Nguwuphi umfundi oyindoda ongazange atsaleleke kumntu afunda naye, nokuba kukwikholeji okanye eyunivesithi? Amaxesha amaninzi asazi ukuba singathetha njani nabo, ngayiphi indlela yokujongana nabo. Vula hombresConEstilo.com Siza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze ukwazi ukunxibelelana nomlingane wakho
Ingcebiso yokuqala yile ayilunganga intombazanaKhumbula ukuba ungumfazi njengayo nayiphi na enye, ke ngoko unobuthathaka onokuthi ubusebenzise
KwiYunivesithi unezifundo ezahlukeneyo kunye neeklasi. Isifundo ngasinye kunye namaqabane ahlukeneyo, oko kubonisa inzuzo kunye nokungalunganga. Uncedo kukuba unokubeka emngciphekweni ngokungakhathali kuba ukuba awuyiphumezi injongo yakho, akukho mntu unokuyifumana kwaye ungazama nenye intombazana. Icala elisezantsi kukuba udibana nentombazana 2 okanye amaxesha ama-3 ngeveki ukuze uloyiso luthathe ixesha elincinci.
Okokuqala kufuneka ube Qiniseka ngawe kwaye ngokuzithemba, oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka usoloko uthetha naye ngokwendalo nangengqondo elungileyo.
Kufuneka ndikwenze umhlobo wabahlobo bakhe Kuba abantu basetyhini bamamela kakhulu kubahlobo babo ukuba benze izigqibo kwaye ukuba bayakuthanda, uya kuba nesiqingatha somdlalo ophumeleleyo. Kwelinye icala, ungangena kwiincoko phakathi kwabo kwaye ungeze amanye amanqaku ongezelelweyo
Zama ukufumana ifowuni, msn okanye i-Facebook ukuqala incoko naye.
Zama ukungena kwiqela kunye naye ukuze nichithe ixesha elininzi kunye kwaye naye akwazi ukuya apho.
Jonga, ufumana zonke iiklasi kunye nam, siyavana kodwa xa ndizama ukusondela, uyahamba, ndingenza ntoni?
zama ukuba yintsini yakhe uthethe naye nento ayithandayo ezakumenza ahambe njengawe
Ityala lam kukuba ndiyayithanda intombazana eklasini yam. Sobabini sineminyaka elishumi elinesithathu ubudala. Asithethi kakhulu kwaye andazi ukuba mandiqale njani ndimxelele.
Ityala lam lelokuba ndiyayithanda intombazana emdala kunam ndina 19 kwaye izakugqiba iminyaka engama-23 ngoNovemba ngumfundi endifunda naye kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo andazi ukuba mandithini ukuba ndilahlekelwe nguye ngonaphakade ……… ixesha osele undiqonda ngalo weno ciao take care …… ..
Yintoni onayo, into oyenzayo umnika isnogging kwaye umxelele, malumekazi, ndiyatshisa endlini yakho okanye kwam.
Yesu, kufuneka uqiniseke ngesiqu sakho, ukuba awuzukufumana cala kwicala lakho awuyi kufumana nto, intombazana endiyithandayo ingaphezulu kweminyaka emi-6 ubudala, kwaye inantoni yokwenza loo nto? Andazi, kuya kufuneka usondele kuye, uthethe ngezihloko azithandayo kwaye unganxibelelana, ubuze ukuthanda kwakhe, umfownele ucele lo msebenzi emva koko u-qedare okanye izinto ezinjalo, uyandiqonda? Safe khuselekile kwisiqu sakho kwaye uyakuba nayo yonke into !! = D
Ndiyinkwenkwe enengqondo, intombazana endiyithandayo, iya kwelinye igumbi kwaye ingathethi nam, ndingamenza njani ukuba athethe
Ndinga flirt kanjani nomntu endifunda naye? Jonga ndithetha naye and we are friends, uneminyaka eli-10 mna ndina12 kwenzeka ntoni ukuba uthandana nenkwenkwe yenkomo
UAlex xelela utitshala wakho ukuba indoda nomfazi baziva kwaye bahlala kude kwaye kwicala lesihlalo sakhe bamenze ukuba ahleke amcaphukise kwaye amnike izinto kwaye ziya kusebenza, uya kubona kwaye ungonakalisi kwaye umthumelele iileta kwaye uthi le Yidilesi yasekhaya endihlala esitalatweni sithandwa kwikona yokulibala kwaye inombolo yam yefowuni luthando kuwe
Ndinomntu endifunda naye endimthandayo, undixelela ukuba uyandithanda kwaye uyandithanda, kodwa nangona kunjalo ndiyoyika ukumqumbisa xa ndithetha into kuye, NDENZA NTONI?
: O Chees dan penaaa uu
Inqaku kukuba abafazi banjalo kwaye bayakhomba kwaye ukuba uyayithanda ebomini kwaye uyambona kwiiklasi njengoko usitsho
Aslaa hleka (:
yiba ngumhlobo nabahlobo bakho
thetha naye, mbuze ngeFb yakhe
khapha impumlo ¬¬ 'Ptm! ube nguwe!
Ndiyayithanda intombazana eneminyaka efanayo, into endinayo kukuba andinakusondela kuye, ndivela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ngamnye uneqela labahlobo bakhe kwaye andazi namnye wabo, Isikhokelo sam ekuphela kwaso ngumhlobo odibana namaxesha ngamaxesha.kunye naye ndimele ndenze ntoni
Imeko yam yile ilandelayo ... Ndiyamthanda umntu endifunda naye kwaye ukuba ndiyathetha naye ndingabahlobo nabahlobo bakhe kwaye siyathetha, sihleka nayo yonke into, kodwa into embi kukuba xa ndinaye asicingi izihloko zokuthetha kodwa ndiyazi ukuba Sobabini sifuna ukuthetha Ndiyayithanda ihip-hop kwaye iyawuthanda umculo wesiNgesi kwaye ndivela edolophini, uvela ekhaya, upase kakuhle, andinawo amabakala amahle kangako –andiyiyo iporron– kodwa inyani kukuba ndifuna ukumenza ahleke ngayo yonke into.ixesha
Akayeki ukuthetha naye, ndingenza njani xa sineeyantlukwano ezininzi -—- kukho umbuzo kwabasetyhini.Ngaba abantu basetyhini bayakhathala ngaba ngamabanga amahle okanye akunjalo, okanye ukuba umhlophe okanye umdaka? —– Ndiyathemba ukuba ingcebiso yakho———
sukuhoya umculo wakhe kwaye ukuba ungabhengeza kuye !!
kwaye hayi, awakhathali ngamanqaku okanye ibala lolusu ukuba bayakuthanda amanqaku akho (I) ndingaziva ndisebenzisa hahaha
molo… .ingxaki zam kukuba ndinetshomi yaseklasini esikolweni ... Ndiyamoyika Mxelele ukuba ndiyamthanda kakhulu, kuba angandixelela ukuba aka…., andazi nokuba uzakuba nochuku kwaye naxa ndisondela ekuthetheni ndiyoyika… kodwa wena Ndixelele ukuba uyandicebisa .. ?? xfa ndilindele impendulo yakho 😀
Ndineminyaka eli-12 ubudala kwaye ndiyamthanda kakhulu kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndiyamthanda kodwa ndiyoyika ukumbuza andithi hayi.
Ndiyamhlekisa kakhulu naye uyandihlekisa.
Ndingumhlobo wabahlobo bakhe kwaye undinike inombolo yakhe yomnxeba
Ndingenza ntoni?
emm .. mbize ukuba awucingi ukuba haajajajaj, gxuma, umcele, ungabi ngumtya kwaye, chwayita iJAIME !!
Ityala lam lelakhe udibana kakhulu neetshomi zakhe nanjengoko sihleli sobabini uyahlukana ngamanye amaxesha uyandanga kodwa andazi kwenzeka ntoni kum ndingakwazi ukumgona.
Ndiyakuthanda uyintombazana elingana nam, sithetha kancinci, akatshatanga kwaye sele endinike inombolo yakhe yomnxeba.
Okwam kukuba ndiyamthanda, uyazi ukuba ndiyamthanda kodwa akayithandi ijajaja yam kwaye akathethi nam, ndiyazithanda izihlobo zakhe kodwa hayi kakhulu zindincede, kulungile ???
Kulungile bafo, ndiyaphambana kuba uneminyaka eli-12 ubudala, andazi ukuba uyandithanda na kwaye ndingathanda ukumbuza, kodwa ndinentloni kakhulu kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndingakubo, mna thetha naye kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sidibana nabahlobo kunye kwaye into endiyenzayo ndiyoyika ukuba ndiyakwala isikolo sonke sizokufumanisa.Ndiyakholelwa ukuba into iyandithanda kuba ndinomhlobo ozama ukuphuma nam. , Nceda undincede! Ukuba ndiyifumene, ndiza kunityala nonke
Jonga le nto yile;
Ndiya eklasini kunye nentombazana endiyithandayo ukusuka ekuqaleni kwenkulisa, ukuya kwiprayimari kude kube ngoku yesibini (4) kwaye ndiyamthanda kakhulu, kodwa ndineentloni (endizama ukuzitshintsha) kwaye ndizama ukwenza wahleka wathetha naye. Kodwa xa ndindedwa kunye naye ndiba novalo kwaye ndiyavimba.
Naliphi na icebiso?
Ngaba ndimxelele indlela endivakalelwa ngayo?
Ndineminyaka eli-14 ubudala yena uneminyaka eli-18. Ngaba ndinamathuba okulandela le post?
iposi. iposi ...
Kulungile eli lityala lam
Kukho intombazana endiyithandayo eskolweni sam, ndiyathetha nayo yonke lonto kodwa xa sisodwa andazi ukuba mandithethe ngantoni kwaye ukuba oko bekungonelanga ndiba novalo oluncinci andazi yenza uncedo oluncinci
Kulungile, sifundisana, uhlala ecaleni kwam, kodwa ngoku uyandiqumbela kwaye akafuni ukuthetha nam, kodwa kude kube ngoku andazi ukuba kutheni endiqumbele. ndingenza ntoni ukundixolela?
Ndiyayithanda nyani intombazana kwigumbi lam lokuhlala kwaye igama lakhe nguJulia uxelela umzala wakhe ukuba andixelele yonke into ayivayo ngam uthi ngenye imini uyakundixelela indlela andithanda ngayo kwaye nam ndatsho okufanayo kumzala wakhe kwaye Ndimxelele kwaye sifunda naye eklasini kunyaka wesibini ngoku ndikunyaka wesihlanu kunyaka wesithathu wandithanda kunyaka wesine wayethanda iqabane lam elibizwa ngokuba nguVictor Antonio kwaye kunyaka wesihlanu uthi uyandithanda kakhulu ndiyamenza hleka ndiyamthethelela kodwa iyakuba yiyo yonke lonto ndincede ndicela ndimthande kakhulu undixelele ngokukhawuleza
Imeko yam yile ilandelayo ndiyayithanda intombazana ekuminyaka eyi-14 kwaye iyafana kodwa ndiyayijonga kwaye nayo iyandijamela, iyancuma kodwa ayizihlisi amehlo kwaye andazi ukuba ayizi Sukuthetha nam kakhulu, ndimtsha esikolweni, yiyo loo nto kodwa ndicebise ukuba undixelele into ukuze ndimthande
Molo, ndiyamthanda umntu endisebenza naye kwigumbi lam lokufundela kwaye ndingazi njani ukuba uyandithanda, ndimthumelele iileta ngokufihlakeleyo, kodwa andazi nokuba ndibuyekezwa na, kananjalo ndiyoyika ukulahla ubuhlobo bakhe kuba kunzima ukuba iklasi enye ne ex yakhe isamfuna, ndingenza ntoni?
Ingxaki yam yileya kwaye umfazi onditsalayo ndinenombolo yakhe pro andazi ukuba ndithethe kanjani naye ... okanye andazi ukuba ndithini.
Ndithanda intombazana kwigumbi lam lokufundela, ndinentsuku ezintlanu ndisegumbini kwaye sele ndimphuzile ngazo zonke iindlela onokumanga ngazo…. Uyintombazana eqhelekileyo, uthi ndimhle kwaye ndilungile, kodwa yilento ayixelela wonke umntu kwaye kuba siqondana kakuhle, sinezinto ezininzi esifana ngazo kwaye ndiyathanda, andazi ukuba mxelele ukuba ndiyamthanda ndisoyika ukonakalisa ubuhlobo nabahlobo.Ukuba umama wakhe eqonda ukuba unesoka, baya kumsa eMelika.Ndizakumfowunela naye anditsalele umnxeba, sithethe naye Abahlobo kwaye ukuba omnye wabo uyandijonga, uyabayekisa, ndicinga ukuba naye uyandithanda, kodwa isenokuba yinto yethutyana, kuba naye uyawathanda amanye amakhwenkwe kwaye angathi hayi kum xa ndimxelela into endiyenzayo, bayandicebisa?
Ndiqale ikhosi yenyanga kabini ngeveki, kwigumbi lam lokufundela kukho intombazana endiyithandayo, ndihlala phantse ecaleni kwakhe, andenzanga ncoko, kwikhefu ndimbona eyedwa esitya, usuku lokuqala ndabona imbonakalo yesiqhelo kwaye usuku lwesibini lucwangcisiwe, wayilahla ipensile, emva koko inkwenkwe yambamba, emva koko wayilahla kwaye akasayicholi. Ukuphela kwe class uye wahamba wanxiba I headphones zakhe. Ndincede ndingenza ntoni.
Andiyazi indlela yokuthanda kodwa sele ndithandana
Molo emva kwemini, ibhunga ndiyalithanda, umntu endisebenza naye waseLa U, okoko sadibana sajongana kwaye usandul 'ukushiya ubudlelwane kwaye ndimenzela iinkcukacha ezilula kwaye leyo, endicebisayo, ndicela umxelele.
Ityala lam lelokuba liqabane lam ... kwaye ndiyeka naye ... kodwa i-ex yam ngumhlobo wakhe okwangumlingani wam ... kwaye andazi ukuba ndimxelele njani ukuba ndiyamthanda ... kwaye makabe yintombi yam
Ndingumntwana oqhelekileyo othandana nomnye endifunda naye eklasini yam kwaye singabahlobo kodwa ndifuna ukumxelela ukuba ndimthanda kakhulu kwaye ndithandana naye kodwa andazi ukuba unaye njengam naye Abahlobo bahlala bendigcina kuye, ndingenza ntoni
Menze nje ahleke kwaye ukuba ukujonga kakhulu kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda kwaye nam ndiyinkwenkwe
UPutos ami wayefuna ukundibetha ngentonga ngezikhonkwane
Nanku umnqophiso wam !!!!!!! I-xDDD XD… .. Ewe imeko yam yile ilandelayo, (ndiyathemba ukuba awuyiboni le nto, ngapha koko ndiyafa crj xD). Ewe, andazi ukuba ndiyamthanda na, kodwa ndibila kakhulu xa ndikufutshane naye, ndiba novalo, ndihlala ndingamhoyi, ukuze ndingavelisi izikrokro: v, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho siwela khona , ukuqondana nje, ndijonge ngasemnyango kuphela xa utitshala eze okanye ukubona ukuba ngubani lo ungenileyo, kwaye kunjalo, usecaleni komnyango, ndithetha …… xD, isiphelo siyandinyanzela ukuba ndimjonge? kwaye ulumke: amaxesha amaninzi xa ndicinga ngaye, uvele nje phambi kwam ehamba, iya kuba ngumsebenzi kaSathana okanye uGoku, andazi xDDDD, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ucinga ukuba ndifuna ukumjonga, kodwa Akunjalo, ndicinga ukuba ubona into engaqhelekanga ngam, ngokungathi ndifuna ukumcaphukisa, kwaye ke, ngokuthe ngcembe ngokuhamba kwexesha, ndaqala "ukumthanda", oko kukuthi, "ukuthandana "naye ngokusekwe kwinkangeleko, kulungile andithethi naye, sele nditshilo, xD, kwaye andinabahlobo bakhe, kuba andikho" ukuqala incoko ", kwaye ndizinikezela kuphela kwizinto zam zobuqu (imidlalo , ekhaya, njl. , uhamba ngathi ufudo! kwaye ujikeleza ujikeleza ngepaseji yesikolo, izitrato, njl. I-xD ayinanto yakwenza nayo, kodwa bendifuna ukuyibeka kuba xDDDDDD: v: v, Kodwa ndibuyela kumxholo, andingomntu uthethayo, ayingoba ndineentloni (kancinci ngaphambili yeXD yakhe) kodwa kuba ... hayi ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuthetha ngantoni, kunjalo, andicingi nto, ngaphandle kwemidlalo yevidiyo okanye umsebenzi wesikolo, ndinabahlobo abambalwa, uyazi ukuba ndikhona hahaha xD, mna soloko usithi uthando alunamdla kum, kwaye leyo yinto ehleli ikroliweyo engqondweni yam, kwaye yiyo loo nto ndingazange "ndithandane" naye ngokupheleleyo, kwaye kulapha xa ndibonisa ithiyori yam njengo-Einstein: " Ithiyori yothando ", yiyo ke le xD ithiyori yam kukuba umntu ngamnye uyathandana, Ufumana iimvakalelo malunga naloo mntu, anokumela umgca okanye izigaba, okokuqala luthando" olungaphelelanga ", emva koko lube neentloni Uvalo, uxabiso, uthando, ke ukufuna "ukuhlaba", emva koko ufuna "Ukuba naye", emva koko ufumane "ulonwabo" kuye kwaye ekugqibeleni uthando olupheleleyo !! kwaye, ndiyazi ukuba embindini walo mgca, ndiyathetha, ndafumana uthando "olungaphelelanga", iintloni, kunye novalo kunye nokuxabisa okuncinci i-xDD oko kukuthi, uthando lwam kuye aluphelelanga, (into eninzi wethu unayo) kwaye kunjalo, ndicinga ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba andisoze ndimxelele ukuba ndiyamthanda, kuba andazi ukuba ndiyamthanda ngokwenene, njengoko benditshilo. Kwaye ... naye ulibhinqa lesini hahahahahaajja xDDDD andazi kodwa bekubonakala ngathi yinto ehlekisayo hahahaha, ngamanga, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba akayiboni le nto okanye nawuphi na umntu asebenza naye odlula apha, kodwa inyani yile AndingoJohn Pita, ndinguNdinguNdingu cacaguate !! Iliwa! xDDDD ajjajaajajaj ewe ewe elinye ihlaya! , kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo ndenza ubuso bobuxoki kwaye ndiza kushiya ikhowudi yam ye-FB kwikhowudi: * a * i * B * u * * Ewe ewe kwikhowudi, kwaye yayiyiyo yonke loo nto, ukuba ufuna ukuphawula kweliphi inqanaba ungaphakathi okanye ke ukuba uyithandile ihlaya lam, ithiyori yam, ukufumanisa kwam iAjajja hahaha kwigama lakhe lentombazana ngu is is is is your Mother, Turn Down For What !!!
Enkosi ngokunceda kakhulu, sele ndinayo ezandleni zam
Ubungakanani bubala i-muxo kwi-sts csos, jjjjjj ligatela zezethu.
Mdala kuneenyanga ezintlanu kwaye ndiyamthanda, naye uyandithanda
Ndathandana nentombazana egama lingu-claudia faustino torres kwasekuqaleni intliziyo yam iyaphambana ngaye, ndenza ntoni?
Kukho intombazana eklasini yam endiyithandayo, andazi ukuba ndithini kuye, igama lakhe nguClaudia Faustinos Torres, uthanda izilwanyana, unezinja, iikati, iidlala, iintaka, njl.
Iqabane lam lelinye lezinto ezinzima ... andazi ukuba ndenzeni kwakhona ...
Ndineqabane endilithandayo ukusukela kunyaka ophelileyo wandilahla kodwa kulonyaka (2018) singabahlobo abakhulu ndathandana naye kodwa wathi sihamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu ukuba angandishiya saphinda senza ubuhlobo kwakhona enyanisweni emdlalweni sonke singabazalwana ikhosi iyasihlupha, nditsho notitshala !! Ewe, ndiyazi ukuba uthanda bani kwaye ndiyamnceda ukuzama ukusondela kuye kwimanyano (ndicinga ukuba bayababamba ukuba abayibambi, bafana nokhuphiswano apho ikhosi yonke ijongene nayo kwaye kukho imidaniso nayo yonke esele), kwimanyano ayidanisayo Ngomnye we-B, unabahlobo abasenyongweni kunye nomhlobo wam osenyongweni ufana nokuhamba nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni kwaye kuyandinceda kuba sinexesha elininzi sedwa ukuthetha naye kodwa saphinda saba ngabahlobo wandibuza ukuba akukho nanye kwezi yenzekileyo kwaye ukuba uyavuma na kwaye ndamxelela ukuba yia kwaye andinakuthetha ngayo, ndiyamhlekisa kakhulu (ngamanye amaxesha) uhlala ehleli nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni kwaye oyena mhlobo enye engaphambi koko ithetha ukuba ndinendawo ecaleni kwakhe phantse ihlala iqinisekile kodwa indlela ayithanda ngayo enye kufuneka ndilinde de kuphele iklasi ade afike angahlali ecaleni kwale ayithandayo nale ayithandayo yi ex yakhe !!! kwaye xa ndihleli ecaleni komhlobo wakhe uzohlala kwenye indawo ndikhangeleka ngathi ": v" une exes ezi3 kwaye owokuqala wamhlazisa ngoba undixelele ukuba ayilotyala lakhe ukuba ndingamthanda ndamxelela. Kwaye ayilotyala lam ukuba ndiyophule intliziyo kwaye yonke ikhosi ifana ne "OMG HOOOOO" kwaye kukho i-bkn kwaye andazi ukuba ndenzeni.
Ndineqabane elihle kakhulu kwaye linothando kwaye alithembekanga kuwo onke amaqabane am, undixelela ukuba ufuna ukuba nam kwaye uyamanga elinye iqabane lakhe emlonyeni wakhe kwaye oko kubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ndiyakwazi ' yenza
Undixelele ukuba uyayithanda kwaye ukuba ndifuna ukutsala naye ndivaliwe kuba andikholelwa ukuba intombazana entle kangaka ingabona umntu ofana nam kwaye ndicinga ukuba yinto ehlekisayo leyo kodwa ke ndaqonda ukuba hayi ngoMvulo izakuzama oku ndinqwenelele ithamsanqa.
Ungandinika isishwankathelo kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uhambe kakuhle kuwe
Molo, ndingu "John Pita" (eyona ephezulu) xd. Ewe, sekuyi ... iminyaka emi-3? Ngubani, ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza. Ndiza kukuxelela okwenzekileyo malunga «nothando lobomi» (ukuba kunokubizwa ngokuba v) emva kwento endiyibhalileyo nangaphambili, eyinkcukacha endingakhange ndiyikhankanye ... Okokuqala, kwenzeka ntoni ngaphambili: Esikolweni Apho bendiye khona bekukho "amanqanaba" ama-5 aphakamileyo (eyokuqala, eyesibini, njl.njl.), Uyakuyazi loo nto). Iyaphuma… Yima! Hayi, ayisiyiyo. Le nto ibuyela umva kudala ngaphambi koko, xa ndandingumntwana webanga lesikolo. Embindini wesithathu nowesine (isikolo samabanga aphantsi), "ndiyithandile" intombazana, kwaye njengesiqhelo khange ndithethe nayo, kangangokuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba abahlobo bam aba-2 bayayithanda. Ndiza kubabeka ngolu hlobo: wayeyintombazana entle kunazo zonke iBanga (okanye iNqanaba leMfundo v :), kwaye anditsho kuba ndiyayithanda, kodwa bekunjalo. Ndonwabile ngaloo mvakalelo, de yonke into yahlukana… ngaphakathi kum, ngaphakathi kwam (uyayazi ingoma? XD). Ewe yiyo. Ngenye imini ndandincokola nabahlobo bam malunga nomntu esimthandayo, nendlela esivumelana ngayo ngempendulo; Omnye wathi, "Kuthekani ukuba siyakhuphisana (oko kukuthi, simlwele)?" Abanye bathi ewe. Khange ndithethe nto, ndizokuya ndibabona ukuba bayenza njani (xd). Ngokucacileyo bebengazukuyenza, ndiyathetha, ibiyihlaya. Kodwa kulungile! nje! Loo ntombazana idlula ngendlela, yaza yabuza omnye wabahlobo bam ukuba benza ntoni. Kwaye wathi: "Bafuna ukulwela wena." Owu, okwenzekileyo emva koko akukho gama (njenge-xd, ukuba NDIMBAMILE nje nam, kwaye wandijula ngesiqalekiso malunga nokubonakala kwam emzimbeni, kwaye oko kwakubuhlungu kakhulu kangangokuba ndakhala kamva). Ukusuka apho ndadandatheka, kwaye ubuntu bam batshintsha kakhulu. Into isuke "kuthando" ukuya kwintiyo. Ewe ezo zinto sele zenzekile v:. Ngoku kwenzeka ntoni eSekondari: Embindini wonyaka wokuqala, bendinomdla «(ayifani nokuthandana) intombazana (bendiyithanda uncumo lwayo, kodwa bendisazi ukuba ayinakwenzeka), kwakungekho incoko, kodwa ubuncinci ukuba ndiyithathile njengeqabane, okanye i-xd ikholelwe. Ngaba wayemhle kunentombazana yamabanga aphantsi? Hayi, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndibone kuphela indlela eyayintle ngayo le ntombazana. Endaweni yokuba into endandiyithanda ngakumbi ngale ntombazana yayiluncumo lwayo kunye nobuntu bayo obuchwayitileyo. Kwakukho unyaka awashiya ngawo (kwiThathu). Kwaye ngaloo nyaka kwavela enye intombazana. Ewe, yile bendikuxelele ngayo ngasentla kwenye ingxelo. Ndabuthanda ubuntu bakhe kuba ndandimthelekisa nobam (enyanisweni besifana), namehlo akhe, awayemhle kakhulu (: v). Ukufumana okungakumbi malunga naye, funda la magqabantshintshi ngentla ... Ke kwesine enye intombazana yabuya (enye isuka ngaphambili, enye incumile), sele sele iphelelwe ngumdla kuye. Kodwa kwakungekho njalo, xa ndaphinda ndambona, loo "mdla" wavuseleleka, kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha kule minyaka mibini mibini, ndaqonda ukuba luyintoni kanye kanye uthando: Ukuba uziva ngokwenene, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, nokuba lixesha okanye umgama unokuyicima ngokupheleleyo. Ke, kwintombazana efike isiThathu ndilahlekelwe yimvakalelo eyayingelo thando. Kwaye ndiye ndabona ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ndinomdla emntwini, le nto ishenxela kude kunokuba intle kangakanani, kodwa ngakumbi malunga nendlela abacinga ngayo okanye abenza ngayo v:. Yinto ekufuneka eyihlalutye: v. Ukuphela konyaka (kowesihlanu), kwenzeka into entle. Ngenye imini xa mna kunye nentombazana enoncumo, sasiphumile egumbini kuba sasishiywe lixesha, sincokola ngento ethile. Ngokucacileyo bendinovalo, ndithetha ukuba, andizange ndedwa ndithethe naye, kwaye ndathoba intloko yam okanye ndajonga kwelinye icala. Wayiqonda loo nto. Ndithe xa ndijika ndisiya kuye, ndambona encuma (oku bekukhethekile). Ngelo xesha, lwavuleka ucango sangena. Yayisisiphelo. Kwaye kuya kubonakala ngathi kuyothusa. Kodwa ndiye ndaqonda ukuba andizange ndimenzele nto de kube ngalamini: Ndamhlekisa. Eso yayisisifundo nje esinye: “Ukuba uyathanda, khangela uthando. Uthando luyonqena ukukufumana. Leyo yindlela endandihlala ndiyikhetha: ukuba nesizungu, kwaye ndisayigcina nanamhlanje.
Ewe, kwinto endiyibonayo ukuba yayiminyaka eli-11 emva kwexesha, ndinengxaki efanayo nabantu abaninzi abaphawuleyo, kodwa ndikuxelela into ...
Musa ukuba ngamagwala, musa ukuba ngamagwala njengam, hamba uyokuthetha nentombazana oyithandayo, ubenze bazive bekhuselekile, babazise ukuba ubalungele, susa ubuso bakho kwiselfowni ehambayo kwaye uhambe Incoko nale ntombazana kunye neYiphi ofuna ukuqala ngayo ubudlelwane bezothando, zibonakalise, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu ... Bahloniphe, ukuba unesoka, hlonipha ubudlelwane bakho kwaye ungaphazamisi nangayiphi na indlela, kuba ungena emntwini ubudlelwane bomnye umntu yeyona nto inobugwala nabani na anokuyenza, ukuhlala njengabahlobo kwaye ayikho enye into, kwelinye icala, ukuba intombazana ayitshatanga kodwa ayamkeli ukuba banobudlelwane, basihloniphe isigqibo sayo, musa ukumcinezela ngakumbi kwaye uhlale njengo abahlobo.
Ngamafutshane, ndininqwenelela nonke ubudlelwane obumnandi nothando.
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