Kwa anyamata ambiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti asiye kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Ikhoza kukhala chinthu chomwe chimabadwa kuchokera kuzochitika zina zamoyo, komabe, ndizowona kuti zitha kukhala zovuta kwa amuna ambiri. Ndithudi simungapeze mtsikana chifukwa mwina simukuyesera kwambiri, koma tikukutsimikizirani kuti pano tikukuthandizani kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake simukupeza.
Aliyense amene ali ndi cholinga ayenera khumbani mokhulupirika ndi chiyembekezo chonse. Kuti muthe kuchita izi, muyenera kuphunzira kuti muyenera kusangalala mphindi iliyonse ndikutha kusiya mitsempha yanu kuti mukwaniritse chidaliro chimenecho.
Muyenera kugwira ntchito mkati mwa munthu
Muyenera kudziwa kuti palibe zinthu zambiri zomwe zingatheke popanda khama. Ngati simudzilola kuti muwonekere, mwakuthupi komanso pazama TV, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wochepa wokumana ndi azimayi.
Osataya mtima kukhala munthu wosadzidalira, mudzafunika kulimbitsa umunthu wanu kuti muthe kusonyeza luso lanu lonse. Pali ma nuances ambiri okhudzana ndi zopambana zochepa, pakati pawo kupeza mkazi amene amamugonjetsadi.
Mwamuna wokhala ndi umunthu wochepa ayenera kutero limbitsani chinthu chofunikira monga kudzidalira kwanu. Kuyambira pano, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri khalidwe lanu ndi kugonana kukopa. Ukhoza kukhala mwamuna wokongola kwambiri, koma ngati ulibe motowo, sungatsekereze akazi.
Zoyenera kutsatira kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi
Alipo fufuzani malo oti mukumane ndi anthu zatsopano zomwe mukufuna kuti mutsegule kwa ena. Sikuti nthawi zonse amayenera kukhala malo omwe zakumwa zimatengedwa, amathanso kukhala masukulu, makalabu, malo ochitira masewera ... kutenga nawo mbali pamwambowu kapena china chake chokhudzana ndi malowo.
Ngati mulibe zida kukumana akazi, mukhoza nthawi zonse funsani mnzanu kuti akudziwitseni. Mutha kuyang'ananso dzenje kapena njira yoti muzitha kuyang'ana mtsikanayo ndikupereka chithandizo, ndithudi china chake chosangalatsa chingayambike apa.
Nthawi zonse pezani zabwino zanu Ndipo mwachibadwa monga momwe kungathekere, nkofunikira kukhala wekha. Ngati mumadzinamizira kufunafuna cholinga ndipo simuli wowona mtima, zidzawonetsa ndipo bodza laling'ono likhoza kutaya chinthu chomwe chinali chitakhazikitsidwa kale.
Alipo fikirani akazi ndi chidaliro chonse, maganizo amachita zonse ndipo inu nthawizonse mudzakhala ndi akazi chidwi nanu. Chimene akazi sakonda ndi chakuti mwamuna amayandikira ndi cholinga chofuna kukopana ndipo akukumana ndi kuyankha kolakwika amakhala ozizira, odzikuza, oyenda pansi komanso osakhudzidwa ndi zina.
Muyenera kumwetulira, kukhala omasuka komanso odzichepetsa. Zonse zimayamba ndi wekha, choncho khalani otsimikiza. Ngati muli pamalo omwe mukuwona kuti akazi amatha kumvera, muyenera kupeza munthu amene amakupatsani ma vibes abwino. Ngati simukudziwa kudzidziwitsa kapena kuyambitsa kukambirana, tili ndi nkhani zabwino kwambiri "Kodi mungakopeke bwanji ndi mtsikana" o "Momwe mungalowetse mtsikana".
Simufunikanso kukhala ndi cholinga ndikuyang'ana mtsikana mmodzi yekha. Mukhoza kupita kunja kwa masiku angapo kapena usiku ndi onjezerani maukonde anu olumikizana nawo, kuchokera pano mudzakhala ndi nthawi yokumana ndi atsikana abwinowo pang'onopang'ono dziwani zolinga zawo. Pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti mungathe kuchita chimodzimodzi. Ngati mwakumana ndi atsikana angapo muyenera kuyeza omwe angakhale nawo kuti mudzamuyitanire ku chakumwa tsiku lina.
Pezani kusonkhanitsa mawu kapena zidule kuti muzitha kuyeserera ndi atsikana omwe mumakumana nawo. Tili otsimikiza kuti atsikana omwe mumakumana nawo komanso omwe mumachita nawo zokambirana, zimakhala zosavuta kuti muyankhule popanda vuto, makamaka ngati mtsikana wa maloto anu akuwonekera.
Konzekerani mawu omwe amagwira ntchito bwino ndikumwetulira, ngakhale mawu osweka ndi mawu okopana. Atsikana ambiri salankhula kwambiri ndipo ngati mukonzekera zokambirana zambiri mukhoza kale mukuyamba chinthu chosangalatsa.
Kutsogolera zokambirana ndi kuwaphunzitsa kuti musakhale osalankhula. Mutha kufunsa momwe tsiku lake lakhalira kapena ngati china chake chamuchitikira posachedwapa. Koma inunso muyenera kutero phunzirani kumveraAmakondanso kuwuza anthu omwe ali ndi nthano komanso amuna omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe akunena.
Ngati mwakwanitsa kukhala ndi nthawi yokumana muyenera kuwunika kugwirizana ndi munthu winayo. Ngati muli ndi mgwirizano wokwanira umene udzakhala kale chinsinsi cholowera ku chinachake chomwe chingakhale kupeza formalize pang'ono ndi pang'ono, ndipo popanda changu. Pali zambiri zoti mufufuze ndikuzifufuza ndipo muyenera kupereka nthawi kuti muchite zimenezo. Pambuyo pa nyengo muyenera kupeza nthawi yoyenera kuti muthe kumufunsa kuti akhale bwenzi lanu.
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