Bekusoloko kukho ubugcisa bokulukuhla kwaye indoda ihlala ithande naliphi na iqhinga kunye nendlela yokwazi indlela yokoyisa umfazi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho luhlobo lwesiko okanye nayiphi na indlela yobugqi esesandleni ukuze ukwazi ukuyenza, kodwa ilula kakhulu indlela yokuzama ukufumana ikhemistri kwaye vumela ubuntu bakho bugeleze.
Zininzi izinto ezinokugubungela indlela yoloyiso. Ngokubanzi sinokubonisa ukuba ukuzama ukwenza umntu ukuba athande akusebenzi kakuhle, kungcono ukubhenela kuyo ngamanye amaxesha, umzuzu wokungcangcazela okuphezulu. Kodwa singasebenzisa uthotho lweenkcukacha kunye nezitshixo ezinokusebenza kwaye zenze uloyiso lube nokwenzeka. ufike kwisiphelo esihle.
Zithini izitshixo zokoyisa umfazi?
Ngaphakathi kwinzame yokukwazi ukoyisa umfazi ngu unike ukujonga kwendoda enomdla, kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ayingombuzo wokuzenza into ongeyiyo, kodwa ngokuba yiyo.
Isitshixo sokuqala esigqibeleleyo kukuzithanda
Nangona kubonakala ngathi kusile, yinto ethandwa ngabantu basetyhini kwaye bayixabise kakhulu. Indoda ngekhe uzenze ngathi unomdla ube ungenabo obakho ubomi. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubonise umzimba olungileyo, ulumke kakhulu, okanye ube nomsebenzi olungileyo. Siyazi ukuba ezi zinto zinomtsalane kakhulu, kuba uninzi lwethu luzijonga ezo nkcukacha.
Kodwa umfazi ekugqibeleni Uya kuxabisa icandelo le-subconscious kakhulu nabantu abaneenjongo ezinkulu ebomini. Ukuba awazi ukuba uqale ngaphi, ungaqala ngokuhlakulela ezinye zeenkcukacha ezinje: zibekele iinjongo ezinkulu (izifundo, ukhuphiswano okanye imisebenzi), ukuziqhelanisa nemidlalo, ukufunda, ukufunda izakhono ezitsha okanye ukucebisa ukwenza izinto ezikwenza wonwabe kakhulu.
Khathalela inkangeleko yakho
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo lo mbandela ubalulekile. Umntu othanda ukuzikhathalela ngaphakathi nangaphandle uya kuhlala enika ezona mvakalelo zilungileyo. Kufuneka yibane inkangeleko ecocekileyo, icocekile kwaye nxiba iziqholo ezifanelekileyo uzenze umntu. Ukuba nawe unokuzama ukwenza imidlalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu iya kongezwa ekuhambeni kwexesha ukukhathalela impilo yakho. Olunye ukhuthazo onokongeza kukuzama ukutshintsha inkangeleko yakho, ungaphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye uzame izinto ezintsha. Yongeza iimpahla ezintsha kwimpahla yakho yokunxiba okanye utshintshe iinwele zakho.
Bonisa ubuntu obungathathi hlangothi
Olu lungeniso olubalulekileyo kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini luqwalasele. Kufuneka zithembele, kunye nomntu ophumayo, nangona ingekho ngendlela ebaxekileyo. Musa ukuzithemba kakhulu emfazini, kuba usenokubonakala ngathi akanambeko.
Kananjalo musa ukumamela ngendlela oza kuzenza ngayo izinto okanye abanye baya kucinga ntoni ngokwenza ngendlela ethile. Ukuba yinxalenye yobuntu bakho kufuneka uyenze kwaye uzive uqinisekile ngesiqu sakho. Umntu onesi simo sengqondo ngaphandle kokukhalaza malunga nokwenzekayo, utsala iimeko ezintle ngakumbi.
Bonisa umdla kunye nokhathalelo lwayo yonke into oyithandayo
Unxibelelwano ngundoqo kwaye umfazi uyakuthanda ukufumanisa yintoni ebangela i-subconscious yomntu. Indoda enomdla eyothuswe ngumfazi iya kuba namathuba amaninzi okufumana uloyiso olukhulu.
Ukuba loo mfazi unobuntu bakhe kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo, ungahlala uhlala Zibhalele into ayithandayo ukwazi ukuba nesihloko sencoko esinomdla kuni nobabini. Enye inkcukacha ebathandayo kukufunda izinto ezintsha malunga nendoda nokwazi ukuba abachithi xesha xa benomhla. Awunakuphulukana neenkcukacha ngendlela anxibe ngayo, iinwele zakhe okanye indlela alungiselelwe ngayo. Abafazi bathanda ukuba amadoda uyabaqaphela kunye nokuxelelwa ukuba zintle kakhulu, zinamagama othando.
Awunakuphulukana nengqondo yoburharha
Ingqondo yokuhlekisa yinxalenye yobuntu kwaye oko kungamandla amakhulu. Le ngqondo iyayithanda yonke imijikelezo elungileyo yobomi, inceda ukuseka ubuhlobo ekuhlaleni, kunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Umfazi uya kuthanda ukonwaba kwaye ube nomhla kunye elungileyo iimvakalelo ezintle kwaye zigcwele yintsini. Kuyi-anecdote esisiseko yokuba nentombazana leyo itsalwe ngokwasengqondweni. Ewe ngokunjalo, kufuneka ibe yinto ezenzekelayo kwaye inganyanzelwa, njengoko inokubonisa into engeyonyani kwaye ijongeka ngathi "iyahlekisa."
Yenza umhla unike umdla kwaye wahluke
Unokwenza ngcono kwaye ukwenze ngeli xesha ube owahlukileyo nomhla onomdla. Ungazama izinto ezahlukeneyo, njengokuya kwiindawo ezintsha, ukuzama ukuya kwipaki yolonwabo, uhambo olwahlukileyo, umdlalo othile ogqithileyo ... okanye ukufunda ukupheka isidlo esitsha kunye.
Into ebalulekileyo kukwenza into eyahlukileyo kuloo ntlanganiso kwaye nanini na xa enendlela eyahlukileyo uya kukukhumbula. Ungalibali ukuba into ebalulekileyo ngezi ngcebiso yile ube nobuntu bakho kwaye oko kubonisa ukuba uyazithanda. Kuya kufuneka uvumele umonde ulawule kwaye wonwabe ngalo lonke ixesha ubomi obukubonelela ngalo.