Kuuza wina kuti 'mumakonda' kungakhale mawonekedwe kapena mawu omwe amanenedwa motero. Koma kwa ena chikhoza kukhala chinthu chovuta kwambiri chifukwa sadziwa momwe angafotokozere zakukhosi kwawo molondola. Zingakhale zovuta chifukwa pali anthu amene sadziwa kukhala oona mtima ndipo zimenezi zimawasowetsa mtendere.
Ndipo si momwe mungauzire wina kuti amakukondani, koma nthawi yowawuza. Zitha kukhala zovuta muubwenzi, pamene mafomu omwe anali kupulumutsidwa sakhalanso ndi chidwi ndi mukufuna kupita patsogolo. Ndi nthawi iti yabwino kuvomereza chikondi chanu?
Zotsatira
Kodi mungauze bwanji munthu kuti amakukondani?
Njira yabwino yodziwira munthu yemwe mumamukonda ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kuwona mtima ndi kuchita ichi maso ndi maso. Mosakayikira ndi njira yodalirika komanso yachikondi yonenera ndi osachichita polemba. Timagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kwambiri ndipo amatha kukhala mafashoni komanso chida chotha kunena chilichonse. Ngakhale kuuza munthu kuti amakukondani kungakhale kosaona.
Ngakhale kuti sizingaoneke ngati n’komwe, zimene zimalembedwa n’kunena zinazake momveka kapena mopanda kumva, popeza mawuwo amauluzika ndi mphepo. Njira yabwino monga tawonetsera ndi mwathupi komanso moona mtima mphindi. Pokhala chinthu chachilendo, ndithudi mukapanga chinthu choterocho, mukunena kuchokera pansi pamtima.
Mwa kuwona mtima chinthu chokongola kwambiri kukhutitsidwa kwakukulu kumapangidwa Mwa munthu winayo, sipangakhale yankho chifukwa adapumitsidwa ndi uthengawo, koma ndikukutsimikizirani kuti sizikhala zochititsa chidwi.
Njira zosavuta kuwauza
Mukuyenera pangani chinthu chokongola m'maganizo mwanu ndikuloweza. Uthengawo sudzangochokera m’mawu osavuta amenewo, koma udzakongoletsedwa ndi chinthu china chokongola kwambiri chimene chiyenera kugwirizana.
Kuti izi ziwoneke ngati mphindi yosaiwalika komanso yomveka, muyenera kutero yang'anani munthuyo m'maso ndikukhalabe omasuka, popeza apa tayamba kale kugwiritsa ntchito uthenga wopanda mawu. Palibe nthawi yomwe mumatembenuza nkhope yanu kapena kuwoloka manja anu, sizingawoneke ngati zoona. Ngati muli ndi chidaliro chokwanira ndi munthu ameneyo mukhoza kuwauza mwatcheru kwambiri, ngakhale ndi manja ang'onoang'ono kukhudza gawo lililonse la thupi lanu.
Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu ina ya ziganizo kapena mawu sinthani zomwe zili, uthengawo ungawoneke ngati woseketsa kwa munthu wina. Nthawi zonse muyenera kuzama mukumverera ndi mphamvu kufalitsidwa m'njira yapadera.
Osagwiritsanso ntchito nkhondo yayikulu yamawu kapena kukambirana kwakukulu kuti mufike ku gulu la mafunso. Ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oyenera, mwachidule komanso nthawi zonse lunjikani ku mfundo. Ngati mukongoletsa chilichonse chomwe mukufuna kunena, mutha kutaya kudalirika kwa zomwe mukufuna kufotokoza m'njira.
Momwe mungauzire munthu kuti mumamukonda kudzera mu uthenga
Mutha kufunsa za momwe mumakhalira komanso momwe mumakhalira mukakhala ogwirizana mwa munthu kapena ndi uthenga. Zosavuta komanso zatsiku ndi tsiku Nthawi zonse ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yoti musachulukitse zinthu, anthu sakonda zovuta kapena zovuta.
Simuyenera kuyamba kuuza munthu yemwe mumakonda ndi "ndimakukondani" kapena "ndimakukondani" chifukwa mukhoza kupanga mkhalidwe wopuwala ndi yankho lotsutsa. Muyenera lowetsani ndi mawu okongola, ma emojis ndi zonse zomwe mukuganiza kuti angakonde, ndipo pamapeto pake, tchulani mawu oti "Ndimakukondani kwambiri", pamene muyenera kutseka zokambirana.
Momwe mungayankhire mutaulula kwa munthu amene mumamukonda
Ichi ndi chidziwitso chofunikira, chifukwa zingawoneke kuti ndi munthu winayo amene sakudziwa momwe angachitire. Koma mu nkhani iyi ndi mmene munthuyo ayenera kuchita zomwe zimatulutsa uthenga, chifukwa mwina simunalandire yankho loyenera.
Musakhumudwe Ngati winayo wakuyankhani motsutsa kapena sakugwirizana ndi zomwe mukumvera. M’pofunika kuganizira kwambiri kuti zimene mwanenazo sizinali zankhanza, koma zinali zodabwitsa. Komanso, munthu wina muyenera kumva oyamikira kuti wina akufuna kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo.
Mayankho anu abwino Atha kukhala "zikomo pondimvera", "palibe vuto" ndipo osagwiritsa ntchito zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva ngati "palibe amene adandikondapo" kapena "Ndinadziwa kuti izi zitha kuchitika". Osadziimba mlandu pofotokoza zakukhosi kwanu, njirayi idzakuthandizani kulimbitsa maubwenzi amtsogolo bwino kwambiri komanso kukhala ndi chidaliro chochuluka.
Ngati munthu amene mumamukonda amagawana malingaliro omwewo, muyenera kukhala othokoza kwambiri komanso sangalalani nthawi imeneyo mwamayendedwe wa chisangalalo ndi kukhutitsidwa. Ino ndi nthawi yogawana chilichonse chomwe mungafune chiyambi cha ubale ndi kusangalala. Kuti chilichonse chikule ndikukhala champhamvu muyenera kusiya chilichonse kuti chiziyenda bwino osakakamiza chilichonse komanso pang'onopang'ono.
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