Chifukwa chiyani mumandinyalanyaza ndikadziwa kuti mumandikonda

Chifukwa chiyani mumandinyalanyaza ndikadziwa kuti mumandikonda

Chikondi chilibe malamulo okhazikitsidwa, ndipo kukopeka ndi munthu sikungakhale kophulika. Mutha kumva kutengeka kapena kutengeka Mwa munthu podziwa kuti amakukondani, amatha kukunyalanyazani nthawi zina. Zachidziwikire kuti mudapereka kale zoyeserera zanu zoyambirira ndipo mwawona makalata, koma simukudziwa ngati muperekanso zina zambiri pazomwezo mukufuna zikwangwani zina zambiri.

M'mutu uno, momwe mungalembere muubwenzi wotheka ndizovuta kuthetsa, chifukwa zimabweretsa zosadziwika zosatha zomwe zimayenera kupendedwa. Ambiri a iwo mtundu wa munthuyo umalumikizidwa ndipo silibwezeredwa ndi mitundu ina yakunja. Pofuna kuthana ndi kukayikira, apa tikukupatsirani mafungulo okhudzana ndi kusatsimikizika kwamtunduwu.

Ndikudziwa kuti amandikonda koma nthawi zina amandinyalanyaza

Zachidziwikire kuti mwakumana ndi munthu ndipo zikuwoneka choncho zokopa zili pafupi. Komabe, ngakhale zonse zayamba ndi phazi lamanja, mwadzidzidzi kuyamba kusintha kapena kukunyalanyazani. Ndizachilendo, bwanji mwadzidzidzi sizimalumikizana kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse zimangokhalira kukoka. Mosakayikira mumadzimva otayika ndipo simudziwa momwe mungathanirane ndi vutoli chifukwa mumamukondadi munthu ameneyo.

Pali anthu omwe amafunikira nthawi yayitali kuti athe kupanga chibwenzi amatanthauza nthawi ndi malo. Mutha kukhala kuti mwakhazikika kwambiri ndipo simusamala kuti mupange kudzipereka komanso ubale. Komabe, pali anthu omwe amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo, akufuna kukhala nanu, kukumverani ndikumva kena kake, koma amafunikira zolemba kuti aganizire.

Chifukwa chiyani mumandinyalanyaza ndikadziwa kuti mumandikonda

Simunthu wabwino

Zachidziwikire kuti ndinu munthu ndi makhalidwe abwino ndipo munthu wachidwi safuna kukutayani, ndichifukwa chake mwina ndili nanu. Ndikudziwa mfundoyi ndipo lingaliro ili ndilopanda chilungamo, koma anthu ambiri amayang'ana munthu wina "wabwino" yemwe amagwera pamikhalidwe yawo. Ndiye chifukwa chake padzakhala nthawi zosangalatsa komanso nthawi zina adzachoka kwa iwe. Udindo uwu ukhoza kukhala ndi yankho lomwe lingakhalepo ndikuyika zambiri pambali yanu. Ngati mumazikondadi, mutha kukugonjetsani monga munthu, Wonjezerani ndikukhala osangalatsa, pokhapokha ngati mukuganiza kuti zingakhale zabwino.

Munthuyu ndi wamanyazi komanso amakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri

Mutha kuthana ndi munthu wamanyazi kwambiri ndipo musayerekeze kutenga sitepe yoyamba. Kusatetezeka kumayenderana ndi munthu wamanyazi uja. Pali anthu omwe amawoneka kuti amadzidalira kwambiri ndipo amadzikweza komanso amadzikweza. Koma tikudziwa kuti mwina zingakhale zosiyana, mwina simungakhale ndi zida zokwanira ndi luso kufikira chibwenzi.

Mukuwopa ubale komanso kukanidwa

Ngati munthu ameneyo akukupeŵani Sindingadziwe momwe ndingachitire zonse zomwe ndingathe. Izi zimakupangitsani kukhala osatetezeka ndipo mwina mumadzimva kuti amakanidwa kapena kukanidwa muubwenzi wapamtima ndikukhala ndi nthawi yoyipa. Pamenepa atha kuchita mantha kukanidwa, chilichonse chimatha kugwira ntchito bwino poyamba kenako chilichonse chimazimiririka mukapezana zosagwirizana.

 

Malingaliro anu anzeru sanakule kwambiri

Pali anthu omwe samafotokoza momwe akumvera mofanana ndi ena. Sangathe kusintha malingaliro ena pakadali pano kapena sangathe kuwongolera momwe angadziwongolere. Zitha kuchitika kwa munthu amene mumamudziwa, pali masiku omwe angawoneke ngati munthu wabwinobwino komanso ena momwemo amathawira osalankhula chilichonse kwa aliyense, chifukwa sichingathe kuchita ubale kapena kucheza ndi anthu ena. Mwinamwake mwakhala pa tsiku ndipo ndinakusiyani mutayimirira tsiku lomwelo chifukwa ndinalibe zida zofunikira kuti ndikumane nazo.

Chifukwa chiyani mumandinyalanyaza ndikadziwa kuti mumandikonda

Kodi tichite chiyani? Kodi pali amene ayenera kutitimira?

Ili ndi yankho losavuta, chifukwa zochitika zimangochitika zokha komanso mulimonsemo zimathetsedwa malinga ndi kuthekera kwake ndi zochitika za aliyense. Ngati zonse zili zosadalirika ndipo simukudziwa choti muchite, muyenera kuzindikira malire omwe akukonzedwa ndi momwe mungathetsere. Choyamba, khalani oleza mtima ndipo kukhumudwa sikukuchepetsani kapena kukuvutitsani.

Ndizovuta kuwongolera izi, popeza pali anthu omwe amatenga ubale kapena kumverera mwachikondi ngati china chapadera komanso chapadera. Muyenera kukhala olimba mtima komanso yambani inu kuchitapo kanthu, ndithudi muyenera kutenga sitepe yoyamba. Mumayamba kuwongolera ubale womwe ungatheke kuti muwone zomwe zimachitika ndipo ngati mukuyenera kufunsa zomwe akuganiza kapena momwe akumvera, Simutaya chilichonse poyesa.

Ngati simukufuna kuchitapo kanthu, mutha kudikira kuti muwone zomwe zingachitike, Ngati palibe chomwe chimachitika ndipo nthawi imadutsa, ndiye kuti munthuyo sanafune kukhala nanu nthawi iliyonse. Nthawi zina tikamachoka ndi pomwe amayamba kuwonetsa chidwi chifukwa mukudziwa kuti muphonya china chake. Mosakayikira vutoli ndi lovuta, chifukwa sitikudziwa kusanthula mkhalidwe pamene wina sakupereka zikwangwani kapena wolowererapo.


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