba kunjalo, kuyafana nokufuna ukukuncamisa nokuziva umtsalane ngokwesondo.
Jonga ukuba uyazixelisa na izimbo zomzimba wakho
Enye indlela yokwazi ukuba unomdla kwindlela oyiyo nakubuntu bakho, kukujonga ukuba ukwincoko kusini na xelisa izimbo zomzimba wakho Zama ukubamba iinwele zakho, ingalo, ukuhlikihla izandla zakho, njl. ukuba ngoko nangoko uboleka yena ukuba amxelise, kungenxa yokuba unomdla kakhulu. Kwakhona, bona ukuba isifuba siyadumba kwaye isisu siyashwabana, esi simo sengqondo sibonisa ukuba inxalenye ephezulu iyanda kwaye isinqe sincinci, sibonakala sinomtsalane ngakumbi ukukunqoba.
uvalo ebusweni bakho
Kukho abantu abanyamezela umoya omhle kakhulu, kodwa kuhlala kukho i-iota encinci ebonisa ukuxhalaba okuthile. Xa sijonga le nkcukacha, kungenxa yokuba omnye umntu Unobuthathaka bakhe obuncinci…ukuthanda kakhulu. Ezinye zeempawu kukubila, ukuhleka kakhulu, ukuxhalaba okanye ukuthintitha.
Ukuthambeka komzimba wakho
Xa ukwindawo ezolileyo kunokuba lula ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wesi simo. Fumana ukuba inomzimba neenyawo zijikelwe kuwe. Kwakhona, xa ekufutshane okanye efuna ukuthetha nawe umzimba wakho uya kuhlala. Esi sisenzo esenza kucace umdla wakho nalapho ujonge khona ubizo lokuqwalaselwa.
Amantombazana Banxibelelana kakhulu nokuma komzimba wakho. Yijonge kakuhle imilenze yakhe. Ukuba uwela imilenze yakhe phambi kwakho, kungenxa yokuba akanamdla kuwe, ukuba ngokuchaseneyo, uyawawela aze ahambe kude nawe, kungenxa yokuba unomdla.
Xa ibhinqa libamba umzimba walo
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi xa umfazi ekuhenda? Nika ingqalelo kwiintshukumo zabo kunye ngawaphi amalungu omzimba achukumisayo. Izandla ziya kuhlala ziphakanyiswa iinwele, ukuyiphatha nokuphulula. Iya kwenza okufanayo xa ichukunyiswa El cuello ngelixa ethetha nawe, okanye ukuba uziphulula ingalo yakhe. Ngezi zandla zibuthathaka wenza yonke into icace kakhulu, ufuna ukubamba ingqalelo yakho.
Uthanda izinto ezifanayo njengawe
Ngumba othintelayo ngandlel’ ithile, nangona isenokuba luphawu lokuba zama ukuthanda okufanayo nawe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwincoko phakathi kwabantu ababini abathandanayo, bazama ukufumana amanqaku kunye neenkcukacha ezihambelana nezinto ezifanayo kunye nezinto zokuzonwabisa. Xa zihambelana, yonke into iyamangalisa kwaye oko kwenza ubudlelwane buqale kunyawo lwasekunene. Kwelinye icala, sifumana umdla ongakumbi komnye umntu yaye ngokwenene Sichukunyiswa yiyo yonke into oyithandayo.
Ukubuza imibuzo emininzi yobuqu.
Xa kukho umdla omkhulu, iintlanganiso zibakho rhoqo yaye kwidinga ngalinye akuyi kunqongophala imibuzo. Loo mntu uya kuba nomdla wokwazi Unjani, izinto zokuzonwabisa okanye wenza ntoni?. Kusenokubakho uthotho lwemibuzo ezaliswe kukufun’ ukwazi okusempilweni, ukuze ukwazi ukwazi ngokutyumzayo kwakho ngokweenkcukacha ngakumbi. Kananjalo akuyi kubakho kusilela kwemibuzo yobuqu, kunye nezinto othanda kuzo kunye nentlalontle.