Amadoda amaninzi anqwenela ukuba nawo onke amaxesha ukuqhuba ngesondo ngakumbi ebomini bakho bonke, kodwa kukho abanye abafuna ngokwenene ukuyinqumla.
Ngokufumana enye yeendawo zesibini esingaphezulu komnqweno wesini, imeko enokubakho inokudalwa phakathi kwaba babini njengoko umnqweno ophakathi kwabo ungalingani. Ukwanda kwe-libido yelinye lamaqabane kunokukhokelela ekufuneni kwabanye abantu umnqweno ohambelana nowakho.
Esinye sezisombululo kubandakanya ukwanda komnqweno wesini womnye umntu. Kwaye esinye isisombululo kubandakanya ukunciphisa inqanaba lesini lomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, akusayi kubakho bantu babini banomnqweno ofanayo wesini, kuyakuhlala kukho iyantlukwano.Aba babini banokufumana enye indlela okanye bathethe nengcali yezesondo ukufumana isisombululo kwiingxaki zabo zesondo endaweni yokwahlula. Ukunciphisa i-libido, unokwenza imisebenzi yomzimba, ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo okanye ukuqubha ukukhupha inkanuko yesini.
Eli nqaku lithi phantse nto. Kuphela kwimigca emibini yokugqibela kukho imisebenzi emibini ekucingelwa ukuba inceda ukunciphisa umnqweno wesini (njengokudlala ibhola ekhatywayo okanye ukuqubha) ekhankanyiweyo. Kwaye ndithi "kufanelekile" kuba inqaku aliboneleli ngeembekiselo zebhayiloji okanye iiwebhusayithi okanye nasiphi na isiseko senzululwazi ukukhankanya le misebenzi mibini; Ibabiza ngamagama nje ngokungathi ibiyinto eyenzekileyo. Apho ndibeka enye: ukukhangela amanani emafini kuyanceda ukunciphisa umnqweno wesondo ... apho ndibashiya ...
Ndivumelana noko kuthethwa nguLeo. Ndingumfazi kwaye ndinobunzima kakhulu ngaphandle kweqabane. Xa bendinayo, umnqweno wam wawuphezulu kunesiqhelo esenzelwe umntu obhinqileyo, kabini okanye kathathu ngobusuku, umzimba awonelisekanga, uvakalelo olungalawulekiyo, ayamkelekanga into yokuba abantu bacinge i-bullshit enjalo. into ebalulekileyo kukuba uzive uphilile. Ndifumana njani esihogweni? - i-aquarium39-log.
Kusebenzele ukuba ndonyuse i-libido yesinye isibini ngoku inguye ofuna mna isiqhulo yindlela yokunyusa i-libido yakhe kwaye kuyinyani akathethi ngetekhnoloji enye yoku.
Ndingathanda ukukwazi
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Kuyinyani, abantu bafuna uluvo (akuncedi, uncedo lunikezelwa ngugqirha wezesondo) kwaye bakufumanise ukuba lilishwa.
Enkosi ngalo lonke ulwazi olunikiweyo, akusafuneki ukuba ndikhangele kwiwebhu. IZISOMBULULO MZALWANE OKANYE NANGOKUBA UMFANEKISO USHIYA IMIBUZO EMININZI.
Ukuhlisa i-libido, thatha iipilisi zokucwangcisa kumadoda asezantsi i-livido.
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Ukubulisa
Abahlobo bendicinga ukuba ndim ndedwa endifuna ukulawula ezi zinto, wandiphulula amalungu esini phantse kathathu ngemini kwaye into endinokuyicebisa kukuba ndiyayenza kukuyeka iphonografi okwexeshana kuba kuyingozi njengoNiun Brillo Andifuni ukushiya iqabane lam
Ndiyiminyaka engama-43 umyeni wam uneminyaka engama-44 ndonwabile imini yonke ndinemilinganiselo ephezulu ye-libido andazi ukuba kutheni endinika uthando kodwa ngenxa yokuba ndinamakhilogremu amaninzi. Ngaba andiziva ngathi ndishushu kakhulu ukuba kunokwenziwa
Inqaku elibi kanjani, kubonakala ukuba balibhalile kwimizuzu emi-5.
Ndiyamthanda umfazi wam kodwa uhlala enesifiso esincinci sesondo, kule minyaka ndihleli ndithembekile kodwa ndihlupheke kakhulu ngenxa yoku, sele sineminyaka eyi-10 kwaye andifuni kuqhubeka nokubandezeleka kwaye kuba ndifuna ukuba naye kufuneka ndinciphise umnqweno wesini ubuncinci ukuze ndingaphindi ndisebenze iimpembelelo zam ngalo lonke ixesha, ndifuna ukuphelisa ukuba neentlobano zesini entlokweni yam kwaye ndikwazi ukucinga ezinye izinto endaweni yazo. Ndiyenza njani ukuba le ngcinga ithi shwaka engqondweni yam?
Ndiqale ukulala nentombazana kwaye ndinomfazi wam kodwa ndiye ndabona ukuba ndimbi nokuba i-libido yam inyukela kweliphezulu kwaye ndiyasebenza, ndifunda iincwadi kwaye ndihambahamba kwaye ayipheli, mna jonga nje ezinye iimpundu ndifika ekhaya kwaye ndilahla unkosikazi wam kwaye unkosikazi wam mhle kodwa uphantsi kwi-libido kwaye kufuneka ndiye komnye ondilinda ngemilenze evulekileyo kunzima kodwa khangela uThixo ndafumana apho uxolo kunye noxolo kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndiziva ndisiwa ndibhala i-aphoyintimenti yebhayibhile kwaye ndiziva ndibhetele nenkosikazi yam naye unam ngethamsanqa ukuba unako ukuba ufuna ukulibala malunga nomnqweno wesini ogqithileyo
Geez, bendicinga ukuba bambalwa abantu abanengxaki. Ndizamile izinto ezininzi kodwa ngaphandle kwesiphumo esihle. Ndiyathemba ukufumana ezinye iipilisi zokunciphisa umnwe wam, umfazi wam akanakundimela kwaye ukungathembeki ayisiyiyo inketho.
Ndikhangela indlela yokunciphisa okanye yokuphelisa inkanuko yesini, ndiyindoda eneminyaka eyi-38 kwaye i-libido yam iphezulu kakhulu, kwaye ndingenalo iqabane endilithukayo, ndizamile iindlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye akukho nto, ngamanye amaxesha Ukuphelelwa lithemba lokuba ngu-So, andisafuni ukuphulula amalungu esini, kuba oko kundenza ndifune ngakumbi. Kodwa ndiza kuqhubeka ndikhangela indlela yokuphelisa umnqweno.
Ndiyazi ukuba kukho iziyobisi zokunciphisa umnqweno, kodwa ndiyazi nokuba ichaphazela impilo
Ndifuna enye indalo
Ndineminyaka eyi-37 kwaye indizisele iingxaki kunye nomfazi wam andizange ndicinge ukuba kungakho iimeko ezinje
namhlanje ndikhetha ukuzikhawulela ekwenzeni iimpazamo
Ndiyavumelana nazo zonke iikhomenti. Inqaku alinalo naluphi na uhlobo lwesisombululo, kodwa ubuncinci xa sifunda amagqabantshintshi siyaqonda ukuba ayisiyiyo kuphela enengxaki, kwaye oko kunika intuthuzelo.
Kwenzeka into efanayo kum, nditshatile iminyaka eyi-10, abantwana ababini, ndiyamthanda umfazi wam, kodwa yena ufuna ubudlelwane rhoqo ngeentsuku ezi-3 okanye ezi-5 kwaye ndiyazifuna mihla le ukuba azikho kabini ngemini.
Ukungathembeki emtshatweni ayisiyiyo inketho, ke ndiza kuphanda ukuba bathini malunga neepilisi ukuzama ukunciphisa umnqweno wam.
Ngethamsanqa kuwo wonke umntu onengxaki yakho.
Ndineminyaka engama-35 ubudala kwaye umfazi wam unama-33. Unomnqweno wesini ophantsi kakhulu kwaye bendinawo kakhulu. Ndiye ndafunda ukuyilawula ngoncedo lukaThixo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyamthinta engakhange abone kwaye elele kwaye aphulula amalungu esini. Kufana nomntwana. Kwaye uvuka esoyika. Andisafuni ukuba naloo mnqweno. Ndijonge nokususa umnqweno wam wesini xa uwonke. Ndiqinisekile ukuba akazukuyiphosa kwaye singonwaba singayenzanga.
Molo Ongaziwayo. Nangona kukho iziyobisi ezinokuphelisa i-libido ebomini, ndicinga ukuba ayikhuthazwa, kuba ubomi buyatshintsha. Ngokoluvo lwam, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukufumana ibhalansi kwaye usondele kufutshane ne-libido yeqabane.
Ndiyaqonda ukuba omnye umba ekufuneka ujongiwe lunxibelelwano. Kubantu abaninzi yinto engekhoyo ukuthetha ngesifundo kunye namaqabane abo, babanike okuthile, okanye iintlungu. Kwaye ayisosicwangciso sokuya ucela ukulala ngesibini ngesithathu.
Kukho iziyobisi ngokuchasene nelahleko yeenwele ezantsi kwi-libido. Kuyanceda ukulawula oko kungena ngamehlo, ukuzama ukungadlali ngothando okanye ukujonga izinto ezonyusa i-libido ... Kunganzima, kodwa ixesha elininzi lidlula kuya kuba lula ngakumbi, njengokuchaseneyo, kokuziphatha okubi imifanekiso ibekwa ngamehlo kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukulawula inkanuko.
Kwenzekile kum emkhosini ... Ukubona kakhulu abafana endicinga ukuba babebeka ukutya. Umnqa wam kukuba ndigqibele ndisebenza ekhitshini kwaye ndizibonele ngokwam ukuba abadibanisi kwanto… Konke bekusengqondweni.
Nokuba awukholelwa ukuba omnye uyatshata ukuze angatshi njengoko iBhayibhile isitsho, isini yinxalenye yokuhlangana emtshatweni, ikwanceda ukuba banxibelelane ngokupheleleyo omnye komnye, kungenjalo yonke into iyaphola kwaye omnye uphela ngokwahlukana komnye iqabane lakho kwaye lifumana iihorizoni ezingcono kwabanye kunokuba zinika ukubaluleka kwesondo. Ngale nto anditsho ukuba isini yiyo yonke into kwesi sibini kodwa yinto esisiseko eyenza ukuba umntu abe NOSAPHO.
Thatha i-aldactone 50 MG yonke imihla eya kuphelisa i-testosterone emzimbeni wakho kwaye isuse umnqweno wesini, kubafazi isetyenziswa phakathi kwezinye izinto amabala kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo
Ndingumntu osele ekhulile, kwaye i-libido yam ayikanciphi, kwaye oko kube yingxaki kumfazi wam, ayonwabanga, kwaye ndikhethe ukufumana indlela yokunciphisa inqanaba le testosterone, kuba ndiyamthanda umfazi wam.