Sonke siziva uthando kunye nokuqonda kunye nendlela yokubonisa yahluka kakhulu kubuntu ngamnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo sibonakalisa uthando lwethu nge "Ndiyakuthandana", kodwa kukho abantu abangayithethiyo baze bayibonise ngezinye iindlela.
Apha sihlalutya imeko nganye kunye nomzuzu woku yithi "ndiyakuthanda" ngaphandle kokuthetha. Olu hlobo lwentetho lubonisa loo mvakalelo nomsa ngothile, nto leyo engavumelaniyo nokuthandana. Nangona indlela yayo yokubonakaliswa inokwahluka kwiinkalo ezininzi, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kubuntu.
Ndithini xa ndisithi "I love you"?
Ungoyiki ukuthi "Ndiyakuthanda. Asifanele sizive sineentloni ukususela inyaniso yithethe kakhulu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha amagama ayaphuphuma kwaye izibakala azonelanga. Mhlawumbi imvakalelo ibuyelelana kwaye umnqweno awuyi kuncipha ngokutsho njalo. Nangona kunjalo, i "Ndiyakuthanda" ayithethi nje ngamagama, kuba zininzi iindlela zokuyithetha kwaye idla ngokuba nezibakala.
Enyanisweni, ukuthi “ndiyakuthanda” kuluvavanyo oluqinisekileyo lokubonisa iimvakalelo zethu, xa singekaqiniseki ukuba siyakuvuma oko sivakalelwa kukuba siyakuvuma. Uthando oluviwa ngomnye umntu ngokuqhelekileyo thetha ngeenyani kwaye siyathanda ukubuyiswa. Nangona inyani esisiseko ingalindelanga nto ngembuyekezo okwangoku, kuya kufuneka ubonise eso senzo senkalipho linda ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Yithi "ndiyakuthanda" ngeenyani
Iinkcukacha ziyinxalenye ephambili ukubonisa umntu ukuba uyamthanda. Sinokwenza ubomi bethu bentlalontle, siye kwisiganeko, sibe seklasini, sibe nosapho ... isiphelo kuxa kwimizuzu nganye sikhumbula iinkcukacha ezincinci zaloo mntu kwaye Sanazisa ngomyalezo.
Kubalulekile ukuba umyalezo uthunyelwe zichaneke kangangoko, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa okanye ukoyisa kwaye ngaphandle kokuyinyanzela ukuba iphendulwe. Ukunika ezo nkcukacha kusinika amandla okwenza ubone ukuba omnye umntu unombulelo na kwaye ke ukuba uyayithanda. Ukuba uziva ngathi abakhululekanga okanye abahoyanga, musa ukuqhubeka unika ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo.
Ukuba omnye umntu akaqinisekanga ngemiboniso yakho yothando kubalulekile ukuba ungaziva ucinezelekile. Kuya kufuneka unike loo mntu isithuba sokufumana zonke ezo nkcukacha, asifuni ukoyisa kwaye ukuba loo mntu ufuna ukuba nemfihlo yakhe. kufuneka uyihloniphe.
Kufuneka wazi indlela yokuphulaphula oko bakuko izinto ezixhalabisa omnye umntu. Umboniso wothando uya kuba kukuphulaphula zonke iingxaki zakho kunye zazi iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba uneeprojekthi okanye izicwangciso zekamva, kufuneka ubaxhase kuzo zonke izigqibo zabo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, ungazixhasa ngokunika iingcebiso kunye negalelo eliqinisekileyo, kubalulekile ukubonisa uthando lwakho kunye "Ndiyakuthanda" xa sifuna ukuva ecaleni kwakho.
Ukunxibelelana nomzimba ikwayinxalenye yale mvakalelo. Ufuna ukuba ngokwenyama kunye naloo mntu, uziva unqwenela ukumbamba, ukuphulula kunye nokubanga. Nanini na umntu esiva uthando uya kufuna ukuba kufutshane kangangoko. Ukuba noqhagamshelwano kudaleka iqhina elisondele ngakumbi; Kodwa ukuba loo mntu akawubonakalisi umphumo onjalo, usenokungavakalelwa ngendlela efanayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uwole okanye wenze uhlobo oluthile lokuphulula, kungcono ukubuza ukuze ungothuki.
Ukugcina uqhagamshelwano ngaphandle kokulahla kuloo mntu kubonisa ukuba "uyamkhathalela umntu." Ngoku ngetekhnoloji entsha singathumela imiyalezo Molo, cela "unjani?" okanye uthi good night. Nokuba umnxeba olula unokuba yinkcukacha ebalulekileyo.
Uburharha obuhle bukhona xa siziva sonwabile ecaleni komntu esimthandayo. Ngaba bonisa uvuyo lwethu kwaye sihleke kuyo yonke into iya kuba yenye yeesampuli ezibalulekileyo. Ukwenza omnye umntu ancume ngalo lonke ixesha ekubona uya kubadibanisa kubuntu bakho. Ukubona umntu olungileyo kunika ii-vibes ezintle kakhulu.
Izijekulo ezincinci zibaliwe
Nokuba ungumlingane wethu okanye akahlali phantsi kophahla olufanayo, Izijekulo ezincinci nazo zibalulekile. Uphawu lomdla luya kuba luthetha ukuba umhle kangakanani loo mntu ngaloo ntsasa, buza xa engalindelanga "unjani yena", ummemele kwisidlo sasemini okanye uye kwiifilimu, ulungiselele isidlo sakusasa esimnandi okanye isidlo sakusihlwa sokuqala, yithi. hamba kakuhle kuye ngathi kukho ingomso...
Siyabathanda fumana nayiphi na kwezi ntshukumo kwaye ukubanika akuyomfuneko kwaphela, ukuba into oyivayo luthando olukhulu kunye nomsa. Uncumo, ukuphulula okanye ukunika into engalindelekanga es imbonakaliso enkulu yothando. Enye ingcamango ithi "Ndiyakuthanda" ngezinye iindidi zamagama afana nala: "Ndiyakuthanda", "Awukholeleki" okanye "Andikwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngawe".