momwe mungalekerere kuganiza za munthu

Kodi mungaleke bwanji kuganiza za munthu? Chikondi ndi mkwiyo ndi zinthu zomwe zimasakanikirana ngati mbali ya kutengeka mtima kwa wina. Kutengeka sikuyenera kutengedwa ngati tanthauzo loipa, chifukwa kungatanthauze kuika chidwi kwambiri pa munthu, kukhala ndi nkhawa kapena chidwi chokakamizika.

Pamene simungathe kuchotsa munthu m'mutu mwanu, kaya chifukwa cha chikondi, zidzatanthauza kuti chinachake chayambika mwa inu chimene chachititsa chidwi kwambiri, ubwenzi wanu ndi munthuyo ndi wokhudza mtima kwambiri ndipo mumamuona kuti ndi wofunika. M’zochitika zina zingachitike kuti munthuyo amayambitsa kuvutika, mwina chifukwa cha kukambitsirana kwina kapena chifukwa chakuti mukumusoŵa. Chofunika ndi kuti athe kulamulira momwe mungasiyire kuganiza mwa wina.

Chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kuleka kuganizira za munthu?

Kusasiya kuganizira za munthu kumatanthauza kuti ndi wofunika, nthawi zambiri kumverera kumeneko kumatchedwa kugwa m'chikondi. Ngati munthuyo sakutuluka m’maganizo mwanu, mwina ndi chifukwa pali zinthu zomwe sizinakonzedwe mokwanira. Muyenera kupenda momwe zinthu zilili ndikuyesera kutulutsa zotsatira za zomwe zidachitika komanso chifukwa chake zikukukhudzani kwambiri.

Njira zomwe tikuwonetsa pansipa Ndi machitidwe kapena malingaliro omwe ayenera kukonzedwaKupatula apo, lingaliro ndikusakaniza ndikupha zonse zomwe tili nazo kuti titsimikizire ubongo wathu.

N’cifukwa ciani timaganizila kwambili za munthu ameneyo? Malingaliro athu angatitengere nthawi yochuluka kuti tiwunikenso zonse zomwe zidatipangitsa kukumbukira nthawi zabwino. Musalole kukumbukira kumeneko kukuberani nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali. Kodi muyenera kuganizira chiyani za zinthu zina?

Titha kufika uchimo wopereka zambiri kuposa zomwe talandira. Kapena, ndi zomwe timaganiza. Ndizowawa kwambiri kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka mwa munthu ndikuwona kuti amakuchitirani mopanda chidwi.

Malangizo kuti musiye kuganizira za munthu

Ndi nkhani yaikulu, chifukwa m’lingaliro lathu sitingathe kuloŵa m’pang’ono pomwe Kodi zenizeni zimakhazikika bwanji? Mkati mwa aura yamisala muyenera kuyesa kutuluka mu lingalirolo ndipo chifukwa cha izi muyenera kutsatira malangizo ena:

• Musaganize kuti mwamizidwa, popeza malingaliro anu oganiza bwino amakupangitsani kudutsa nthawi yoyipa. Tikakhala mumkhalidwe wovuta wamalingaliro Sitikuganiza mwanzeru. Timakhulupilira kuti zonse ndi zopanda nzeru, zopanda chilungamo, koma tiyenera kuyesetsa kuziwona ngati mkuntho umene tsiku lina lidzadutsa.
• Muyenera kuyang'anira lingaliro lalikulu. Pa nthawiyi tiyenera kusanthula maganizo amene amatilamulira. Mkwiyo, chisoni, mantha, kunyozedwa, kufuna kukhalanso ndi munthuyo, kusungulumwa? Muyenera kudzifunsa kuti ndizochitika ziti zomwe zimabweretsa lingaliro ili ndikuyesera kuzichepetsa. Kuti muchite izi, lingalirani mfundo yotsatirayi.

• Yesetsani kusachita kapena kuganiza zinthu zomwe zimakupwetekani. Ngati mukufunadi kuiwala za munthuyo, chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikuchotsa zonse zomwe zimakukumbutsani. Zimayamba ndikuchotsa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi kukhudzana kwawo, komanso zithunzi kapena chinthu chilichonse chomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku.
• Khalani otanganidwa. Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yololera kuti nthawi ipite ndikuwongolera chilichonse. Tiyenera kuika maganizo athu pa chinthu chimene timachikonda, chimene chimatisangalatsa, koma chopatsa thanzi. Mutha kukonzanso nthawi yopuma pang'ono, masewera, lembani makalasi ... chinachake chomwe chimakudzazani ndikuphimba kumverera kowopsya. Muyenera kulola nthawi kupita, chifukwa nthawi imachiritsa chilichonse ...
• Khalani ndi zolinga ndi zolinga zatsopano. Izi ndi gawo losunga nthawi yanu ndi chinthu chomwe chingakupangitseni kusinthika. Mutha kuyika malonjezano amtundu wina womwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa kuti mupindule, koma osathamanga kwambiri. Muyenera kutenga nthawi yomwe mukufuna.

• Funsani achibale anu ndi anzanu kuti akuthandizeni. Banja ndiye chithandizo chabwino kwambiri, nthawi zonse amakhalapo pazovuta zilizonse. Ngakhale kuti si onse omwe ali ndi chithandizo chimenecho, mukhoza kupita kumagulu abwino, abwenzi omwe amathandizira momwe mungaiwale bwino, osati kudyetsa chidani.
• Muyenera kukhululukira. Mfundo imeneyi ndi khama lalikulu, koma mukafika nthawi ino, mfundo yoganizira kwambiri za munthuyo imayamba kuzimiririka. Muyenera kusinkhasinkha kwambiri pa mbali iyi, kuzindikira kuti munthu winayo alinso ndi zofooka zake, nayenso wavutika ndi kuti adatha kusunga ubale ndi zomwe angathe. Mukafika pamenepa ndikumvetsetsa, chikhululuko chimabwera.
• Khalani mu nthawi ino. Simuyenera kukhala ndi moyo wakale kapena kuika maganizo anu onse pa zam'tsogolo. Kukhala pakali pano ndi yankho labwino kwambiri, kukonzanso zonse zomwe zingachitike tsiku lomwelo, zomwe zingathandize kwambiri. Malingaliro ena ndi yesani kuganiza za munthu wina, timazindikira kuti n’zovuta, koma kukopeka ndi munthu wina kungakulimbikitseni kwambiri kuti musiye kuganizira za munthu winayo.