Momwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu

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Kutha ndi mnzanu ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe tonsefe timakumana nazo nthawi iliyonse m'moyo. Makamaka ngati kusweka sikuthera kwa chikondi. Ngakhale chibwenzi chatha, sichiyenera kukhala mapeto. Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zophunzirira momwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti pali maubale omwe ndibwino kutha mwina chifukwa chakuti chikondi chatha kapena chifukwa pali poizoni wochuluka.

Komabe, ngati ichi sichiri chifukwa, khalani chifukwa tikuphunzitsani momwe mungabwezeretse wokondedwa wanu.

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Atatha, munthu akhoza kufuna kuyanjananso ndi mnzake. Poterepa, ndikulimbikitsidwa kuti aliyense azikhala ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha za momwe akumvera. Ngati zili choncho, mwa kusinkhasinkha ndi kudzidziwitsa wekha, mumafika poti mumakondanabe, funso loti mumubwezeretse bwanji mnzanuyo likuyamba kutenga malo okhala m'moyo wanu.

Monga mukuwonera pazomwe mwakumana nazo kuchokera munkhani yachikondi iyi, kusatsimikizika ndi gawo limodzi la moyo. Simungakhale otsimikiza zomwe zichitike mtsogolomo pakati panu, koma mutha kuyesa kuchitapo kanthu pakufuna kuyanjanaku mwanjira yolumikizana.

Malangizo amomwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu

momwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu

Ngati zomwe zatchulidwazi zakwaniritsidwa ndipo mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu, apa tikupatsani maupangiri.

Pangani zokumbukira zatsopano. Poterepa, kulakwitsa kotheka ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo kusanachitike ngati chikumbutso. Bweretsani bwenzi lanu lakale kapena bwenzi lanu lakale Sichibwerera komwe mudachoka, koma kuyesa kupanga njira yatsopano kuyambira pano. Kukumbukira kwatsopano komwe kumatha kulumikizidwa ndi tsatanetsatane ndi zokambirana.

Khazikani mtima pansi. Winayo angafunenso kuyanjananso ndi inu, koma winayo atha kukayikiranso. Momwe mungapulumutsire bwenzi lanu lakale kapena bwenzi lanu lakale munthawi imeneyi? Pewani kudikira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwawona kuti zolakwitsa zanu zidabweretsa mtunda pakati panu nthawi yopuma, mutha kusintha zolakwazo kuti muphunzire kuletsa kuti zisadzachitikenso.

Yesetsani kulumikizana pafupipafupi pakapita nthawi, koma bOnetsetsani kuti mupange mpata kuti nayenso akusoweni ndikuwona kuti kulibe. Kuti mupulumutse ubale womwe uli pamavuto, mverani zomwe mungachite, komanso onaninso zomwe mnzake akuchita. Kupatula kukhumba kwanu kukhalanso naye, ngati akumva zosiyana, muyenera kuvomereza izi.

Pali zokambirana zomwe zikudikira. Mukafuna kuyanjananso ndi wakale wanu, mudzawona kuti padakali zinthu zambiri zoti mufotokozere banja litatha. Ngati mukufunika kumangoyankhula nawo pazonsezi, yesetsani kuti musachedwe kukambirana chifukwa mukuopa kuti mayankho ake sangakhale omwe mumayembekezera. Zokambiranazi zikuthandizani kumveketsa bwino ndikukulitsa malingaliro anu. Kaya mutha kusankha kubwerera kapena zotsatira zanu ndizosiyana, zokambirana zamtunduwu ndizofunikira.

Musagwiritse ntchito nsanje. Osamayesa kuchititsa wokondedwa wanu kuchitira nsanje anthu ena poyesa kuwombola wokondedwa wanu m'njira yolakwika pomupangitsa kuti achite nsanje ndi wina. Patulirani nthawi yanu pakukula kwamkati ndikuwonetsa zabwino zanu. Khalani pano, osachepetsa chisangalalo chanu mpaka pomwe adzakumanenso, chifukwa izi zitha kuchitika, kapena sizingachitike. Pochita motere, popita nthawi, mudzakhala okhutira ndi zomwe mwachita pakadali pano.

Momwe mungabwezeretsenso chikondi cha mnzanu

bwerera ndi chibwenzi chako

Ndi chinthu chimodzi kuphunzira momwe mungabwezeretsere mnzanu, ndichinthu china kuyambiranso chikondi chimodzimodzi. Monga ndanenera poyamba, chikondi chimatha ndipo ndipamene chimayamba kuvuta kwambiri. Kupezanso chikondi cha mnzako ndizovuta kwambiri. Komabe, palinso maupangiri a izi.

Mupangitseni kumva kuti ndiye woyamba pamoyo wanu. Pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, munthu atha kumva kuti alibe malo m'moyo wa mnzake. Ngati mukufuna kuyambiranso chikondi chake, ndikofunikira kuti mupereke mphatso yanu yayikulu: nthawi yanu. Nthawi yoyesedwa ndi mtundu ndi kuchuluka kwake.

Nenani zakukhosi kwanu. Pali njira zambiri zosonyezera chikondi. Mwachitsanzo, kudzera mu kalata yachikondi. Koma mutha kuwonetsanso momwe mukumvera posonyeza chikondi. Mawu ndi zochita zambiri zomwe zimafotokoza lonjezo ili zingakuthandizeni kuyandikiranso. Zosankha ziyenera kupangidwa ndipo, chifukwa cha izi, ndikofunikira kulingalira pazomwe zasintha pakati panu m'miyezi yapitayi ndi zomwe zadzetsa kupatukana.

Poyang'anizana ndi zochitika zodalirika, Ndibwino kuyambitsa chibwenzi ndikukonzekera anthu awiri. Izi zitha kukhala zokhudzana ndi zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda, maulendo, maulendo, makanema, nyimbo, zisudzo, ndi malingaliro ena. Zokambirana ndizofunikira kwambiri pakadali pano. Onetsani kuyamikira kwanu kwa munthu amene mumakonda. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mudachitapo izi kale, chikondi chomwe chimawonetsedwa mwa kuyamikiridwa sichingathere chifukwa chakulemekezani, komwe kumalimbikitsa kudzidalira kwa munthu amene mumamukonda.

Zina mwazinthu

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zonsezi ndizovuta ndipo tiyenera kukhala ndi malingaliro kuti tidziwe zomwe sitiyenera kuchita:

  1. Choyamba muyenera kudzimvera chisoni nokha. Ngati chifukwa chachikulu chofuna kuyanjanitsidwa ndikuopa kusungulumwa, ndikofunikira kuti tisasinthe mayeserowa kukhala njira yochotsera mantha awa.
  2. Zomwe zinachitika siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Chikhumbo chokhala ndi munthu wina chingapangitse chikhumbo ichi kufunafuna kuyambiranso kwa kukumananso. Komabe, ndikofunikira kulimbikitsa maziko a gawo latsopanoli kudzera pakukambirana komwe kumathetsa zovuta zoyambira magulu awiriwa.
  3. LUbale uli pakati pa inu nonse. Sikulimbikitsidwa kuti anthu angapo atenge nawo mbali. Mukakhala ndi mnzanu, tsopano mumasiyana ndipo izi zimangokhudza nonse awiri. Ngakhale muli ndi anzanu ofanana, ngati ubale womwe udalipo mpaka pano wakhala wabwino, siomwe akutenga nawo mbali pankhaniyi ya anthu awiri.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi izi mutha kuphunzira zambiri zamomwe mungabwezeretse mnzanu.


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