Ndizabwino funsani nthawi muubwenzi? Onse okwatirana, makamaka omwe akhala limodzi kwazaka zambiri, amakhala nthawi ina yovuta kapena yomwe amakhala atapatukana. Nthawi zina gawo ili limakhala losakhalitsa lomwe limatha kuthetsedwa pomwe magawo omwe amapanga banjali apereka china chake. Mwa ena awiriwo amathera kutha motsimikizika ndipo pang'ono, mwamunayo amafunsa mkaziyo nthawi kapena mosemphanitsa, kuganiza, kusinkhasinkha ndi zinthu zina zambiri zomwe nonse mungaganizire bwino.
Lero komanso kudzera munkhaniyi tiyesa kuyankha funso lomwe limapereka mutu wankhaniyi, yomwe siyina ayi; Kodi ndi bwino kupempha nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu?. Kuphatikiza apo, tiwunikiranso zina mwazomwe zitha kupangitsa banja kutenga nthawi ndi zotulukapo zomwe mwina banjali limayenda mtunda waufulu.
Tisanayambe tiyenera kukuwuzani kuti, ngati mukusangalala ndi mnzanu, werengani pang'onopang'ono ndipo musatengeke ndi zomwe mungawerenge pano. Ganizirani, yamikirani ndikulankhula ndi mtsamiro ngati mukufunikiradi kufunsa mnzanuyo kuti akupatseni nthawi, muyenera kuswa chibwenzicho kapena simukusowa chimodzi kapena chimzake, zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri.
Zotsatira
Nchifukwa chiyani okwatirana angafunike nthawi?
Chowonadi ndichakuti yankho la funsoli likhoza kukhala zifukwa chikwi chimodzi chifukwa banja lililonse ndi lapadziko lapansi ndipo zifukwa zomwe nthawi ingafunikire mwa okwatirana ndizosiyanasiyana.
Mwachitsanzo kutha ndi kung'amba, kukangana kosalekeza kapena malingaliro otsutsana kotheratu atha kukhala zina mwazifukwa zomwe abwenzi aganiza zopatula nthawi yocheza. Zambiri mwazifukwazi zimachitika m'mabanja omwe akhala akupita kwanthawi yayitali, osapita patsogolo, ndiye kuti, maanja omwe, mwachitsanzo, adayamba kuchita zibwenzi muunyamata ndipo sanakhale limodzi kapena adayamba kuyambitsa banja .
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zodziwika bwino zomwe maanja amatenga nthawi ndikuyika malo pakati, ndi pomwe amafika poti amazindikira kuti ndiosiyana kotheratu ndipo matsenga omwe ngakhale atakhala kuti asokonekera adawagwirizanitsa. Komanso iwo malingaliro osiyanasiyana kuti awone moyo atha kubweretsa banja nthawi imeneyo.
Zachidziwikire, pazifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa banja kuti liwononge nthawi palinso anthu ena, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri pamakhala nthawi yopanda pake ndipo kutha kwa banja nthawi zonse kumakhala yankho lomaliza.
Monga ndakuwuzani kale zifukwa kapena zolinga zomwe zingapangitse okwatirana kutenga nthawi, alipo mazana kapena m'malo mwake masauzande ndipo amadalira pang'ono pa banja lililonse.
Kodi ndi bwino kupempha kanthawi kochepa?
Monga pali zifukwa zikwizikwi zomwe banja lingasankhe kupereka kapena kupempha nthawi, pali malingaliro osiyanasiyana chifukwa chake kuli bwino kupempha nthawi. Kuti ndifotokozere ena mwa iwo ndigawa yankho m'magawo atatu osiyanitsidwa bwino.
Chiphunzitso choyamba chimati kuti ngati banja litenga nthawi, china chake chalakwika, ndikuti zikhala zovuta kwambiri kukonza ngati pali mtunda pakati. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi ino itha kuthandizira gawo limodzi mwamagawo awiri a banjali kuti azindikire momwe akukhalira bwino komanso opanda zina (makamaka ngati zidapangitsa kuti moyo ukhale wovuta kapena wowawitsa tsiku lililonse), ndipo ndichachidziwikire Nditha kupangitsa kuti ndizitha kuyankhulanso za banja.
Ena ambiri amati nthawi ndi mtunda zimakonza chilichonse kapena pafupifupi chilichonse komanso kuti zitha kuthandiza anthu okwatirana kuzindikira zolakwa zawo. Vuto ndiloti ndi ochepa mwa ife omwe amadziwa momwe angazindikire zolakwa kapena kusiya kuganiza kuti zikuchitika molakwika, kotero banjali silikhalanso okwatirana.
Pomaliza chiphunzitso chachitatu ndi chomwe chimanena izi nthawi imeneyo ndi mtunda uwo mwa awiriwo umakonza chilichonse ndikuti akangoganiza zopanganso zonse, zinthu zimagwiranso ntchito ndikukhala zodabwitsa monga poyamba.
Ndikuganiza moona mtima kuti titha kukambirana za izi malingaliro awiri oyamba amapezeka 80% ya nthawiyo ndipo ndi 20% yokha ya nthawi yomwe maanja amabwerera limodzi ndikukwanitsa kukhala osangalala kwamuyaya. 20%? Mwina ndikuganiza kuti ndakhoza chifukwa pakadali pano sindikudziwa banja lomwe latenga nthawi ndikukhalanso achimwemwe. Komanso sindikudziwa za banja lililonse lomwe lidayenda limodzi ndikubwerera limodzi.
Sizikunena kuti manambala omwe ndangoperekazi awerengedwa ndi ine ndipo popanda maziko kapena kuwunika koyambirira, ndangotengera zomwe ndakumana nazo komanso zomwe ndimawona tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwina ziwerengerozi zimawoneka zopusa kwa inu ngati pafupi nanu mwawona mabanja angapo omwe atenga nthawi atha kuthetsa mavuto awo onse.
Kuti tiyankhe funso lomwe lili ndi mutu wagawo lino komanso nkhaniyi, ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense atha kupeza mayankho, omveka bwino.
Chimachitika ndi chiyani patadutsa nthawi yomwe mnzake wapemphedwa?
Banja likadzipatsa nthawi, pamakhala njira ziwiri zokha, zomwe titha kupanga pambuyo pake.
Yoyamba mwa njirazi zomwe banjali limabwerera ndikuthana ndi mavuto omwe adawapangitsa kuti apemphe nthawi. Ndiye kuti mwina kubwerera kumadzakhala kulephera kapena amatumikira kuti azindikire kuti ali osangalala limodzi ndipo chilichonse chimatsatira mpaka atapeza chisangalalo chathunthu.
Njira yachiwiri ndikitseka chitseko, zomwe simungadutsenso zomwe zimakakamiza magawo awiriwo kuti ayambe kuyambira pomwepo ndi kufunafuna chikondi kwina. Tsoka ilo, ndikukhulupirira mowona mtima kuti iyi ndiye njira yobwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza komanso yabwino komanso yokhutiritsa kwa onse omwe asankha kupuma.
Mwina palinso njira ina, koma izi zitha kukhala zoyambira ziwiri zoyambirira zomwe sitidzakambirananso m'nkhaniyi.
Maganizo momasuka
M'mafilimu ambiri amakanema timawona maanja angapo atenga nthawi yopuma osakwanitsa kupatukana kwathunthu, kuyambiranso chibwenzi pambuyo pa masiku angapo kapena milungu ingapo kuti akwatire ndikukhala achimwemwe kwamuyaya. Tsoka ilo zimangochitika m'makanema komanso nthawi zambiri kucheza ndi mnzanu kumatanthauza kuthetsa chibwenzicho.
Ndipo kodi ndi mabanja ochepa omwe amatenga nthawi chifukwa amakhala osangalala komanso amagwirizana bwino. Mabanja ambiri omwe amathera nthawi yawo amakangana tsiku ndi tsiku, amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyana kapena asankha kuthetsa chibwenzicho mwa njira yopanda chiwawa.
Nthawi ndi mtunda zimatha kukhala zosayiwalika komanso malo omaliza aubwenzi omwe kwa nthawi yayitali asanafunse kanthawi, palibe chomwe chimachitika, koma palibe chabwino.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndi zabwino komanso zabwino kucheza ndi bwenzi lanu? Mutha kutipatsa malingaliro anu m'malo osungira ndemanga patsamba lino kapena kugwiritsa ntchito malo ena ochezera omwe tili.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi chomizidwa mu imodzi mwanthawi izi, kondwerani ndipo osasiya kutiuza za zomwe mwakumana nazo panthawi ya funsani nthawi muubwenzi.
Ndemanga za 224, siyani anu
Anandiuza kuti chifukwa ndalama zikuwonongeka ndipo sangathe kulipira zinthu….
-Sindikudziwa choti nditani, ndasokonekera, chifukwa mwandipatsa zonse, ndimakukondani kwambiri koma timayenera kuti tisiyane kwa sabata ziwiri osaphatikizana awiriwa kuti tionane ndipo akaunti yatsopano ndiyabwino kwa tonse awiri, inenso ndikuvutika Musaganize kuti ndalakwitsa bwanji.Kupanda kugwira ntchito osatha kusamba osatha kudya izi muzinyalala kapena kundimvetsetsa ndikufuna ganizirani zomwe ndikufuna kuchita ndi moyo wanga Moyo wanga ndi wamanyazi ndipo sindikumvetsa kuti ndikugwa ndipo anthu Anzanga akundithandiza kwambiri kuti ndisagwe. Trtanquila kuti palibe azakhali omwe ndimakonda, osatero mudandaule mukalandira izi ndikudikirira yankho lanu tqm
Ndiyenera kulingalira za izi, ndikuthandiza!
Moni, ndikukulemberani chifukwa chowonadi ndikumva kukhala wokhumudwa ndimkhalidwe wanga; Chibwenzi changa masabata atatu apitawo adandiuza kuti sakumva bwino, poyamba amatuluka ndikuti ndimapereka zochulukirapo kuposa iyeyo pachibwenzi, ndikuti pakadali pano samakhala womasuka, kuti patatha miyezi 3 awona msinkhu kusiyana (ndi wamkulu zaka 7- iye 7 ndi ine 31) ngakhale tili omasuka ndipo amakonda kudalirana komwe tapanga chifukwa amazindikira kuti ndiwofunika kwambiri, popeza ndi wamanyazi, amapenga kudziwa kuti ndikumudziwa kwambiri, chowonadi ndichinthu chokongola pazomwe tikukumana nazo, kapena zomwe timakhala; Sindikudziwabe zomwe ndingaganize pa zonsezi, ndiye amandiuza kuti akulefuka chifukwa mavuto ake onse akubwera palimodzi (ndipo ndikudziwa kuti) ali pantchito, watsala ndi miyezi yochepa kuti Ubwino woperekedwa ndi boma watha Kupatula apo, akulemba mayeso kuti asankhe udindo ndipo ndi zomwe akufuna kwambiri, akuyenera kuphunzira ndipo posachedwapa sakuika chidwi, ndipo tsopano akuwonjezera kuti amayi ake akuyenera kulandira mankhwala a chemotherapy. Chowonadi ndichakuti wathedwa nzeru ndipo amandiuza kuti akufuna kuti adutse katundu wake yekha, kuti sakufuna kundisokoneza chifukwa ndikufunika kusinkhasinkha chifukwa nawonso ndikuphunzira, koma posachedwapa akhala ozizira kwambiri komanso akutali, ine ndinamuuza kuti sindimvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe ndimachoka motere, ngati akudziwa kuti ndine womuthandizira ndipo ndikumufunira zabwino, ndipo amangondiuza zomwe akumva komanso zomwe akuganiza pakadali pano. Tadzipatula pang'ono ndipo tawonana patatha sabata limodzi ndi theka, tinali bwino, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chidachitika, koma panthawiyo ndimaganizira ndipo panthawiyo ndidamuwuza kuti apange chisankho chifukwa ndimatha osapitilira motere ndikukayika, chifukwa sindimamumvetsetsa ndipo ndidamuuza: uyenera kudziwa ngati ukufuna kukhala ndi ine kapena ayi, ndipo amandiuza kuti "Osati Pakali pano", chowonadi chidandipangitsa kumva zoyipa, ndidamuwuza kuti sindimvetsetsa kudzikonda kwake, kuti andiuze mwamphamvu Ayi Sankafuna kukhalanso ndi ine motero ndidaponya chopukutira, koma kuti Pakadali pano sizimveka, ndipo amangondiuza zachisoni ndi zowawa: Mukudziwa ndimakukondani komanso ndizovuta kuti ndiyankhule nanu. Sindikumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe mumandipatsira nthawi yayitali, ngati pali kukhulupirirana kwakukulu pakati pathu bwanji osandiuza kuti izi zatha? Amangondiuza kuti titipatseko nthawi. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite, ngati ndipitirire ndi chinyengo ndikudikirira kuti mavuto apitirire mavuto ake atha, komanso osataya kulumikizana kuti asazizire, kumuthandiza makamaka amayi ake, kapena tsopano thetsani ubalewu. Ndikufuna thandizo Pleaseee !!!
Ndikudutsa izi pakadali pano, sindikudziwa choti ndichite, thandizirani
Zomwezi zikuchitika kwa ine pakadali pano momwe azithetsere ndikumva kuwawa ndikufuna thandizo
madzulo abwino.
Ndakhala ndi mnzanga kwa zaka ziwiri ndi theka ndipo nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikuchita nsanje ndikulingalira zinthu zomwe palibe, mnzanga amandikhululukira nthawi zonse ndipo zinthu zimabweranso ndikuchitika ndiye kwa mwezi umodzi takhala tikulimbana, ndipo Ndimadzikhululukira kawiri patsiku lachitatu, anandiuza kuti ndithetse chibwenzi chomwe samandimvetsetsa chifukwa ndinali choncho, sizimafanana nthawi zonse koma takhala tikulankhula ndipo anandiuza kaye kuti timalize kenako mpatseni nthawi, ndipo lero anandiuza kuti akufuna nthawi ndinali wosokonezeka kwambiri kuti sindikudziwa choti ndichite kuti ndimupatse nthawi
Kwa ine ndizovuta kwambiri chifukwa ndimadzimva kuti ndine wolakwa ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ali ndi munthu wina koma amandiuza ayi kuti ndikungoganiza kuti chibwenzicho sichinali choncho ...
Ndine wokwiya chifukwa abwenzi ayenera kukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo ayenera kukhala achimwemwe
Sindikudziwa choti nkuganiza, ndithandizeni
Zomwezi zidandichitikiranso ndi mnzanga, timakondana kwambiri ndipo takhala ndikulimba mtima kwambiri komanso apollo koma ali ndi mavuto ambiri ndipo ndi woipa kwambiri ndipo adaganiza choncho chifukwa amafuna kutaya katundu wake yekha osasiya ine pambali ndipo mosasamala adati sankafuna kuti ndikhale ... Sindikudziwa kuti zidzakhala liti ndipo ndipita kuti ngati zili bwino kapena zoyipa sitikulankhulanso tsiku lililonse monga momwe zimakhalira kale, ma beces atatu okha pasabata omwe angadzifunse zaomwe tili, ali bwanji mwana wanu wamkazi ndi banja lanu kupatula gawo langa lothandizira. Anandiuza kuti ndikufuna kupitiliza kuyenda bwino nthawi zonse chifukwa ngati mkangano ungachitike tili ndi nthawi yoyipa kwambiri ...
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwa miyezi 6 ndipo zonse zimayenda bwino, mpaka mzanga atamwalira ndipo ps kuyambira nthawi imeneyo sindinayanjanenso ndi chibwenzicho
O, zingakhale bwino kupempha kanthawi?
Chifukwa chake mnzako wamwalira, ndipo .. kudabwitsidwa, umazindikira kuti ndiwe CHIMODZI chimodzi.
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Joto joto joto joto ... ...
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Ngati mnzanu wapamtima watayika, si zachilendo kuti inuyo musayambe kuchita chidwi ndi zinthu zina. Koma ndikukhulupirira kuti koposa china chilichonse ndinu wokhumudwa, china chosakhalitsa. Ganizirani momwe mumamvera za wokondedwa wanu ndipo ngati mukukhala ndi nthawi yoyipa uwauzeni, koma yesetsani kuchira chifukwa mnzanuyo sakufuna kuti imfa yawo iwononge chibwenzi chanu. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, yambani kuyika chikhumbocho, ndine m'modzi mwa iwo omwe amaganiza kuti chikondi sikumva kokha komanso chisankho, ndipo ngati mwalakwitsa, ndiye kuti ndikosavuta kupempha mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni, kuthandizira komanso kumvetsetsa, ayi Palibe chomwe chingachotse chidwi chanu kwamuyaya, ngakhale mutakhala pansi kwakanthawi. Kuphatikiza apo, mnzanu pothandizana naye atha kulimbitsa chibwenzicho, ndipo izi zitha kukhala zabwino kwa inu ndi chikondi chanu, muuzeni kuti mukukhala ndi nthawi yoyipa ndikuthandizani kupirira, mnzanu angafune (ngati mukufunadi kwa mnzako komanso imfa yamnzako sichifukwa chokha). Chikondi ndi khama ndipo mnzako akhoza kukuthandizani, ingotsegulani mtima wanu kwa iye, nthawi imeneyo kwa inu sizingakhale zomveka ngati mumamukondadi. Chilimbikitso chochuluka! 🙂
Moni a Victor, Muli bwanji? Kuchokera pazomwe mumandiuza, mukuwona zinthu zomwe sizikuchitika ... kuti wakufunsani kwakanthawi sizitanthauza kuti akuwona wina kapena kuti abwenzi amasokoneza chibwenzi chawo. Kodi mudaganizapo zopita kuchipatala kuti mudzionetse nokha ndi nsanje yanu yoyipa? Ndikukhulupirira, mwa lingaliro langa lodzichepetsa, kuti zingakuchitireni zabwino, mwina kuti mubweretse chibwenzi chanu kapena kukhala ndi mnzanu wina kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino osakuthamangitsani nthawi zonse. Ndikukhulupirira kuti malingaliro anga akutumikirani. Moni ndikupitiliza kuwerenga ife !!
moni ndi nthawi yoyamba kuti ndilumikizane ndi tsambali
Ndili ndi vuto lokhudza mnzanga, takhala zaka 5 ndikundiuza kuti akufuna nthawi
Chifukwa chakuti watanganidwa kwambiri ndi ntchito, timagula nyumba ndipo amakhala ndi nkhawa, mwina chifukwa cha matenda omwe ali nawo, zimasokoneza ubale
Ndine wokwatiwa miyezi iwiri, ndine wamkulu kwambiri kuposa mwamuna wanga, kuwonjezera apo adachita ngozi ndipo adathyoka mwendo patadutsa masiku khumi ndi asanu titakwatirana. Ali ndi ana awiri ndi mnzake wakale, wazaka zisanu komanso wobadwa kumene, (ndiye kuti, mwanayo adabadwa patadutsa masiku 12 atandikwatira) kuyambira pomwe adandikwatira mnzanga wakale anali ndi pakati, koma anali olekanitsidwa (sanakwatirane naye) kwa miyezi itatu. Kugonana kwathu sikunachitike, chifukwa ngakhale anali ndi zaka 3, wakhala akudwala matenda opatsirana kwa zaka zitatu (malinga ndi zomwe akunena) ndipo zidangokulirakulira ndi ngoziyo kuyambira pomwe adamuyika pamwamba pomwe bondo, ndipo ndinayenera kumusambitsa. Anali wokhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa anali wolimbikira ntchito komanso wolimbikira ntchito, ndipo zonse zomwe zapangitsa kuti zinthu zikhale zovuta kwambiri.Zomwe amachita zimamupangitsa kundikonda, nthawi zonse amandifunafuna komanso kundisilira kwambiri. Ndikuganiza kuti banjali lidamuyika m'manda, chifukwa ndazindikira kudzera mwa abale awo kuti sakufuna kuti ndilankhule nawo, chifukwa anali chilombo naye. zonsezi zasokonekera, komanso makamaka kuti ndikayamba kukondana amandiuza, ndipatseni nthawi, ndipatseni nthawi ... mukadzakuwonani. Simundipilira, ndidzakhala nanu mwachikondi bwanji chonde ndithandizeni !!!!
Chowonadi ndichakuti mnzanga adandiuza kuti ndimupatse kanthawi ndipo sindikudziwa ngati zili bwino, koma pafupifupi vuto silovuta, koma ndikuganiza kuti adandiuza izi kuti achoke kwa ine chifukwa akupitilira Ulendo ndipo ndikuganiza kuti adachita izi kuti sindiganiziranso zaubwenzowu, amandiuza kuti sapita koma nthawi zina sindimukhulupirira koposa chilichonse chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe adandifunsa… .
Abwenzi, ndikukufunsani kuti mundithandizire ndi kukayika kwanga, amadzisamalira =))
Sindikudziwa kuti ndiyambira pati.
Sindikudziwa komwe izi zidayambira, mwina pakusowa kwathu chilakolako chogonana, ulesi wathu, mphwayi, kapena chizolowezi. Sindinayamikire chilichonse cha izi, osatinso zomwe ndimayenera.
Ndikufuna kutenga kanthawi, adatero.
Sindikudziwa ngati ndikuganiza zotsatira za chiganizochi, ndikuganiza amangowanena chifukwa amafunika kuwawuza, sindinaganize kuti amawakonda kwambiri.
Zaka 10 titapsompsona koyamba, patatha zaka 9 ndikudzipereka koyamba, tili pafupi kuiwalika. m'mbali mwa bwinja.
Sindikukukondanso, Anandiuza miyezi 3 yapitayo, ndipo kuyambira tsiku lomwelo ndakhala ndikuwona zoopsa chachiwiri ndi chachiwiri. Chifukwa, mumadabwa? Mumamufunsa kuti: Zinthu sizili chimodzimodzi, Misozi zikwizikwi ikhetseka m'manja mwanga, ndi manja anga. Sindingathe kuchira mulimonsemo, mukuzizira, kulibe.
Ndikukuzolowera, akuti; Ndimakonda zomwe timachita mnyumba yanu, akutero; mtima wanga ukuwa, ndikufuula ndikufuula nditazonda kompyuta yake, Gmail, ndikufuula mokweza mpaka kumudzutsa, kulibe kulingalira, kulibe chilango mwa ine kupitirira: Kusakhulupirika !!!
komabe ndimalira ngati mwana ndikumvera mabodza awo, ndipo ngati mankhwala ndimawameza, owawa, owonda, otentha. Ndikufuna ndikukhulupirireni, ndikuganiza.
Koma bwanji sanabwere? Bwanji sakuyankha? Chifukwa chiyani amazimitsa foni yake ndipo bwanji amachita zoyipa chonchi?
Ndipo wama psychologist amuuza kuti ndizosavomerezeka kutichitira awiriwo, kuti sakhulupirira chithandizo cha banja, kuti ndipeze dokotala wanga.
Ndipo amangobwera mochedwa, samayankhabe foni, ndipo akadali wozizira, wozizira komanso wopanda moyo.
Titha kudzipatsa tokha nthawi, zimamveka ngati kukulitsa mathero omwe awonetsa kale chiyambi. Ndiyenera kuchoka m'nyumba yomwe tidapanga.
osiyidwa, oiwalika, owola, opotoka, ansanje, opusa, onyengedwa.
Kusakhulupirika komanso kusakhulupirika, tsiku lililonse, ndimatafuna, ndimameza, kamodzi kapena kachiwiri. Ndiwo maola omaliza aulendo wanga wazaka 10, ndipo ndimamva zowonekera, wofooka, mutu wanga wodzaza ndi mizukwa,
Ndikufuna kufa.
Ndikufuna kuti ndikutonthozeni, koma ndilibe chidziwitso chonga ichi, zilizonse zomwe zingakugwereni, zonse zikuyenda ndipo ngati zakunyengani, mwina tsiku lina zidzazindikira zomwe zidatayika ndikubwerera kwa inu . Ndipo ngati sichoncho, moyo wanu udzatenganso tanthauzo lina ndikukonzanso. Mudzawona, kulimba mtima !!! 🙂
Wawa, ndasokonezeka ndipo ndikudziwa choti ndichite chifukwa ndakhala pafupifupi zaka zitatu.
ndipo ndili ndi pakati ndi mwana wanga woyamba ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndifunse nthawi kapena kumaliza x kumaliza ubale wathu unq ndimamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse koma pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimandipangitsa kuganiza motere ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndili bwino, koma ndimakonda kuti mwana wanga wamwamuna / wamkazi adabadwira m'malo odzala ndi chikondi komanso kukayika kapena kupweteka. Ndikudziwa kuti amandikonda koma sindikudziwa zomwe amaganiza kuti kupatukana kumamupweteka kwambiri koma ndiyenera kuganizira za mwana kuyambira pano. Sindikudziwa ngati ndili bwino kapena ingofunsani Mulungu kuti afotokozere malingaliro anga kapena a ...
Onani, ngati mumakondanadi monga mukunena kuti ndizosavuta monga kuyankhulana, kufotokoza mavutowo ndikufika pamgwirizano wowathetsa, kupeza yankho limodzi. Ngati amakukondani ndipo mumamukonda, pali zoyesayesa za mwana wanu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kwa anthu awiri kuti wina achitire wina zoipa, zikuwonekeratu kuti kupatukana ndichinthu choyenera kuchita. Koma pamavuto osiyanasiyana, tiyenera kulankhula ndi kupeza mayankho, ngati pali chikondi. Mwanjira zonse. Mumasankha mukakhala bata, ozizira, munthawi yachisokonezo pakati pazisokonezo zambiri. Chilimbikitso chochuluka !!! Mulungu akudalitseni!!!:)
Moni nonse !!!
Nditayamba ndi mnzanga, anali dzuwa, anali munthu wabwino kwambiri, sanali wofanana ndipo sali wofanana, ndipo sali wofanana.munthu uja k wakhala. Ndidamupempha kwakanthawi chifukwa salinso ya munthu k lokamente ndimayamba kukondana nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndimakonda zinthu zochepa za iye.ati akuti asintha koma chowonadi sichitsimikiza kwenikweni za icho ndipo mu 1 imeneyo miyezi tayankhula za izi Nkhani idanenedwa kale, ndimati ndisinthe ndipo sindinazichite, ndikumva kuti ndine womangirizidwa naye mwanjira ina, koma sindikudziwa ngati zingakhale bwino kukhala pampando chifukwa, amayi asintha ndikufuna ndikhulupirire koma izi kwakanthawi ndipo ndili makilomita 8 kuchokera mphuno ngati zigwira ntchito ndipo kambia yake sindingathe kuigula kapena kudziwa ngati ndi zoona, thandizani k hagi?
Ngati mumakondanadi, ingolankhulani moona mtima popanda kuwala kapena mthunzi. Mwanjira imeneyi zinthu zakonzedwa, kwa mwana wanu wamwamuna mutha kukonza zonse. Ingoyikani khama, kudzipereka ndikupereka muzinthu zonse ziwiri. Nenani kuti ichi ndiye chinthu chofunikira ndikuyesera kupeza yankho, musanataye zonse. Uku ndiye kuyesetsa kwenikweni, kumenyera ubale wanu (onse) kwa inu ndi mwanayo, ngati mumakondana ndikuchita khama, mudzakwanitsa. Mwetulirani! 🙂
Khalani owona mtima ndipo ndizo zonse, ndipo ngati mungadule, pitilizani kulumikizana pang'ono, mwina chiyembekezo chakutayikani chidzasintha, ndipo ngati sichoncho, chabwino, sindikudziwa, mwina ndibwino kutenga njira zosiyanasiyana m'njira yotukuka. Mwetulirani! 🙂
Moni KWA ALIYENSE
osati kwa ine sikuli bwino kupempha kanthawi chifukwa nthawi samabwerako ndipo imapangitsa maanja kukhala ozizira….
Ndidawerenga nkhaniyi mosamala, ngati ndifunsa banjali nthawi yovuta.
Ndakhala ndikukumana ndi zovuta kwa sabata limodzi kapena apo, ndipo ndi iye yemwe mwa njira yokongola (ndipo ndikuganiza kuti sanamvetsetse za izi) adandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi, popeza adatopa, ndipo tinkangokhalira kukangana ndi zina zotero .
Kwa ine, ndiwodzikonda kwambiri, ndipo sindinathe kusintha chilichonse pazaka 4 zomwe ndakhala ndikukhala naye, sindikuyembekeza kuti ndizisintha chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti palibe amene angasinthidwe koma atha kusintha.
Tsiku lina ndinatenga zinthu zanga ndipo ndinaganiza zopita, masana nkhawa zonse ndinabwerera, chifukwa sindikukhulupirira kuti mtunda ungathetse mavutowo, mavuto ayenera kuthetsedwa ndi banjali, iyi ndi nkhani ya awiri, komanso ngati yathetsedwa ndipo imamupangitsa kukhala ndi chidwi, ndikutsimikiza kuti imalimbikitsa banjali kwambiri, ndipo imawachitira zabwino zambiri.
Chifukwa chake lingaliro langa ndiloti nthawi yomwe banjali lili yolephera, chifukwa monga akunenera nkhaniyi, ndi nthawi yakufa, zovuta ziyenera kuthetsedwa limodzi, kuyika chipiriro chambiri, komanso kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti tithe kutuluka izo.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndi zabwino, ndikufunsani kanthawi kochepa kwa ine anali masiku 7 okha ndipo ndikuwona kuti zotsatira zake ndi zabwino popeza ndidaphunzira kuyamikira manja anu osiyanasiyana ndikuti adakhala ofunika pamoyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku, Chowonadi ndichakuti ndidaphunzira kuyiyamikira.Iwe waiwala tsopano nditha kukhala wachisangalalo komanso kutchera khutu chimodzimodzi ku mbali yanu mfundo yomaliza ndiyoti ngati mumakondanadi zinthu sizisintha ngakhale patangotha miyezi 6 kulekana 😀 mwayi umathandizadi
Wawa! Ndili ndi nkhawa pang'ono ndipo ndikufuna kudziwa ngati mnzanga ndi ine timapanga chisankho chabwino.
Takhala limodzi miyezi 9, m'miyezi 9 iyi ndalakwitsa, ndinamunamiza koma sindinamunamizirepo ndi munthu wina.
Posachedwa adandiuza zoona zake. Zinapangidwa ndipo zidandipweteka kwambiri.
Koma popeza ndikudziwa kuti ndamukhumudwitsa kangapo, sindingathe kumuimba mlandu ngakhale kamodzi kuti wandikhumudwitsa.
Kwenikweni ubale wathu tsopano ndiwosokonekera, ngati timakondana, koma kuyambira 1 mpaka 10 wagwa 7 kapena 8.
Chifukwa chake tidaganiza zodzipatsa 1 sabata nthawi! kusanthula bwino zinthu.
Tilibe malingaliro oti timalize, chifukwa ngati pali chikondi, koma ngati sitipempha nthawi ya sabata limodzi! zidzakhala bwino?
Zikomo!
Pomwe pali chikondi ndi malingaliro abwino, vuto lililonse limathetsedwa. Ndikosavuta kumvetsetsa ndikukhululuka.
Mkazi akapempha nthawi kapena "danga", ndibwino kuti mumukwatire ku NASA, popeza amafunitsitsadi nthawi yoti atipeze m'malo mwathu, kapena ali nayo kale ndipo akuyerekezera.
Moni, chabwino, ndakhala ndikukhala ndi mnzanga kwa zaka 10 - kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 15 - momwe tidathera ndipo tidabwerera chimodzimodzi motsatizana. Mpaka pomwe ndidatopa ndi zomwe zidachitika ndipo ndidamupempha kuti atipatse nthawi - sitinapilirane wina ndi mnzake, tidalimbana pazonse ndipo palibe- miyezi iwiri yadutsa, nthawi imeneyo yandithandiza kulingalira momwe zinthu zilili ndipo ndatsimikiza mtima kuti ndisabwerere ndi iye, Ndimaganiziranso ndipo ndidzachita moyo wanga. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 2, nzosadabwitsa kuti ndidakumana naye pazinthu zokongola kuti mwina sindidzakhalanso ndi wina aliyense - anali chikondi changa choyamba - koma tidapweteka kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake ndimawona kuti kutenga nthawi siyabwino kwambiri, koma ndikutulutsa zovala zoyipa ndikuzichapa 🙂
moni nyengo ndikuganiza kuti ndikuiwaliratu ndinali ndi chaka chimodzi chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi 1 ubalewu udayamba chinthu chachilendo iye ndi wamkulu kuposa ine amanditenga ndi (5 wazaka) ndili ndi zaka 17 ndi 21 koma zaka zakubadwa sinditero sasamala zomwe Chinthu chokha chomwe chinali chofunikira kwa ine ndi chikondi chomwe ndili nacho kwa iye
Poyambirira tidakhala ndikukhala koma ndidakhulupirira china chake ndipo winayo ndimakhulupirira kuti ndife chibwenzi ndipo adangokhala munthu m'modzi yemwe adatsalira ndipamenepo mpaka tsiku lina titalankhula ndipo ndidamuuza kuti malingaliro anga akula kale ndipo anandiuza kuti anali wake Osati kuti panthawiyo sindinkafuna chibwenzi ndipo palibe, koma nthawi zonse tikamakambirana za nkhaniyi, amabwera kudzatitsimikizira kuti timapatsana mpata ndipo adagwera pempho langa kuti titatenga miyezi 8 kapena china, anandiuza kuti amandikonda kale ndikuti Tiyeni titenge izi pang'onopang'ono, koma zomwe zidatichitikira, nthawi zonse ndi kusakhulupirira kwake komanso kusatetezeka, zimatha ndipo nthawi zonse ngati «NDIMAKUKONDA KOMA ZIMANDIWONEKA» « NDIMAKUKONDA KOMA SITINGAPITILIRE »ndipo izi zidandipangitsa kuti ndisamve bwino ndipo ndidayang'ana mutu womwe umandisewera ndipo tchuthi changa chidabwera ndikupita kudziko langa chifukwa mpaka pomwepo pali kusiyana, ndi waku Spain ndi Latin koma Hei
Ndinapita kutchuthi ndipo anandiimbira foni koma tsiku lina anandiimbira foni ndipo ndinadzimva wokhumudwa chifukwa chobwerera posiyana ndi banja langa ndipo ndinaziuza kuti ngati ndikuchita, sindinakhale pamenepo ndikukhala moyo wanga kumeneko dziko ndipo ndidaziwona zolakwika Chifukwa sindinathe kuchita ndi munthu amene ndimamukonda komanso amene ndimamukonda, izi zidachitika
Ndabwerako kutchuthi kwanga ndipo patadutsa milungu itatu ndidadziuza ndekha zomwe ndazindikira kale kuti zonse zasintha kuti ali bwino yekha komanso kuti sakufuna kumenya x koma bwino, popeza nthawi zonse timayankhula kuti ngati titati nkhondo
Tinapitilizabe kukulitsa izi ngati miyezi iwiri ina kufikira atakhumudwa ndipo ndidadziuza kuti sakufuna kudziwa chilichonse chokhudza ine chomwe chitha kundipha koma zomwe adandiuza sindimaganiza kuti ndimavotera pakamwa pake poizoni
Mpaka sabata zitatu zidadutsa tinkacheza koma ayi sitinawone ndipo zosintha zonse zinali zachilendo kwambiri, adazindikira kuti amandikondadi ndipo tidabwerera koma ndidamuuza kuti atipatse nthawi
ayi, osationa, ngati panali zambiri zotsalira zoti tichite, ndinazindikira ngati zinali chimodzimodzi kale, ndikudikirira kuyimba kwake, ndikufuna kumuwona, koma adawona zodabwitsa zonse ndipo sanazione zabwinobwino ndipo amaganiza zoipa mpaka adatenga foni yanga, ndikudziwa ndipo adakumana ndi a
Vuto langa ndidakumana ndi mnyamata wina x kudzera macheza koma mzanga chabe, wopanda bedi ndipo palibe chomwecho ndipo mnyamatayo adanditumizira uthenga «NDIKUYEMBEKEZA KUTI MUKUPITA NDIKUMAKUMANI KUTI MUZISamala ZA WAPA»
Ndipo adapanga kanema ndipo adakhala ndi ine kwa milungu ina iwiri kufikira nditadziuza ndekha zomwe adachita, koma sizanga.
Ndimakhazikika ndikulimba mtima kuti ndidatayika kwa ine koma zidakhala zoyipa x koma ndili ndi chikumbumtima choyera kuti sindimulephera pakama kapena china chilichonse chonga icho koma ali ndi wake
Tsopano tazisiyira ine, zimandipweteka kwambiri ngakhale ndimamukonda komanso chifukwa sitinakumanepo zoyipa kapena kumenya chilichonse, ndinu banja losangalala ndikuti pali chikondi koma akuti nthawi yomwe timamupatsa ndikuganiza kuti ndi bambo osatetezeka komanso ine mkazi wotsimikiza zomwe ndikufuna ngakhale ndili ndi zaka zambiri
ndipo akuti tiyeni tipitirire koma sindingathe kuyima mtunda umenewo koma Hei ndikufuna ndipo ndicho chinthu chokha chomwe ndingakokere patsogolo
Ndikudziwa kuti ndiwokakamira ndipo apita kuti azikhala yekha sadzandifunafuna ngati amandikonda koma ndikhalabe ndi anga komanso momwe ndimamukondera ndipo sakufuna kuti ndizimukondadi
Nkhani yanga imathera apa
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Monga, choyamba mupita kachitidwe ka spelling kenako mumayamba kulemba nkhani yanu. Kapena kuwawa kukupangitsani kuti musakhale ndi lingaliro lolemba molondola….
Mnyamatayo ayenera kukula ndipo posachedwa apo ayi adzasiyidwa yekha. Auzeni momveka bwino: ngati mumakonda munthu mumamukonda ndipo ngati ayi, simumukonda. Akakhala ngati mwana ndi vuto lake. Kulimba mtima kwambiri ndipo ngati simukufuna mwayi wina kubwera, chilichonse ndichotheka. 🙂
Mukapempha kanthawi, ndichifukwa choti mukufuna kudziwa ngati mnzanu ali mkati mwake ... pakapita nthawi mutha kuwona moyenera zomwe zimachitika pakati pa awiriwa, mumaphunzira kuwona zolakwitsa zomwe timapanga , koma ngakhale tikufuna, sitidziwa zomwe zimachitikira munthu wina, makamaka ngati munthuyo ndi wozizira pang'ono ndipo ndikunena ngati zokumana nazo, ndakhala okwatirana chaka chimodzi, takhala ndi mavuto angapo koma tathetsa, tonse ndife okhulupirika kwambiri ndipo ndimamukonda. Posachedwa patchuthi takhala titapita miyezi itatu kuchokera pomwe amakhala mumzinda wina, mwezi woyamba wakutali adasinthiratu mtima ... ndidamutumiza kwa anyani mwachangu, koma pamenepo zidathetsedwa titakumana ... wachiwiri mwezi adayamba kugwira ntchito ndipo tikamayankhula, adatenga nthawi yayitali kuti ayankhe, choncho ndidayamba kumunyalanyaza, mpaka titawonananso ndipo zinthu zonse zoyipa zidasowa, tsopano, mwezi wachitatu tchuthi, ndimunyalanyaza ndipo amatero ... sabata yamawa ndidzamuwonanso, ngakhale ndikuganiza kuti izi zakhazikika kotero kuti ... sindikufunanso kupitiriza ndi munthu wonga ameneyo ... wozizira, wosasewera pang'ono, wopanda chifundo, Osakhala ochezeka komanso chowonadi cha zinthu ndichakuti, ngakhale ndimamukonda ndi zonse zomwe zili mumtima mwanga, pali zinthu zomwe sizingaloledwe ndipo pali anthu omwe sangakutsegulireni mitima yawo ngakhale atakhala pachibwenzi kwa chaka ...
NTHAWI imagwira ntchito kuti timvetsetse bwino zinthu, koma nthawi zambiri, ngakhale sitidziwa momwe mnzake akumvera ndi ubalewo; nthawi ndi mantha chabe posafuna kuthetsa china chake chomwe chimangoipiraipira. KUMALIZA ndikusiya zomwe zamangidwa, ndikusiya kuyenda limodzi ndikutenga njira yokha, yomwe nthawi zina imakhala yovuta kwambiri, koma nthawi zina umayenera kuyika dzanja lako pamtima ndipo tiyenera kudzifunsa, kuchita tikufunadi kumaliza? Kodi tikufuna kutha chifukwa izi zilibe yankho? Nanga bwanji ngati vuto lili ndi yankho? Kodi ndine wodzikonda mokwanira kuti ndikhale wopanda chowiringula chomwe chimandilemera ine? Ngati chibwenzicho sichikufanana, ndichifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kudikira kuti winayo achite kena kake kuti ndisinthe, ngati ndingathe kutero? ndipo ngati mumuyang'ana m'diso ndikunena nokha kuti "Ndimamukonda ndipo pali yankho» ndichifukwa muyenera kuyesetsa kuti musamalize kapena kufunsa kwakanthawi, m'malo mwake mukayang'ana ndikunena "Ine sindikufunanso kuyika pachiwopsezo »ndichifukwa chowonadi kuti simungathe kuchita zambiri ndipo muyenera kusankha pakati pa nthawi yomwe ingathe kuchiritsa kapena kupha ubalewo kapena kuthetsa ubale womwe ungakhale kwamuyaya momwe mwina sungachitire ...
Ndimamukonda bwenzi langa, koma amayi anga ngati kuti sanavomereze, popeza pano ali kuntchito amazitenga zoyipa, amandilanga, amalankhula zoyipa kwa mnzanga, amamuyang'ana monyansidwa, koma ali adachita bwino ndi Iye sanamuchitirepo chilichonse choyipa, koma ndi woyipa naye, sindikudziwa choti ndichite ndi izi, sindikudziwa ngati ndiyenera kupatula nthawi yocheza ndi iye.kapena ine sindikudziwa, sindikudziwa zomwe ndingachite !!!!
Izi zikuchitika kwa ine ndipo zimakhala zowopsa nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti ndibwino kuthetsa zonse chifukwa ndimawona kuti ndayamba kumuda chifukwa chokhala chonchi komanso akupangitsa kuti ndichoke kwa iye ndikumufunsa zomwe ali nazo ndipo akuti kuti palibe chomwe chili bwino koma ndikudziwa kuti sizili choncho, ndikuganiza kuti ngati tipitiliza chonchi, timaliza motsimikiza ndipo pakadali pano ndikukonzekera izi chifukwa ndimaona kuti ndidachita zonse koma palibe chomwe chimagwira, zidzakhala kuti Mapeto a zonsezi abwera, ndimangopempha Mulungu kuti andipatse mphamvu chifukwa sindingakakamize wina kuti akhale nane ngati simukufuna
Zomwezi zimandichitikiranso.nthawi zonse ndikafuna kulankhula naye amandiuza kuti alibe chilichonse chomwe palibe chimachitika.Ndimayesetsa kukhala chabe koma mfundo imabwera ndikataya mtima ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndingathe kupitiriza kupirira izi. Ndidamupempha kuti andipatse nthawi koma Akufuna kundiwona ndipo ndidamuuza kuti zili bwino koma mawa ndikulandira.Koma nditawerenga milandu yonse ya maubale yomwe idasokonekera panthawi yomwe yapemphedwa ... zimandipatsa mantha. Sindikupempha kuti ndipite naye limodzi nthawi zonse Kusintha kwa banjali. Kumene timakumana ndikukhala limodzi limodzi ndi malo apadera kwambiri omwe amafunsa chilichonse kuti chichitike pakati pa iye ndi ine. Ndipo ngati zomwe ndikufuna zimachitika koma nthawi yomweyo ndimaopa kuti sindibwerera, ndingotsogoleredwa ndi zomwezo ...
Moni. Chibwenzi changa chakale ndi ine tili ankhondo. Chowonadi ndichakuti, pakalibe mwezi wokwatiwa (anali kupita ku Afghanistan), ndipo mkati mwa zolemba zonse ndi zina zotero, kumapeto kwa sabata imodzi amalumikizana ndikusiya kucheza ndi anzawo akundiuza kuti adathedwa nzeru, ndimafuna nthawi ... chabwino, zinali ngati masiku 10 akundipatsa nthawi yayitali, ndikuponya ndodo, ndikudutsa, kenako adandiimbira ... pokonzekera ndikukusiyani koma sindikulolani kuti mupite. Tsiku lina ndidasamukira mumzinda womwe amakhala, ndipo ndizodabwitsa kuti ndidamugwira mwangozi ndi munthu wina ... chabwino, zidangotha chifukwa ndidazindikira kuti "Ndikufuna kanthawi" zinali zotsatira za mawonekedwe a munthu ameneyo .... chabwino, ndiye ndimayesetsa kukhalabe muubwenzi ndi kumanja, ndipo ndidamchotsera mawuwo, sindimafuna kudziwa za iye,…. ndipo pomwepo padayamba zovuta, monga zidachitikira pa Olimpiki ya iye, mayimbidwe ake, maimelo, mthenga ... chabwino adayamba kucheza nane, adandiuza kuti samandikonda, amandinyoza, kuti andisiye zoipa ndi abwenzi ofanana ... kwathunthu, nditatha miyezi 8 osadziwa za iye, ndinali ndi nthawi yovuta koma kunyada kwanga sikunasinthe, kunanditengera ndalama koma ndinamanganso moyo wanga ndi mtsikana wina yemwe alibe chochita nawo .. chabwino, tsiku lina anayamba kundilankhula pa messenger, tinangoti moni, muli bwanji, banja, ntchito ndipo ndi zomwezo, sipadzakhalanso…. mwezi wapitawo, adayamba kundilankhulira, yemweyo… muli bwanji, gwirani ntchito, mwana wanu…. ndi zaass !!! akuti "Ndiyenera kuvomereza kanthu kena kwa iwe" ... osandiwona nkhope yanga !!!!!!! kulingalira…. Pepani Dani, ndinakwiyitsa, ndinalakwitsa, ndiwe munthu wabwino, palibe amene amanditenga ngati iwe, ndalingalira zambiri za iwe ……. nditatha kukambirana kangapo ndimapeza masiku omwe ubale wake ndi munthu amene amandinyengawo utatha…. ndi kukoka! tsopano mukundikumbukira ??? Chabwino, sizikhala choncho, msungwana…. mudakhumudwa kwambiri, wabodza, bwenzi loyipa…. ndipo sindidzakulolani kuti mulowe muubwenzi wanga…. Momwe ndimakukonderani komanso kukukondani, ndazindikira kuti izi zidafa mukandilola kuti ndiyang'ane nanu "sindikukondani" ndipo simunapereke vuto kuti ndidagwada ndikulira ndikudabwa zomwe ndinali nazo mwachita kuti muyenera kuchokera kwa inu…. munali ankhanza !!! tsopano lira zomwe ndinalirira iwe pokumbatira mtsamiro wako, ndi misempha yamatumbo yako kuyembekezera kuitana kwanga… ..
Chilichonse chimabwera, ngati simulakwa, chilichonse chimalipidwa ... ndili nacho koposa kutsimikizira ... ndipo wataya zomwe bwenzi langa lapeza .... chabwino, choyipa kwa iye…. !!!
Mlandu wanga ndi wovuta kwambiri chowonadi. Chibwenzi changa ndimakhala pachibwenzi chapakati (300km), timakonda kuwonana masiku aliwonse 15 kumapeto kwa sabata (Loweruka ndi Lamlungu) ngakhale nthawi zina, amabwera kumapeto kwa sabata awiri motsatizana. Vuto ndiloti amakhala ndi nkhawa. Tsiku lina Pasitala asanafike, ndinalota chinthu chowopsa ndipo ndinamuuza, ndinamuuza kuti ndimalota akundiuza kuti sakundikondanso. Sindikudziwa ngati akuchokapo komanso chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe anali nazo pantchito zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa (zomwe anali nazo poyamba) chifukwa adayamba kudzikanda kuchokera ku malotowo. Nthawi ya Isitala tidakhala limodzi masiku anayi (ndidapita mtawuni yapafupi ndi yake) ndipo zonse zomwe ndikuganiza zinali zabwino. Nthawi idapita, adabwera kudzandiona ndipo samatha kudziletsa kulira, adandiuza kuti anali woyipa kwambiri pantchitoyo kuti sangathenso kupita nayo ndipo akufuna kuchoka mwachangu koma kuti sindinathe ...... ndiye ndinakwanitsa kuti amve bwino kapena anati. Sabata itatha, Lachinayi sabata yotsatira adandiuza kuti akuyenera kundiuza china chake chomwe chikumudya mkati mwake ndikuti akukayikira momwe amandimvera, koma samamvetsa. Mapeto ake, tidakwanitsa kusiya chinthucho mochulukira. Tsiku lotsatira adabwera kudzandiwona, nthawi iyi kwa masiku atatu (Lachisanu, Loweruka ndi Lamlungu) chifukwa tonsefe tidali ndi Lachisanu. Tsiku loyamba chinthucho chinali chachilendo pamagazini yomweyi komanso ndi mapiritsi ake ananena kuti amamusiya ali wodabwitsika ndipo chowonadi nthawi zonse chimakhala chogona. Loweruka tidapita kukacheza kumeneko, nthawi zina amadzimva kuti ndiwewe, amandiuza kuti akupeza nkhawa, titafika kunyumba komwe amakhala nthawi iliyonse akabwera kudzandiwona choyipa kwambiri, adandiuzanso kuti adamva kuti sizofanana, kuti samamvanso chimodzimodzi akamandipsompsona kapena akandigwira ... ndikuti adamva kuwawa chifukwa amandikonda ndipo sizingachitike. Ndinamuuza kuti ayenera kukhala nkhawa ndipo sindimafuna kukhulupirira kuti zomwe amandiuza zinali zenizeni. Atandiperekeza kunyumba kwanga kuti tikasanzike, adandiuza kuti amaopa kundipsompsona kuti mwina samvanso chimodzimodzi, ndidamupsompsona kenako ndidamufunsa ndipo adati inde adatero. Tonsefe tinalira kwambiri ... ndipo Lamlungu tinawonananso, zinthu zinali bwino koma osati kwathunthu, ndinazindikira ngati kuti wazindikira kuti amandikonda ndipo amamva choncho chifukwa cha nkhawa. Koma polankhula za izi sabata ino (chifukwa izi zidachitika sabata yatha) zonse zikuipiraipira, amakayikira zowonjezereka, akuti nthawi zina amamva kuti amandikonda, ena pomwe satero, ena amandisowa, ena satero. .. .. Ndipo akuganiza moipa kwambiri popeza alibe chilichonse kuti ali yekha kuti zonse zikumusokonekera… .Ndanena kale kuti akukhala woipa kwambiri ndipo zimandiwopsyeza kuganiza kuti alowanso vuto (chifukwa zidachitika kale ndi awiri). Akupita kwa wama psychologist, pakadali pano wapita magawo awiri ndipo sindikuwona kuti zamuthandiza kwambiri. Popeza izi zidachitika kumapeto kwa sabata, timalankhula pafoni tsiku lililonse, ndipo tsiku lililonse amalira, ndakhala ndikumamuthandiza nthawi zonse, ngakhale izi zimapweteka, sindinakonzekere kumusiya ndekha, koma lero, mphindi yokha , adandiuza kuti amafuna nthawi, kuti zonse zomwe amaganiza zimamupangitsa misala ndipo amafunikira kudziwa zomwe akumva ... ..ndidamuuza zomwe akufuna. Kuda nkhawa komanso kutengera momwe alili, sindikuwona kuti zikhala kanthawi kochepa ... ndipo ndikuwona kuti tikhala milungu, miyezi ... kudziwa zochuluka osadziwa za iye ndi chowonadi zomwe zikundipha mkati. Tangokhala pachibwenzi kwa miyezi iwiri, pafupifupi 2, ndipo zonse mpaka pano zakhala zosangalatsa, iyemwini amandiuza kuti ndisakhumudwe kapena kudzimva wokayikira chifukwa ndakhala wabwino ndipo sakufuna kunditaya, kuti iye sakufunanso kuti amusiye, koma akufuna kuti atenge nthawi…. Chifukwa amulemekeza chifukwa cha zonse, koma sindimamulemetsa, chifukwa ndi yekhayo amene ali ndi malingaliro ake omwe akumulemekeza… chabwino, sindikudziwa zoyenera kuchita .... Ndikufuna zambiri kuti ndiyankhule ndi anthu omwe adutsa izi (mbali zonse, kukhala amene amadwala nkhawa kapena kukhala munthu amene ali pafupi naye). Zikomo inu.
Mlandu wanga ndi wosowa, bwenzi langa nthawi zonse amakhala pambali panga (osati mwakuthupi, tili 150 km kapena apo) ndikuti, ziwerengero zimabwera kudzandiona, amakhala pamwamba panga nthawi zonse, adakwiya ngakhale titalephera kuyankhula, koma anali nazo ndipo ali ndi mavuto ambiri (banja, kuphunzira, abwenzi ... chilichonse) zomwe sakudziwa choti achite ndi moyo wake, kuti sakudziwa zomwe akumva koma kuti amandikonda, kuti amachita osafuna kunditaya, sitilankhula kwa mwezi umodzi kapena apo, ndipo sitinakhaleko kwakanthawi.
osakwana mwezi, mulimonse. Ndasankha kumukhulupirira, chifukwa ndimamukonda ngakhale akundipweteka. Mwina tsiku lina adzandisiya, koma ndidzakhalapo mpaka kumapeto chifukwa ndimamukonda ndipo ndikufuna kukhala naye, sindinakhalepo ndi chonga ichi, changwiro komanso nthawi yomweyo ndimavuto ambiri, ndimakonda iye mwamisala ndipo ndikuganiza kuti amandikondanso. Ngati zinthu zili choncho ndi inu, dikirani. Kuda nkhawa kumatha kukhala kwamagazi koma kumangofunika kumvetsetsa. Zachidziwikire, nditha kulumikizana nanu, zikhale zocheperako kapena zochepa. Ngakhale zitakhala kuti mwina iye amadziwa kuti mumamuthandiza pakudwala kwake, kuti adziwa kuti sangakutayireni, izi zimukhazika mtima pansi. Kulimbika, chikondi nthawi zina chimayika zolemetsa izi pamsana pathu, koma zimatipangitsa kukhala olimba ndipo ngati awiriwo apulumuka ndizolimbanso. Kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana ndi chilimbikitso chochuluka !!!! 🙂
Moni nonse!!
Ndidawerenga positi yanu, pankhaniyi. Ndipo zabwino! Inenso ndili pamavuto awa!
Sindinaganizepo za nthawi ino, chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti imakulitsa ubalewo ndipo imawulepheretsa.
Kodi mungaganizire funso lamatsenga loyambitsa chibwenzi ndikukhala ndi yankho pakapita kanthawi?
Siziika kapena sizomwe ndinganene.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndi njira yamantha kwambiri osakumana ndi vutoli ndikunena poyera. SUMANDISANGALATSA! Alipo kale wina m'moyo wanga kapena simunditumikira.
Chowonadi ndichakuti izi zandilowetsa mu chisoni chachikulu ndikukhumudwitsidwa chifukwa cha yemwe ndimaganiza kuti ndi ameneyo.
Tonse tidayika gawo lathu (ine mwachiwonekere kwambiri) koma, sindimamulola kuti akhale ndi lingaliro kwa ine, monga momwe amachitira.
Ngakhale moyo wopitilira umamveka wamba: maphunziro, ntchito, thanzi, banja, ndi zina zambiri.
Monga ndidawerengapo: Nthawi zina anthu amatidutsa
Ndipo inali nthawi yanga.
Ndangokhumudwitsidwa kwambiri.
Moni kwa onse ndi chisangalalo.
Moni, vuto langa ndiloti bwenzi langa lidandifunsa nthawi ndipo ndidamuwuza kuti ngati sakudziwa zomwe akumva kwa ine, ndipo adandiuza kuti akudziwa zomwe akumva kwa ine kuti amandikonda kwambiri koma ndimafunikira Kukhala ndekha kwakanthawi ndipo Chabwino, ndidamuuza kuti ali bwino ndipo patadutsa sabata adanditumizira foni yam'manja ndikundiuza kuti amandikonda komanso kuti ndi nthawi yoti sindingade nkhawa kuti mumukhulupirire ndipo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse amanditumizira mameseji koma kuti pouma kwambiri, chabwino amangondipatsana moni, muli bwanji? Ndipo ndichifukwa chake ndimati mwauma kwambiri. Mukuganiza kuti ngati nthawi yomwe mukufuna ndi yabwino, chonde Ndiyankheni.
Moni amuna anga andifunsa kwakanthawi kuti tithe kufotokozera kukayika kwina paubwenzi wathu tili ndi ana awiri koma popeza adabadwa ubale sunafikenso nthawi yonse yomwe iwo ali ndipo timafika titatopa ndi ntchito tili nonse wasintha kwambiri tsopano amandifunsa Izi chifukwa watopa ndi chizolowezi komanso kuti sakundikondanso monga kale chifukwa chamakambirano ambiri omwe tidakhala nawo chifukwa cha izi, sindikudziwa choti ndichite ndidamuuza kuti zili bwino koma sindikuopa kuti sangadzachitenso zomwezo, Akupita kunyumba kwa amayi ake kotero sindikudziwa choti ndikuganiza kuti ndili wachisoni komanso wosokonezeka kuti mundithandize
Lolani kuti masiku 10 adutse osamuwona, ingowayankhirani mayada ngati mungafune kudziwa za moyo wa ana anu. Usiku wa tsiku la khumi ndi chimodzi, mumuyitanireni kumalo komwe akhala akumukonda kapena mumuyitane ku malo osiyana kapena okonda zachiwerewere kapena achikondi… .Zonse zomwe mungamve kuti amakonda popeza ndi amuna, mukudziwa zina zomwe amakonda, mutha kumamuyitanira kumalo osadziwika nonse komanso akangomva ngati kale Kusangalala ndi nthawi yomwe amakukumbatirani ndi mphamvu ndipo safuna kukusiyani ndipo muchita chikondi ngati chopenga kapena kukutsutsani kapena mungakhale achifundo komanso omvetsetsa ndi mkazi wake kuposa inu.Musalole kuti athetse mavutowo chifukwa mwamuna ndi mkazi konse, konse !!!!!!!!!!! Amatha kugona atakwiya asanatseke maso awo apange chikondi ndipo sizingakhale zovuta ngati akhala akumenya nkhondo nthawi zonse, mumusangalatse usiku uliwonse ndipo muwona kusiyana kwake.
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwa chaka chimodzi ndipo ngakhale tili osiyana mikhalidwe komanso umunthu, ndimamukonda kwambiri ... Pakadali pano ali ndi nkhawa pazomaliza maphunziro ake ndipo ali muma internship .. pa Disembala ali ndi zambiri molondola ndipo amamva ngakhale kuchokera kwa ine…. Chowonadi ndichakuti sindikumva kuti ndikuyamikira chifukwa sindine wamtunduwu m'malo mwake ndipo ndidamvetsetsa ... koma tsopano andifunsa kwakanthawi ndipo amandiuza kuti akukayika ngati ndipitiliza kapena ayi .... Chifukwa chake sindimachita mantha chifukwa sindikufuna kuti chibwenzicho chikhale akb… nditani ???
Eske io ndili ndi buku koma ndimaona kuti siligwira ntchito koma ndikufuna, muxo ndikufuna ndikufunseni kwakanthawi
Moni, muli bwanji, chifukwa zikuchitika kwa ine pakadali pano, tili ndi ubale wabwino, tili ndiubwenzi wazaka 6 ndipo choyambirira, amandiuza kuti amafuna nthawi, yomwe akufuna, yomwe ndiyithetsa Mavuto anga, chomwe chimachitika ndikuti ndili ndi Nsanje kwambiri koma nkhumba chifukwa ndimaopa kumutaya tsiku lililonse ndiyeno mkangano wake udakhala kc watopa ndi ine komanso momwe zinthu ziliri …… .yk keri k munthu aliyense athana ndi mavuto ake madipozi akonza za awiriwo, epro ndikuganiza kuti mavuto akonzedwa mu banja ayi? Koma choyipitsitsa ndikuti ndidamuuza kuti ndichoka kwa iye kwamuyaya ndikuti ndimusiya ndekha, kwa ine, nthawiyo sinagwire ndipo ndichokapo, osati kuti iye satero, kuti angandisunthire kwina, mwachidule, izi zinali za chibwenzi. Zikhala bwino koma ndizopanda nzeru, sichoncho? nthawi ndichinthu chopusa ndikosavuta ngati kufuna kukhala ndi munthuyo palibe njira zoyambirira zachikondi
Ndikudziwa kuti ndine mwana, ndikungofika msinkhu ndipo modzipereka ndidakondana ndi msungwana wokongola… .koma takhala ndi mavuto ngati paraja… .ndipo pakadali pano taganiza zodzipatsa nthawi… ..pathu .... galu vuto loti Ali ndi nthawi yake (kusonkhana pamodzi) ndipo ndili ndi nthawi yanga (kukhala ndekha ...) ndipo ndikufuna kudziwa kuti zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti tikhale patokha ... .. ..
Ndili pachibwenzi chovuta kwambiri.
Ndili ndi chibwenzi changa zaka 2 miyezi isanu. Koma takhala tikukulira kukulira.
Pali zikwapu, amandikwiyitsa ndikapanda kumumvera ndikamamenya (ndimachita zachinyengo, zowuma komanso zonyoza) ndipo akuti amandikwiyira CHIFUKWA CHIYANI NDISWA NJIRA IYI. ndikuti ndiyenera 🙁
Amandigwira mwamphamvu ndipo ndakhala ndikumumenya kuti andisiye kapena ayende. : Inde, sindinali choncho ... koma adayamba ndi machitidwe ofanana nawo ndipo amawalola kuti adutse. Ndimalola zonse kuti zidutse, amangofuna kupepesa ndikundipsompsona, kapena kunena kuti "tiiwale." Amandinena, ndimamumvera koma ndikayenera kuyankhula amandisokoneza (zomwe zimandipangitsa kuti ndikwiye kwambiri) ndipo ndimaphulika… .timakanyozana.
Ndi chisokonezo ... ndipo ndiwoumira kwambiri, akuti ndine wolakwa pazonse. Sindikudziwa chiyani.
Ndizosatheka kumaliza naye, sawalandira, osatipatsanso nthawi chifukwa kwa iye kuli ngati kumaliza motsimikiza. Ndimamukonda chifukwa amadziwa kukhala bwenzi labwino ... koma pamlingo, mbali yake yamdima imalemera kwambiri. u_u
Msungwana wanga adandifunsa kwakanthawi ndikumuuza kuti sindimpatsa chifukwa zonse kapena palibe, adandiuza kuti apitiliza nane koma ndikudziwa kuti samakhala bwino, tidapitiliza motere kwa masabata angapo koma chowonadi ndichakuti malingaliro ake ndidatopa ndikumuuza kuti atenge nthawi yake kuti akufuna kwambiri osabweranso ngati sizinali chifukwa ndinali wotsimikiza kuti amandikonda, usiku womwewo masiku 4 Ndidamutumizira uthenga ndipo adandiimbira foni, ndidamuwona ndipo adachita ngati palibe, ndidakumbukiranso nthawi zabwino muubwenzi wathu, ndidamuitanira tsiku lotsatira ndipo adalinso wopanda chidwi ndi ine tsopano sindikudziwa zomwe akufuna ndipo sindikudziwa ngati kuli bwino kumufunanso kapena ayi.Ndithandizeni chonde
Moni, ndadutsa mumkhalidwe womwe sindimalakalaka kwa wina aliyense, kwanthawi yayitali adabwera ndi lingaliro loti atenge kanthawi. mpaka nditamupatsa. Ndinavutika kwambiri ... posamvetsetsa chifukwa chake nthawiyo, popeza anati amandikonda koma amafuna nthawi. Nthawi ya ?? .... ndinayamba kumuda, chifukwa pomwe amandifunsa za nthawi imeneyo analira, ndipo sindinamvetse kalikonse.
Nthawi idapita, ndidayamba kumuda kwambiri. Anandiuza kuti ngati akufuna china chake chomuwuza kuti apitako ndipo akadzachifuna, kulibe. Chifukwa chake ndidaganiza zothetsa chibwenzicho. munthawi imeneyo zinthu zidachitika mmoyo wanga. kumene adadzaza chosowa chomwe chinali mkatimo, koma tsopano nthawi idadutsa sinali njira yodzakwanira chosowacho. Komabe, adabwerera ndipo ndimaganiza zobwerera, kumuwona zidandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndamusowa, ndipo adabweranso, kumayambiliro obwerera kwathu, sindinalole kuti ndimukonde momwe ndimamukondera . popeza ndimaopa kuti nthawiyo ichitikanso. koma uyenera kusiya zakale, ndikuyamba pomwepo. Mpaka posachedwa ndimamuuza kuti ndimaopa kuti zomwezi zichitike. Koma muyenera kusiya kuganizira zamtsogolo zosatsimikizika ndikukhala munthawi ino. Tsopano ndikumvanso chikondi chomwe ndinali nacho pa iye, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti chilichonse m'moyo chimadutsa china chake, chimatithandiza kukula ndikuphunzira.
mulimonse ngati angapewe nthawiyo zingakhale bwino. popeza mabala amakhalabe ndipo nkovuta kuwachiritsa. kapena zidanditengera. Koma akhoza.
mphamvu zambiri !!! kwa iwo omwe akukumana ndi zovuta izi.
positi yanu imatipangitsa tonse omwe tikukhala pamawu amawu achisoni kukhala ndi chiyembekezo "tiyeni titenge nthawi"
zikomo pogawana
Kulekana kunatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji ... Izi zitengera ngati zili zabwino kapena ayi
Gracias
Anasiyana naye mpaka liti? Zimandichitikira ksi chimodzimodzi ndi iwe ndi ine timafa. Patatha miyezi 33 tili limodzi, izi zidamuvuta chifukwa makolo anga sanatipatse ngongole ndipo timayenera kubisirana. Dec q mkiere ndipo amakonda pro kuti izi zidamutopetsa ndipo hsta dec q ksar ndi ine tinkakhala naye pro now dic q akuwopa. Ndine wamkulu zaka 6 kuposa iye. koma NDIMAKONDA kwambiri ndipo ndikunena kuti ndikanakonda kumva chimodzimodzi, koma imafuna nthawi. Ndikuyembekeza yankho lanu. -Mulungu t bndiga-
Moni, ndikumva kusokonezeka kwabasi.Ndakhala pachibwenzi zaka ziwiri tili pachibwenzi, sitikhala limodzi koma ngati tionana kumapeto kwa sabata iliyonse, ubale udayamba ndi abwenzi olimba mtima kwambiri mpaka kudziwa zinthu zonse kuti sungaganize zouza mnzako Monga ndikudziwira zinthu zambiri za iye, zomwe takhala ndi mavuto angapo chifukwa chakukhulupirirana, zomwe timaganiza kuti zidagonjetsedwa kale koma tsiku lina ndidapereka zakumwa ndipo tidamaliza kuchitirana wina ndi mnzake moyipa, musalole kuti chibwenzicho chithere kuwopa kumutaya tidayankhula ndipo Tidaganiza kuti tithana nawo koma kwakanthawi tsopano sitimamvetsetsana konse, timakangana pazonse, timayesetsa kulankhula koma sititero kufika pamgwirizano uliwonse, chowonadi ndichakuti ndi vuto la onse koma sindikudziwa momwe ndingathetsere nthawi zina ndimadzimva kuti ndakomoka ndipo ndimafuna kutha kapena sindidzamuwonananso koma ndikudziwa kuti ndimamukondadi ndipo sindinatero ' sindikufuna kuti chibwenzicho chithe molakwika kotero ndidamupempha kuti ndiganizire kaye, ndipo ndili nawo, ndikuganiza ndikumverera kuti ndatsitsimuka chifukwa chosakhala ndi zomwe Ndimatsatira miyambo yakumuimbira foni kapena kumuyang'ana komanso sindimayembekezera chilichonse kuchokera kwa iye koma nthawi zina kumverera kumamveka ndikumva kuti ndimamukonda ndipo sindingathe kukhala popanda iye, sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Ndikuyamikira malangizo aliwonse.
Onani, DANY, chowonadi nchakuti, simumufunanso, amadziwa zomwe akudziwa kwa inu, ngati ndi chikondi, ngati amakukondani kapena chifukwa chakuti akufuna kutenga nthawiyo kapena chifukwa chakuti sali womasuka koma amawoneka kwa mazana angati omwe mumazindikira zomwe muli nazo mukawona kuti ndizovuta kukhala nazo?
Moni, ndili ndi zaka 5, ndakwatiwa lero, ndikumva kuti chilichonse chikugwa chifukwa mnzanga wandifunsa nthawi, wasokonezeka, sakudziwa ngati chathu ndichikhalidwe kapena chikondi, akuti amandikonda koma samandikonda Ndikonde kuti akumva kuwawa chifukwa ndimadzimva kuti ndine wotetezeka komanso ndikudzidalira kuti ndimamupatsa ndipo sindimamvera zomwe amafuna ngati mwamuna. Kutipatsa nthawi ndi lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse chifukwa pali mkazi yemwe amakhala mozungulira ndipo mwina akufuna kapena atha kukhala naye nthawi imeneyo, zomwe akufuna kudzipereka osati zomwe angachite, ndine wotsimikiza kuti ndimamukonda ndipo zinditengera ndalama zambiri kukhala opanda iye komanso ndikudabwa ndipo ndichabwino kuti atenge gawo lodzikonda ndikumuuza kuti sindikufuna nthawi yopitilira ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti samva bwino kuti sakukondwa wao kuti banja ndilovuta. Tili ndi 2 bbs m'modzi mwa atatu ndipo wina mwa 3 omwe amakonda ndikusilira abambo awo ndipo kulekana kungawakhudze pang'ono, mwinanso kuposa momwe ndikufunira othandizira koma safuna kupita nawo tikudziwa chifukwa chake takambirana pakhala zolephera mbali zonse koma c Adandipatsa x bencido ndipo sindingamukakamize kuti akhale ndi ine, sindikudziwa choti nditani ndikatenga zinthu zanga ndikumusiya azipita sinditero mukudziwa pano
Moni, ndili ndi zaka 4 ndi miyezi 4 ndili ndi mnzanga ndipo tili ndi mavuto opusa omwe sitikudziwa kuti tithe bwanji.Ndimamupempha kuti andikonde kwambiri ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndamukakamiza kwambiri mpaka amadzimva kuti ndi wolakwa osandipatsa zomwe akufuna, zomwe amachita, koma ndidamupangitsa kuti awone kuti sichoncho! Takhala tikulekana masiku 22 ndipo ndaganiza kuti amene wachititsa izi ndi ine, ndikufuna kuti ndimubwezeretse koma amandiuza kuti akufuna kukhala yekha chifukwa akumva kuwawa kuti sangakhale ndi ine chonchi , ndingatani nthawi zonse ndikamamuyang'ana ndikumufunsa kuti abwerere amakana! Amandikonda ndipo inenso ndimamukonda sindikudziwa choti ndichite, kutaya mtima kumandigwira. Ndithandizeni!!!
Ndikuganiza kuti zili bwino zomwe ndidasiyira amayi anga posachedwa ioo Ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwa miyezi 7 koma adandifunsa kwakanthawi ndipo ndikudziwa chifukwa chake sindinali wodalilika kwa iwo oyera komanso iyenso did once It got me wrong 1 time koma tonse timakondana koma tidapatsana nthawi ngakhale zitipweteka tonse kwambiri koma ndiye mungandilangize?
Ndipo ndikuopa kumutaya sindikufuna kupatukana naye ndimamukondadi ndipo sindingafune kumutaya ndimamulola pakapita nthawi chifukwa ndimamukonda ndichifukwa chake ndidachita izi chifukwa cha chikondi chathu ndimangofuna kutaya malangizo omwe amandipatsa? mwachangu chonde
Ndili pachibwenzi chimodzi ndi chibwenzi changa cha miyezi 1 movomerezeka, ndipo chaka chimodzi ndikubwera ndikupita ... mfundo ndiyakuti chifukwa cha nsanje yanga m'masabata apitawa, adaganiza kuti ndibwino kuti atipatseko nthawi, yomwe wothandizira wanga amamuuza, Mosiyana ndi iye, sindimakonda izi, ndipo inde, akunena kuti ndikuganiza bwino ndikuti ndikuganiza zochita zanga ndi nsanje, ndidapempha chikhululukiro, ndalonjeza kuti ndimusinthira, amangofuna nthawi , Ndidamuuza kuti andiuze zowona ngati atero.Kodi mathero ake anali otani, anandiuza kuti ayi, sindimaliza, zimangotenga nthawi, kuti mudziwe zochuluka zomwe zimafunika ndikupanga chisankho chabwino chokweza ubale, koma ndimakhala kuti? Zowawa zanga zakusamuwona kapena kukhala naye, ndimamufuna kwambiri, sindingathe kupirira nkhawa iyi, ili ndi tsiku langa lachitatu mu lingaliro lake ili, ndipo ine Ndikumva kuti sindikudziwa ngati ndingathe, talankhulapo pafoni pazinthu zomwe amayenera kuwauza, ndipo pakati pa zokambiranazo amandiuza Zomwe ndizodabwitsa kuti izi ndizofunikira kuti timveke malingaliro athu, sinditero dziwani malingaliro abwino awa okhudza nthawi, ndikuvomereza kuti ndine wofunika monga munthundili wakhanda, ndikuganiza kuti ndikulanga, ndimangokonda dziko lapansi ndipo pakadali pano ndikuvutika chifukwa chakusakhalapo, malinga ndi katswiri wanga akuti ndikungofuna kuti sichikondi, ndipo chinthu chokha chomwe chimapwetekedwa ndi changa Andilola ... ndiuzeni choti nditani? muziyang'ane kapena ingopatula nthawi kuti ichite zomwe ikuyenera kuchita .. akuti musayiwale .. Sindingathe kuyiwala chifukwa chosatsimikizika kuti yandilakwitsa ..
ndithandizeni !!!
Nkhaniyi ndiyabwino kwambiri ndikuganiza kuti nthawi zina maubwenzi amawonongeka ndipo mukuganiza kuti simupeza mayankho ena ngati palibe ... ndili ndi bwenzi langa ndipo pakadali pano zomwe zidachitika sindimafuna kutipatsa nthawi ndikhulupilira Chilichonse chikuyenera kusintha koma ndikuganiza kuti chabwino ili ndi gawo laza minda ya azitona ... Ndikukhulupirira ndipo sizikhala choncho ndipo zinthu zikuyenda bwino pambuyo pake ...
Ayenera kutanthauzira "nthawi" kwa ena, chifukwa nthawi zina imakhala njira yamantha kuchoka. Ndinamufunsa .. ndipo mu "time" ukundifunsa chiyani, ukhala ndi munthu wina? ayi ayi sindikudziwa. mutha kukhala ndi aliyense amene mukufuna. Chonde
ndipo kotero munthu amasiyidwa akupusitsa. pambuyo 3 masiku. Nthawi imeneyo .. YAFA KWA AMI.
Ndidawerenga mavuto ambiri ndipo hmm ndidakonzekera kupereka nthawiyo koma kuwona momwe aliyense amalankhulira zakutenga nthawi kumakhala ngati nthawi yakufa chifukwa anthu awiri akafunana yankho ndikuti tigwirizane koma osasiyana ndikulola nthawi ifafanize ubale.
Nditha kunena kuti ndimakonda kuwerenga zamaganizidwe ndipo ndili pakati pa anthu ambiri kuti wina akakhala ndi vuto ndikufuna kumumvera ndikumuthandiza. Ndiye ngati ndi m'mene chibwenzi changa chidayambira ndipo amandichitira koma pano andisiya komaliza kuti ndiwuze wina aliyense kenako amandilankhulira motere ndikawona kuti akumva chisoni ndimataya mtima chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo osati ndimakonda kumuwona ndekha, koma popeza amandifunsa kuti ndichite ndekha, ndipo popeza sindikudziwa momwe ndingamuthandizire, ndimamulola kuti aganizire koma ndidzakhala naye osasunthika
M'malingaliro mwanga, ngati wina ali ndi vuto ndipo ngati mukufuna, ngati mupempha kuti mukufuna kukhala nokha, azichita koma ayi chifukwa ataganizira mozama ndikuzindikira kuti akukusowani ndipo simuli, nkhani kwa iwo ndipo amakhumudwa kwambiri, ndiye kuti, ngati pangakhale malo oti amusiyire yekha koma kukhala wotsimikiza kuti akakupemphani kuti mubwere, akunena zonse ndipo nthawi imeneyo ndipamene muyenera kumupatsa thandizo lanu lonse ndi ndende.
Ndimakonda kukhala wopupuluma ndipo ndilo vuto langa ndikachitika china chake chomwe ndimachita nsanje kapena akandiuza kuti akupita kukacheza ndi wina kapena wakumana ndi mnzake, zimandipweteka kwambiri ndipo ndimayamba kuchita nawo kafukufuku iye. Mavuto anga amakula pamene nsanje yandizunza.Ndimati sindichita nsanje ndekha koma pali nthawi zina ngati china chake chandigwera patsikulo ndipo akundiuza kuti chimasintha njira zanga zowonera moyo, ndimaziwona zikuipiraipira.
sule kuti ndimamvetsera kwa anthu mavuto awo ndikuwathandiza kuthetsa koma
Pali china chake chomwe ndikanakonda kuti achite, ndikuti ndikakhala ndi nsanje, amandilamulira, ndiye amene angandiyambitse chifukwa cha momwe ndimachitira ndi munthu amene wakumana naye ndipo amadziwa momwe anganditonthozere pansi.
Koma posachedwa akundisiya komaliza pazonse zomwe sindikudziwa ngati ndingandipatse nthawi kuti ndimuwone ngati akundifunafuna koma ndikuwona kuti zitha kukhala zowononga chibwenzi kuchita izi ndipo ndimangolira ndipo nthawi zina ndimaponya ndekha pansi pa chigwa chifukwa sindingathe kupirira nkhawa Amandipatsa chiyani akakumana ndi wina: / Ngati mungandithandizire ndi zomwe angachite ndipo ine, kuti ndikwanitse kuthana ndi vutoli, ndikuthokozani
ndipo nthawi zonse chitani izi osanenapo kuti mnzake ndiye amene ali ndi vutolo ndipo muloleni athetse vutoli chifukwa cha ubale basi kuti nonse muthandizane kuthana ndi vutolo kuti mupeze njira yomvera wina ndi mnzake ngakhale nkhaniyo imakhala yotopetsa koma Ndiyo yankho lokhalo lomwe lamvedwa ndipo mayankho aperekedwa, zomwe ndimayesetsa kuti anene koma samachita gawo lake. Awa ndi malangizo anga ndipo ngati mukudziwa momwe mungachitire kuti amvetsetse, ndithokoza ngati mutandiwuza momwe mungapangire kuti banjali limvetsetse kuthana ndi vutolo pamene nkhaniyo ikuwoneka yosasangalatsa.
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Ndakhala bwenzi kwazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi ndipo chibwenzicho chinafika pofika pomwe panali zovuta zambiri. Sindinali wokondwa komanso iye sanali. Panali zovala zambiri, ndikuganiza chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa zaka zomwe tidagawana. Panali zosintha zambiri mu zonsezi ndipo zidakhudzanso zambiri. Koma mfundo ndiyakuti tonsefe timakondanabe. Pachifukwa ichi, ndidaganiza zomufunsa nthawi kuti aganizire bwino zomwe ndikufuna, kuti ndikhale ndekha ndikusangalala ndi nthawiyo… ndimafunikira kanthawi pang'ono. Anavomera. Sitinalankhulane kwa masiku asanu ndi limodzi, koma adandilembera kale maimelo awiri. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite… Sindikufuna kuchedwetsa nthawi yayitali, koma sindine wotsimikiza kwathunthu chifukwa chazovuta zanga zambiri, zanga komanso zaanthu, sindinakhale ndi mphindi pomwe Ndikutha kulingalira pamutuwu.
Ndinkakhalanso bwino kwambiri ndi makolo ake. Zomwe ndimachita? Ndikuwaimbira? Sindimawayitana? Chifukwa kupatukana kwanga kudali ndi iye, osati ndi makolo ake. Ndikuopa kuwoneka woipa….
Ndasokera kwambiri. Chifukwa ndimamukonda, iyenso amandikonda, koma sitinathe kupitiliza motero.
Zikomo ndipo ndikuyembekeza thandizo lamtundu wina! Ha ha! Kupsompsona!
Wenas, ndinali ndi vuto ndi wokondedwa wanga, ndinamuwona kuti wakhala kutali ndi ine kwakanthawi, sananene chilichonse chachikondi kapena kundisisitira kapena china chilichonse. Ndipo tsiku lina nditapita ku buskarla ndidamuuza kuti ngati watenthedwa ndi chibwenzicho ndipo amandiyankha kuti amandiyankha, ndipo ndidamufunsa ngati amandikonda, ndipo adati inde koma osati ngati chiyambi, kuti iye sanadziwe ngati wagwidwa Monga pachiyambi, adandiuza kuti takhala nthawi yayitali limodzi, ndipo adandiuza kuti mwezi watha ndidabwerako wachisoni kwambiri, kuti pomwe ndimayandikira kuti akuchoka, ndipo ndidamupempha, tawonani, tengani masiku ochepa musanandiwone ndikuwona Ngati muli bwino chonchi ndipo anandiuza kuti ndikofunika kutero akadadziwa kuti ngati andisowa, ndikuti amandikonda ndipo ngati satero ndiye kuti palibe chilichonse, koma chikhalidwe chomwe tingadzitchule tokha pa saver kmo ife ndi chilichonse.
Mukuganiza bwanji za izi? Ndikuganiza kuti watopa ndi ine kapena ndikapeza wina
Ndikufuna mayankho
Nthawi yomweyo ngati zili choncho kuti aganizirenso zomwe amachita kapena amayesa kuchita ali okhaokha ndizomwe mnzake sakonda
moni dzina langa ndi alejandra pss chibwenzi changa ndili ndi zaka 3 miyezi iwiri ndipo pss chowonadi io ndidayankhula naye kwa k io veia k tonsefe tinali opanda chidwi posachedwa ndipo pss amandithandizira musho muzonse koma pss ndidawona otsika mushas ndi pss nthawi zina Tili bny nthawi zina zoipa zabwino zosachita nkhaniyo kwa nthawi yayitali ndinalankhula naye ndipo ndinamuuza ngati ndili omasuka ndiubwenziwu ndipo anandiuza pss inde ndipo ndinati ndi k io sindikumva bwino ndipo chowonadi ndikuti ndikufuna kukhala bwino pachilichonse ndipo pss ndikufuna kunena zinthu zitatu
1) kuti tipambane ubale
2) tipatseni nthawi kapena
3) kumaliza
Anandiuza nthawi zina anali bwino ndipo nthawi zina samandikonda ndipo pss mushas kosas ndiwokongola kwambiri koma anandiuza ngati ndikamulola kuti aganizire za zinthuzo ndipo tsiku lotsatira titalankhula anandiuza, k akhala kanthawi ndipo ine ndinamuuza kuti ndilemekeza lingaliro lake, ndikadikirira yankho lake, koma sanandiuze kwakanthawi kuti asandipweteke, akadziwa kuti amumaliza mnzanga kamodzi, akanachita chifukwa ndikanamva kuwawa kwambiri akangondichitira.Ndinatero kuti ndisadzipweteke ndipo sindingakhale ndi chiyembekezo pss k kwenikweni ndinali nditafa kale kuyambira pachiyambi ndipo pss tikungopita kupita kumplir milungu itatu ndipo ndine knfunfida k Ndine wabwino zikomo chifukwa cha yankho lanu ndikufuna knsejo
pd no cri ndikufuna kumukakamiza koma pss chowonadi ngati ndikufuna kuti andiuze ngati akufunadi kukhala ndi ine kapena ayi, ndimatero
Ndangokhala m'banja miyezi isanu ndi itatu ndi mkazi wanga ndipo adandifunsa kwakanthawi, ndili wofunitsitsa, sindichita kalikonse koma ndimuganizira usana ndi usiku, tasiyana kwa masabata atatu ndi theka, ndabwera kunyumba kwa makolo anga Chifukwa adati ngati ndikakhala kunyumba zikuipiraipira, andichitira zoyipa, sangandisamalire momwe angafunire komanso mochuluka momwe ndingathere Kugonana naye, adakhala choncho kwa nthawi yayitali mpaka pomwe ndidaganiza zosiya nyumba kuti ndimusiye yekha, pakadali pano ndikumva kuwawa chifukwa ndatha miyezi 8 ndili m'banja ndipo ndikumva kuti ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo malingaliro anga sangalandire NTHAWI Yomwe Akundifunsa, amangondiuza nthawi iliyonse yomwe timalankhula, osandikakamiza eliezer, ndisiye ndekha Nthawi zina amati amangondikonda ndipo zimandipweteka chifukwa salankhulanso; "CHIKONDI CHANGA, NDIKUKONDA";
Chabwino, ndapanga zolakwitsa zambiri, ndine njiwa m'banjali, ndamufunsa kuti akafunefune akatswiri ndipo sakufuna, amangonena mobwerezabwereza kuti: "NDIPATSE NTHAWI YOTI NDIPANGITSE", chonde ndithandizeni , Sindikudziwa choti ndichite ndipo sindikufuna kutopa ndikudikirira chifukwa ndimamukonda ndipo ndimamufuna ndili naye, Zikomo… ..
Zowonadi nditatha kuwerenga izi ndidamva kuwawa chifukwa mnzanga wandifunsa kwa miyezi 1 kapena 2 kuti ndilingalire ndipo chilichonse chikuti sakundikondanso pafupifupi miyezi 9, ndidavomereza nthawiyo ndikuganiza mpaka pano kuti ndidikire chifukwa cha nthawi yonseyi chifukwa ndimamukonda, koma nditawerenga ndikuganiza kuti mwezi umodzi kapena kupitilira apo ndi nthawi yayitali ndipo zingotipangitsa kuti tisunthire kutali, chabwino tsopano ndikumvetsetsa kuti ngati milungu itatu itadutsa osachitapo kanthu ndimvetsetsa Zonse zatha ngakhale ine Vutoli limapweteka kwambiri kuposa chilichonse chifukwa chaubwenzi wazaka 1 ndi banja komanso kuphatikiza kukhala ndi mwana wazaka zitatu, chonde ndithandizeni ndikundilangiza
Zomwe zili kwa ine ndikuti ine ndi mnzanga tidatenga nthawi yoganiza ... popeza takhala ndi mavuto akulu chifukwa chamakhalidwe komanso njira zosiyanasiyana zoganizira ndi kuchitira, nthawi iliyonse pakagwa vuto timathetsa ndipo timagwirizana koma ago Little vuto lomwe lidachitika pomwe tidamenya ndipo mabanja adalowererapo ndipo sitinagwilizanenso za chibwenzicho, tidaganiza zopitilira koma zomwe zimatikhudza, tikudziwa kuti timakondana, koma ulendo uno ndichifukwa sitinatero kudziwa nthawi yayitali ngati chinthu chabwino ndikumakhala limodzi.kapena ayi, ngakhale ndizovuta kuti tisiyane chifukwa chikondi ndi champhamvu ... kodi mukulangiza chiyani? chinthu chabwino kwambiri, koma kusankha ngati kuli bwino kukhala ndi iye kapena kupatukana motsimikiza? koma sindingathe ..
Moni, vuto langa ndi mutuwo. Ndinali bwino ndi bwenzi langa… koma kwa mwezi umodzi wakhala akugwira ntchito mumzinda wina ndipo chabwino, sitikuwonananso, tsopano ali ndi maudindo akulu, ndichifukwa chake takangana, chifukwa palibe nthawi yanga, ngakhale ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndiyenera kuchita zinthu zambiri.
Chifukwa chake asanamalize zoyipa ndikupitilizabe kukangana, adandifunsa kuti "titipatseko nthawi", sindikudziwa tanthauzo lake, ndikulifuna, koma sindikudziwa kuti ndimpatse nthawi ... chabwino Zitha kukhala ngati kumudikirira ndipo ndi pang'ono kudzikonda kuyembekezera munthu.
Zomwe ndimachita???
Moni, ndimkawerenga nkhaniyi ndi ndemanga ndipo ndidaziwona zosangalatsa. M'modzi aliyense ndidawona zikuwonetsa mbiri ya anthu osiyanasiyana omwe ndimawadziwa ndipo nawonso adakumana ndimikhalidwe zomwezo. M'malingaliro mwanga, mosiyana ndi zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira, kuwononga nthawi muzinthu zina kuli bwino. Mwina ndichifukwa choti pa zomwe ndidakumana nazo zinali zothandiza, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndizomwe zili, kudziwa kuwunika momwe zinthu ziliri ndikupanga chisankho moyenera. Kwa ine, ndafunsa nthawi ndipo nawonso andifunsa. Nyengo ndiyabwino pamene amene amaifunsa akumva kukhala wolemedwa mwina ndi mnzake womukonda kwambiri. Zikatere umakhala wotopa ndipo umafunikira malo oti ukhale nawo wekha. Koma ngati mukufuna kamodzi, mwina mumayifunanso mobwerezabwereza. Chifukwa chake, nthawi ndiyabwino, koma nthawi zonse muyenera KULANKHULA zomwe mukumva kwa anzanu, ndipo nthawi imeneyo ikuthandizani nonse kuyesera kulingalira zomwe zidasokonekera komanso momwe mungazithetsere. Kumbali inayi, nthawi zomwe zimatengedwa chifukwa m'modzi wa awiriwa samva bwino chifukwa cha zovuta zina m'moyo, sindikuganiza kuti ali ndi chiyembekezo chifukwa samangotengera awiriwo, komanso amapangitsa mphamvu yomwe wina amakhala nayo kuchokera kwa mnzake osadzimvanso. Ngati wina salola kuti wina achite nawo zomwe akwaniritsa komanso zolephera zawo, ndiye kuti si banja, chifukwa ndi zomwe zimachitika pogawana ndikukhalira limodzi zokumana nazo zoipa komanso zabwino. Koma ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti KULEMEKEZA ndi kuthandizira pamilandu iyi ndikofunikira, popeza sitingapitilize kuwonjezera mikangano kwa anthu omwe ali pamavuto, ndipo mwina nthawi zina ndibwino kulola kuti nthawi idutse kuti munthu winayo apezenso chiyembekezo Ndikhoza kukhala omasuka ndikucheza za izi mkuntho ukadutsa. Chifukwa chake ndimati zimatengera mlandu. Chikondi ndi ichi, chopindika ndikusinthasintha, chikondi, kuthandizana, kumvetsetsa, ulemu, kusinthana, kulolerana, kulumikizana ndi kukhululuka, pakati pazinthu zina zambiri. Ndi nkhani ya awiri kudziwa momwe mungawathetsere ndikakumana ndi nthawi zoyipa, sitili tokha padziko lapansi, tiyenera kudziwa momwe tingayang'ane pozungulira.
Ndikukhulupirira idatumikira,
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Moni, mkhalidwe wanga uli motere: ndipo ndasokonezeka, sindikudziwa choti ndichite kapena choti ndikuganiza, ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwa chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi isanu, chifukwa cha izi, titakhala pachibwenzi miyezi iwiri, adandipatsa mphete ya chinkhoswe ... tidanenanso kuti chaka chimodzi kuchokera tsiku lomwelo tidzakwatirana ... nthawi idapita, ndipo kuyambira pafupifupi Ogasiti ndidamuuza kuti ndapanga kale zonse zomwe banja lidandifunsa, adandiuza. ine m'masiku 15 zidzadutsa popanda chilichonse ndipo kotero ... adabwera kudzandiwonetsa ndipo ndidamuuza kuti ndikufuna kupita kukawawona, adandiuza kuti sangathe, ndi zomwe adachita ... ndi munthu amene akutanganidwa ndi ntchito yake kapena nthawi zina, ndinamupempha kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi yambiri yoti ndikhale naye ndipo adakwiya ndipo adachita ... tsiku lina amabwera ndipo amandiuza kuti akufuna kanthawi Popeza ali ndi ntchito yambiri ndipo sadzatha kundipatsa chidwi chomwe chibwenzicho chimafunikira, ndidayimitsa pracicamnete, koma adandiuza mu Epulo tidzabweranso ndikupanga tsiku. Sindikudziwa choti ndiganizire pa izi ali ndi zaka 26 ndipo ndili ndi zaka 28 ... sindikudziwa zomwe zikuchitika ... komanso makamaka akafunsa nthawi ngati pali kudzipereka kale, ,, mukuganiza kuti pali zotheka kapena pamapeto pake palibe njira yothetsera izi.
Moni, ndakhumudwa pang'ono chifukwa masabata awiri apitawa ndidasiyana ndi bwenzi langa lakale, tidatha kukhala limodzi zaka 2, koma tidamaliza chifukwa ndidatopa ndikuti amandikwiyira, anali ndi malingaliro okhwima kwambiri omwe adatha mpaka kundipangitsa kukhala wopanda nkhawa komanso kuzunzika.
Nthawi ino ndi yomwe takhala motalikirana kwambiri, ndipo amandipempha kuti ndibwerere, kuti ndikhale naye, akuti amandikonda ndipo amazindikira kuti sanakhwime. Ndimakondabe, koma ndikuopa kuyesanso.
Kodi mungandilangize chiyani?
0la a todod0s¡¡ pss mundiyang'ane pakadali pano ndikumva kukhala wosasangalala komanso wosokonezeka pang'ono ,,,,,,,,,, Ndikusintha miyezi inayi ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo sabata yatha tidakumana ndi zovuta zingapo kenako keria kuti titha kudzipatsa tokha Nthawi yomwe ndi yochepa momwe tingathere kungoganiza za zinthu zomwe zikutichitikira ndikuyang'ana zomwe tikuchita kuti vutoli lisakhale lowopsa komanso tonse awiri ,,, koma ngakhale adandifunsa kanthawi kano ndikulonjeza kuti tidzabweranso sabata imodzi sindimva kuwawa ndipo sindikudziwa kuti ndiganiza bwanji ,,,,? ¡
Ndipo ngakhale tonsefe timakondana kwambiri ndipo timakondana, zimatipweteka kwambiri kuti tizipatsana nthawi ino popeza tonse ndife onyada kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti ngati nthawi iyi ndiyofunika kuganiziranso izi, ine osasiya kudzimva kuti ndalakwitsa ,,, mumandilangiza chiyani? ¡? ¡
Ndikuganiza kuti ngati mwasokonekera ndipo ndinu amene mumapempha kwakanthawi, ndichifukwa choti china chake sichili bwino mkati mwanu ... ngati mungadzipatseni kanthawi, ndibwino kuti muzikhala achilungamo kwa inu nokha sankhani bwino, pangani zisankho zomwe muyenera kuchita osasiya nthawi yayitali imachiza chilichonse (zomwe kulibe) ... popeza chikondi ndichisankho choposa zolakwitsa zathu kapena za mnzathu. (Chikondi chikhala chilezere, chili chokoma mtima; chikondi sichidukidwa; sichidzitamandira, sichidzikuza. Sichichita mwano, sichidzikonda, sichipsa mtima msanga, sichisunga chakukhosi, chimakondwera ndi chowonadi. Chilichonse, amakhulupirira chilichonse, chimayembekezera chilichonse, chimapirira zonse. "5 Akorinto, Chipangano Chatsopano")
Chikondi chikhala chilezere, chili chokoma mtima. Chikondi sichichita nsanje kapena kudzitama kapena kudzikuza.5 Sichichita mwano, sichidzikonda, sichipsa mtima msanga, sichisunga mkwiyo.6 Chikondi sichikondwera ndi zoipa koma chimakondwera ndi choonadi. 7 Zinthu zonse Pepani, amakhulupirira chilichonse, amayembekeza chilichonse, amathandizira chilichonse.
Wawa! Ndili ndi vuto lalikulu sabata la 1 lapitalo, chibwenzi changa cha zaka 4, yemwe timakhala naye limodzi, adandipatsa mbiri yakucheza ndi mzanga yemwe anali wakale nthawi yomwe tidasiyana…. , wakaleyu anali kumandiuzabe Amandikonda ndipo amandisowa ndipo ndinamuwuza zomwezo ... pafupifupi mokakamizidwa kuti asandikwiyire, chifukwa tinali abwenzi mulimonse ... bwenzi langa limaganiza kuti ndili ndi ndinamunamiza ndipo anathera nane, sakufuna kudziwa kalikonse za ine ,, ndinamuyimbira foni sabata ino kuti afotokoze kuti zinthu sizili momwe akuganizira ... ndikufuna kuti ndibwerenso Chilichonse, kotero ndidamuwuza kuti ndimpatsa nthawi ngati angafune ndipo anandiuza kuti ngati palibe china ... ndikubwereza kuti ndikufuna kumubweza, ndimamukonda kuposa wina aliyense ndipo sindinakhalepo osakhulupirika kwa iye .. chonde ndipatseni malangizo, ngati ndingamusiye yekha kwa kanthawi ??? kuti aganizire zina zomwe ndingachite .. chifukwa ndimamukakamira nthawi zonse tikamaliza. .chonde ndikufuna thandizo kuti tipeze wabwerera.thoko
Moni, ndinali ndi chibwenzi, ndinali ndi chaka ndi miyezi iwiri, zinthu zambiri zidachitika, choyamba chinali chakuti makolo anga samadziwa, idafika nthawi, chipembedzo chidandipempha kuti tizipatsana nthawi
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Tayang'anani pa inu, ndikufuna kuyankha pa kutha kwanga ..
Iwo anali okondwa kwambiri, zonse zinali zangwiro ndipo sindikudziwa, momwe tingakhalire kokasangalala, kwakhala chaka ndi theka.
ndipo sindinayambe kuzindikira mphuno, zodabwitsa, kuti tikakambirana, anali zokambirana zazikulu, pasotismo yambiri pakati pa awiri ndi mphuno, kunyada kwambiri, makamaka ...
Ndipo sindikudziwa, kutali, kusungulumwa, adandilola ndikufuna kugona limodzi, chifukwa aliyense wa ife amakhala m'nyumba zathu, zachidziwikire.
Ndipo sindikudziwa, adayamba kundiuza aliyense kuti, kuti tichokepo ndipo sindikudziwa, sananene kuti ndiyankhule ndi kuyang'anizana, zolakwa zomwe adapanga pokambirana, ndipo sinditero dziwani kuti amandikonda, ndikukhulupirira kapena ngakhale kumverera kutengeka, chifukwa sizidziwika.
ndipo kamodzi ndikasiya izi, ndiye, abwenzi abwinoko, osalankhulidwa, awone zolakwitsa, ndi zomwe zili zabwino kwa tonsefe, ndipo adapempha kuti apatsidwe nthawi, koma samandisiya, kapena padzuwa ngakhale mumthunzi, ndipo ngakhale nditamufotokozera motani zinthu sizinasiyidwe komanso kuti ziziziziritsa, amayenera kutsegula ndikuwona zolakwikazo, kuzikonza osati koma, adzapitilizabe ngakhale atabwerera ndikuyamba mozizira kwambiri, koma adzakhalapo, sindikufuna thandizo kuti ndione choti ndichite ndipo sinditero ...
Ndizachilendo, zimadzitseka zokha, ndipo ndizowopsa, ndiye nthawi yomweyo zimayankha ndikupepesa koma sindikudziwa ...
Moona mtima nthawi ino sindikudziwa, bwanji sindimaganizira ... iye, nthawi zina amakhala bwino ndipo nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi nsanje, ndimayenda limodzi ndipo sindikudziwa….
Ndikufuna kuthandizidwa anyamata ndi atsikana kupsompsona
Madzulo abwino
Chowonadi ndichakuti ndili wachisoni kwambiri ndipo zandiwawa kwambiri popeza ndidakumana ndi zinthu zambiri zokongola ndi bwenzi langa ndipo tsopano mwadzidzidzi patatha chaka amandiuza kuti akufuna nthawi yoganizira mwina kuti andiphonye kwambiri komanso kundikonda kwambiri koma sindikudziwa kena kalikonse amandiuza kuti pali china choposa chimene akundiuza ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti ndakhala woipa kwambiri chifukwa ndimaona kuti sichowona, chonde ndithandizeni upangiri umodzi.
Moni…
Chabwino, ndingakuuzeni, ndakhala pachibwenzi zaka 11, awiri omaliza anali kale akukhala ngati banja, tinayamba kukhala ndi mavuto akulu kwa miyezi 6, tsopano akubwera ndikundiuza kuti akufuna nthawi chifukwa akumva kukakamizidwa kwambiri ndipo akumva kuti wataya umunthu wake kuti sakuchitanso zomwezo poyamba, samapita kubanja lake momwe angafunire ...
Akuti salinso mano monga kale, koma amandikondabe. Anandiuza kuti ndimupatse miyezi itatu, koma ndidamupempha mwezi umodzi wokha kuti tikumanenso ndikumuthandiza pakuwunikanso kwake ... Ndikuganiza kuti ndamutaya kale ndipo ndikumva kuwawa koopsa ... chifukwa ndimamukondabe .. .
Chinanso ndikuti samandiuza zonse ndipo izi zimandipangitsa kuti ndisaleze mtima, akunena kuti samayankhapo chifukwa akuwopa momwe ndingayankhire, popeza tsopano ndamuwona mopepuka, nthawiyo inali chodzinyenga chosandiwuza ine ndi mawu onse: Timalize.
Adakali kunyumba, chifukwa ndidamupatsa nthawi kuti apeze komwe angasamukire. Akandipsompsona sakudziwa ngati amazichita chifukwa amandikonda kapena chifukwa cha chizolowezi, ndikudziwa kuti akumva kena kake ... koma sindikudziwa ngati ndi chikondi chabe kapena chikondi. Pamapeto pake timapanga zokondana nthawi zonse, ndipo ndizabwino ngati nthawi yoyamba… Ndikuganiza kuti gawo ili ndi lomwe limatipangitsabe kukhala ogwirizana.
Ndinamutumizira imelo mphindi zochepa zapitazo ndi ndakatulo ndipo izi ndi zomwe adayankha:
Hola
Zikomo chifukwa cha ndakatuloyi, ndiyabwino kwambiri, ... yokongola kwambiri.
Zikomo kwambiri
Ndikufuna thandizo la akatswiri kuti ndithane nazo, ndipo mukudziwa momwe zimapwetekera kudziwa kuti china chake chokondedwa monga chikondi cha miyoyo yanu chatayika.
Moni ndi mwayi kwa aliyense.
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwanthawi yoposa chaka.
Pa miyezi 3 anali osakhulupirika kwa ine ndi ex wake, ndimamukhululukira ndipo chinthucho chaiwalika.
Komabe, kwa mwezi umodzi kapena kupitilira apo, sanasiye kundifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi, kuti anene kuti ubalewo siwofanana ... zomwe zili zoona. Sitimakhala ndiubwenzi wapamtima, timakangana kwambiri ... ndipo amangondiuza kuti chibwenzi chatha.
Sindikudziwa choti ndichite, chifukwa amandipweteka mosalekeza, koma ndimamukonda kwambiri ... Kumbali yake, ndikuganiza kuti ndikutsimikiza kuti amandikonda, ngakhale nthawi zina kukayika, nsanje ndi ena amandizunza .. .
Tsopano tili mu nthawi yoyenera, ndipo amandiimbira foni, akuyembekezera ine, ngakhale tilibe mawu ambiri achikondi ... m'masabata awiri tiwonananso ndipo sindikudziwa choti ndichite kapena momwe tingachitire kuchita ...
Lingaliro langa ndilakuti kwa ine nthawiyo siyiyenera kukhalapo chifukwa mnzako akakufunsani kwakanthawi ndi pomwe amadzimva kukhala wotsimikiza pazomwe ali nazo ndipo sakudziwa ngati munthu ameneyo akufuna kwa ine, mnzanga adandifunsa kwakanthawi ndipo ine Ndinkakhumudwa kwambiri nthawi zina ndimadabwa kuti bwanji adandifunsa kwakanthawi mwina sakundifuna kizas ndichoti ndikonze zolephera zanga
nkhani yanga iyambira apa ... masiku awiri apitawo bwenzi langa anandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi ndipo ine ... sindikufuna nthawi ... Ndikudziwa bwino kuti akapempha nthawi ndichifukwa chakuti amafunikiradi .. ndipo inenso ndimatero koma sindikufuna ... ngakhale ndiyenera kuvomereza lingaliro lake, sindikudziwa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani ndikulemba apa ... Ndikulingalira chifukwa ndili wosimidwa ndipo zakhala ziwiri zokha masiku ... tonse tidutsana, osaganizira zomwe timachita bwino ndi zolakwika ... tsopano ndingathe kumuganizira zabwino, Tsopano popeza ndili kumapeto kwa phompho ... I ndikuzindikira kuti ndiyenera kukhala tcheru komanso kukhala wochuluka kwa iye ... Sindikufuna kuti izi zithere apa, ndi msungwana woyeneradi .. anali ndiubwana wovuta kwambiri ndipo nditakumana naye, moyo wake udasintha, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndidamulephera ngati mnzake komanso mnzake .. . Ali ndi mfundo zomwe sindidzakhala nazo ndipo zandiphunzitsa zambiri kuyenda mdziko loipali .. tsopano ndili ndi maso okha kwa iye .. Ndine wosimidwa ndipo sindikumvetsetsa .. ndilibe malo mutu wanga kuganiza kuti ndi bwino kumumenyera nkhondo .. Ndikungofuna ndikhale naye komanso kuti ndimuwonetse kuti ndimamukondadi komanso kuti ndili naye pachilichonse chomwe akufuna, ndikungofunika sinthani njira yanga yoganizira ... kudzikonda komwe ndidapanga komanso zomwe anthu amalemba zimasiya kusamala .. Ndidamudziwa kuti ndi mbuzi yopenga ya moyo ... momwemonso iye ... koma nthawi zamisala zili kuti. . otaika ... ndiyenera kubwerera ku nthawi zake ndi iye ... ndi zomwe akufuna ... ndipo inenso ndikufuna… kufunafuna mayankho tsopano kuli ngati kupempha satana mwini kuti anditulutse ake a Margura ... ndili ndi zaka 25 ndipo ndakhala naye zaka 4 ... ndimamufuna ... Amandiuza kuti samva ngati ine ... sindimamukopa, Ndikuyenera kumukondanso ngati tsiku loyamba lomwe ndinakumana naye ... ndimakukonda ...
Ndidawerenga ndemanga zanu ndipo ndikulingalira momwe mukuvutikira ... Ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa, Noelia kwa zaka 2 ndi masiku 15 ndipo chibwenzicho sichikugwira ntchito. Ndine munthu yemwe amakhulupirira kwambiri kufanana m'malo ambiri a banjali komanso kuthandizana koma samandilembera ndipo samayesetsa kukonza zolakwitsa zake. Kumbali yanga, ndikuzindikira kuti ngati munthu ndalakwitsa ndipo mwina ndili ndi vuto pazomwe zakhala zikuchitika pachibwenzi koma sadzipereka kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti asinthe zina zomwe zandipweteka komanso ndimawona kuti ndizodzikonda kwambiri ndi omasuka.
Amandiuza kuti amandikonda koma nthawi zina ndipo zimandipweteka kuti ndinene, ndizovuta kuti ndimukhulupirire chifukwa chikondi chimawonetsedwanso zenizeni ndipo sindikukana kuti sanadziwe zambiri za ine, koma gawo labwino zochita zake sizikugwirizana ndi kukonda munthu.
Sabata ino ndikalankhula naye. Kusweka idzakhala khadi yomaliza yomwe ndidzaika patebulo chifukwa ndikufuna kukhala olimba mtima ndikuyesetsa kuthetsa mavuto athu. Mwina kwakanthawi zidzatithandiza tonse kukhazikika pamutu paubwenzi wathu.
Ndikukufunirani zabwino zonse!
Moni, ndine mkazi yemwe ndakhala wokwatiwa zaka 20 ndi ana awiri aakazi, amuna anga amayenera kupita kuntchito, chifukwa anali ndi zaka 2 osagwira ntchito, kukhalira limodzi kunali mikangano, zonyoza, ndi zina zambiri, m'malo mwa ana kapena ndalama mavuto, tsopano Mwamuna wanga amandifunsa kuti aganize za izi, pamene angathe abwera kudzationa masiku angapo pamwezi, koma amandiuza kuti miyezi iwiri yomwe adachoka kuti sanandiphonye, ndimamukonda kwambiri zambiri ndipo zimapweteka kwambiri pachilichonse kuwonongeka kwamaganizidwe komwe
Moni, ndine mkazi yemwe ndakhala wokwatiwa zaka 20 ndi ana awiri aakazi, amuna anga amayenera kupita kukagwira ntchito, chifukwa adakhala zaka ziwiri osagwira ntchito, kukhalira limodzi kunali mikangano, zonyoza, ndi zina zambiri, m'malo mwa ana kapena pamavuto azachuma, tsopano Mwamuna wanga andifunsa kuti ndilingalire, atabwera kuti atiwone masiku angapo pamwezi, koma amandiuza kuti miyezi iwiri yomwe adachoka kuti sanandiphonye, ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo zimandiwawa kwambiri pachilichonse kuwonongeka kwamaganizidwe komwe ndidamupangitsa, ndidamuuza mamuna wanga kuti ndili ndi chisoni komanso kuti ndimamukondabe, ndikufuna kudziwa ngati andiuzadi kuti salinso yemweyo chifukwa akumva kuwawa kapena chifukwa sakundikondanso, sindikudziwa 2 Masiku omwe adabwera kudzationa anali osangalala kwambiri chifukwa cha ine ndipo tidapanga chibwenzi, ndikukayikira ndipo iyenso, funso langa ndilabwino kuti ndilumikizane tsiku pa intaneti kapena ndiyenera kusiya
Moni (Ndikufuna thandizo) aliyense amene ayankhe chonde
Ndakhala pachibwenzi kwa zaka zitatu, ndakhala wokhulupirika kwa bwenzi langa koma nthawi zonse amandinamiza ... zinthu monga ndimagona ndikupita kuphwando, ndili kunyumba ndipo ali pa konsati, Mwanjira imeneyi iye wakhala akundinamiza kwambiri, kwambiri ndipo nthawi iliyonse yomwe zichitike ndimamva kuwawa kwambiri, china chake m'chifuwa mwanga chimapweteka kwambiri. Akuti ndichifukwa sindimakonda kupita kumaphwando kapena kutuluka kapena kuvina. Sindikondanso kutuluka ndi abwenzi ake kumsonkhano uliwonse, koma ndimakonda kukhala naye nthawi zonse, kugawana nawo nthawi zosavuta monga kupita kumakanema, kudya, kuyenda, ndi zina zambiri. Moyo wathu wogonana ukugwira ntchito. Nthawi yomaliza pomwe amandinamiza posachedwa, adapita kutawuni kwawo, ndipo adakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe adatuluka naye, kuvina, kumwa ndikumaliza kumpsompsona, izi zidachitika tsiku loyamba lakumana naye ziwiri zotsatira zidachitikanso Nditafika pano ndidamva kuti akundinamiza chifukwa ndidamupezera uthenga womwe umati (moni mtima ndidayenera kubwera kudzandiimbira kuti tione ngati tachoka) Ndidamva kuwawa ndipo kuyambira pamenepo ndidadziwa kuti akundinamiza mpaka nditatulutsa chilichonse ndikumupempha kuti andipatse foni kuti ndimuimbire ndikumuuza kuti ali ndi ine ndipo ena sanafune kundigwira pamaso pake kuti achite. Funso ndiloti ndiyesenso? Amandiuza kuti iyi ndi kapu yomwe ikusefukira botolo. Ndimamukhululukira. Ndidamuuza kuti ndamukhululukira kuti ndikufuna ndikhale naye, koma andifunsa kwakanthawi? Kodi mungakhulupirire? Ndikutanthauza, ndani ayenera kumufunsa, sindimachita ndipo amatero? Tiyenera kudziwa kuti sindinamupsompsone sindimakonda kumpsompsona kwambiri koma ndichifukwa chake amatuluka ndikupsompsona ndi mnyamata yemwe adakumana naye? Kukhala bwenzi langa? Ndithandizeni chonde ndimamukonda ndipo mwatsoka ndidayamba kumukonda tsopano atangolakwitsa sindikufuna kumusiya chifukwa zimapweteka kwambiri, ndikumverera koyipa kwambiri
Ndizabwino kuti mayi aliyense ayankhenso ambuye zikomo
Moni Andres !! Ndikukumvetsetsa kwambiri, zidandichitikira izi koma anali bwenzi langa zaka zapitazo yemwe adapita ndi mtsikana ndikubwera ataledzera, zimanditengera ndalama zambiri ndipo ndimamukhululukira nthawiyo koma pano pakatha zaka zimakhala zovuta kutsatira chibwenzi chifukwa ndichinthu chomwe muyenera kukhala ndi Mnzanuyo ngati banga lomwe lidakalipo, tsopano ndidamupeza uthenga wochokera kwa mtsikana yemwe ndimati ndipite naye koma zonse zimandibisira, zidandipweteka kwambiri, chifukwa chake mutenge kanthawi, nthawi zina ndibwino kuti muzidula musanavutike, ganizirani Izi sizivuta mukamakonda wokondedwa wanu kwambiri.
Ndikufuna thandizo
Moni, ndine Nazareno, ndili ndi zaka 24 ndipo ndili ndiubwenzi wa miyezi 4 ndi mayi wazaka 33 wazaka zakubadwa yemwe ali ndi ana aakazi awiri, wazaka 2 wazaka 16. Chabwino zinthu zili chonchi ... Ndisanamuzindikire, anali mliri, ndinasiyidwa kwathunthu mpaka mzanga atandidziwitsa. Fernanda ndiye dzina lake ndipo kuchokera pamenepo moyo wanga udasinthiratu. Choyambirira komanso chofunikira, anali ndi mbiri yoyipa kwambiri kotero kuti ndimulemba mpaka lero ndipo chilichonse chomwe chimakhala ndi ine tsiku ndi tsiku chimakhala ndi mantha kuti chimadzibwereza chokha.
Mkazi wake wakale adasokonekera kwambiri m'moyo, adakhala wopanda pake, samamupangitsa kuti azimva ngati mkazi wokondedwa, nthawi zonse amamupatsa chithunzi cha kankhuku.
Chomwe chidamuipira kwambiri ndichomwe adamupangira kuti amulipire chifukwa chosafuna kumupatsa hujo wamwamuna atakhala kale ndi ana ake aakazi awiri ... yemwe adalimbana kanthawi kena, napita kukagona naye china ndipo adakhala nacho ... Chomvetsa chisoni ndichakuti pamapeto pake sanafune kusamalira mwana wamwamuna uja ... pomaliza atamaliza ndi ex wake, aganiza zopanga china chake chomwe ndi gwero lalikulu mwa zomwe akufuna kuzimitsa chikondi chomwe tili nacho ndikundisiya mwaulere ... Palibe china chilichonse koma kungopanga opareshoni yamachubu kuti ndisakhale ndi ana ambiri ndipo zomwe zidachitika sizidzachitikanso ... a masabata angapo ndi pomwe ndimaonekera ndikakumana naye. Izi ndizosavuta, zomwe zimapweteka kwambiri ndikuti amandikonda kwambiri ndipo ndikudziwa kuti amandikondabe, amadziwa bwino lomwe kuti sangandipatsenso mwana chifukwa amadziwa bwino kukhala ndi sakufuna kukhala chopinga pamoyo wanga.zimenezi zindiwononga chifukwa chikondi changa pa iye nchachikulu ndipo sindingathe kumuiwala kwa sekondi imodzi ndipo ngakhale ndidavomera moyo wake ndipo ndidaganiza zokhala naye, ndimukonde ndikumuteteza . Miyezi iwiri yoyambirira komanso pafupifupi miyezi itatu inali yamtendere koma mwezi wathawu adasinthiratu pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana ... cholakwika choyamba chomwe tidapanga ndikukhala kunyumba kwake kwa miyezi 2 ndikungopita kunyumba kwanga nthawi ndi nthawi kuti Mu kanthawi kochepa chabe amamva kuti chibwenzicho chatha pang'ono ... koma limenelo linali vuto lawo, amafuna kuti azipezekapo nthawi zonse kuopa kuti ndingakumane ndi wina wachichepere kuposa iye wokongola kwambiri ndikadzatha kumusiya ngati ex wake ndipo iye adathawa.yanga idali yoti andilole kuti ndizikhala naye miyezi yoyambilira ... malinga ndi iye adandiuza kuti nthawi imeneyo tidakhala kanthawi ... cholakwika china ndikukumana ndi banja la munthu munthawi yochepa yomwe idatipangitsa kudziona ngati banja lokhazikika ngati kuti tidakwatirana ... tsopano lero iye amawononga ndalama zochepa posamalira ana ake aakazi ndipo ine ndili ndi kilombo ya maakaunti omwe Sindingamuthandize pachuma choncho ayenera kudzipha yekha akugwira ntchito masana masana ndi masana kutsuka dothi la c Ogwira ntchito nthawi zonse amabwera kumapeto kwa tsiku ... amayi ake adasintha umunthu, kudzidalira kwawo kunali kotsika kwambiri, popeza ukalamba udabwera mwadzidzidzi ndipo izi zidamukhudza kwambiri. Fernanda yemwe amamukonda kwambiri ndipo ndi yekhayo amene amasamalira amayi ake pomwe china chake chimamuchitikira ... adamubweretsa kunyumba ndipo ndi pomwe ubale udasokonekera ... sindinamuwone Komanso, ntchito yake iwiri, momwe amayenera kusamalira amayi ake ndi chikondi chake chachikulu, monga akunenera, ana ake aakazi analibenso malo okwanira kuti akakomane ndi abwenzi ake kuti atenge kanthawi pang'ono ndi ine ... zomwe zinayamba kunditaya pansi nthawi iliyonse yomwe amamva kuti ali patali kwambiri ndipo amazindikira ndipo ndikuwonjezeranso zomwe zimachitika, chifukwa chake ndikakhala kuntchito adanditumizira uthenga wondiuza…. »sizitero ndizisowetsa mtendere m'moyo wanga, ine Zikukuvutitsani kuti simukumvetsa kuti ndimafunikira nthawi yoganiza ndipo sindikusowa kuti ndichite, ndilibenso nthawi yodzilingalira ndekha ndili ndi nthawi yolingalira za amayi anga , ana anga akazi komanso anthu omwe ndiyenera kutsuka dothi kunyumba kwake »... .Tsopano ndikamamutumizira mauthenga zimamupweteka ndipo ngati sindimutumiza ndichifukwa choti sindinamutumize.
Masiku ano ndili chonchi, zinthu zili chonchi ... Ndikufuna upangiri angapo chonde, ndikufuna kupitiliza chibwenzichi, ndiwofunika kwambiri kwa ine ndipo ndikufuna kumupatsa chikondi chonse ngati banja chomwe sanakhale nacho. Kodi ndimamudikirira ndikumamupatsa nthawi yomwe amafunikira kapena ndikuyenera kuchoka?
Chibwenzi changa chidandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi chifukwa akuti wathedwa nzeru ndipo sakudziwa zomwe akumva pakadali pano popeza adamuwuza mabodza ambiri ndipo pano amandiuza kuti wathedwa nzeru komanso kuti ali wolimba mtima kwa ine, tidzangokhala sabata osawonana ndipo ubale wathu unali miyezi iwiri yokha ndili oopsa
Ndikufuna mundithandizire kulemba kalata ya Tsiku la Valentine, chifukwa amuna anga ali pamtunda wa 400 km ndipo tsiku lomwelo sitingakhale limodzi, zikomo
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwazaka 6 ndipo takhala ndi moyo wotalikilapo koma m'malingaliro mwanga ndimadzala ndi chikondi, ngakhale nthawi zina ndimakhala wokayikira kwambiri »tsopano tikakonzekera kukhalira limodzi wandifunsa kanthawi» nkhani ndiyakuti amakhala mumzinda wina wosiyana ndi wanga ndikukhala nane, amayenera kusiya banja lake ndi ntchito yake »akuti akuyenera kuganizira zoti achite, koma ndikuti zikhala zabwino pachibwenzi» chomwe adalonjeza ine ndipo ndidalumbira koposa 1 kuti zilibe kanthu kuti tikhala limodzi etc, koma tsopano akuti akufuna nthawi yoti amandikonda koma akufuna nthawi kuti adziwe zomwe achite ,, wina amene amandipatsa upangiri, ndiyenera kuganiza chiyani pankhaniyi ,,,, sindinamuonepo kwa miyezi itatu ndipo pano ndamuwona nthawi zina anali bwino osati kwa ena »ndipo ndimaganiza zokhala naye koma amafuna andichoke ,, Thandizeni"
Chabwino, ndikufuna kugawana nanu ubale wanga ndi mnzanga, popeza ndidakumana ndi munthuyu sindinaganizenso zokondanso mopenga ndi winawake komwe mukumva kuti ndiye munthu woyenera kupanga moyo wanu; Takhala ndi mavuto kwina komwe ndawayambitsa, ndikuganiza panthawiyo chifukwa cha mantha, kuwopa kutaya wokondedwayo. Ndipo tsopano, tadzipatsa tokha nthawi kuti tiganizire mwatsatanetsatane ndipo ngati m'malo mwa munthu wina wachikhulupiriro chawo akufuna kukhala ndi ine, ndiye kuti ndiyesa kupereka nawo ndikumvetsetsa ngati pangakhale kuyanjananso osatinso kuphonya mwayi uwu, komanso kuwafunsa kuti awone mwa njira yophunzirira zomwe zolakwazo zinali zina ndikudziwitsanso momwe angachitire ndi zomwe zingachitike mtsogolo, popeza sianthu onse omwe ali ofanana kuweruza kapena kudzudzula zomwe nthawi zina timamva kapena kunena, Ndikuwona kuti ndichabwino kwa banja lathu kukhala omasuka komanso odekha… ..
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwa mwezi umodzi ndipo masiku onsewa, zakhala zabwino, koma kuyambira tsiku limodzi kupita tsiku lotsatira, kusintha ndipo amandiuza kuti akufuna kanthawi pang'ono, wasokonezeka ndipo k no keria k izi zichitika ... Ndikufuna Ndithandizireni ndi upangiri wina, ndingatenge bwanji izi, zomwe Minovio amandiuza, sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire, chabwino kuganiza, ndithandizeni chonde.
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Ndizosavuta akakhala miyezi ndipo ngakhale zimamupweteka ngakhale bulu koma zimakhala zoyipa akakhala zaka.
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Chabwino ndiye kuti, mlandu wanga ndi uwu, ndili ndi banja la zaka 7 ndi ana awiri, timakhala ndimavuto nthawi zonse, koma zonse zidathetsedwa ndipo ndizomwezo, koma zidafika poti iye sakufunanso kukhala pakhomo ,, Ankakonda kumwa ndipo amabwera mochedwa, ndipo ndidamudandaulira, chifukwa chochita izi…. Chabwino, sindinkafuna kufotokoza ,,, ndipo anandisiya ndekha ndi ana ,, sanasamale ,,,,, anapitiliza chonchi ndipo, atapanga chibwenzi ndi ine, samazimvanso mwachisoni , ndinatinso akulira chifukwa ndinamva chisoni kwambiri ndi izi …………………. ndipo ndinamuuza kuti atenge kanthawi, poyamba sakufuna, koma tsopano, amazitenga mozama, takhala mu izi kwa miyezi 4, adapita kukagwira ntchito mumzinda wina. Amandiyimbira foni kapena kundilembera , koma kuyenda mtunda woyenda bwino ,, koma tsopano ,, sakundiyimbiranso ,,,, kuyambira pomwe adachoka masiku 5 apitawo samandiimbira ndipo safunsa za ana ake ,, tidayankhula sabata yatha atabwera, ,, ndipo anandiuza kuti kulibe wina ,, chifukwa akabwera amandifunafuna kugonana ,, ndipo ndavomera poganiza kuti ndichikondi ,, koma ayi ,, amangofuna zokondweletsa ,, ndipo izi zimandimvetsa chisoni ... .. masiku 15 apitawo ,, ndidamudandaulira pazinthu zina pazakuda zomwe zimandinyengerera, koma adandiuza kuti sizinali kanthu, kungoti, adamupatsa moni mnzakeyo ... ndimamukhulupiradi, chifukwa panalibe cholakwika, popanda Komabe, ndinamutaya mnyumbamo, koma sanachoke, ndikudzipempha ndekha, kuti asaganize izi, ndipo adapanga chikondi kwa ine akunjenjemera ndi chidwi komanso pang'ono zachisoni. !!!! ndipo anandiuza kuti sindinathetse banja chifukwa cha zamkhutu zija ,, ndiye ,, kachiwiri mawa ,,, amafuna atenge nthawi ,, ndikupitiliza momwe anali ……… ..ndipo masiku asanu ndi atatu apitawo ,, ndinanenanso chinthu chopusa kuposa momwe chinali chithunzi ndi abwenzi ena komanso mayi wachikulire, ndipo adakhala wosakhwima ndipo amafuna kundiona ndili wolakwa mpaka kupepesa, chifukwa ndidamuuza kuti asanditenge ngati guev …. ,, ndipo tsopano ,, palibe …………. Samandiimbiranso, komanso samachita chidwi ndi ana anga, sindikudziwa choti ndikuganiza, akuti pakadutsa miyezi iwiri akamaliza ntchito yake tiziuza tokha koma akuti chinthu chotetezeka ndichakuti ndalama alankhula zambiri zakulekana… .. koma amene akuyenera kusankha si ine ,, chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri ,, ndipo ndavutika kwambiri chifukwa cha izi ,,, sindikudziwa choti ndichite ,, ine ,, chonde
Wawa, ndine jeni, ndakhala chibwenzi kwa zaka 2 ndi miyezi 4 ndili ndi bwenzi langa yemwe ndimamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse komanso iye, vuto lathu lalikulu ndiloti nthawi zonse amandichititsa nsanje ndikuwona zinthu komwe samapereka ' t alipo, ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi agunatando nsanje yake yonse yomwe siyimayambitsa mikangano yoyipa kwambiri. Kuchokera pakukambirana kwambiri mwezi uno moona chilichonse chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe adakumana nazo ndipo sizinali zambiri, koma sizambiri, ndidayamba kuzindikira kuti anali kutali ndi ine ndipo sanandisowetse kwambiri koma anali mbali yanga, sitinakhalepo masiku atatu olekanitsidwa ndi ndewu. Chabwino ndidadwala izi ndipo ndidalankhula naye ndipo ndidamuuza kuti ngati angasinthe ndiye kuti udali mwayi womaliza kapena kuti ngati sasintha, nenani chilungamo ndipo tithane chibwenzicho pano. Anandifunsa chonde kuti tisamalize kumupatsa nthawi yoganiza kuti akudziwa kuti sitingapitilize chonchi ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti izi zidapweteka kwambiri ndipo ndikuvutika kwambiri zodabwitsa kwambiri zomwe sindikudziwa Chilichonse chokhudza iye masiku 5 apitawa kapena pang'ono kapena pang'ono adalankhula kwambiri Kwa masiku 15 osawonana, sindinamuyimbire kapena mnzanga, ngakhale mutu wanga umayamba kuganiza chilichonse mpaka atakhala ndi munthu wina. Ndingayamikire malingaliro anu
Moni, ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwa zaka 4 miyezi 7, ndi wokwatiwa monga amene akuti ndine apulo wosagwirizana chaka choyamba chilichonse chinali uchi pa ma flakes, mwatsoka chilichonse chakhala chikutha chakhala ndewu komanso ndewu zambiri komanso malata owonongeka ngakhale kuti anali ndi mkazi wake ndipo tidandinyenga kwa pafupifupi chaka, ndikutanthauza, tinali kale akazi atatu m'moyo wake ndipo ngakhale ndimapitilizabe naye, timazindikira kuti ubale wathu ndiwowononga koma ndimawona kuti ngati andisiya ndimwalira Ndikumva chisoni ndekha Ndipo chinthu chokha chomwe ndimachita ndikulira popempha mwezi kuti ndichiritse mabala, mukuganiza bwanji ???
Moni, ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwazaka ziwiri, zonse zisanakhale bwino ... anali wokoma mtima kwambiri komanso inenso, sipanakhale ndewu ... koma nthawi ina ntchito yake idayamba kutisiyanitsa, ine kusukulu panthawiyo momwemonso ... ndipo sipanatenge nthawi kuti tionane ... ndipo tidamenyera chilichonse, masiku apitawa tidamaliza ndipo ndidapita kukamusaka chifukwa ndidamva zoipa kwambiri, ndipo ndidamvanso kuti salinso amasamala zakundidziwitsa zambiri monga kale, (ngakhale akadali wokonda kwambiri ndi chilichonse)… tidabwerera…, koma lero, ndidamupempha kuti apite kaye, palibe tsiku limodzi lomwe lapita ndipo ndikumva kuwawa…. Tonse timalakwitsa, koma ndimaona kuti ndimalowererapo kwambiri, ndimamusiya ndikumufunafuna, ndimamupempha nthawi ndipo sindingathenso kuzitenganso, chonde ndithandizeni ... akunena kuti azichita zonse mundikonde, koma sindimukhulupiliranso, Ayi ndikudziwa chifukwa ... 🙁
Moni, tawonani, ndinali nditaganiza zopanga zoterozo, zinali ndi mtsikana yemwe anali kundikonda, koma ndinazindikira kuti akamayankhula nane ndipo timagwirizana naye, timangolankhula tsiku limodzi, zidachitika chaka chimodzi ndi theka ndisanayime kumuwona ndikumupatsa moni, chifukwa chake anali msungwana wokongola kwambiri, koma malingana ndi nthawiyo adalola kuti azithandizidwa ndi abwenzi omwe amakonda reggaeton, anali ndi luso pa limba, adayimba bwino, koma ndisanamalize sekondale ndinali ndi mwayi wolankhula naye kawiri, anali chete, anali wamtima wapachala, wamanyazi koma anamaliza kunena kuti akumva kundivutitsa zomwe zimamuvutitsa ndipo anamaliza kunena kuti alibe chidwi ine, mpaka nditavomera zomwe adandiuza, ndidafika tsiku lomaliza la sukulu, ndidatsamira khoma la holo mpaka iye ndi abwenzi ake atachita mantha atazindikira kuti akundizonda mpaka sindinadziwe kuti ali adabwera kudzandifuna, ndidapitilizabe kumuyang'ana mtsikanayo m'maso momwemonso Mpaka nditamvetsetsa kulakwitsa konse komwe adandiuza kuti sakundifunanso, kuti ndikuchoka osanditsanzika, ndidali ndi pempho loyembekezera kuchokera ku facebook yanga mpaka pomwe ndidaganiza zondikana ndipo ndidawona kuti ndi anga cholakwika chifukwa ndimamva kuti ndimulilitse, ndimaliranso kuyambira nthawi imeneyo chifukwa sindinakhalepo ndi mwayi woti andikhululukire, mpaka sindinadziwe ngati akukondanabe ndi ine kapena ayi ndipo ndichinthu chomvetsa chisoni kwambiri koma tsopano sindikudziwa ngati ndingadikire zaka 2 Kuti Ayiwalitse chilichonse ndikuti akhoza kukhululukidwa ndimathokoza blog iyi pamalingaliro a onse omwe amadzimva kuti asiyidwa ndi atsikana, chowonadi sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi Ndine mwana wamanyazi, wamanyazi ndipo ndili ndi zaka 3 moni kwa onse omwe ali bwino
Chibwenzi changa chidandifunsa kwakanthawi kuti ndilingalire za zinthu & chabwino ndidamuwuza kuti ndili naye zaka 1 miyezi 3 ndikhala naye & izi sizinachitike: / mpaka lero ndimamukonda & sindikudziwa choti ndiganiza
Moni, vuto langa ndikuti ndakhala m'banja zaka 7, tili ndi mwana wamwamuna wazaka zitatu ndipo zaka 3 zapitazo mwana wathu woyamba wamwalira 5 masabata apitawo mamuna wanga wasinthidwa kwambiri I x rravia ndinamuuza kuti ndikuwunikira ndi mwana wamwamuna watumiza uthenga kuti Ndimuwone ngati asintha mawonekedwe ake atakhala kuti tili ndi zocheperako masiku angapo apitawa ndidakangana naye chifukwa amangokhalira kuzilemba pafoni ndipo amandiuza kuti ndizomwe amakonda momwe mnzake amalemba kwa yemwe adamchitira zabwino ndipo ndidalimbana naye. Ndidamuyimitsa ndikumukweza ndipo adakwiya adachoka mnyumbamo ndipo sindidalole ndipo adandipempha mwezi umodzi kuti ndimupatse, ndidabwera kuti mlongo wanga ndipo adandiuza kuti wasintha ndi ine chifukwa cha nsanje yanga chifukwa ndimamuyamikira kwambiri chifukwa Sangatuluke yekha nthawi ndi nthawi ndikamamunyoza, aller, ndimayankhula naye, ndamuuza iye yemwe ndingamupatse mwana wamkazi yemwe amandifunsa, kuti ndimadikirira Seputembara kuti ayende, kuti amamukonda ndi chilichonse chabwino ndipo sanandiyankhe. anandiimbira ndinamuuza kuti andipatse op ina Ortunidad ndipo adandiuza kuti ndimuganizire sabata yatha adandiuza kuti akumva bwino yekha ndipo ndidamufunsa ngati amandikonda ngati amandikonda ndipo amandiuza kuti sakudziwa kuti amandikonda nthawi zonse sindinatero mukudziwa chifukwa chomwe ndidamukankhira kutali ndi nsanje yanga ndichita chiyani sindikumufunanso, sindikumulemberanso, chifukwa akundichitira zachipongwe, adzakhala amene ali ndi wina , Ndikufuna kumwalira.
Wawa Yeniffer, inenso ndalowa nawo pamsonkhano wabwino kwambiriwu, si zaka 7, ndimawerengabe ndipo ndakhala ndi amayi a mwana wanga wamkazi kwa zaka 6, koma kwa chaka chimodzi tsopano ndamupatsa chidaliro chogwira ntchito, ndipo lapso imeneyo idapanga chibwenzi kwambiri, ndi mwini wake wa kampaniyo kotero kuti adagawana nthawi, ndiye kuti, mwini malowo adamulimbikitsa kuti apite kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuthamanga, kukonzekera, mwa zina, koma Hei . Chiyambireni chaka chomwe wakhala akugwira ntchito, zomwe amachita anali kudziyesa ngati mkazi ndipo pomwe ndimamukonda kwambiri chifukwa chodzidalira kumakula, pomwe ndimamupatsa zonse kuti akhalebe wosangalala, koma mnzake ndi abwana ake adamwalira mu Marichi 2011, ndipo adachoka kwa ine ndipo mwana wanga wamkazi adadzipereka pantchito yake, ndipo izi zidandidetsa nkhawa ndipo sitimalankhula, ndidayamba kuchita nsanje, ndidadzisiya. koma ndimamukondabe kwambiri tsopano. Tikupatsana kanthawi titamenyana, inde ndidatuluka m'maganizo mwanga, ndipo tsopano tili ngati kuti ndimamuyang'ana, timakambirana ndipo ndikudziwa kuti amafunikira. ndipo amandifuna koma pali achibale kumbuyo kwake, akundiweruza pa nkhondoyi, koma zilibe kanthu kuti mwana wanga wamkazi amandifuna ndipo akudziwa kuti ndimamukonda…. Ndipo ndipitiliza kukumbukira kuti mtima umatopanso komanso ngati wina walakwitsa…. osalimbikira kwambiri ndipo mudzawona kuti ngakhale kuli kwa mwana wanu adzakuyitanani, momwemonso amayi a mwana wanga wamkazi. ndipo ndikamva liwu lawooooo .. kumverera kotani chifukwa ndinayamba kumukonda kwambiri ndipo adayamba kumukonda ndi ntchito yake …… pafupifupi nkhondo yomweyi kuti apambane…
Chowonadi ndichakuti sindikudziwa kuti ndiyiyamba bwanji nkhani yanga, koma ndiyesa ndili ndi zaka 30 ndipo mnzanga wazaka 35, takhala limodzi pafupifupi zaka 5, kuyambira pa Ogasiti 16 tasiyana. adayamba tsiku lomwe adataya mu In messenger yemwe adawonjezera kulumikizana naye kwa nthawi yayitali mpaka tsiku lina kulumikizana komweko, chifukwa sanasiye kuyankhula naye, akuti amakonda kucheza ndi munthu ameneyo zambiri ndipo zinthu zafika poipa.Iwo amalankhulana ngakhale pafoni, amatumizirana mauthenga ndi zina ... Ndipo mwamphamvu kuposa zonse, adapita kukakumana naye ndipo adamwa khofi.
Nkhani yomwe amandiuza kuti amandikonda chifukwa chakusokonekera kwa zaka zonsezi, zowona ndizakuti ndine munthu wabwino kwambiri ndipo ndakhala ndimachita naye bwino nthawi zonse ndipo sitinakanganepo kangapo. iye ndipo nditawona kuti akuyankhula pafoni ndi mnzake ndipo samatha kusiya kuseka, ndidamvetsetsa kuti sindikujambula chilichonse pamenepo ndidamuuza kuti ndikufuna kuchoka, ndidamuuza ndipo adayamba kulira , tsiku lotsatira ndinanyamuka ndipo nayenso anayamba kulira akundiuza kuti amandikonda ndipo amafuna kuti azikhala nane nthawi zonse ngati bwenzi labwino.
Ndikudziwa kuti poyamba amasangalala ndi mnzake, koma nthawi ndi chizolowezi zimawononga zonse monga zachitikira ife. Akufuna kuyika pachiwopsezo cha zaka 5 kuti ndikhale ndi munthu waku mzinda wina (Barcelona), ine ndine kuchokera kwa Alicante. Adziwa zomwe amachita. Amakhala wamphamvu kwa munthuyu kotero kuti akhoza kupita ku Barcelona ndikusiya zonse. Kutengera ndi zomwe ndikudziwa, ndapereka lingaliro langa kwa iye ndipo sindikuganiza kuti Izi ndizotheka ubale ubala zipatso, ndiwotanganidwa kwambiri yemwe amagwira ntchito kwambiri ndipo sakhala ndi nthawi yocheza naye.
Ndikudziwa kuti nthawi ino yomwe tadzipereka tokha ndiye chiyambi cha mapeto ndipo ndilibe chilichonse chaposachedwa ndipo sindikhulupirira.
Ndakhala banja ndi chibwenzi changa pafupifupi zaka ziwiri, ngakhale tidakhala bwino kwambiri. Poyamba amakhala pamwamba panga nthawi zonse, amabwera kudzandiwona koma kwakanthawi ndazindikira momwe amandidutsira, ngakhale anzanga awona. Ndikakwiya, nthawi zonse amayankha kuti amandikonda kwambiri komanso kuti akukondanabe koma samaziwonetsa ndi zochita zake, amadzitchinjiriza, ndikumanena kuti ndikutanthauza kuti ndiye munthu woyipa pachibwenzi. Ndamupempha kwakanthawi kuti aganize ndi chiyembekezo kuti asintha, koma wazitenga momwe ndikufuna kumusiyira. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite
Ngati inu ndi iye muli kale pachibwenzi, mum'gwire kuchokera pamenepo ndipo sindikufuna kuti zimveke zachilendo kwa inu, koma anthu amtunduwu akuyenera kupeza yankho ngati ili ... chifukwa amakhala otetezeka nthawi zonse zachinsinsi chawo mudzawona ngati akuopa kukondedwa kapena kumva kukondana kwambiri ndi inu, mpaka atayamba kukukondani kwambiri.Mufunseni kuti ngati mantha ake akukondana ndi fupa nanu koma mutero osachita pomwe akukangana chitani mukakhala naye m'manja ndipo mudzawona ngati angachite mantha kapena ngati akutsutsana, mumudzaze ndi caress ndipo amva chikondi chanu chonse.
Ndikuganiza kuti kutenga nthawi sikuthandiza, ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwazaka zisanu ndi zitatu ndipo katatu ndidachoka mnyumbamo, kutipatsa nthawi yoganizira ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti timasintha kwakanthawi kenako zonse ndizofanana , chibwenzicho chimakhala chozizira kwambiri, chosasangalatsa, ndimaona kuti bwenzi langa likuopa kudzipereka, nthawi zonse ndimamupempha kuti akhale wachikondi, womvetsetsa, wokoma mtima komanso m'masabata oyambilira bwino kenako zonse zimakhala chimodzimodzi.
Ndikuganiza kuti kutenga nthawi sikuthandiza, ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwazaka zisanu ndi zitatu ndipo katatu ndidachoka mnyumbamo, kutipatsa nthawi yoganizira ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti timasintha kwakanthawi kenako zonse ndizofanana , chibwenzicho chimakhala chozizira kwambiri, chosasangalatsa, ndimaona kuti bwenzi langa likuopa kudzipereka, nthawi zonse ndimamupempha kuti akhale wachikondi, womvetsetsa, wokoma mtima komanso m'masabata oyambilira bwino kenako zonse zimakhala chimodzimodzi.
Pakadali pano tasiyana; Ndimakhala m'nyumba ya amayi anga, ndakhala komweko milungu itatu ndipo ndizovuta kuti ndizolowere moyo watsopano; Pakadali pano ndimawona kuti sizinali bwino kukonza chibwenzi changa ngati banja, chifukwa kulumikizana ndi wakale wakale kumakhala kocheperako komanso ndikucheka, ndimamva kuti ndimamukonda, ndimamukonda, ndipo Amanenanso chimodzimodzi koma sititero tiwonetsane china chilichonse tikakhala limodzi; Ndikumva kukhala wopanda pake mumtima mwanga, komanso ndimadzimva kuti ndiyenera kuganizira za ine ndekha ndikuchita zinthu zambiri zomwe ndikuyembekezera.
Moni, ndikufuna kunena nkhani yanga, ndangothetsa chibwenzi changa, ndikukuuzani asanayambe wakhala akundiuza kuti akusowa chonena kuti akusowa kanthu koma ndimalola kuti ndikhale nanu, takhala ndi nthawi zabwino komanso ndewu zingapo zomwe ndimangokakamira kuti ndipitilize .. ndipo tsopano ndikadwala ndili ndi nkhawa ndimamva chisoni ndipo inali nthawi yomwe adandisiya .. tsopano akuti samamuyimbira kapena chilichonse amapereka nthawi ndi nthawi koma mwanjira ina amandiuza kuti Sadzakhalanso ndi ine koma sakudziwa momwe angadziwire zakukhosi kwake. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite? Ndikufuna thandizo chonde
olz .. chabwino sindikudziwa kuti ndiyambe bwanji .. chowonadi ndichakuti, ndakhumudwa kwambiri…. Wokondedwa wanga adandifunsa kwakanthawi, chowonadi ndichakuti sindikuganiza izi .. amagwira ntchito kuyambira Lolemba mpaka Loweruka ndipo amangopuma Lamlungu ndipo popeza ndimaphunzira, sitimatha kuonana .. Lamlungu lokha timakhala tinawonana ngakhale kuti tinkangowonana kamodzi pa sabata.Muxo ndinayamba kerer kwambiri, miyezi inadutsa ndipo tinapitilirabe mofananamo .. koma kenako nisikiera Lamlungu sitinawone chifukwa sanandiyitane nisikiera ndinali kumandifuna momwe ndingathere kutiwonana koma palibe ... panali masiku ena mu k adalowa msn ndipo Adandiuza chikondi, ndidzakuyimbirani kuti mudzatione .. Ndidadikirira kuyitanidwa koma palibe chomwe chidachita ndipo ndiye panali milungu ingapo osationa ndipo nditalowa facebook, umati uli ndi nkhumba, axi awa, ndimakukonda, ndimakukonda, osadandaula pano ndili ndi mavuto .. ndi zina zotero, koma ndikuti inde iye ngati muli ndi mavuto, ndiuzeni, ndili pano kuti ndikuthandizeni koma sananene chilichonse kwa ine ndipo adandipweteka pambuyo pake, tsitsani chithunzi he la k akuwonekera ndi mtsikana ndipo pachithunzicho adati 100pre limodzi palibe amene angatitengere ayi Sindinamuuze chilichonse ndipo ndinamumaliza pa facebook ndinamuuza kuti ali bwino ngati ndinganene kuti ndidakali naye ngati sitikuwonana ... adali owawa ndipo adandiuza kuti nkhumba itha iye pa facebook mwanjira imeneyo sizinali choncho tinkafunika kuti tizinena ndinamuuza k Ngati pakadutsa masiku awiri ndipo anandiuza, ndikuyimbira foni, ndamuuza tsopano, koma = nunka, andiyitana kuti tidzacheze ticheze , tinamaliza ndipo anandiuza kuti akhala ndi ine ndipo akhala ndi ine ndipo zinthu zambiri tizibwerera ... ndiye amandiuza ndikumva kuwawa sindikudziwa Zomwe zimandichitikira ndipo ngati timadzipatsa nthawi ... ndinamuuza kuti mukufuna nthawi yochulukirapo kupatula masabata onsewa, sitinawonane, ndili ndi muxo wowawasa ndikumaliza naye ... tsopano ndikumva chisoni kuti ndamusowa muxo muxo ndipo sindikudziwa kuti nditani? ndithandizeni chonde !!!!!!!! 🙁 🙁
Ndangomufunsa mnzanga kwakanthawi ... ndipo sikuti ndimatopa naye kapena sindikumukondanso ... ndichifukwa tili ndi mavuto ambiri ndipo timafunikira tonse awiri kuunikanso ubale ... masabata angapo ndikwanira ..zikhala zabwino kwambiri, tonse tidzazindikira ngati chikondi chathu ndichachikulu ndipo aliyense awona zolakwa zomwe adachita ndikuzikonza. kupitilira masabata awiri ndiwowopsa kale ... pamenepo ngati mutha kuziziritsa zinthu.
Moni, ndidamupempha mnzanga kuti andipatse nthawi ndipo sindiwo kuti sindimamukonda kapena sindimamufuna, ndikupita sabata limodzi kutchuthi ndipo ndikufuna awunikenso ngati amandikonda kapena ayi ngati masiku amenewo akuwona kuti mumusowa ngati akufuna ine, komanso monga ine wa iye. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kupitiliza m'moyo wanu, ngati mukandiona chikondi chikukula, chimalimbitsa ndikutipangitsa kufuna kupitilirabe osasiyana kwambiri, nthawi imagwira ntchito ndipo ngati mukafika, mundikana, mumachoka kapena kuzemba , zinali zakuti nthawiyo idamvetsetsa kuti Amandikonda kuti popanda ine akadali bwino, ndipo amasankha kuthetsa chibwenzicho, ndikumva kuwawa mumtima mwanga ndimusiya koma motero ndipulumutsa 3.4.kapena zaka 10 pafupi ndi wina amene samandikonda ndipo patangotha masiku ochepa kuti amvetsetse ndipo ndidzakhala ndi mwayi wopanga moyo wanga ndi munthu wina osadandaula mochedwa ... kapena kuwononga nyumba ... nthawi ndiyofunika koma inunso ndikuyenera kudziwa momwe mungapempherere kapena kuipereka ndi zikhalidwe ndikupanga zonse kumveka, nthawi siyiyenera kutengedwa ngati chowiringula kuti musiye wina chifukwa pazomwe ziyenera kukhala Olimba Mtima ndikuwona zenizeni zikuyenera kusanthula osati ndi mnzanu, chifukwa ngati mumayesetsa kupeza mayankho simudzamupeza chifukwa nkhondo itatha mwaphonya ndikuyiwala ndikudziunjikira ndibwino kuganiza kuti muthe malingaliro anu osagwirizana ndi awiriwo ku chitani chomwecho kuti akulolani kuti mufufuze ndipo inunso mumulole kuti awunikire. chibwenzi chawo, ukwati kapena ubale wawo ngati banja ... koposa zonse kufunafuna thandizo ndikofunikira ... onse kuchokera kwa othandizira, komanso kwa Mulungu amene ali chikondi ndi wopatsa mtendere wamumtima, amakhululuka ngakhale kuti sizopweteka kusintha munthu woti atithandizire tonse awiri, kusiya zokhazokha, chizolowezi ... chomwe chimapha njonda, chimapha, o, kuti nthawi zonse muzikondana ndi achinyamata, malingaliro, matsenga, malingaliro, osafikira pamanyazi, mwina chifukwa ambiri chifukwa cha msinkhu, koma Ngati ngati achinyamata tidakonda kupanga, kubwerezanso, kuyesa banja, bwanji osakhala achikulire kapena akulu? Onani wachikulire, nthawi zambiri mumayang'ana wachichepere? chifukwa chiyani zinthu zatsopano? koma ngakhale achikulire sitingathe; ingoganizirani, yesani ndikuyambiranso zinthu zatsopano? timataya kukumbukira kwathu? Titha kudzipanga tokha kukhala okongola kwa iwo koma sitingathe kukongoletsanso ndikukonzanso chikhumbo chathu cha kunyanja, kuti tiyesere m'njira yathanzi komanso yosangalatsa? Zachidziwikire, inde, koma abambo, musatengeke ndi miyambo, chizolowezi, manyazi, kodi aliyense amapempha nthawi yanji? china chatsopano! momveka bwino kuti mupumule chimodzimodzi; za ndewu; koma palimodzi pabedi limodzi samalankhula, amangoganiza ndikubuula ... ndi chifukwa chiyani? Tikukhulupirira ... kapena mayankho omwe sakugwiritsa ntchito ... ndikuti ngati tili achinyamata ambiri m'zaka za zana la XNUMX akuti tiyenera kuthamanga naye, ndikupita naye limodzi, chifukwa si nthawi yoti tichite bwino nanenso !!! monga makolo, ana, okwatirana, abale ect ... Mulungu andipatse nzeru ndi chidziwitso chomwe ndiyenera kukonda, kugawana ndikusangalala ndi zomwe ndili nazo kuti moyo uno ndi umodzi osati china chilichonse ...
Ndikuganiza kupempha kanthawi sikoyipa kwambiri !! chibwenzi changa timadutsanso munthawi yamavuto, koma ndikuganiza kuti zovuta ndizotsuka maubale. Ndikuganiza zomuuza kuti atenge nthawi, ndiye timasanthula zinthu, kukonza zolakwitsa zathu, kuyang'ana zabwino zathu ndikusiya kuwonetsa zina. Sindikuganiza kuti kufunsa kanthawi kopitilira masabata atatu ndikuphwanya ubalewo. Chilichonse ndichachibale ndipo banjali lifunika nthawi yomwe likufunika! Osachepera kwa ine, masabata a 3 ndi ochepa kwambiri ngati NDIKUFUNA kuti ndipange zosintha zabwino kwa ine komanso pachibwenzi! Cholinga changa sikuti ndichite phwando, kapena kudzipezera wokondedwa, kapena kuledzera mpaka mbandakucha! amenewo ndi amisala, osakhwima! nthawi yanga ndikugwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawi zonse ndikusunga chibwenzi changa m'malingaliro mwanga komanso mumtima mwanga ...
ndizo zonse zomwe ndingathe kupereka! tengani nthawi, nthawi sizikhala zoyipa ngati mutapezerapo mwayi kuti mudzikonzekere nokha ndikukhalitsa ubale!
Moni Gaby
Ndikufuna kudziwa momwe munaliri nthawi imeneyo ndipo ngati ndikulimbitsa ubale wanu ndi chibwenzi chanu popeza ndidachitanso chimodzimodzi monga inu ndi ine takhala tikuganizira sabata limodzi lokha ndikufuna kukhwima muzinthu zambiri ndikulakalaka kuti tibwerere kuti ndikhale wosangalala ... ndaziphonya zambiri koma sindikudziwa ngati adandiyankha kuyambira pomwe imelo yomaliza yomwe ndidamuyankha masiku 4 apitawa akufotokozera zinthu, sanandiyankhe, komano sindimamuyang'ana kuti tisamukakamize kapena chilichonse ... koma sitinauzane nthawi yochulukira sindikudziwa choti ndichite.
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Sindikuganiza kuti okwatirana azitenga nthawi ... chifukwa chokhacho chomwe chimachitika ndikuti kumverera kuzizilitsa chibwenzi changa chidandifunsa kwakanthawi koma ndidaganiza zomaliza naye kenako amandiimbira foni ndikundiuza kuti titero ndibwererenso mawa ndikalankhule naye ndikhulupilira kuti zonse ndi zothetsera mavuto ... chifukwa ndimamukonda sindimvetsetsa za nthawi yomwe anandiuza kuti analakwitsa kuti anali weon ndipo nditamufunsa za nthawi yomwe anandiuza kuti anali ndi chidwi chifukwa anali ndi mantha chifukwa zomwe amandimvera ine mu nthawi yayifupi ndizolimba kwambiri ... nditani
Ndili ndi funso lotsatirali masiku atatu apitawa ine ndi chibwenzi changa tinamenyana ndipo ndinamuuza kuti chibwenzicho chinali chotopetsa ndinanena chifukwa ndinali wokwiya kwambiri koma patatha masiku atatu ndinamuyimbira foni ndipo anandiuza kuti chinthu chabwino ndichakuti kumaliza ndinadabwitsidwa chifukwa sindimayembekezera koma tinalankhula ndekha ndipo ndinakwanitsa kumutsimikizira kuti zonse zomwe ndinanena sizinali zoona choncho ndinamupempha mwayi ndipo anati ayi mpaka potsiriza atavomera ndipo anandiuza kuti adakhumudwa kwambiri kuti amafuna zomwe amafuna.ndikuti tili bwino zomwe ndikufuna kudziwa ndikuti ngati ndimaliza ndikatha kuyankhula ndi ofooka ndikundiuza kuti ngati titakhala bwino zikutanthauza kuti amafunadi kumaliza ndi ine kapena inali mphindi yakukwiya, chonde ndikulangizeni zikomo….
Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayo ndidayamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, tinali ndi khemistri yochititsa chidwi, tinkacheza nthawi zonse ngakhale kutuluka, ndipo tidayitanirana…. Pambuyo pa miyezi itatu tidadzipatsa mwayi wokhala ndi china chachikulu ... koma sanali wotsimikiza za izi kuyambira pomwe munthu yemwe adakhala naye kale mabala ambiri mumtima mwake ... koma pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndimawachiritsa, anandiuza….
Patatha masiku ochepa ndidazindikira kuti amalumikizanabe ndi iye kenako adandikana zonse ndipo pamapeto pake adayenera kuzilandira, sindinakwiye chifukwa anali wowona mtima kwa ine ndipo anandiuza zonse ... sindingakane kuti zimapweteka kwambiri koma bodza limapweteka mukavomera komanso zowona kwakanthawi kotero mlandu watsekedwa…. sabata yatha, tidakumana ndipo adaona china chake chomwe samakonda m'chipinda changa…. Chowonadi ndichakuti, ndikumva kuwawa, ndidachotsa koma ndichachisoni changa kuti adalemba kale m'malingaliro mwake ... adandiuza kuti amuuza zoona ndipo ndidatseka kuti ayi ndi ayi ... . Izi zidadzetsa kukayikirana pambuyo pokhala pachibwenzi chabwino ndipo pano amandiuza kuti akufuna kulingalira bwino koma sitinathenso kulumikizana, koma sizokhazikika ngati kale ...... chowonadi ndichakuti izi zimandipweteka chifukwa mwa iye ndimaganiza kuti ndapeza chikondi cha moyo wanga… ..
Ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwa chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi 1 ndipo ndidamufunsa kwakanthawi chifukwa zinthu sizikuyenda bwino posachedwapa ... kusowa kulumikizana, kusowa kugonana kwa miyezi ingapo, mpaka masiku 8 apitawo ndidawona pankhope panga kuti amakonda chithunzi cha mtsikana wamaliseche..zodziwikiratu ndinapangitsa kuti ndisamudalire ndipo chikondi chake chinatayika .. thandizani chonde !! Ndikukuthokozani ndi mtima wanga wonse ngati mungandiyankhe
Moni, chabwino, sindikudziwa kuti ndiyambe bwanji… Chabwino, ndili ndi zaka pafupifupi 9 ndikukhala ndi mnzanga. Tili ndi mtsikana wazaka 4 NDI mnyamata wazaka 8. Chilichonse chinali chosangalala pakati pathu. Ndinkakonda wokondedwa wanga ndipo ndikunena kuti ndimamukonda chifukwa tsopano ndikukhulupirira kuti chibwenzi c infrio kwa zaka pafupifupi 3 pomwe ndidayamba kugwira ntchito .. palibe c zinthu zomwe zidayamba kuziziritsa kulumikizana kwatha .. ngakhale mwatcheru sindimamvanso kalikonse pamene timapanga zachikondi ... Koma palibe cq osachita c Ngati ndikapempha nthawi kapena ndimaliza ... Ndithandizeni chonde ndataya mtima .. ..
Mukudziwa kuti muyenera kuyang'anizana ndi zisankho zanu chifukwa muli ndi banja kale ndipo sizimangokhudza inuyo komanso iye, komanso anthu awiri osalakwa ndipo ndinu banja, akuyenera kuthana limodzi kuti zopatukana za banja ndizomvetsa chisoni chifukwa chake ife Muyenera kulingalira za zinthu za zibwenzi zomwe sizinakwatirane, ndikuwuzani china chake chopita kwa akatswiri azamisala achite zinthu zatsopano koma osawononga ana anu motere, mukadadziwa zomwe amavutika pambuyo pake koma mudzadziwa ndikulimbikitsani kuti mupite kwa Mulungu adzakutsogolerani koma chitani kuchokera pansi pamoni Moni
Akakufunsani, ndichifukwa chakuti ali ndi wina kunja uko, ndipo ngati sichoncho, ndichifukwa chakuti sakumveranso zomwe adamva chifukwa cha inu ndipo akufuna kuchotsa malingaliro ake, koma akapempha nthawi, sasamala zokwanira za inu kuti mudzitaye mu nthawi yomwe mwapemphayo, ndiroleni ndimvetsetse motsimikiza
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Moni anyamata ndipo osapanikizika akakufunsani .. Tsegulani mosaganizira koma osadziwika
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PAMENE ANTHU AMAMVA "KUFUNSA KWA NTHAWI YONSE", GANIZANI MOONA KUTI KULI CHIPANGI CHACHITATU KAPENA KUTI MUNTHU SAKONZEDWANSO WOKWANZANA NAWO .. NDI ULEMEKEZO WONSE KOMA IYE NDI WOPANDA NDIPONSO WOBWERANSO !!! .. NGATI MUNTHU AKUFUNA KUTHA NDI MUNTHU WINA, WOSAVUTA ... ZIMATHA NDIPO PITANI! ... NDIMANENA KUTI NTHAWI NDI YABWINO KWAMBIRI NGATI YATSOGOLEREDWA NDI AKATSWIRI .. ZIMADALIRA KWA NTHAWI YAKE, NGATI ZILI ZOFUNIKA KUDALIRA KAPena ZOLAKIKA MU CHIBALE NGATI MONOTONYI, AWIRI NDI OVUTA OVALA. KUTI NGATI, SIZOPOSA MASIKU 8, NDIPO AWIRI AYENERA KUCHOTSEDWA NDI MALANGIZO A MALANGIZO. NTHAWI ZINTHU M'Mawu OCHOKERA NDI ZABWINO KWAMBIRI. NGATI MUKUDZIWA KUWERENGA NDIPO MUKUDZIWA KUTI MUZIVALA MOKHA Ndimabwereza, ANTHU AMENE AMANENA ZINTHU Zonga MARIA PIA, KAPena SELENE. KWA MTUNDU WA ANTHU AMENE AMAKWANITSA ZONSE KUFIKIRA PA "ZOFUNIKA KWAMBIRI" PALI MABWENZI AMENE AMATHA BWINO KWABWINO
Ndikuganiza kuti kutenga nthawi ndikofunikira pamene m'modzi mwa anthu awiriwa amakukondani ndipo amakuwonetsani ndi zochita zawo koma akuwopa kuwafotokozera momveka bwino chifukwa cha zowawa zomwe adakumana nazo m'mbuyomu osati kwenikweni muubwenzi wachikondi ngati sichoncho zomwe zimapatsa moyo wonse.
Anthu akamva "afunseni kanthawi" amaganiza mwachindunji kuti pali munthu wina kapena kuti munthuyo sakondanso mnzake .. ndi ulemu wonse koma kumeneko ndi kupusa kwenikweni ndikubwezeretsanso !!! .. ngati munthu akufuna kutero kulekana ndi winawake, zosavuta ... zimatha ndipo ndi zomwezo! ... ndikunena kuti nthawi ndiyabwino kwambiri ngati itsogozedwa ndi katswiri .. Zimatengera chifukwa chake nthawiyo ili, ngati ndi chifukwa chodalira kapena chifukwa cha kulephera muubwenzi monga kukondera, zonse ndizosavuta kunyamula. kuti ngati, amenewo si masiku opitilira 8, ndipo onse akuyenera kutengedwa mothandizidwa ndi katswiri. nthawi mwachidule ndiabwino kwambiri. Ngati mumadziwa kufunsa ndipo mukudziwa kutsogolera mwanjira yokhwima, izi zimapangitsa anthu kulingalira momwe akuchitira muubwenzi (zomwe samachita ali limodzi mwakuthupi). Ndikubwereza, anthu omwe amalankhula zinthu monga Maria Pia, kapena Selene. chifukwa anthu amtunduwu omwe amatenga chilichonse mpaka kufika pa «common sense» ndikuti pali maubale omwe amatha bwino
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Mukudziwa, bwenzi langa lazaka 5 lidandinamizira ndikubwezera zomwezo ndidachitanso zomwezo (osazichita ngati muli ndi chikumbumtima chifukwa zingakupangitseni kuti muzimva kuwawa) sakudziwa, tikupitilira koma iye sanabwezeretse chidaliro chomwe ndinali nacho mwa iye ndipo zimapezeka kuti anandiuza chiyani kuti amakonda A GIRL AAHAHAHHA kenako ndinawona zithunzi zomwe amapsompsona imodzi, akudziwa kuti ndimamuthandiza pazonse ndipo anali bwino nthawi koma za nyengo zokha tsopano adandifunsa kuti akakhale ndi nthawi ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndi Munthu yemwe sakundiyenera koma ndidamupatsa nthawi ndipo akudziwa kuti sali naye yemwe ndikufuna kukhala naye koma ndimaganiza kuti zitha sintha zachisoni ndikudziwa kuti ayi, kuyambira Lachisanu latha adatenga nthawi yomwe sitinalankhule kapena chilichonse ngati kuti kulibe, sindikudziwa Chifukwa chiyani zimandipweteka chifukwa ndimamusowa ndikadziwa kuti si munthu wabwino, wanga mitambo ili ndi mitambo koma sindikudziwa chifukwa chake chifukwa sindinayenerane nayo sindikudziwa choti ndichite komanso zomwe zidzachitike akadzandilankhula pambuyo pake ndaganiza ndipo sindikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kubwerera kwa iye ndikakhala sca itadutsa nthawi yomwe adafunsa, koma ndimaopa kuti sindili wolimba chifukwa ndimamukonda ndimaganiza choncho osati chifukwa amayenera kutero koma chifukwa ndimadziwa kukonda anthu ndikuyembekeza wina atha kundipatsa upangiri wabwino zikomo abwenzi
Kutenga nthawi ndi banjali kulingaliranso mbali zosiyanasiyana zaubwenzi, kuchokera pa zomwe ndakumana nazo ine ndikukuuzani kuti sikokwanira kutenga nthawi imeneyo, ngati muvomereza, chibwenzi chatha, ndi bwino kutenga modekha zonse zomwe zikubwera ndikubwerera kudzamuchitira mnzako monga tsiku loyamba lomwe mudakumana naye, kumuwonetsanso malingaliro omwe amakukondani, zomwe zimatenga nthawi ndipo muyenera kukhala oleza mtima kwambiri, ndikuyesani kuzindikira ngati mnzakeyo amakukondanibe , Ngati avomerezanso chidwi chonsecho, ngati sakulandiranso sakukondaninso, muyenera kuganiziranso zomwe mukufuna. Simungakhale ndi munthu yemwe safanana ndi chikondi chanu, ndizovuta koma muyenera kuvomereza.
Wawa, ndine Martha, ndili ndi zibwenzi zaka ziwiri koma mnzanga amagwira ntchito kudera lina, nthawi zina miyezi itatu idadutsa ndipo sitinawonane, koma titawonana zinali zosangalatsa kukumana kwathu kwakanthawi, iye akuti timamenya nkhondo, nthawi yayitali 2% tidakhala naye limodzi, ndipo adandifunsa kwakanthawi chifukwa atapanga chibwenzi akuti sanamve kanthu, ndipo ali wokondwa kundiona koma samva chisangalalo cha m'mbuyomu, pomaliza pake anandiuza kuti vuto linali iye osati ine, ndipo ndikukupemphani kuti munditsogolere choti ndichite, kapena momwe ndingathanirane ndi vutoli.Ndimamukonda kwambiri koma sindikutsimikiza kuti ndizofunika izo. kupsompsona ndi madalitso
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Ndasokonezeka kwambiri ndipo ndakhala ndikuipa kwa zaka 2 ndipo
1/2 pololeando bwenzi langa samandikhulupirira ndipo amakayika chilichonse komanso ali ndi nsanje chomwe chimachitika ndikuti wandinyenga ndikupempha kuti andikhululukire ndipo wachita izi chifukwa amadzimva kuti ndekha sindingathenso kupirira chifukwa ndamuuza m'njira zikwi zambiri zomwe ndimakhulupirira kuti sindinakhulupirire mkazi wakale ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndimamukonda bwenzi langa sindimadziwa choti ndichite nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti chinthu chabwino ndikamakhala naye ngati osamuuza Ndimayesetsa kundithandiza plisssssssssss
Kony sindikudziwa kuti uli ndi zaka zingati, koma ukasiya kukhulupirirana, zinthu sizidzakhala ngati kale, umafunikiradi kulumikizana ndi mkazi wako kuti muchiritse izi ndipo nonse mwafika mfundo zofunika kuti mubwezeretse izi kudalira.
Zimapezeka kuti nthawi zina timathirira madzi ndipo timanong'oneza bondo ndipo timati Hei Pepani kuti ndachita izi ndi izi ndipo banjali "lakukhululukirani" ndipo zakukwanirani koma siziyenera kukhala choncho kuti muwonetse kuti iwo Titha kukukhulupirirani komanso anthu ambiri akachita kusakhulupirika kwa ife, timakhulupirira kuti amangofufutidwa zomwe sizichitika zenizeni
Onani, muyenera kuwunika zoyenera kuchita akakupatsani kaye, ndikuganiza kuti muyenera kudziona kuti ndinu ofunika ndikuganiza kuti Mulungu amakupangirani zabwino, koma ngati munaziwuthirira, ndiye kuti canyon iyi chifukwa moyo ndi boomerang ndipo tikamazunza anthu.Bwerani muyenera kuganizira nthawi zonse ngati mwalakwitsa, phunzirani pa izo ndipo musapweteketse wina ndipo ngati anali awiri anzanga, ayenera kuwona momwe zingathere ngati amamva kuti satero, ndiye kukafufuza njira ina
Moni, ndikufuna thandizo ...
Ndine mkazi wazaka 27 ndipo wazaka 40 alibe mwana ndipo sanakwatiwepo.Iye wakhala ndi akazi ambiri ndipo ndiyenera kunena zowona ndipo zolakwazo zapangidwa ndi onsewa chifukwa sanakhwime , koma yemwe adayambitsa mavutowo adali iye ... musakhale opusa koma tonse tidakulitsa mavutowo ndipo timamva chilichonse ... Ndinaganiza zopanga bwino ndipo ndazichita amazizindikira koma sindikudziwa zomwe zimachitika koma vuto latsopano limatuluka ndipo tsopano omaliza adapanga miseche ndipo mkwiyo udandisiya ndidathera pafoni ndidamuyimbira kuti ndimupemphe kuti andimvere kuti ndi bodza ndipo atazindikira kuti misecheyo ndiyabodza awiri patadutsa masiku angapo anandiuza kuti ndimukhululukire kuti amandikhulupirira koma ndinali nditapwetekedwa kale chifukwa anandisiya ndekha ndi vuto pomwe ndimafunikira kwambiri ... Ndikudutsa nthawi yovuta ndipo ndichifukwa ndikufuna kuti amve chabwino kuti ndisataye kuti ngati amandikondadi kuti ndisataye chikondi ndinamuuza kuti chifukwa chakumenyana komanso kusagwirizana kotero kuti ngati akufuna kutenga masiku kapena nthawi yoganizira Kodi ndimkafuna chiyani ndipo ndimazitenga moyipa ... Ndili ndi mabala ambiri otseguka chifukwa adandisiya nditaponyedwa kawiri, adandiuza zaukwati ndipo sanatchulidwenso ndinali wokondwa kwambiri ndi izi ndipo anali ndi zambiri zokhumudwitsa nane koma amawazindikira ndipo pamenepo Amasintha koma tikakhala bwino, china chake chimachitika ... popeza popeza sitinayankhulane ndimamva chisoni kuti ndamusowa chifukwa ndiwamunthu wapadera sananenepo zoyipa kapena mwakuthupi Anandizunza .. Ndamunena mawu okhumudwitsa akalakwitsa anga ... pachiyambi cha chibwenzi chifukwa cha kusatetezeka kwanga kwa iye pomwe adasokoneza, ndimazimaliza pafupipafupi ndipo ndikupepesa chifukwa kumeneko ndidamuwonetsa kusatetezeka komanso kusakhwima ... ndidasiya zinthu zambiri zofunika pamoyo wanga m'malo mwake .... Sitinanene kuti tipatsana nthawi yayitali bwanji sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire ... sindikumufuna kapena chilichonse ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndiyambe kuyika chikondicho ndimumverere chifukwa cha mavuto ambiri ndimawona kuti chibwenzicho chasokonekera ndipo sindikudziwa ngati amafunadi kena kake kapena ndimadalanso m'moyo wake koma ndidanenetsa kuti ndimamukonda kwambiri komanso kuti nthawiyo inali osati kuti ndimumalize koma kuti awonetse zomwe akufuna ndi ine ... Ndikufuna thandizo chifukwa sindikudziwa ngati ndine amene ndinalakwitsa nditamuuza zakupuma kapena ngati sizikundigwira ...
Wawa, ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa pafupifupi mwezi wathunthu ndipo sakonda nthabwala ndipo sindikumvetsa kotero amakwiya kwambiri ndipo timakangana kwambiri ndipo ndimayamba kulira chifukwa sindikudziwa ngati kuyenera kukhala ndi mnyamata yemwe safuna kuphunzira kapena salola kuti muphunzire ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kuchonderera kwakanthawi chonde mundiyankhe
Moni nonse! Ndikukufotokozerani zondichitikira: Ndinakhala pachibwenzi zaka zitatu, tsiku lina tidamenya nkhondo, ndimamumenya, ndipo tidasiya kuonana masiku angapo. Pambuyo pake tinawonana, tinakambirana, ndipo ndinamuuza kuti ndikufuna nthawi, kuti zinthu zikhazikike, osati kukhala naye ndikumupweteka kwambiri. Ndiye wazaka ziwiri ... chinachitika nchiani? Ndamupempha kuti abwerere, ndamuuza kuti ndimamukonda ndipo ndikufuna kubwerera, chifukwa nthawiyo idandithandiza kuti ndimuthokoze, kuwona momwe ndimaganizira, ndikusintha. Mayankho awo amachokera "Ndasokonezeka, sindikudziwa zomwe ndimamva", mpaka "Ndikufuna kuti tikhale abwenzi" ... timacheza, timapita "ngati abwenzi", koma chowonadi nthawi zina amakhala kukhala ndi manja kapena malingaliro, kapena zambiri zomwe ndizofanana Ngati kundipsompsona patsaya, kujambula zithunzi ndi foni yanga, zinthu monga choncho, ndipo zimandisokoneza kwambiri; Sindikudziwa ngati ndifunsenso ngati akufuna kubwerera, kapena kumudumpha ndikumudula kwamuyaya ndikumanganso moyo wanga ... Sindikudziwa choti ndichitenso, kupatula apo ndimamva kuti zikuyenda motsutsana, kuti mzaka ziwiri izi zopatsana "nthawi" zasintha kwambiri !! Ndikuyamikira kwambiri malangizo anu your
Moni, bwenzi langa lapempha kwakanthawi, takhala ndi chibwenzi kwa miyezi 4 koma ali mkati mwakusudzulana, wakale wake adayamba kundivuta kumaso komanso pafoni ndipo akuti akufuna nthawiyo mpaka atasudzulidwa mwalamulo chifukwa samamufuna Zimandipweteka, koma chowonadi ndichakuti izi zikhala miyezi yambiri, ndipo choyipitsitsa ndichakuti nthawiyo ndiyopanda kutiwona kapena kuyankhula kapena kutilembera, ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri
Nthawi zina ndi bwino kupatula nthawi. Zikakhala zenizeni. Chibwenzi chikasokonekera koma pali chikondi. Mukakhala pamavuto akulu ndi zonyozedwa zomwe simungathe kutulukamo. Mukakhala ngati simukuwona chilichonse. Kutenga nthawi moona mtima komanso kuchokera kuchikondi sikoipa. Zinthu ziwiri zitha kuchitika: kuti ubale umatha chifukwa m'modzi kapena onse akufuna, kapena umayambiranso ndikuyambiranso, kukonzanso ndi kulimbitsa chikondi. Simuyenera kuchita mantha. Zosankha zonsezi ndi bwino kupirira ndikuvutika ngati njira yothanirana sikupezeka muubwenzi. Zimathandizira kuzindikira zinthu zambiri zokhudzana ndi mzake komanso zomwe sizingawonekere chifukwa chakuchepa kwaubwenzi.
Moni, ndakumana ndi mwana mwezi wopitilira 1 wapita, adandipatsa zonse kuti ndilipire ngongole zanga, ndidakumana ndi abale ake, mpaka adati pepani chifukwa cholemera koma kusakhazikika kwanga kumandidwalitsa, adadzipereka kuti atenga masiku ochepa sindikufuna, kenako Anakhudzanso nkhaniyi ndipo anandiuza kuti zatha, mpaka chifukwa chake tinakangana ndipo kwa masiku pafupifupi 4 kuti sanadziwe za iye mpaka atalandira uthenga woti "moni monga inu, ndikhulupirira Chifukwa chake, koma ndikuwona kuti ngakhale ndimipukutu "Ndidamuyimbira patadutsa masiku awiri ndikwanitsa kuyankhula naye adandiuza" Ndikukankhidwa ndili wokwiya chifukwa cha ma roll anu "chifukwa cha zomwe mudayika (ndidatero : Ndidakhala ndi maloto okongola tsopano abwerera ku chenicheni ndipo winayo adachita zomwe sindinathe kudziwa zomwe ndichite) komwe adayankha: zikuwonekeratu m'makalata anga wina akandiwuza kuti ali wosakhazikika osati 2% ndidamuuza iye ukufuna ukakhale wekha kapena ayi ndipo umandiyankha "Sindikudziwa ngati ndikufuna kukhala ndekha kapena ayi, tisiye pomwepo" ndinamufunsa koma ndiuze ndipo akundiuza ngati ukuwona kuti chibwenzicho chiyenera kutha , tionana, ndikudziwa kuti uli ndi ntchito yambiri, mpaka Wagwirapo ntchito Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, osayima sabata mpaka 100 koloko m'mawa, ndisanalankhule naye ndidati ndikungofuna kuti mukhale owona mtima ndikundiuza ngati simukufuna kukhala ndi ine ... Ndilandira. Chowonadi ndichakuti ali ndi zaka 4. Ndikudziwa kuti akufuna mkazi nthawi zambiri wandiuza kuti akumva kupsinjika ndipo sindikudziwanso choti ndichite. Ndangomutumizira uthenga woti "Ndimachokera chete maubale komanso kusowa chidwi kwanu, Chifukwa chake mukafuna kuyankhula ndidzakhala pano, izi sizosanzikana ngati sindimakukondani ndipo musankha nthawi yoti mulankhule ... ndikudziwa kuti mumakonda Ine pa chithandizo chonse chomwe mwandipatsa, ndilipireni visa yaku yunivesite, mugule zogulitsa, ndidamuwuza kuti sindikufuna kudzisamalira ndekha polera, mahomoni samandipweteka kuti ndikhale nawo chifukwa ndili ndi zaka 36 ndipo amandiuza kuti ndisachite ndimadzisamalira ndekha, ngakhale nditachedwa ndikundiuza kuti ukudandaula ngati sunakhale wekha »Ndipo ndidayamba kuwerengera masiku omwe mwanayo atha kubadwa, chabwino kunali kungochedwa, koma sindikumvetsa zomwe akukumana nazo, kodi wasokonezeka? ndichifukwa chake sukufuna kuthetsa chibwenzicho ??? Akutanthauza chiyani, timusiye komweko?
moni ndikufuna kundithandiza. Ndakhala ndi mtsikana zaka 6, tagula nyumba ndipo masiku 15 apitawo tidakhala bwino. Tinakambirana masiku 4 apitawa ndipo anandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi, ndipo anandiuza kuti amandikonda koma sakufanana pachiyambi.ndampatsa zonse ndipo dziko limagwera pa ine ngati wina angandithandize ndithokoza izo
Wokondedwa wanga wakhala akundivutitsa ndipo akundiuza kuti akufuna kuti ndikhale wolakwitsa, komwe ndili, ubale wathu uli kutali, timakumanirana masiku aliwonse khumi ndi asanu ndipo ndimamva kuti ndikudandaula ndi zamkhutu zambiri zokhudza iye zomwe ndingathe kuchita
ndi akatswiri amisala.? Amathandiza kuti?
1. Werengani chiganizo ichi mosamala ndikuchita zomwe zikukuwuzani osanyalanyaza zomwe akukupemphani kuti muzitsatira, chifukwa ngati simutero mudzapeza zotsatira zotsutsana ndi zomwe mwapempha. Ganizirani za munthu yemwe mukufuna kukhala naye ndikunenani dzina lake katatu. Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuti zichitike kwa munthuyu sabata yamawa ndikubwereza nokha kasanu ndi kamodzi. Tsopano ganizirani zomwe mukufuna ndi munthu ameneyo ndikunena kamodzi. ndipo tsopano nenani .. Ray of light ndikukupemphani kuti mufufuze-dzina la munthu- komwe ali kapena yemwe ali ndi iye ndikumupangitsa kuti andiyitane mwachikondi komanso kulapa lero. Kukumba zonse zomwe zikulepheretsa -dzina lake- kuti lisabwere kwa ine-dzina lathu-. Ikani pambali onse omwe amatithandizira kuti tisamuke komanso kuti saganiziranso za azimayi ena kuposa kungoganiza za ine - dzina lathu- Kuti amandiyitana ndi kundikonda. zikomo, zikomo chifukwa cha mphamvu zanu zodabwitsa zomwe nthawi zonse zimakwaniritsa zomwe zafunsidwa. Kenako muyenera kutumiza chiganizocho katatu, pamasamba atatu osiyanasiyana. Bwino
Ndidali nditamva kale pempheroli ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndi labwino kwambiri, zikomo Leo chifukwa chofalitsa, moni wochokera ku CD yaku Mexico. Kukumbatira, Ciao!
Moni kwa onse.
Ndidawerenga ndemanga zambiri ndipo ndipereka ndemanga pa zanga.
Ndakhala zaka 15 ndili pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana (I 29 Iye 28), monga momwe mungaganizire kuti timakhala ndimikhalidwe, zisangalalo, mkwiyo, ndi zina zambiri, adatha mu Okutobala 2011 kuyambira mphindi imodzi kupita kwina akunena kuti ine sanatero Ankafuna kukhala ndi mwana ndipo amaopa kuti ndingapeze msungwana wina wocheperapo ine ndikumusiya, chifukwa tidakonzekera kukwatirana mu February 2012. Atamaliza ndinamuyang'ana mobwerezabwereza kuti tizitha kukambirana ndipo anali wamphamvu kotheratu ndipo Zimakhala ngati CHUCKY ndipo anandiuza "NDIKHULULUKE" "SINDIKUFUNA KUMUVWITSA" koma sanandipatse chifukwa chomwe anandiuzira choncho ndipo sindinamvetse chifukwa chake sanali woona mtima kwa ine koma nthawi zonse ankandiuza zimenezo. Masiku oyamba, masabata, miyezi inali yowopsa (kwa iwo omwe sanakhale olimba mtima kwambiri) ndidagwa m'malo ambiri, ndimalira kwambiri ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndidagwetsa misozi yopitilira 10 malita, ndidataya ma kilos a 11 m'masiku 45 , koma ndidayamba kufotokoza zonse ndipo ndimatsimikizira zomwe ndimakayikira komanso kuti sanandiuzepo ndipo sananenebe chifukwa chosadzipereka.
Mnzanga wakale wogwira naye ntchito ndipo (ex wanga akadali wosakhwima) adagawana nthawi yochuluka limodzi kuntchito yake ndipo mnzake amakonda kukakumana ndi bambo pa intaneti, zimapezeka kuti adapeza imodzi ya EX yanga ndipo adagwa pansi Mnzake amamupachika kwambiri kotero kuti ubale pakati pa iye ndi ine udayamba kuchepa chifukwa cha izi, kawiri ndidangomuyimbira foni ndikumutumizira uthenga. Kutha kutatha ndidazindikira ndekha komwe amamuuza mnyamatayo kuti akhala pachibwenzi kwa zaka ziwiri ndi theka, ndikutanthauza, kupanga nthawi yonseyi ndi zina zambiri zomwe ndazindikira, sitinayankhulane kuyambira mwezi wa February. timati moni, nthawi amakhala mumzinda wosiyana ndi wake ndipo zimamupangitsa kuti aziyenda kapena amayenda chifukwa amadzimva koma samamuyendera, kupatula kuti mnyamatayo ali ndi mkazi ndi mwana wamkazi ndipo amamulemetsa kuti ali yekha kwa iye.
Chokhacho chomwe ndikukuwuzani ndi izi:
Amayi ndianthu anzeru kwambiri ndipo tsopano ndikumvetsetsa zinthu zambiri zomwe adandiuza kuphatikiza TIPATSE NTHAWI, munthu akakuwuzani kuti ndichifukwa ali ndi munthu wina ndipo ndipamene ubalewo udabwera kwa inu, chinthu chokha kuchita ndikuthetsa chilichonse ndikumupweteketsa mnzanu.
Ubale ndi banja lake ukupitilirabe bwino kwa ine, ndaona ndikuwona kuti amayenda ngati galu wotayika, kuvina, ma disco ndikuchita chilichonse popanda kuwongolera, kudzuka ndi abwenzi ake ndi ena, mpaka pano sanawonekenso ndipo Sindikudziwa ngati zingatero.
Pakati pa 2 sipanakhalepo kunyozana kapena kumenya kapena china chilichonse chonga icho. Ndikuganiza kuti muyenera kupereka nthawi ndikuyang'ana kuti muwone yemwe wataya kapena wopambana, chifukwa tsopano ndili 85% mpaka 90% bata chifukwa anali nthawi zovuta kwambiri zomwe mumaganizira zinthu zingapo m'mutu mwanu. Muyenera kupempha Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni ndikukupatsani chilimbikitso, kuti pakatha miyezi itatu kapena inayi zinthu zikuyenda bwino ndipo sizikukhudzani kwambiri, chifukwa kusakhulupirika sikungagonjetsedwe ndipo sikuiwalanso.
Pakadali pano ndili ndekha ndikudzisangalatsa ndikupita kulikonse.
Moni ndi zilizonse zomwe timangolankhula.
Wawa… aka ndi koyamba kubwera kuno ndipo ndakhala ndikuwerenga pang'ono… Ndikuona kuti ndikufunika kufotokoza nkhani yanga… 3 masabata apitawa bwenzi langa lachinyamata linathetsa chibwenzi, mwachidziwikire ndine woipa kwambiri… sizinali choncho ' chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kapena china chilichonse chotere… ine ndinangonena kuti zomwezo sizimamuchitikira ... tsopano ndikukuwuzani momwe ubale wathu unalili ... sikudzikuza kapena chilichonse koma tinali okhumbirika .. .Timagwirizana bwino kwambiri timakondana kwathunthu ... tinkakhala limodzi nthawi zonse zovuta zina ... panali matsenga ambiri komanso zamagetsi ... komanso zachilengedwe zonse ... tidayamba chaka chino ndipo adayamba kwathunthu ku koleji komwe sikunandipangitse sewero ... (ndikumaliza sekondale ndili ndi zaka 22) konse ... ndipo tinalibe nthawi yambiri yosangalalira ngati tikanawonana Kunali kugona tonse pamodzi ... nthawi ya wina ndi mnzake ... chowonadi ndichakuti zonse zimapweteka kwa zaka 4 zomwe tadziwana ndipo zaka 2 ndi miyezi 8 tidapita ... ndimavutika kukhulupirira kwambiri ... I ndikulingalira kwambiri za zomwe ndimakhala ... popeza tidamaliza masabata atatu ... sanandilembere ndipo inenso sindinawone ... ndikufunika kuthawa kapena kumuyang'ana koma ndimangokhala pomwe ndiyimilira ... chifukwa sindikufuna kugunda khoma ... NDIMAMKONDA ndi moyo wanga wonse ... ubale wathu udalimba kwambiri ndipo ndisanamalize ndidawona zachilendo zake ... ndipo tinkangokhalira kulankhula ... iye kwa ine Ananena kuti sakudziwa chomwe chimamuvuta ... ndipo titasiyana anayamba kulira moipa kundiuza kuti ndamupatsa chilichonse kapena Ndinkakhala naye nthawi zonse ... koma nthawi zina samadzimva kuti ali ndi ine ndipo samafuna kuti zikhale zonse pomwe akungofuna ... zomwe ndidapulumutsa kuti zinali zowona kwa ine ndipo sitinatero lolani nthawi idutse ... inenso ndidayamba kulira, kumwamba kudagwera ine ... ndipo tsopano ndili pano patsogolo pa polojekitiyo ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri ... ndi kamtsikana kameneka komwe tili nako tsiku limodzi , bwerani mudzandiuze kuti ndinali kulakwitsa kuti ndinali wopenga ... koma ndikuganiza kuti sizikhala choncho ... ndi msungwana wamkulu ... ndipo ndizofunika kwambiri ... chabwino ndiye nkhani yanga ... mwachidule
Ivan, khazikikani mtima pansi kuti izi ndizovuta kwambiri, ndikuganiza kuti ndichinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe chandichitikira m'moyo wanga, mukuyamba ndipo ndikupita kwa miyezi 7 ndipo zimandikhudzabe, koma kwa lingaliro langa chinthu chanu ndichakuti kuti ali ndi mwamuna wina, malingana ndi o Mukulemba chiyani.
Moni, mukudziwa, tsopano ndili ndi vuto chifukwa talimbana kwambiri ndi bwenzi langa ndipo ndiwophulika kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri m'makhumudwa omwe ndimakhala nawo ndimapita kukandinyoza ndipo ndimawakhululukira nthawi zonse, koma zimatenga pafupifupi sabata limodzi kuti timugwire ndipo matemberero adabweranso ndipo zomwe ndidachita ndikumufunsa kwakanthawi koma ndikuganiza chiyani? Anakwiya kwambiri ndipo panali kunyozedwa kwambiri ndipo anandiuza kuti tsiku lina adayamba kufalitsa kuti alibe chibwenzi ndipo ndidakwiya kwambiri ndipo kuyambira pamenepo andichotsa ntchito ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndipitilize ndimakhala naye kapena ayi, ndimamudziwa.Ndimakonda zambiri koma ndi chilichonse ndipo chikondi chomwe ndimachimva x sakudziwa kuti amukhululukire kapena ayi? Kupatula apo adapita kumalo kovina ndipo sanandiuze kuti tikumenyana koma ngakhale tikulimbana sindimachita izi ndipo ndizomwe zidandikhumudwitsa kwambiri, kupatula kuti ndiwomwe ali Ndimamukonda kwambiri koma ndilibenso chikhumbo chomenyera ubalewu, ndikhulupilira kuti wina atha kundipatsa upangiri wabwino ndikupatsanso zomwe ndingachite chifukwa ndili ndi chokulirapo chokulirapo chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri kotero sindikufuna kumupweteka Pomusiya iye, ngati mukundimvetsa, ndine munthu amene ndimamva bwino ndipo malingaliro a munthu ameneyo angandipweteketse kwambiri. Osati kale kwambiri zinali zonse za ine.
Moni, ndili ndi zaka eyiti ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo andipempha kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi, samva bwino, akufuna nthawi imeneyo kuti adziwe ngati amandikondadi kapena ayi, akufuna miyezi itatu ndikudziwa kuti nthawiyo Khalani oti mundiwale ndipo ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri Chifukwa ndimamukonda ndipo ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo zimandipweteka kuti pakadali pano akufuna kwakanthawi akuti amandikonda koma sindikudziwa chonde ndithandizeni ndikumva kuwawa Ndinamupempha kuti asandilole kuti ndikhalebe oyeserera koma sindimvanso momwemonso ndikumverera kuti sakundithandiza ndipo ine ndiye amene ndatenga gawo loipitsitsa, ndithandizeni sindikufuna kutaya zomwe chitani
Mili, ndikukuuza kuti chibwenzi chako sichikukondanso kapena ali ndi wina, kuchokera pazomwe adakumana nazo, otseguka kuchokera pamenepo, ndizovuta kwambiri komanso zovuta kuvomereza koma zomwe zachitika. Ingopatsani nthawi, miyezi 3 yoyambirira ndi yovuta kwambiri, koma pitirizani, palibe amene akudziwa zomwe muli nazo mpaka zitayika.
Wawa! Mukudziwa, ndikhala ndi zaka 2 ndili ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo posachedwapa talimbana kwambiri, ali ndi nsanje kwambiri ndipo amakwiya pa zamkhutu zilizonse ndipo choyipa sichoncho, ndikuti nthawi zonse akamakwiya ndipo ndimayesetsa kufotokoza zinthu ndikumupangitsa kuti amvetsetse kuti si iye ali woyenera kukwiya, samvetsa! akukwiya! osalandira kupepesa kwanga! ndi kundinyalanyaza! Ndiwonyada komanso inenso, choncho zomwe ndimachita ndikumunyalanyaza osamupempha (ndimadana kupempha) chifukwa chake akandiwona kuti ndakwiya amakwiya ndikundiuza - ndikuti mumakwiya pa chilichonse - sindichita ' sindikudziwa ngati amachita izi kuti andikwiyitse kapena Sazindikiranso chilichonse chomwe walakwitsa ... dzulo tidakangana ndipo ndimaganiza zomufunsa kwakanthawi koma ndimati ndikamuwuza adandiuza -tiyenera kutipatsa nthawi - Ndikhulupirira moona mtima kuti sakudziwa Zomwe akufuna chifukwa choyamba amandiuza kuti ndimalize kenako andifunsa kanthawi. Ndati inde, ndipo lero ndauza anzanga zomwe zachitika ndipo anandiuza kuti mwina wasokonezeka, kuti anyamata akafunsa kanthawi ndichifukwa asokonezeka ndipo ndi chifukwa cha mtsikana wina, sindikudziwa ngati ndiye, ukuwona bwanji? Pamapeto pake zonse za ine zidamuvutitsa, zovala zanga, kuseka kwanga, nthabwala zanga, momwe ndimakhalira, pomwe ndimamuimbira foni, ngakhale ndimamuuza kuti ndimamukonda ... adachita mosasamala! Sindikudziwa choti ndichite, nyengo ingakhale yabwino kapena kutha kwa chibwenzicho?
MUMVETSETSA
Funsani nthawi = Sindikukukondani, ndili ndi wina kapena wina
Moni, ndikufotokozerani nkhani yanga, ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti winawake anganditsogolere, chifukwa ndikufunitsitsa! Palibe mankhwala, abwenzi, kapena chilichonse chomwe chingafafanize lingaliro lakufuna kumaliza ndi mnzanga.
Ndinayamba chibwenzi ndi bwenzi langa lapano pafupifupi zaka 3 ndi theka zapitazo; Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndikumverera kuti china chake chikusowa; Ngakhale izi, ndimamukonda, ndiye munthu wapadera kwambiri m'moyo wanga, ndikumva kuti ndikufuna kumusamalira, ndikukhala naye kwanthawizonse, tadutsa zinthu masauzande limodzi, ambiri osangalala, ena osati ochuluka kwambiri .
Chaka chapitacho, kumverera (komwe ndimakhala ndikumverera nthawi zonse) kunakula kwambiri, chifuwa changa chinayamba kupweteka chifukwa cha kuzunzika kochuluka.
Mpaka nthawiyo sindinathe kumuuza chilichonse pazomwe zimandichitikira, koma kuwawa kunali kochuluka, tsiku lina, ndinangoyamba kulira chifukwa chokhumudwa.
Sanaziwone zikubwera, izi zidamusiya zoyipa kwambiri; Ndidamupempha kwa masiku angapo kuti aganize, (sindikuganiza kuti zandithandiza kwambiri pandekha), zomwe adavomera, ngakhale ndidawona kuti zidamupangitsa kuvutika kwambiri.
Pambuyo pake, ndipo ndithandizira pang'ono kapena pang'ono; mfundo ndiyakuti ndimangopitilira kulingalira zakumaliza, ndipo chowonadi chandidetsa nkhawa komanso kundipweteka kwambiri.
Ndikudziwa kuti amayi anga ndi anzanga ena sanatchule bwino pachiyambi cha chibwenzi changa zidandikhudza kwakanthawi.
Ndipo zowona kuti ndimakhala moyo wokongola kwambiri monga momwe ndimakondera, ndikuziwona kwakanthawi kochepa usiku uliwonse, zimandikhudzanso.
Nthawi, komanso kuwonongeka kwachilengedwe kwaubwenzi ndichinthu chinanso, kuwonjezera poti tidzakhala limodzi zomwe zili m'mutu mwanga.
Koma ndimamukonda, ndikumva kuti payenera kukhala njira yothetsera izi, ndiyenera kutsegula kuti ndiyankhule naye za mavutowa, koma ndizovuta bwanji!
Chowonadi ndichakuti chikondi ndi chisangalalo, chakuti amakhala limodzi mwanjira yokhazikika, ndiye vuto lalikulu pamoyo wanga, palibe chomwe chikufanizira; mavuto kuphunzira, kuntchito, ndi zinthu zosakhalitsa pafupi ndi izi.
Ndikudziwa kuti pali ambiri omwe adakumana ndi zomwezi, (ndikhulupilira sizinali choncho), kwa ine onse, ndikhulupilira kuti pamapeto pake tidzapeza chisangalalo.
Jose, koma sunanene kalikonse, vuto lako ndi chiyani, chomwe chimayambitsa zowawa zako.
Moni Felipe, chomwe chimandipweteka kwambiri ndikumva kuti nthawi zonse ndimamva kuti tikusowa china chake; Timakhala bwino, timakhala bwino pachilichonse, komabe ndikusowa china chake; zili ngati kukhala ndi mwala mu nsapato zako. Vuto ndiloti malingaliro amtsogolo limodzi, adayamba kukulirakulira ndipo mwala wa nsapatoyo udayamba kuvutikira pafupipafupi komanso m'njira yopweteka kwambiri. Kuphatikiza apo, zowonjezera ntchito ndi kuphunzira zimawonjezedwa, zomwe ndi mitu yomwe imapanikiza mutu wanu.
Koma sindimakayikira za momwe ndimamvera chifukwa cha iye.
Munthu wokalamba, khala mwamuna. Zimandipangitsa kufuna kukupatsani chikhomo pamaso!
Siyani kusakhazikika ndikukula. Ngati amakondana, palibe chikaiko. "Zinthu zogwirira ntchito". Ndipo ndani sagwira ntchito mdziko muno.
Kukumbatira, wokalamba wokondedwa wanga.
Moni…. Ndikukumana ndi vuto lina ndipo ndapanikizika kwambiri ... ndakhala ndi mnzanga kwa nthawi yopitilira chaka .. timakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi komanso zambiri tsopano ndili patchuthi ... pomwe sitikucheza … tikulankhula kapena palimodzi…. Ine ndi iye timakonda kuthera nthawi yochuluka limodzi ... posachedwapa takhala tikumenyana pazachabechabe ndipo Lolemba lapitalo china chinachitika ... anandiuza kuti chilichonse chimakhala chibwenzi chosasangalatsa momwe ma astío okha komanso ndewu zomwe zimachitika pafupipafupi isanachitike nkhani zopanda tanthauzo komanso kuti ndimaganiza kuti choyambitsa ndikutengeka komwe tili nako wina ndi mnzake ndipo kumasulira kwakanthawi kochepa aliyense ... .. Ndinaganiza za chinthu chomwecho, ... .. ndipo ndidamvetsetsa kuti Ndimafunsa kuti ndimupatse nthawi choncho ndinamuuza kuti akunena zowona ndipo sindinayankhulane naye…. Tsopano sindikudziwa ngati zomwe ndachita zinali zolakwika kapena zabwino… kapena choti ndichite…. chonde thandizani!
Chabwino, dzina langa ndine Ruben. Ndinali ndi chibwenzi changa zaka ziwiri zapitazo. Poyamba, zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri kukhala naye, koma chaka chapitacho tidayamba kumenyanirana. Anati sanandipsompsone pamaso pa anthu ndipo ndinamuuza kuti amandichitira manyazi, ndipo vutoli lidapitilira mpaka sabata limodzi ndipo adandisiya.
Moni.Chowonadi ndikuti ndimakhala wokhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa ndimaona kuti chibwenzi changa chatha ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti, ndimamukonda kwambiri. tinakhala m'nyumba mwanga pafupifupi zaka 4. Tsopano adanyamuka ndipo timayenera kufunafuna kena kathu tonse, ndipo mwadzidzidzi adasintha malingaliro ake ndikundiuza kuti akuyenera kuchita zinthu kuti athe kundipatsa china chake, anandiuza kuti akumva kukakamizidwa kwambiri ndi ine, ndikuti akungoyang'ana komwe angapite koma pakadali pano zikhala popanda ine, chowonadi ndichakuti sindikudziwa choti ndikuganiza, ndimamva kukayikira kwambiri mwachitsanzo tinkakhala limodzi nthawi zonse sabata ino anandiuza kuti apita ndi mnzake ku morelia kuti akamveke bwino osamuimbira kapena kutumiza mauthenga chifukwa zimamupangitsa kuti adzikakamize. kuti akandibwerera akangobwera.
Dzulo usiku chibwenzi changa chidandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi chifukwa ndiwansanje kwambiri ndipo ndili ndi anzanga angapo omwe ndimaphunzira nawo kuyunivesite koma ngakhale ndimakhala ndikumuuza chilichonse chomwe akuyenera kudziwa, koma dzulo ndimagawana ndi mnzake yemwe ndimaphunzira naye kuyunivesite ndipo ndidamuyimbira foni iye ndipo ndinamuwuza ine ndinamuuza kumene ine ndinali kuti tipita kunja tsiku limenelo ndipo iye anandiuza ine kuti chabwino kuti anditenga ndiye pamene iye anali kukwera masitepe iye anandiwona ine ndikugawana ndi mnzanga mnzanga ankadziwa kuti ine ndinali ndi chibwenzi ndipo sanandisangalatse ngati mamuna ndinamuwuza ndipo tinacheza kwa mphindi zochepa tinatsanzikana ndipo ine ndi chibwenzi changa tinachoka kenako ndinawona nkhope yake ndikumufunsa ngati zikuwoneka ngati zolakwika ndipo anati ayi patapita kanthawi anandiuza ine kuti sanasangalale nazo konse zomwe ndikudziwa kuti ali ndi nsanje kwambiri, ... ndiye anandiuza kuti ndibwino kuti ndichoke kuti akufuna kugawana ndi azinzake okha ndipo adafunsa ine kwakanthawi koyamba sindimafuna chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti amandikonda momwe ndimamukondera kenako ndinaganiza zochoka ndipo Ananditumiza kunyumba kwanga kenako ndinamutumizira uthenga womuuza kuti ndafika kale kunyumba kwanga ndi ineAnati chabwino atatumizirana mameseji angapo anandiuza kuti ndi bwino kusiya chibwenzi chomwe samadzimva kukhala wokonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi pamenepo anandiuza kuti akumva kuti sakusangalala ndi chibwenzicho kuti sakhulupirira konse ndipo amangoti ndimafuna kukhala ndekha motere Ndi bwino kumutumizira mauthenga angapo ndipo palibe chomwe amandiyimbira ndipo ndimamubwezera ndikumuuza kuti ndimupatsa nthawi yake ndipo sindimutumizira uthenga kapena kumuimbira koma ndamuuza iye kuti angaganizire pazonse zomwe takhala tikupitilira ndipo zomwe ndimangomufuna Akakhala wokonzeka, amanditumizira uthenga kapena kuyimba foni pondilemba m'malo kuti titha kumveketsa bwino mfundozo ndikuvomera, iye anati inde ndi qx chonde osamutumizira uthenga kapena kumuimbira kuti aganize bwino. Unali ubale wapabanja, amadziwa banja lake komanso yanga, tinali ndi malingaliro ambiri okwatirana, kukhala ndi ana, tinaganiza zambiri zakutsogolo ndi ine, timagawana ngati zibwenzi 2 zodziwika bwino, timakondana ndipo tsopano ine sindikudziwa ngati tikumananso kudzakhala kumaliza mosakayika ... ndithandizeni x favor? Ndingatani?
Gawo langa, sindinakhulupirire bwenzi langa, sindinkafuna kutero, koma ndikosavuta kunditsimikizira, ndipo zinali miyezi 7 yapitayo, adandikhululukira ndipo tidapitilirabe bwino, koma mu Marichi adamva kuti watopa kale. ..ndinangolira ndipo Chilichonse chinalakwika, ndinali nditaganiza zomufunsa kwakanthawi, koma sindinkafuna kuti ndimupweteketse ... ndipo, pa Meyi 12 adabwera kudzandifunsa kwakanthawi, panthawiyi timalankhula, ndipo tinayamba kukangana (sindikudziwa chifukwa chake, tonse tinali okwiya) ndipo patadutsa sabata limodzi timabwerera, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikamukumbukira ndimaliranso, chifukwa ndiye chisankho chake iye, osati wathu, chabwino tidabwerera ndipo tidakali limodzi, koma nthawi zina chithandizo chawo chimakhala chachilendo ... Zachidziwikire kuti sindinadziwe zoyenera kuchita kwa mzanga ndipo ndikufuna kusiya kukhala vuto kwa iye ... ndi M'malo mwake ndikufuna kudzipha, chifukwa sindikuwona tanthauzo lililonse m'moyo, ndipo ndimamukondadi, koma zimandipangitsa kuti ndizimva kuwawa nthawi iliyonse yomwe amandichitira monga zomwe 'zidatsalira', mchaka chomwe tidakhala, anandiuza kuti wakale wake adali chikondi chake choyamba ndikuti zinali zovuta kumuiwala, komakuti sabwerera kwa iye ... ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndimaliza. chifukwa ndi bwino kukhala wekha kusiyana ndi kukhala ndi anthu oyipa
Moni nonse… ndakhala ndikuwerenga ndemanga ndipo palibe amene ananena kuti nthawi itha kukhala yabwino kwambiri. Ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa pafupifupi miyezi 8. Kuyambira miyezi itatu kapena inayi takhala tikutheka, mitolo yaying'ono, koma m'miyezi 3 akhala akubwera limodzi ndipo aaaaaah ... ndidafunsa kwakanthawi. Sindikudziwa ngati zikhala zabwino kwambiri (ndikhulupirira, ndi moyo wanga wonse, zidzatero), ndimamukonda ndi moyo wanga, koma mwezi wathawu wakhala wowopsa. Ine, wopusa, ndikuyesera kudzinyenga ndekha, ndinanena kuti zonse zinali bwino ... kuti kumenya nkhondo kapena kutsutsa kawiri pa sabata ndichizolowezi, tsopano sindikudziwa ngati ndichizolowezi, zomwe ndikudziwa ndikuti sizikundichitira zabwino . Komabe, adakhumudwa kwambiri ndi nyengo ndi chilichonse, amalumbira kuti ndikufuna kumaliza, koma ndikukuuzani ... mapeto sindiwo; Ndikufuna kuti andisowe, ndikufuna kuti ndimusowe ndipo sindikudziwa, ndikupangitsani malingaliro m'masabata (mwina miyezi) momwe sitimaonana, lingaliro ndikulingalira zonse, kudabwa ndikufuna kusintha . Nthawi sizongokhala njira zobisika zothetsera chibwenzi, yang'anani mopitirira: nthawi ntchito, anyamata. Ndimaganiza kuti ndi achabechabe, koma lero, momwe ndikudziwonera ndekha, ndikumva ndikukhulupirira kuti ndichinthu choyenera kuchita ... Ndikungofuna kuti akonze chilichonse choyipa komanso ndikusintha, sindinatero ' sindikufuna kumaliza kudana naye ... ngakhale ndikukaikira. Chifukwa chake ndidasankha za nthawi yomwe ndisanvale chibwenzicho ndikupangitsa kuti ziyambe kuwola .. AYI! Chifukwa chake ngati anzanu akufunsani kuti mupeze nthawi, musakhale achisoni kwambiri osaganizira zoyipitsitsa, ngati pali chikondi ndi chikondi, nthawi itha kukhala yabwino kwambiri ... ndipo ikatha, tingatani? Uwu ndi moyo, maubale amabwera ndikupita, mumakumana ndi anthu ambiri ndi chilichonse ngati sichinachitike, chimakhala china chake, ndipo mukuganiza kuti mwina "china chake" chikhoza kukhala chabwino kwambiri. Ndikudziwa kuti wina akamaliza zonse zimawoneka ngati zotayika komanso blah blah, koma ndichifukwa choti munthuyo sanali wa m'modzi ndiye kuti ndizotheka, apo ayi angapitilize limodzi ... Mulimonsemo, sizili choncho, koma malinga ndi zomwe ndawona ndikukumana nazo, izi ndi zocheperako momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Moni wochokera ku Chile komanso chilimbikitso ...
Moni: Patatha zaka ziwiri ndili ndi mnzanga, ndidawona kuti pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndikumuwona akukhala chizolowezi.Tidali kuonana Loweruka (ena atakhuta) ndi ena usiku kwambiri. Tili ndi maulendo angapo limodzi ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti Zakhala pafupifupi miyezi 2 yapitayo ndidamupempha kuti atipatseko nthawi, chifukwa nthawi iliyonse yomwe timalankhula panali zokambirana zochepa ndipo timakhala ndi malingaliro otsutsana. Patatha mwezi umodzi nditafunsa nthawi, amanditumizira SMS Ndimayankha chimodzimodzi momwe ndimamukondera chifukwa cha momwe moyo wake umayendera.Anandiuza kuti chilimwe chimakhala chosangalatsa ndipo amanditumizira zithunzi ndi azinzake.Nthawi ndi nthawi, tikamalankhula, ndimakhala Muwuzeni kuti akumane kuti amwe zakumwa (ndipo muuzeni kuti ndikufuna kuyambiranso chibwenzicho) koma sindikuwona mwa iye kuti akusangalala kwambiri kukumana. sakufuna kukumana chifukwa akudziwa kuti ndikambirana za chibwenzicho? Ndi bwino ngati sakufuna kuti azingolankhula pafoni ndikuchotsa minga yomwe ndili nayo Pitani? Zikomo pasadakhale chifukwa cha thandizo lanu / malingaliro.
Mnzanga, mowona mtima wagwira ntchito bwino, mukufuna kusiya munthuyo kwa nthawi yomwe mukufuna kubwerera, ndipo akukuyembekezerani ndi manja awiri. Mavuto amgwirizano amathana pamodzi ndipo mukafunsa kuti mupatukane kuti muganizirenso zikuwoneka bwino kwambiri, koma kumufunsa kuti akudikireni ndikodzikonda. Mwamusiya, osakhalitsa kapena wosakhalitsa, amatha kuchita chilichonse chomwe angafune ndipo mwina tsopano ndi amene safuna kubwerera.
Moni nonse, kufunsa kwakanthawi kumawoneka ngati kodzikonda kwa ine, tikupempha munthu winayo kuti atidikire, osasamala kwenikweni winayo adzavutika, osamvetsetsa chilichonse ndikudikirira, mwina kudikirira kwamuyaya, chifukwa winayo sabwerera . Anandifunsanso kamodzi kwakanthawi, ndipo yankho langa linali: muli ndi nthawi yonse padziko lapansi, tsopano, nthawi yanu ikakwana ndipo mwalongosola malingaliro anu ndipo lingaliro lanu ndibwerera, osadalira kuti ine ndikuyembekezerani, mwina inde, kapena moyo wanga ungasinthe Patatha masiku angapo adandiuza kuti akufuna kukhala ndi ine, kuti sakufuna kunditaya. Sindikuganiza kuti tili ndi ufulu kusewera ndi momwe munthu akumvera, muli nawo kapena mulibe, ndipo ngati mungapemphe kwakanthawi, musapemphe kuti winayo akukudikirirani kumeneko kwamuyaya, zikuwoneka ngati kudzikonda. Moni kwa onse ndi ulemu ndikukupatsani ulemu.
Moni. Palibe nthawi yomwe ndimamuuza kuti andidikire.Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndimaika pachiwopsezo potsatira sitepeyi.Ine ndikudziwikiratu kuti mwina sangabwererenso kwa iye. / akukhulupirira kuti Nthawi yayamba kusokonekera mu ubale, mukuwonanso kuti kukhala awiriwa banjali silikupita patsogolo ndipo likunamizana, ndikuti munthu aliyense ndi dziko lapansi komanso omwe amalithetsa pokambirana anthu ena omwe ayenera kupatukana kuti awone zomwe akumva komanso kuvutika pomwe alibe thandizo / kumvetsera kwa wokondedwa wawo.
Ndili ndi mwana pafupifupi miyezi isanu, miyezi iwiri yoyambirira inali yabwino kwambiri kwa C :. koma kenako ndidayamba kulandira mauthenga ochokera pa intaneti D: ndikumuimba mlandu wophwanya lamulo: S! Anati anali pachibwenzi ndi wakale wake, ndimayesetsa kuti ndimuthawe ndipo sindinathe kuzikwaniritsa, ndipo amayi anga adatsutsa ndikutsutsa chibwenzi changa. siyani kulandira mauthengawo, osadziwa amene adawatumiza! patatha miyezi itatu adalandira uthenga D: panali atatu ndendende, akumamuimba mlandu. Adandiuza kuti akadali pachibwenzi ndi bwenzi lake lakale, ndiye ndidalankhula ndi mlongo wa msungwanayo, ndipo adakana zonse. Ndiye funso ndilakuti, ndani kwenikweni amatumiza mauthengawo? ... ndatopa kale ndizonsezi, ndidaganiza zomufunsa kanthawi chibwenzi changa, mpaka nditayankhula ndekha ndi wakale wake ndikudziwika kuti "munthu yemwe ali ndi mauthenga otembereredwa" akuwonekera bwino ndikumulandira, koma kumuwona tsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa timaphunzirira malo amodzi, osati chipinda chimodzi koma, ngati pamalo omwewo ndiye, amandikakamiza kuti ndimuuze ngati ndikumufuna, akufuna kuti ndibwerere naye kulikonse chifukwa akuti amandikonda ndipo amandifuna: Sindikudziwa ngati ndikumukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse: /!
Chabwino, ndipo mukuganiza kuti ndi bwino kuti ndilandire chiitano cha mnyamata wina kuti tipite kokayenda? ndili munthawi imeneyi? uu ndithandizenieeeeeeeeee: C.
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moni zabwino chifukwa ndili ndi miyezi pafupifupi 6 ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo miyezi itatu yoyambirira inali yodabwitsa zikuwoneka ngati sizidzatha ngakhale m'mwezi woyamba ndidazindikira kuti akusaka nyumba chifukwa anali akukhalabe ndi wakale, zomwe kwa ine zinali zovuta kuthana nazo kale Kuti anali atandibisira, komabe, adasuntha kumwamba, nyanja ndi dziko lapansi kuti ndikamudaliranso ndipo akaika zonse kumbali yake kuti zonse ziziyenda bwino, ndikuwona iye ngati mnyamata wolunjika komanso waulemu kwambiri koma kuyambira mwezi wa 3 ndi theka mu Pambuyo pake zinthu zidayamba kundisinthira ndipo kusadzidalira kwanga kunatha kawiri konse koyamba chinali chisankho chawo ndipo chachiwiri chinali chisankho chawo, komabe patatha masiku angapo adandifunafuna, kundiuza kuti akufuna kubwerera kwenikweni, masiku amenewo anali ovuta kwa ife tonse tikamabwerera, zonse zinapitilira bwino koma sitinasiye kukhala osiyana ndipo chifukwa chake tinali ndi kusiyana komwe kunadzayamba kumenyana koma ndewu zija zinali zotopetsa kwambiri digiri yomwe tidayamba kutsutsana r tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuwona yemwe angawononge zambiri mpaka tonse titalankhula tsiku lotsatira sitinakambirane linali tsiku labwino osakwanira chifukwa linali laposachedwa kwambiri koma sitinakambirane china chomwe onse anali gawo labwino komabe tsiku lotsatira panalibe zokambirana ayi Panali kulumikizana ndipo tinagwirizana kuti tonse timatayana, nkhope zachisoni zinabwerera nthawi imeneyo sindinadziwenso chochita ndipo panthawiyi ndinaganiza zomaliza zinali zovuta panthawiyo chifukwa Tsiku lomwelo, mphindi pang'ono, ndidati ngati ndikutsimikiza za chisankhocho. Ankaganiza kuti sangakhale wolimba mtima. Nditayamba kuvomereza, ndinatseka pakamwa panga ndipo ndinati usanene ... tiyenera kutipatsa nthawi kuti tiganizire mozama… KOMA TSOPANO SINDINATSIMBIKITSIDWA KUCHOKERA MU NTHAWI IYO IZI ZIDZACHITIKE NDI AWIRI KAPENA ZIMENEZO NDINGATHE KUCHITA?
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Moni, izi zidayamba pafupifupi mwezi wapitawu, adandifunsa kwakanthawi, koma anadzibisa poti ayenera kuphunzira kuti alowe muudindo ndipo tikhalebe abwenzi, ngati tikadakhala otheka ndipo akusokonezedwa, ndipo ndidavomereza "nthawi" imeneyo ndipo sindimachita mantha, sikumva kuwawa ndipo ndimatha kupumula ndikuchita zochitika, koma sindingakhale wopanda izo! Ndikukhulupirira mumvetsetsa vuto langa, ndili wachinyamata ndipo ndikudziwa kuti zitha kuchitikira aliyense.
Ndikunena zoona: nthawi imatha kuchitika zinthu zambiri ..! *
Wawa bwanji! Sindikudziwa choti ndichite, sindikudziwa choti ndiganizenso, ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwa zaka ziwiri, tinakhala ndi nthawi zabwino, adaganiza zopita ndi mtsikana yemwe samamupempha kuti akhale iye Mnzanga, adandilora ndipo amakonda kupita naye limodzi, ndidatero.Ndidamuitana kuti atuluke koma ndinali ndi malingaliro naye kale, adanditumizira mauthenga, akundiuza kuti nthawi yonseyo zinali za iye, ndi zinthu monga choncho, atatha onse timakondana, ndipo adandipeza (wa Celll) kenako adandaula kuti adandiuza zonsezi, Zinali zabodza… tidakambirana ndipo adandifunsa kwakanthawi… nditani? Ndimamukonda kwambiri koma ndimakumbukira ndipo zimandilimbitsa mtima kuti ndikufuna kumutumiza kuti akawuluke, yudenme..xoxo
Pambuyo paukwati wazaka 6 zomwe zinayi zidali zachisokonezo kwa ine chifukwa sindidalandiridwe chidwi ndi mamuna wanga, amanditenga ngati ngati chiwiya chanyumba, chifukwa ndidali wosakhulupirika kwa amuna anga ndi iwo. Adaziwona ndipo adandikhululukira , tinaganiza zopitilira, pali atsikana awiri omwe akukhudzidwa, vuto ndiloti sindikumukondanso, akuchita zonse kumbali yake koma sikuti ndimangomukonda komanso sindikufuna kuti andigwire ndipo ine ndakhala ndikudziyesa wokondwa chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili sizingakhale ine amene ndithetse chibwenzicho ngati si iye koma sindingathenso kutero ndipo lero ndipempha kwakanthawi, ndikhulupilira kuti tikasiyana za zinthu ziwiri zichitika, ndimaphunzira kukhala ndekha ndipo nditha kutenga chisankho cha chisudzulo kapena kuti ndikuzindikira kuti chisangalalo changa chili naye ndipo ndimayambiranso kukondana. : S sindikudziwa kuti ndichitenso chiyani, ndasokonezeka kwambiri.
Wawa, bwenzi langa "adandipatsa" sabata yatha. Ndikunena kuti zidandipatsa chifukwa ngakhale anali amene adatsimikiza mtima kutitengera ife tonse, adazichita mopindulitsa ine kuposa zake. Zinandipweteka kwambiri kuvomereza kulekanaku komwe cholinga chake ndi "chosakhalitsa" koma kuvomereza. Zinachitika chifukwa cha zokambirana komanso ndewu zosiyanasiyana chifukwa cha nsanje yanga komanso kusatekeseka mwazinthu zina. Sindingakane kuti ndimachita zinthu mopitirira malire ... sindikutenga ngati chilango, koma monga zotsatira za zomwe ndidachita m'miyezi yapitayi. Anali atandipatsa kale mwayi wambiri kuti ndimudzudzule ndipo sindinatero.
Ponena za nthawi, tidatsimikiza kuti cholinga chotenga ndikuti tonse tikhala ndi nthawi yokhayokha kusinkhasinkha za momwe aliyense achitira muubwenzi, zomwe tikuyembekezera kuchokera kwa iye komanso kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso mavuto omwe tidakumana nawo komanso zomwe ndikofunikira kuthana ngati tikufuna kukhala limodzi.
Inemwini, ndimakumana ndi zovuta zambiri, chaka ndi theka ndidataya mlongo wanga pangozi ndipo chochitika ichi chidabweretsa zosintha zabwino ndi zoyipa mwa munthu wanga, momwe sindinadzipatseko nthawi yothana ndi vutoli, chifukwa zitachitika ndinali ndiubwenzi kale, ndipo m'malo mongowona mnzanga ngati wondithandizira, ndinamugwirira ngati kuti ndi gulu lamoyo ... pachifukwa chomwecho ndinakhala wokonda kwambiri. Mosasamala zomwe tafotokozazi, ndakhala ndimkhalidwe wovuta, ndine wansanje ndipo izi zandibweretsera mavuto muubwenzi wosiyanasiyana, koma sindinavutikepo pano chifukwa chodzipatula. Ndinayenera kudzipeza ndekha motere kuti ndiyambe kumukonda mnzanga.
Ndili ndi zovuta, moona mtima ngati ndikumva chisoni; komabe ndimayesetsa kupeputsa nthawi ino, ndikukhazikitsa m'malingaliro mwanga cholinga chenicheni chomwe tikutengera. Sikuti ndikusowa chikondi ndikutsimikiza za izo ndipo sizili chifukwa chakumenyera nkhondo. Ndi chifukwa chakuti tonse timakhulupirira kuti tisanapitilire "ulendowu" limodzi tiyenera kuyimitsa "katundu" ... palibe amene amakonda kuyima pachilumba cha "chipululu komanso chosadziwika" kuti atero ... koma ndikofunikira ngati tikufuna kufika kumapeto kwa ulendo, sichoncho? Kufanizira uku kumadzutsa momwe tonsefe timamvera za nthawi.
Sitigwirizana patsiku lomaliza, mphindi yoti tibwererenso pamodzi timakhulupirira kuti ibwera pomwe sitiganiza za izi, ndikukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti sizikhala motalika kwambiri, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kuyesetsa kuthana ndi mantha anga komanso kusatetezeka, gwirani ntchito pakukhulupirirana komanso kulumikizana ngati banja, ndipo phunzirani kusiyanitsa mkwiyo wanga kapena mavuto ena muubwenzi wanga, osamugwiritsa ntchito ngati "chikwama chomenyera."
China chake chomwe chandithandiza masiku ano chakhala ndikucheza ndi banja langa ndikupemphera, komanso ntchito yanga. Sikuti anthu onse amayenera kudalira zinthu zomwezi, koma mutha kuyang'anira zokonda zanu kuti mupange magawo osiyanasiyana omwe mulinso gawo lanu. Pomwe sindimayembekezera, ndikuganiza kuti ndikhala ndikulamuliranso moyo wanga m'manja mwanga ndipo sindizengereza kufunafuna kuti ndiwombole, ndikukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti sikuchedwa kwambiri pofika nthawiyo. Ndikukhumba ine mwayi!
Mlandu wanga ndiwu wotsatirawu ... Ndakhala ndichikondi kwa zaka 4 ndipo mwadzidzidzi bwenzi langa limanditumizira meseji kundiuza kuti amamukonda kwakanthawi .. Ali ndi nkhawa atatopa pang'ono, komabe, ndidamuuza, koma sitinayankhule pamasom'pamaso, anandiuza chonde ayi ndamuuza koma ukukayika za chikondi chathu ?? .. ndipo anandiuza nkhumba ukukulitsa mkhalidwe ukundimvetsa !! Sindikufuna kuvomera ndikumpatsa nthawi kuti anene zowona sindikudziwa choti ndichite
Moni, ndikukuuzani. Ndili ndi zaka 22, ndakhala wokwatiwa zaka ziwiri ndipo mkazi wanga adandifunsa nthawi kwa mwezi umodzi adandiuza kuti sakudziwa zomwe amamva x ng'ombe yanga, chinthu ndikuti nditha kupitiliza naye chifukwa cha ine , nthawi kulibe ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ngati akufuna kupita ndiye kuti azichita koma pali china mwa ine chomwe sichikundilola kukhala opanda iye tilibe ana timachita renti nyumba yomwe tili ndi zonse koma akuti iye akupita ndikundisiya zonse kuti ndiganizire kwakanthawi mphindi imeneyo ndi mwezi. Wandipatsa mwayi ndipo ndinalonjeza kuti ndikusintha ndikuchita koma tsiku lililonse ndimaganiza kuti sakufuna kupitiriza kumenya nkhondo x kukonza zinthu pakati pa ife ndi awiri omwe ndikufuna kumenyana koma ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti Sindikuganiza kuti ndingachite izi ndikangopeza wina yemwe angandipangitse kuti ndimuiwale popeza sakufunanso kukhala nane
Ndakhala pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi changa kwa zaka ziwiri. Mwambiri wakhala ubale wokongola kwambiri, wowona mtima, wotseguka, timathandizana ndikusamalirana. Mwezi watha ndidayamba kugwira ntchito ndikulowa ntchito yolembedwa, kuphatikiza maphunziro ena ku yunivesite. Ndimakhala wotopa kwambiri ndipo ndakhala ndikuchita zinthu zina monga kugona pamene amayesa kufotokoza za vuto lomwe anali nalo. Samva kuti ndimuthandizidwa ndi ine ngakhale ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito kwa mwezi umodzi wokha. Atandifunsa kwakanthawi, adati ngati ndichinthu chomwe chitha kuwoneka chikubwera, adachifunsa pondikumbatira ndi chilichonse, adati ndiyenera kudzipanga ndekha ndikuyesanso ubale wathu, koma mwatsatanetsatane . Sindimayembekezera zambiri. Ndinamufotokozera tsiku lotsatiralo chifukwa chomwe sindinagwirizane ndi izi ndipo ndinamupatsa mwayi wosankha kuti ngati sadzandiyankha zikhala chifukwa ati atenga nthawi yake. Ndipo sanandiyankhe. Sanayankhe chilichonse pazomwe ndinamufotokozera. Ndakhala wachisoni kwambiri chifukwa izi zandiphatikizira, zomwe zimandipangitsa kukhala wopanda nkhawa, ntchito yanga yatsopano, yomwe imandipangitsanso kusatekeseka komanso lingaliro langa, kuti ndatsalira kwambiri. Kodi ndiyambe kuzindikira kuti uku ndikulekana pang'ono kapena ndiyenera kukhala wotseguka kuti mwina akufunabe kukhala ndi ine?
Zabwino !!! Ndakhala pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata kwa miyezi itatu, ali ndi zaka 35 ndipo ine ndili ndi zaka 19, amakhala ku United States ndipo ine ku Argentina. M'masabata aposachedwa sindikumva bwino, ndili ndi iye ndikumva bwino, koma chifukwa choti sindimamva bwino nthawi zina amamuimba mlandu pazonse zomwe zimamuchitikira ndipo amangondilimbikitsa komanso amandipempha kuti andikhululukire ndipo sindimamukonda konse, ndimamumvera chisoni, sabata yomwe amakhala ndi tsiku lake lobadwa ndipo ndimamva kuti ndikufuna nthawi yoti ndiziganizire ndekha komanso zomwe zikundichitikira koma zimandipweteka ingoganizirani izi ndi zina kuti muchite tsiku lake lobadwa lisanafike. Amati chani ?? Thandizeni!
Ndakhala ndi mnzanga kwa zaka 8, tagonjetsa mavuto limodzi, funso nlakuti ndidazindikira posachedwa kuti adapita ndi mtsikana ndipo ndidachoka kunyumba popeza timakhala limodzi, ndiye ndidabweranso, funso nlakuti kuti adandifunsa poyamba Pepani, adandiuza kuti zimangokhala zosangalatsa komanso kuti iyemwini adaganiza zothetsa ubale womwewo womwe anali nawo, chowonadi ndichakuti tidapita ndikukhalanso limodzi, titakambirana zatsopano zomwe sizinachitike patatha sabata limodzi nditakumana ndi vuto loyamba, ndidamuwuza kuti tidzipatsanso mwayi wina popeza ndikudziwikiratu kuti m'mayanjano aliyense wa ife atha kukhala ndi chibwenzi nthawi ina iliyonse sabata ino nditatha kusaonana amandiuza akufuna kwakanthawi ndimamufunsa ngati amandikonda ndipo Amati sakudziwa m'mawa kwambiri amanditumizira meseji yonena kuti amandikonda koma sakudziwa ngati apitilize chibwenzicho ndasokonekera kwambiri , Ndichoka kwa iye koma zimandipweteketsa kwambiri mzimu wanga chifukwa ndi m'modzi mwa iwo omwe amaganiza chonchonthawi ikupemphedwa kuti ndiwo mapeto
Ndayesera kuti ndiwerenge aliyense ndipo zokumana nazo ndizofanana, pomwe munthu amakayikira momwe akumvera ndikwabwino kuti amusiye yekha, ngati osamutumiza kudzera mu chubu, ndikukhulupirira kuti zonse ndizabodza, ngakhale ndewu zimathetsa ubale izi ndewu Sizinapangidwe, ndizopangira china chake, zomwe sizimativutitsa, zimatipangitsa kuti tisataye mtima ndipo sitikudziwa momwe tingalimbane nazo, zachidziwikire pali anthu omwe akupanga ma cellopathic (ili ndi vuto lamisala), komanso, kuti ngati ndimakukonda, sindimakukonda ndiye kusakhwima kwathunthu komanso yemwe akusewera ndi malingaliro a mnzake, nthawi zina sitimafuna kuzindikira, ndizovuta kuti tikhale owona mtima, kunena zowona, koma amadziwa kuti ngakhale zimamveka zopusa, mkazi akapatsa thupi lake amavutika kwambiri, ndikuti limadalira linzake, ndipo safuna kuzindikira kuti lakhala likugwiritsidwa ntchito, chifukwa amene amakukondani, akuyembekezerani, ndichifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kuti tizindikire kuti winayo satikonda, ndipo monga adatipangira lonjezo lopanda pake, Tikukhulupirira kuti adzasunga mawu ake, omwe ndi abodza SW. Wina akakuwuzani kuti muwapatseko nthawi, dulani, musadzione ngati olakwa nthawi zina timadziimba mlandu ndikudzifunsa kuti talakwitsa chiyani, BODZA, munthu ameneyo ndi wachinyamata (ra) yemwe akusewera nafe. Kukhala ndi chibwenzi musanakuwonetseni chizindikiro, ndichifukwa chake timathedwa nzeru, Ngati munthu ameneyu adabwera ndi moyo wanu wabodza, mabodza ake adzamulepheretsa, bola ngati simunakwatirane, chonde dulani!
Chabwino; Mwamuna wanga ndi ine tidasiyana masiku apitawo. Ndili ndi pakati pamasabata asanu ndi limodzi. Ndili ndi zaka 18. Mwamuna wanga ndi msirikali wakale ndipo ali ndi malingaliro ake. Masiku angapo apitawo ndinali ndi sonogram ndipo inali yokongola; Anali komweko komanso asanabadwe sonogram sanafune kudziwa zambiri za ine nditawona kamwana kameneka ndikumvetsera kugunda kwa ps masentimita kuti ndimamukhudza. Anandiuza kuti ndimupatse nthawi yoganizira zinthu ndikukhala olongosoka. Choipa apa ndikuti amakhala mnyumba ya makolo ake, momwe ndimakhala naye, ndipo bno samandikonda nd bn. Chifukwa chake amalowa mu td kwambiri. Koma kupitirira apo; Ndikudziwa kuti ndinalakwitsa monga iye chifukwa nthawi zina timakangana pazinthu zopanda pake ndipo pamapeto pake timakambirana wina ndi mnzake mosazindikira. Pomaliza lero adaganiza zoyankhula nane pafoni. Wabwera kudzandiwona masiku ano koma sanafune kuyankhula. Amandiuza ngati ndikuganiza kuti ndine ndekha amene ndikuvutika ndi izi, chifukwa choti timavutika m'njira zosiyanasiyana (zomwe rspondi sizitero chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti sizili choncho, ndiye kuti, timavutika ndi izi), ngati musaganize kuti amandikonda ndimafuna kulera mwana wamwamuna limodzi (zomwe ndidati ndizidziwa chifukwa ndichinthu chomwecho chomwe tinkalota ndipo pamapeto pake tidachipatsidwa) ndikuti chidamupatsa kwakanthawi ndipo kumuzunza (ndikudziwa kuti izi zingamupangitse kuti asamuke) kuti athe kulingalira bwino (kufunsa ngati akuganiza izi pakapita nthawi titatha kukambirana chifukwa titha kuyanjana ndipo anandiuza kuti akuyembekeza kuti Ndikuopa kuti sizikhala choncho: '(Kapena kuti ndimakhala nthawi yayitali ndikufuna kukhala ndekha ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti izi zimandipweteka ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndikamupatsa danga amatha kulipenda modekha. Amandiimbira foni ndikundifunsa kuti ndili bwanji komanso ngati ndinatenga ziwalo zanga zomwe ndinalakwa komanso ngati ndadya ndipo izi ndi zabwino ... Ndinavomera zolakwa zanga ndikupempha chikhululukiro kambiri ndipo ndinamuuza kuti azindikire kuti chikhululukiro sichimakonza td . Ndidamuuza kuti ndikapeza mwayi ndipereka 100% yanga kuti ukwatiwu ukonzeke ndikugwira ntchito kuti zikhala bwino. Adutsa kale zambiri; pomwe mwana wake wamwamuna adamutenga, adasudzulidwa ndipo ps ndichifukwa chake amakhala choncho ndipo zomwe amamva kuti zatsekedwa Kuphatikiza apo dq anali ku Iraq ndipo ali ndimikhalidwe ina yamaganizidwe (q kwa nd andisunthira kutali ndi iye chifukwa ndimamukonda monga iye aliri). Kotero sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Ndikuwopa kutenga nthawi yake komanso malo ake ndikuti izi zatha: '(Tidakambirana zakusudzulana kuzomwe adandiuza kuti inde ndipo lero andiuza kuti ngakhale d td ps sanatero (td zomwe zidakambidwazo mu mkwiyo masiku apitawo lero timalankhula modekha kwambiri). Sanakhale nawo mwayi wokhalapo kuti akaone ana ake akhanda ndipo uwu kwa iye ndi mwayi watsopano wokhalapo ndikulera mwanayu limodzi ndikuwononga zokongola zonse zija. Ndikufuna upangiri kapena china choti chandilimbikitse. Sizindipangitsa ine kukhala wabwino kapena mwana wanga kukhala nawo pamavuto ndikudikirira kuti muwone zomwe zichitike. Ndili ndi chikhulupiliro chachikulu mwa Mulungu kuti tibwerananso koma bwanji ngati ataganiza kuti izi sizigwira ntchito? : '(Sindingathe kupirira. Ndikufuna upangiri kwenikweni! Ndimamukonda ndipo ndikufuna kuti ukwati uwu ubwerere. Nditachoka pa sonogram masiku angapo apitawo ps adandikumbatira ndikundiuza kuti amandikonda ndipo amupatsa nthawi ndipo mpaka lero sanabwere kudzandiona masiku ano ps mpaka lero zinali kuti ife adalankhula pafoni pamutuwu kuti afike pamapeto Kodi tingatani ndipo ndizomwe tidatsalira. Malo ndi nthawi yoganizira zinthu. Amandifunafuna ndipo amandiyimbira kuti ndidziwe momwe td iyi ndi momwe ndimamverera ndekha ndikapanda kuyisintha bwino ndimeneyi.
A ayenera kuwerengedwa: Ine ndi banja langa takhala mu umphawi kwa zaka pafupifupi zisanu ndipo amuna anga adatisiya zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazo ndipo anali wolemera kwambiri anali ndi mkazi wina yemwe analibe ngakhale mwana ndipo adandisiya ndi ana anga anayi ndiye tsiku lina mwana wanga adati mnzake adawona chotsatsa chamwamuna wina kuti akhoza kuthandiza munthu wina wakale wake ndiye mwana wanga adagwiritsa ntchito foni ya mnzake kutumiza imelo kwa mwamunayo kenako adamupusitsa pazomwe mwamunayo adatiuza zidzatithandiza. tinali nthabwala choncho anatiuza zoyenera kuchita, choncho tinazichita patatha masiku 4 ndinapeza ntchito kuchokera kwa ine wokongola kwambiri ndipo banja langa linakhala bwino patatha miyezi iwiri mwamuna wanga wafika kunyumba ndikugwadani ndinakupemphani koma tsopano tili tibwereranso kotero ndikunena pano, ngati muli ndi vuto ili [4] muli ndi vuto ndi wakale wanu [2] mukufuna kukhala wachuma osalowetsa kuunikira [1] mukufuna kukhala ndi mwana [2] inu ali nazo vuto lauzimu [3] yemwe ali ndi khansa, wakhungu, ndi zina zambiri tidzakutumizirani imelo ku ogudosolution@gmail.com,
Dziwani: Panopa ndikukumana ndi mavuto ofanana ndi omwe amaperekedwa pagululi. Mnzanga ndi ine tili pachibwenzi pafupifupi zaka 3. Osati kale kwambiri, adandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi ndipo yankho langa linali loti nditenge nthawi yonse padziko lapansi. Chifukwa cha yankho lomwe ndidamupatsa, nthawi yomweyo adasiya lingaliro. Komabe, chifukwa ndi wochokera kudziko lina, adapita ulendo ndikupeza nthawi yake mulimonse. Sindinamvepo kwa iye kwa masiku 10 ndipo abwera kuchokera ulendo wake mawa. Mwachidziwikire ndipo atasanthula momwe zinthu zilili moyenera, ngakhale ndimamukonda, atha kupita ku gehena. Kudzikonda ndikwabwino kuposa zinyenyeswazi kapena zidutswa. Ndikuvutika ndipo sizikhala zophweka, sichoncho, koma sizikhala zoyika mtima wanga pachiwopsezo komanso zotsutsana.
Choyambirira komanso chachikulu mwa banjali pomwe awiriwa apempha nthawi kapena chimodzi chitha kukhala kuti sindikukondanso kapena pali wina koma ngati munthu ameneyo amakukondani kwambiri ndikukuwuzani kuti akufuna nthawi xk pali china chomwe iye saganiza kuti Ali wolondola komanso akuganiza kuti chikondi chatha xk wasokonekera pali anthu mu banja mmodzi amakondana kwambiri ndi mnzake ndipo akafunsa nthawi ndikakonza pali anthu omwe sadzachita kmo nthawi zonse nthawi yoyamba Mukasiya kuchita zokoma komanso kukonda xk mukuopa kuti zomwezo zidzakuchitikiraninso zomwe zikundichitikira ndipo ndikufunsani ngati ndibwereranso sindidzachitanso chimodzimodzi ngati zisanachitike zinthu zomwe simungathe kupita nthawi yayitali koma ngati mumakonda wokondedwa wanu amamenyera iye koma maanja amakhala awiri ngati wina safuna china chilichonse ndibwino kunena kuti sindikukondani k ndikubera xk habese mutha kumva chisoni ndikutaya chilichonse ndipo alipo mumapereka bwanji Zambiri mwazomwe mwataya ndipo simunadziwe kuti mumaziyamikira bwanji
Moni, muli bwanji? Chabwino, nkhani yanga sindikudziwa kuti ndimwe bwanji kapena zomwe mukuchita.Ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa kwa zaka 8, koma alibe ntchito yokhazikika, amagwira ntchito mu nyumba yosungiramo katundu komanso kuti m'modzi mwa makolowo alibe ndalama ndipo sindikuwona kuti akufuna kuchita kena kake., ndakhala ndikumuuza kwa nthawi yayitali kuti ndipeze ntchito yoti atifunire tsogolo, koma ine sanazindikire kusintha kulikonse, sakufuna kuphunzira maphunziro aliwonse kuti apitilize kuyambiranso ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti ndipo ndamuwuza kuti ndamuuza kuti sachita chilichonse pankhaniyi (ubale wathu), adandiuza kuti ngati amasamala kuti sindinganene kuti chifukwa chilichonse chomwe ndimamupempha amachita ndipo sizowona chifukwa sanazichite ndipo tsopano ndili pa moyo wanga kuti sindikudziwa choti ndichite, ndinamupempha kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi tsopano sindikudziwa kuti ndipitilize bwanji, kudziwa ngati ndili woyenera kapena ngati angasinthe ndikupitilirabe kapena ngati tikonza momwe zinthu zilili zoipa
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Miyezi 4 yapitayo ndidathetsa chibwenzi changa, adali ndi nthawi yokwiyira ena ndikuwatulutsa mpaka ndidakhuta ndikukaphulika mwatsoka ndidathetsa chibwenzi changa ndi iye wazaka 6, patadutsa masiku ochepa ndikadakhazikika kale ndimafuna kuti ndibwerere naye koma adandifunsa Kwakanthawi mpaka pano chifukwa monga ndinenera, miyezi 4 yadutsa ndipo nthawi tayankhula, amandiuza kuti amatenga nthawi yambiri kuti amandikondabe kuti kulibe wina koma kuti sakundikhululukira kwathunthu, ine pa
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Mkhalidwe umasinthabe, amakhala akundiuza kuti amandikonda koma kuti sanakonzekerebe, pali nthawi zomwe ndimamukhulupirira kuti amandikondabe koma pali masiku ena omwe sindimakhulupirira, koma ndi nthawi timawonana komanso momwe ine
Ndikulandira nthawi izi ndimamva chikondi chonse chomwe ali nacho kwa ine koma sindikumvetsa zomwe amayembekezera, akupita kwa wama psychologist pamavuto osiyanasiyana ndipo amamumamatira kwambiri.
Katswiri wa zamaganizidwe Anati sanalimbikitse kuti abwerere nthawi yomweyo koma ndili ndi nkhawa kwambiri, mukuganiza bwanji?
PAMODZI PANTHAWI YOTHA KUTI NTHAWI IMENEYI IMAPANGITSA ANTHU KULINGALIRA NDIPO AMAZINDIKIRA ZOLAKWITSA ZOMWE ANKAPANGIRA MFUNDO ZOFUNIKA KWAMBIRI KAPENA NTHAWI ZIMAWAONETSA KUTI PALIBE CHIKONDI.
moni masiku apitawo chibwenzi changa chinandifunsa kuti apite nthawi ayenera kukhala payekha popanda aliyense woti asiye zinthu monga choncho ndimafunikira kulingalira zonse zomwe tinali nazo mpaka tsiku lomaliza bwino chilichonse chisangalalo ndipo sindikudziwa chomwe chinachitika kuyambira chimodzi miniti kwa wina ndiyenera kudziwa zomwe zimachitika chifukwa ndimayankha Chifukwa chake ndidamvetsetsa ndikumusiya yekha, ndinali ndi nthawi yoyipa masiku angapo tsopano osalira, chifukwa amuna amachita izi, tinali ndi zonse zomwe adakonza ndipo adandiuza kuti ndimakukondani kwambiri
Msungwana wanga anandiuza kuti titipatse nthawi chifukwa cha mikangano komanso kusakhulupirirana, ndipo ndikuwona kuti sakundikondanso chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ndili ndi zolakwitsa zanga ndipo zolakwazo ndi kusowa kwa nthawi kuti ndimupatse nkhawa komanso ndikumaliza kupitilira kasanu ndipo tsopano ndidatenga sitepeyo chifukwa ndili ndikumulepheretsa.Ndimapemphera kwambiri kuti ndikatopa ndipo tsopano ndikumva chisoni
Masana abwino, sindikudziwa choti ndichite, ndidakumana ndi chibwenzi changa ndipo sakufuna kunditenga ndi azinzake, ndipo adasiyana ndi mkazi wake kwazaka khumi ndi zisanu chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwa iye. Mwana wamkazi amakhala naye ndipo sakufuna kuti azikhala naye, ndiwodzikonda kwambiri, sasamala zomwe ndimamva, ndili ndi mwana wamwamuna wazaka 11 zakubadwa kuchokera ku banja langa loyamba, ndikufuna kupanga Moyo ndi wokondedwa wanga koma salankhula zamtsogolo ndi Timamuyitanira chidwi chifukwa ndi munthu wolimbikira, wolimbikira ntchito komanso wodziwa bwino ndalama zomwe amapeza koma zimandidabwitsa kuti ali ndi fayilo yake yonse, zolembedwa zake zonse zili zobisa ndi makiyi ndi magalimoto ake mu garaja yemwe adatsekedwa ndi kiyi, sindikumvetsa ngati zili bwino chifukwa ali Chifukwa chake amabisala ndikamamufunsa, amandiyankha mwamanyazi ndipo akuchita bwino pantchito yake ndipo pakadali pano Ndikukumana ndi zovuta mu bizinesi yanga koma ndimawona kudzikonda kwake mzake adamuwona ali ndi mkazi wina koma akunena kuti sizowona kuti chifukwa sindimamujambula kuti amuyang'ane koma amalankhula naye pa foni ndipo amadzionetsera ngati wosamvetsetseka, salola kuti foni yake ipite ngakhale kubafa. Izi ndizotopetsa, sindikumukonda koma ndikuvutika kwambiri chifukwa izi ndizosatsimikizika, chilichonse ndichinsinsi. Kapena malinga ndi chilichonse chomwe akuyenera kumenya chimodzi ndichokhwima kwambiri popeza General sindikudziwa kuti sitimayenda pafupifupi ndili ndi chaka chimodzi ndi theka ndipo tapita pafupifupi kawiri ndikagwira ntchito yomwe ndili nayo satero pitani akapuma chonde ndithandizeni ???
Wawa, chowonadi ndichakuti, sindikudziwa choti ndichite, ndakhala ndi bwenzi langa kwanthawi yoposa chaka, koma popeza tili m'zipinda zosiyanasiyana, ndidakumana ndi mnyamata, ndimagwirira ntchito limodzi ndi mnyamatayu ndipo tigwirizane bwino, ndikuseka bwino, ndipo chinthucho ndikuti tsiku lina pamakwerero adandipsompsona ndipo ndidadabwitsidwa, nthawi zambiri wina akafuna kundipsompsona ndimatembenuza nkhope yake ndikunena kuchokera ku a mpaka z, koma sinditero mukudziwa chifukwa chomwe ndinakhalira choncho, sindinamumenye kapena chilichonse ndinapitiliza kumpsompsona koma ndinamukankha, chifukwa ndili ndi chibwenzi ndipo amandikonda kwambiri koma chizolowezi chimandipangitsa kuti ndisasangalale, ndinamva chisoni ndikupsompsona, pa pamwamba pake mnyamatayu amandifunsa kuti ndiyende podziwa kuti ndili ndi chibwenzi, ndipo ndinamuuza kuti ayi ndi ayi, Tidalimbana ndipo tinkapewerana pabalaza koma ahhh popeza kupsompsona kwanga kunadzutsa china mwa ine, tsopano ndamuwona wokongola kwambiri ndisanasamale, ndidayamba kumukonda ndipo ndi womwewo mpukutu womwe ndidafunsa bwenzi langa kuti ndigwiritse ntchito nthawi, sinditenga bwino Sindikudziwa choti ndichite ndimakonda chibwenzi changa koma nthawi zina ndimatopa nacho malingaliro ake, si mwana woyipa, amadziwa banja langa, ndiwabwino Wophunzira wanu, koma malingaliro ake nthawi zina amawoneka kuti ndi achiwerewere, sindingathe kuchita naye zinthu zambiri chifukwa cha izi, m'malo mwake mwana watsopanoyu ali ngati mwana woipa, ndipo amandipangitsa kumva zinthu zatsopano, zili ngati amatulutsa mkazi woopsa mu ine, Ngakhale ali ndi chibwenzi, ndikudziwa kuti amusiya chifukwa cha ine, ndili womangidwa! Thandizeni!
Mmawa wabwino, ndikuganiza kuti kupempha nthawi ndikofunikira makamaka ngati mukufuna kuiwala munthu….
Kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi panali munthu yemwe ndimamukonda kwambiri, sindinakondepo wina aliyense mwamphamvu chonchi. Adadukapo ndipo chifukwa bala ili la mtima ndimadziwa, zivute zitani, ndimakhalabe ndikuyesera kuti ndimugonjetse, zabwino zomwe sindinachite bwino kapena amangopitiliza kumukonda wakale ndipo samatha kupitiliza kapena kuyambitsa chatsopano ubale chifukwa cha izo. Anandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi, anandiuza kuti ayenera kufotokoza momwe akumvera, panthawiyi sindinakhulupirire nthawi, ndimaganiza kuti zidzangowononga zochepa zomwe tili nazo. Komabe, ndinali wokhumudwa, ndinkaona kuti ndagwiritsidwa ntchito, ndinali wokondwa kwambiri ndipo ndinali ndikufa. Munthawi imeneyi ndidakumana ndi munthu wokongola, munthu yemwe nthawi zonse ankalota, wokhala ndi mikhalidwe yokongola, yemwe kwa nthawi yoyamba anali kundiwonetsa kuti chikondi chinali choyenera. Ndinayamba chibwenzi naye, ndinamupsompsona koyamba chifukwa anali wanga wina wapadera. Nthawi idapita ndipo ngati ndimakhala womasuka ndi munthu ameneyo koma ndidazindikira kuti ndimaganizirabe za munthu yemwe adandipwetekayo adali ndi tanthauzo m'moyo wanga ndipo sindinali kuchita zachilungamo kwa msungwana watsopano yemwe ndidakumana naye, ndidamutsimikizira kuti anali zomwe amafuna kuti azikhala naye zomwe zimangotenga kanthawi kuti athe kuiwala wina ndikumukonda kwathunthu osati theka monga momwe amachitira. Mwachidziwikire, adakwiya ndipo adati kuti akwaniritse chiyembekezo chake ndipo dsps imusiye. Ndangopempha nthawi imeneyo kuti ndifotokozere momwe ndimamvera, kuyiwala wina yemwe adandipweteka ndikumukonda kwambiri munthuyu. Miyezi 3 idadutsa, ndipo ndidamva kale kuti mtima wanga wachira kuti pali iye yekha osati amene adandipweteka, ndidapanga chisankho chomuyang'ana kuti amuuze kuti ndinali wokonzeka kumukonda momwe amayenera, ndipo anandiuza kuti ngati ndikufuna Anandipsompsona, kundikumbatira, kundigwira dzanja ndikundiuza kuti ndimuwonetse. Chifukwa chake ndidamuwuza kuti ngati ati amuwonetse ndi zochita, masiku atatu atadutsa adakumana ndi wina paukwati mnyamatayo adayamba kumukonda ndikumuitanira kuti atuluke, adatuluka ndipo zimachitika kuti ndimayang'ana onse pamodzi adakumbatirana, kuti Zidandipangitsa kukhala wonyansa kwambiri chifukwa ndidamupempha nthawiyo osati chifukwa choti anali woyipa, koma kuti ndimukonde bwino, ndidamveketsa bwino kokwanira kuti ngati amufuna amangotenga nthawi kuiwala. Ndinapita kunyumba kwake kukamunyengerera kuti andilole kuti ndiwonetse kuti ngati ndimamukonda monga ananenera ndipo mayi ake anatuluka, anandiuza kuti anali atakumana kale ndi munthu wina ndipo ndikuti ndilakwe polola kuti nthawi idutse, ine adalongosola nthawi imeneyo ndidazigwiritsa ntchito kuti ndidziwe kuyiwala kuti ndizitha kumukonda bwino. Komabe, sanandiuze kuti akumana ndi munthu wina, sanandipatsenso nkhope yake, anandiuza chilichonse ndi msg. Zomwe sindikumvetsa ndichifukwa chani andiuze kuti amandikonda, bwanji kundipsompsona, kundikumbatiranji, ngati pakadatha masiku atatu andiuza kuti sangandipatse mwayiwo? Ndinali wowona mtima ndi nthawi yomwe ndidafunsa, ndidamutsimikizira kuti ndiamene ndimafuna kukhala ndekha yemwe ndimayenera kuyiwala winawake kuti ndimukonde bwino. Ndikumva kuti mwina ndi vuto langa koma ndimamva bwino kuti pamapeto pake adandisangalatsa kundiuza kuti akufuna ndimuwonetse kuti ndimamukonda komanso kuti pambuyo pake ndidzazindikira kuti akukumana ndi munthu wina . Chowonadi chinali chakuti ndimamva kuwawa sindimaganiza kuti atero kwa ine. Ngati mumakonda munthu, mudzawapatsa mwayiwo.
Masana abwino, ndakhala pabanja zaka 20 ndipo ndili ndi ana awiri ndi amuna anga mobwerezabwereza, amuna anga akhala osakhulupirika kwa ine, ndipo ayesanso kutero, ndinamukhululukira chifukwa ndimamukonda, koma pafupifupi masiku 15 m'mbuyomu ndinalandila foni kuchokera kwa mayi wina akundiuza kuti mamuna wanga Ananena kuti akulekana ndi ine ndikufuna kukhala naye paubwenzi chifukwa cha izi tinali ndi mavuto kale chifukwa nthawi zina amabwera mochedwa kunyumba ndipo akamadandaula amapeza wakwiya kwambiri kapena ngati amamuyimbira chifukwa amamuyimbira mulimonse, chifukwa chakuyimbidwa kuja ndinamuwuza kuti achoke ndipo tisiyana koma anandiuza kuti tidzipatse kanthawi akuyenera kudziwa chifukwa chomwe ali ndi ine chifukwa nthawi zina amandichitira zoipa amapita kunyumba kwa amayi ake koma ndimamva kuwawa sindimangoganiza za izi ndipo ndikuganiza kuti nthawi ndiyabodza kuti pamapeto pake tidzasiyana koma nthawi zina wabwera kunyumba kwanga ndikuwoneka kuti ndikhale ndi chinsinsi ndipo tidakhalapo koma pambuyo pake ndimamva kuwawa komanso zabwino tsopano ndati ndisadzapezekensoTsopano ndikuganiza zothetsa chibwenzicho kwanthawi zonse ndatopa, bwanji ndikadikirira ndipo pamapeto pake andiuza kuti sitibwerera ndipo ndiyenera kuvutika, osati chowonadi, zimandipweteka kwambiri kuti ndipange chisankho koma sindikudziwa choti ndichite, ndithandizeni kuti ndikondwere
Masana abwino, dzina langa ndi Yesu, ndili ndi zaka 29, ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ndamaliza ndi mnzanga, dzina lake ndi Jose, ali ndi zaka 56. Ndikutchula mwachidule nkhaniyi ndipo ndithokoza kwambiri ndemanga zanu zomwe zindipangitse kulingalira mozama ndikuvomereza zinthu.
Ubwenzi wapakati pathu titha kunena kuti nthawi zonse unali wosangalala komanso wabwino, nthawi zochepa komanso zachilendo timakhala ndi mkangano, koma choyipa chokhudza ubalewu ndikuti ndiwokonda kwambiri, wokonda anzawo, wokoma mtima, waulemu ndi zina zambiri , ndipo ine Pafupifupi mosiyana, nthawi zonse amayenera kundipempha chilichonse, akhale kupsompsona, kugona, ndi zina zambiri. koma ngakhale zinali choncho tinkakhala okondwa nthawi zonse popeza tinkadzifunsa tokha izi ndipo lidali yankho la onse Miyezi ingapo yapitayo adayamba kuyankha kuti wapachikidwa kwambiri pazachuma komanso kuti tili kalikiliki kuchitapo kanthu, ngati yankho adandiuza kuti abwereka nyumba yomwe timakhala popeza ndi yake, chifukwa chakusakhulupirira kwanga kuti amangofuna kunditulutsa mnyumba etc. Ndidakana mpaka tsikulo litafika ndipo ndidachita renti, ndidatsutsa, ndidakakamira kulowa mnyumba patangopita maola ochepa omwe abwereka amafika ndipo amandichotsa kulimba mtima kwanga ndikuwomba mbama iye samandiuza chilichonse ndikamupempha zovala zanga amandipatsa masiku ano zinthu zomwe ndidagula. Patangopita mphindi zochepa chisoni chinali chachikulu kotero kuti ndinayamba kuyimba foni, kutumizirana mameseji, ndi zina zambiri. Poyeserera kambiri, amandiyankha pokambirana ndi iye akundiuza kuti amatenga nthawi kuti aganizire bwino ndikuti ngati sanachotse nkhope yanga, asintha nambala yanga, ndi zina zambiri, ndichifukwa amandikonda koma sakudziwa choti anene, mwachidziwikire ndalingalira zinthu ndipo sindinathe kukhala empaz masiku 21 adutsa ndipo sanapezeke ndimangoyimba mafoni asanu pasanathe masiku 5 kuchokera pano mpaka pano ndipo palibe.
Ndikadali ndi chiyembekezo champhamvu, koma mukuganiza bwanji? komanso kuthokoza zomwe zidachitika chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi ndidatsegula maso ndipo ndazindikira momwe ndimamukondera komanso zomwe amatanthauza kwa ine ...
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Moni! Ndikukhulupirira mutha kundithandiza. Ndinali ndi "bwenzi" ndimanena pamanambala ogwidwa chifukwa kwenikweni sanali, ndinamupempha kuti ndikhale naye nthawi kuti achokere kwa ine.
Amadwala kulandila "zinyenyeswazi zachikondi" ndipo amangolankhula nane akafuna, kuti amuthandize.
Akuti alibe inu nthawi zonse kwa ine, koma ndi bodza, m'malo mwake ndikusowa chidwi: '(chifukwa alibe nazo chidwi momwe ndimamvera.
Ndikungodalira kuti "nthawi" imeneyo ali kutali ndi ine, chifukwa sindikumukondanso ndipo ndimadzimva kukhala wonyansa, koma kukhumudwako kunandipweteka kwambiri, koma ndimakhala chete chifukwa ndinachita zinthu moyenera ndipo ndinamuuza zonse izi zomwe ndidalemba pamutu ,.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti "nthawi" yomwe ndidamufunsa idzamuchotsa kwa ine.
Moni, muli bwanji? Ndataya mtima kwambiri ndipo ndili ndi nkhawa. Chifukwa cha zolakwitsa zanga komanso kuzizira pomaliza zinthu zochepa, tsopano mnzanga wazaka 8 tamaliza. Ndinamupempha kuti andikhululukire ndi mtima wanga wonse ndipo anandiuza kuti amafuna nthawi. Anandiuza kuti amandikonda ndipo akufuna kuti tikhale mabwenzi omwe anali nawo kale kuti asiye. Ndiwothina kwambiri ndipo zimandikhudza. Ndikumva ngati kwa zaka zathu zambiri tizigwira ntchito limodzi. Ndikukhumudwitsidwa ndipo pantchito ndachepetsa zokolola zanga, ndayambanso kumugonjetsanso koma ndimabwereranso kutaya mtima nthawi ndi nthawi ndikumuuza momwe ndimamusowa. Timalankhula tsiku lililonse, samafuna kutaya kulumikizana ndi ine, koma ndimawona ngati samandizindikira. Ndinalakwitsa posowa chikondi koma ndinalonjeza kuti ndisintha. Ndikungodalira kuti nkhawa iyi idutsa ndipo titha kupirira kuwonana kumapeto kwa sabata kwa milungu iwiri kuti takhala patali. Tikawonana, chikondi chathu chimatuluka, koma kudzera pamauthenga kumakhala kozizira. Chonde wina andilangize. Zikomo
Ndine wokondwa kuti ndikufuna kugawana nawo umboni wa moyo wanga kwa aliyense. Ndinakwatira mwamuna wanga, ndipo ndimamukonda kwambiri ndipo ndakhala m'banja zaka zinayi, ndilibe mwana.
Atapita kutchuthi ku England, adakumana ndi mayi wina, ndipo atabwerako, adati sakusangalalanso ndi banja lathu popeza sindingakhale ndi mwana. Ndinasokonezeka kwambiri ndipo ndinali wokhumudwa chifukwa chothandizidwa, sindikudziwa choti ndichite mpaka nditakumana ndi mnzanga ndikumuuza mavuto anga onse. Anandiuza kuti ndisadandaule kuti andithandiza ndipo adandidziwikitsa kwa mneneri wamkazi yemwe angamulodzere mkazi wake wakale ndikumubwezera pakatha masiku atatu ndipo atha kundithandizanso kukhala ndi ana anga. Anandipempha kuti ndilumikizane naye, ndidamuyimbira ndikumupempha kuti andithandize kuti ndibweretse mamuna wanga ndipo ndikufunikanso mwana ndipo adandifunsa kuti ndisadandaule kuti milungu yamtundu uliwonse wamakolo imandimenyera. Anati masiku atatu asanakwane, ine ndi amuna anga. Pambuyo masiku atatu mwamuna wanga adandiimbira foni ndikundiuza kuti abwerera kwa ine ndikufuna zinthu zomwe akufuna ndi ine, ndinadabwa atabwera kwa ine ndikuyamba kulira, ndikupempha kuti andikhululukire. Pakadali pano ndili mayi. Ndine mkazi wosangalala kwambiri padziko lapansi motero mtsuko waukulu udandichitira ine ndi amuna anga, mutha kulumikizana nawo ndikumufikira pamavuto aliwonse padziko lapansi omwe mukukumana nawo mwina ndi nkhani zaumoyo kapena zaubwenzi, ngati ndikufuna wanu wakale, ngati mukufuna pang'ono kukukondani kapena mukufuna wina kuti asiye kukukondani, ngati mukufuna kuchita bwino pamilandu yamilandu, ngati mukufuna kuti bizinesi yanu ichite bwino, ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi pakati, ngati mukufuna chithandizo cha matenda aliwonse, ngati mukufuna ntchito, ngati mukufuna kupitiliza zokambirana, ngati mukufuna kukumana ndi munthu kulikonse padziko lapansi, ndi zina, zomwe ndi zabwino kwambiri, nayi ANNPERRY229@GMAIL.COM Lumikizanani. iye ndiye spell caster wabwino yemwe ndidakumana naye.
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Zomwe ndikukumana nazo ndi izi: bwenzi langa lidandifunsa kwakanthawi kuyambira pomwe adandiuza kuti sakudziwa ngati amandikonda komanso chifukwa amamva kuti chibwenzicho chagona pakamodzi, mwa ena chifukwa amamva kuti zinthu sizikuyenda ndipo tinkakambirana pafupipafupi. Akandiuza izi, amandiuza kuti aziphonya ndipo titha kupitilirabe kulankhulana nthawi zina koma ndiye iyi ndi nthawi yomwe sindikudziwa choti ndichite, chowonadi ndikulingalira zinthu zambiri ndipo ndili kutaya chiyembekezo.
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Dzina langa ndi Rosmery .. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite .. Ndinakhala zaka 6 ndi mwamuna wanga ndipo ndili ndi ana awiri. zomwe miyezi 6 yapitayo ndidazindikira kuti anali wosakhulupirika kwa ine ndi wina .. Ndidaganiza zochoka kuti ndichokere kwa iye .. Koma nditatero ndidavutika kwambiri komanso ana anga azolowera abambo awo. Chifukwa chake ine ndi amuna anga tidakambirana ndipo tidaganiza zoyeseranso .. Zachidziwikire kuti adalonjeza kuti sadzachitanso zomwezo .. Zinali zopindulitsa ana athu .. Tidachita koma sindimakhala ndikukayika nthawi zonse, ine osakhulupiriranso kwambiri. Pali nthawi zina zomwe ndimaganiza kuti amapitilizabe ndi winayo. Chifukwa chake tidayamba kukambirana zonse osatinso chilichonse .. Adandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi ndipo ndatopa kale ndidamuuza kuti sitilekananso .. Ndakhala ndikuchoka kwa iye kwa mwezi ndi theka .. Amakhala pafupi ndi ana anga Sindiwasiya chifukwa ndimadzimva kuti ndine wolakwa ndipo sindikufunanso kuti ana anga avutikenso .. Koma vuto ndilakuti makolo anga safuna kumuwona .. Sakufuna kuti ndilankhule kapena kulumikizana naye .. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite chifukwa sindifuna kuti ana anga avutike kwambiri, ndikufuna kuchoka kunyumba kwa makolo anga .. Koma ndiyambanso kuganiza kuti ndi ntchito ndidzakhala bwanji kutha kukhala nawo .. bola amandithandiza kuwawona .. Chowonadi ndikufuna ana anga awone abambo awo kuti azitha kulowa mchipinda chawo momasuka ndikusewera nawo kwakanthawi.Koma makolo anga safuna mpaka ndipo nthawi zonse amandiuza kuti andithamangitsa mnyumba mwawo limodzi ndi ana anga ndikamuwona kapena kuyesa kubwerera naye .. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite ...
M'malingaliro mwanga zili bwino, koma ngati zikukuvutani, mnzanu yemwe ali pafupi nanu atha kukupatsani dzanja, osati kuti mumamuuza kuti ndikufuna kwakanthawi, zimakhala ngati mwataya kena kake ndipo mukufuna kupatukana wekha kwa aliyense., koma Hei, ndi momwe zinthu zilili m'moyo, muyenera kuthana nazo, moyo ndi wovuta komanso wabwino, muyenera kupita patsogolo ndi munthu amene muli naye pafupi. Ndizomwe ndimaganiza mwachikondi.
Chikondi ndikumvetsetsa malingaliro, komabe pali zinthu zambiri monga zisankho zomwe mumapanga ndi zolakwitsa zomwe mumapanga ndi zina zambiri.
Ndakhala ndi chibwenzi changa pafupifupi chaka chimodzi ndipo dzulo ndimangopempha kuti ndipatsidwe nthawi, ndipo akunena kuti si chifukwa chakuti sandikonda kapena chilichonse chonga icho koma kuti akufuna nthawi chifukwa ali ndi mavuto am'banja ndipo akufuna kuwathetsa ndipo akuti zonse zikakonzeka apita kukandifuna koma akuti ngati amandikonda, koma nkhawa yanga ndiyoti chifukwa amandifunsa nthawi, ndithandizeni
Moni ndikufuna kunena nkhani yanga. Ndili ndi zaka 19 ndi 20 ndipo ndidasiyana ndi chibwenzi changa cha zaka 3 ndi theka zapitazo masiku 3 apitawo pa whatsapp anali akundicheka komanso kundilemetsa kotero kuti ndidasiyana naye koma pomwe ndimalemba amangofuna ganizani ndi kulingalira ndikuwona izi ngati nthawi yomwe ananena kuti ndaziwona zikubwera kuti tili ndi mavuto komanso kuti ndamukhumudwitsa pa mawonekedwe ake masiku angapo apitawa ndikuti sindingathe kuzichotsa pamutu pake. Kunena izi ndidachotsa zomwe ndimalemba chifukwa ndimawona kuti adazilandiranso bwino. Mphindi zingapo anandiuza kuti apita kukatenga zinthu zake mnyumba momwe tonse tinkakhala ndikachoka. Kenako ndinamuuza kuti ndikudabwa ndi momwe wawutengera ndipo adati wandimaliza, sindikufuna kuyankhula pano. Zitatha izi ndimadzichotsa pa malo onse ochezera ndipo lero lero akundilankhula ndikundifunsa kuti ndili bwanji (ndikufuna kunena momveka bwino kuti sindinamuwuze kalikonse, kapena ndampatsa malo ake onse) ndati chabwino ndipo iye nawonso adati ah ndimaganiza kuti ungalakwitse kapena china chake ndipo mwachidule anandiuza kuti sanathenso kukondana kuti sakufuna kundiona chifukwa zimandipweteka, kuti amandikondabe koma kuti wazindikira kuti tinali ndi mavuto ambiri, kuti adasokonezeka, kuti masabata omaliza sitinachite Tidayankhula zambiri tikukhala limodzi komanso kuti adakhumudwabe ndi zomwe ndidanena za thupi lake.Ndidamuuza kuti adikire sabata limodzi kapena awiri kuti tikambiranenso iye anati inde. koma kenako amaliza uthenga wake ndi "palibe chomwe chikunenedwa ngati tsiku lina tidzaganiza zopereka mwayi, tikukhulupirira kuti zidzakhala mwanjira yotereyi ndipo tiyenera kulola kuti nthawi inene zinthu zitha kutha miyezi kapena milungu yomwe wina sakudziwa chinthu chokha chomwe ndikufuna kunena pano sichisintha ndipo ndikufunirani zabwino zonse ”Momwe zimandipatsa chiyembekezo koma zinali ngati kutsanzikana NDITHANDIZO Sindikudziwa choti ndichite !!!
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Dzina langa ndi Louise Dickson ndimachokera ku {Birmingham City UK) Ndikufuna kugwiritsa ntchito njira yotereyi kuti ndiyamikire munthu yemwe ndimamuyamikira ndi mtima wonse chifukwa chondithandizira komanso kundikomera mtima. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndadzipereka kuti ndithokoze wamatsenga wamkuluyu wotchedwa wamatsenga wamkulu chifukwa kudzera mu thandizo lake moyo wanga udadzazidwa ndi chikondi chochuluka ndipo ndine wokondwa kunena kuti wokondedwa wanga wakale yemwe adasiyana ndi ine nthawi yomaliza masabata adandipemphanso Kuti andivomereze, Ichi chinali chochitika chodabwitsa chifukwa asadalumikizane ndi wamatsenga wamkulu ndi amene adapempha wokondedwa wanga wakale kuti abwerere kwa ine, koma kudzera mothandizidwa ndi wamatsenga wamkulu. Tsopano ubale wanga wabwezeretsedwanso. Muthanso kukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino pokhapokha mutalumikizana ndi: (sorcerer.de.love1@gmail.com) ndipo nthawi zonse ndidzakhala othokoza kwambiri ku imelo yamatsenga yayikulu chifukwa chothandizidwa ndi aliyense wokhoza komanso wodalirika kuthandiza (sorcerer.de.amor1 @ gmail.com).
Chibwenzi changa chidandifunsa kanthawi masabata awiri apitawa chifukwa akumverera kuti akukakamizidwa ndi sukulu ndipo akufuna kundipatsa nthawi yonse kwa ine ndikuchita homuweki ndipo ndizovuta kwa iye, chifukwa ndine munthu wapadera kwa iye ndipo amandifuna kuti ndimupatse nthawi kuti amalize maphunziro ake ndikundipatsa tsogolo labwino.
Anati sakufuna kusiya kulumikizana ndi ine koma pano salankhulanso nane ndipo sindikudziwa zomwe zichitike. 🙁
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Mmawa wabwino kwa aliyense. Ndakhala ndi mnzanga kwa zaka ziwiri, tinakumana pomwe ndinali kukumana ndi nthawi zoyipa kwambiri monga banja ndipo miyezi 2 nditakumana naye amayi anga anamwalira. Ndikufunanso kunena kuti tili ndi msinkhu winawake, sitilinso ana kapena achinyamata. Anandithandiza kwambiri, anali pambali panga, adandithandizira, ndidayamba kukhumudwa, sindinkafuna kupita kwa dokotala, ndayamba kumene kupita. Palibe gulu lachitatu. Tiyeneranso kunenanso kuti ali ndi zinthu zake, sindine ndekha. Anandiuza kuti amakhulupirira kuti tichita bwino, kuti zonse zimakhudzana ndi imfa ya amayi anga. Adandifunsa kuti ndipume, kuti tonse tithe kukonza zinthu zathu patokha, adandiuza kuti sakufuna kuchoka. Tonsefe timapita kwa wama psychologist padera. Chifukwa chake katswiri wanga wamaganizidwe adaganiza zopumira miyezi iwiri, osalankhula nafe, kutiwona, komanso kuti ndimuletse pamacheza. Tinawonana, tinakambirana, anayamba kulira, anandiuza kuti sizophweka kwa iyenso, kuti amandikonda, kuti ali ndi chidaliro kuti zonse ziyenda bwino, ndinamuuza kuti ndimuletsa , kuti azidziwe komanso kuti asazitenge mopepuka. Anandiuza kuti sikofunikira kuti apereka mavuto, ndimamukonda kwambiri, ndinazindikira zonse zomwe ndalakwitsa, ndinazindikira, sindikufuna kumutaya, ndikutsimikiza kuti titha kuzithetsa, koma zachidziwikire ndi nkhani ziwiri osati zanga zokha. Chowonadi ndi chakuti patatha milungu itatu mnzanga akundiuza kuti ndimachotsa zithunzi zonse ndi ine pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti, ndimachotsa kuti ali pachibwenzi, ndikuti ndimawonjezera atsikana ena. Izi zimandipatsa ine kuganiza, poyamba ndimaganiza kuti anali kuti asandione, kusiya zinthu mmbuyo ndikuwonetsetsa, koma tsopano popeza anandiuza kuti ali ndi atsikana ena pandandanda womwe ndikuganiza kuti ndikwanitsa anthu ena. Ndili ndi masamba anga omwe ndili ndiubwenzi ndipo sindinachotse zithunzi, koma zowonadi anthu si ofanana. Ndikuda nkhawa kuti nthawi idakalipo yoti andiimbire ndipo sindikudziwa zomwe zichitike.
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Mmawa wabwino,
Patha mwezi umodzi mnzanga atandiuza kuti uyenera kutenga nthawi, sukuganiza? Ndanena izi chifukwa ngati timakonda kukambirana zothetsa mavuto ndipo akuti inde chifukwa ndikufuna kulingalira bwino, ndipo chowonadi nchakuti, ine ndamusowa kwambiri ndipo ndikufuna kuthana ndi mavutowo.zinthu komanso kuti abwereranso kale koma sakufuna ndipo anandiuza kuti ndisalimbikire kwambiri chifukwa choti ndimamulakalaka zomwe sizowona ndikazinena chifukwa ndimamukondadi ndipo sindikufuna kumutaya koma ayi ndipo tsopano sindikuyankhulanso chifukwa kuyambira pomwe adandiuza kutengeka sikundipangitsenso kugwa pansi koma ndimafunitsitsadi kuyankhula ndikusintha zinthu .... !!!!!!!!!!!
Tiyeni tikhale achilungamo komanso osapita m'mbali popanda kudziletsa. Kufunsira nthawi pachibwenzi ndikofanana ndi m'modzi mwa omwe ali pamavuto kapena osakhala pachibwenzi), zachisoni ndawona milandu yambiri momwe izi zikufanana ndikuti pali munthu wina wachitatu pachithunzichi ndiye ulemu womwe ndimakonda kuganiza kuti gawo laubwenzi latsalira, limakonda kupempha nthawi, njira yodzibisa yoti tidule ubale ndipo sindikuwona njira.
Ndikulingalira kuti amachita izi mwina kuti akhale okhutira ponena kuti "sindinamunamizepo mnzanga" ndipo amabwera kudzadzipatsa malo awo. Chotsatira ndi chiyani? Chipani chomwe chidapanga pempholi chimachoka ndi wokondedwa wake watsopano pomwe winayo ali wokhumudwa komanso wokhumudwitsidwa ndi pempholi, palinso milandu yomwe chipani chachiwiri chikuwunikanso moyo wawo wosakwatiwa ndikusankha kutseka chitseko ndikusiya munthuyo kunja a moyo wawo. Mulimonsemo, ngati pali chikondi chenicheni, chinthu choyenera komanso choyenera kungakhale kukambirana za izi ndikumenyera limodzi kuthana ndi mavuto onse omwe alipo, osagwera pazifukwa zotsika mtengo izi.
NDAKWANITSITSA ZAKA 15 NDIPO MKAZI WANGA ANANDIFUNSA KUTI KWA NTHAWI YONSE AMANENA KUTI SAKUONANSO NDI CHINTHU CHIMENE NDIKUWUZA KUTI NGATI PALI MUNTHU WINA MUMOYO WAKE NDIPO AMANDITSIMIKITSA KUTI PALIBE NDINASokonezeka, NDI BWINO KWAMBIRI MUNDIUZE CHOONADI NDIPO POPANDA KUTI NDIDZATENGA CHILIMBIKITSO CHOLIMBIKITSA NDIMUUZA KUTI CHIFUKWA SIKUDZIWA KUYANKHA KUTI NGAKHALE SADZIWA CHIFUKWA CHIMENE CHILI CHONCHO, ZILI ZABWINO KWA ALIYENSE AMENE AMATSATIRA NJIRA YAKE CHONCHO Osatipweteka kapena ana
Ndili patchuthi cha masiku 15 ndipo sabata yachiwiri adandiuza kuti tidzipatseko nthawi, ndidamufunsa chifukwa chake, ndipo adandiuza kuti sakudziwa kuti sakufuna kukhala ndi munthu pakadali pano, anandiuzanso kuti sizinali Kumbali inayi, kuti amandikonda kwambiri, ndikuti titabwerera m'makalasi kuti ngati ndikufuna tipitilize, kapena kuti wandiuza kuti ndipitilize, ndipo amandipangitsa kuti ndikonze icho, ndimuuza tsiku limodzi chifukwa sindikuganiza kuti ndingakhale popanda iwe. Sindinamuuze kalikonse, kungotenga nthawi yomwe amafunikira koma kuti sindidzapezeka ndikadzakhala akundifuna, amandiuza kuti akudziwa kale kuti ndimaliza koma nkhani ndiyakuti, sindinatero ' sindikudziwa choti ndichite chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri. Koma sindikudziwa ngati ndipitilize tikamalowa kapena kutha kwamuyaya
Onani, ndakhala ndi masiku awiri omwe chibwenzi changa chandipatsa nthawi, ndikuvutika kwambiri. Msungwana wanga ndi 18 ndipo ndakhala pachibwenzi pafupifupi miyezi 19 ndipo sindikudziwa ngati akufunikiradi kuganiza kuti amakonda wina. Lero ndikulimba mtima ndidamutumizira mawu oti ndikukumana ndi mavuto. Kodi nditani??. Makolo anga sakudziwa kuti ndili naye koma amandiwona moyipa ndipo ndimadzipangira zifukwa. Ndimamusiyira nthawi komanso kuti azilankhula nane nthawi iliyonse akafuna ??. Ndasokera. Ngati wina angandithandize kuti ndisiye kuvutika kapena china chilichonse, zitha kuyamikiridwa. Ndipo ndikuwopa kuti andiuza kuti amandikonda ndiyeno pambuyo pake andifunsanso
Masana abwino ndikukumana ndi zovuta kotero mkazi wanga adandifunsa kwakanthawi patatha zaka 7 ndikukhalira limodzi sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire sindinawonepo kale izi zonse zomwe ndakwaniritsa zolinga zanga zonse ine ndi ana anga ndi anga injini yomwe imandipangitsa kumenya nkhondo tsiku lililonse ndimawona kuti ndi moyo wanga kupuma ndipo atandiuza kuti sindimakhulupirira kuti chifuwa changa ndi chopanikizika ndimamva ngati ndikusowa mpweya ndinamuuza kwakanthawi amandiuza ngati ndikulidi kondani mkazi wanga ndipo sindikudziwa ngati nthawi imeneyo atifunsa kuti atikonzere Ubale wathu kapena azatipatsa zabwino zonse koma ndasokonezeka, sindikudziwa choti ndichite, chonde, ndikufuna thandizo!
Zomwezi zidandichitikiranso ndi mnzanga, timakondana kwambiri ndipo takhala ndikulimba mtima kwambiri komanso apollo koma ali ndi mavuto ambiri ndipo ndi woipa kwambiri ndipo adaganiza zomusiya kanthawi kuti akufuna kuwononga ndalama zake zolemetsa ndekha osandisiya pambali komanso osasamala Ananena choncho sindikufuna kudzakhalako kenako ndikadzakumananso ndi mavuto ... Sindikudziwa kuti izi zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji komanso ndipita kuti ngati ndibwino kapena Choyipa chake sitilankhulanso ma beces ambiri tsiku lililonse monga kale chifukwa ndakhala ndikhala nditatha chisankhochi kuti takhala tikumangika kapena Iye wamasula zamkhutu zonse za nsanje zomwe sanakhalepo ... ndipo tidakambirana za izi anandiuza kuti zomwe amafuna ndizoti tizikhala bwino komanso kuti tisakhalenso ndi mikangano chifukwa tinali ndi nthawi yoyipa ndipo ndinamuuza kuti kuyankhulana tikhala ochepa kwambiri, .. ndipo tsopano ngati talankhula, zakhala ndimangokhala katatu pa sabata osachepera kutifunsa kuti tili bwanji, ali bwanji mwana wanu wamkazi ndi banja lanu kupatula thandizo lochokera kwa ine. Ndipo pakadali pano palibe chomwe chikusemphana chifukwa sitili choncho ndipo takhala tikugwirizana nthawi zonse ndipo timakondana kwambiri ndipo ndikuopa kuti izi zipsa chifukwa cha lingaliro lake sindikudziwa ndipo akandiyimbira foni ndimawona kuti zokhumudwitsa kapena zosawonekera mwakhama pang'ono Ndipo ndalankhula naye, palibe nsanje kapena chilichonse chomukwiyitsa kapena kumulemetsa, ndimangoyesa kuti ndisathetse mkangano ndikumuphwanya ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti izi zitha bwino ndipo tikhalanso limodzi iye kwambiri ndipo ndikupepesa kuti izi zawonongedwa 🙁.
Moni, ine ndi bwenzi langa tidafunsana kwakanthawi koma takhala tikusangalala kwambiri, sitimalimbana kapena china chilichonse chonga icho koma amamva kukhala wopanikizika kwambiri komanso wamanyazi, tidapatsana nthawi mpaka Disembala 24 Kodi mukuganiza kuti mukudziwa za nthawi yomwe titha kubwerera?
Moni, ndiyamba bwino, ndakhala ndi mnzanga kwa zaka 5, 4 wachisangalalo ndi 1 limodzi, tili mnyumba yokhala ndi moyo kale, ndiye amene sayenera kuyika chithunzicho, musakhale abwino, poyamba io anali a Ndikukayika pang'ono zakale zanga kwakanthawi kulowera kuno ndikuyamba kukhala komwe ndimagwira, ndipo ndikuwona othandizira kumeneko kuposa kunyumba, pazomwe tikukangana, salola kutsutsidwa, nthawi yomweyo amadzitchinjiriza, akuti ndikumva kuzizira naye ndipo mwina ndili ndi kampani yabwino pantchito, ndimavutika ndi nkhawa komanso chowonadi popeza tili chonchi ndimadzizindikira ndekha ndikusowa mpweya komanso ndilibe chidwi ndichite chilichonse chogonana, amandikonda ndipo ndimamukonda koma ayi sindikudziwa ngati ndikumukonda kapena kumuyamikira, ndikuganiza zomupatsa nthawi ngakhale timakhala nyumba imodzi koma sinditero ndikudziwa choti ndichite ... zinandikhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo ndisanakayikire tonse awiri, chibwenzicho koma ndimamva ngati ndamukakamira ... mungachite
Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti kufunsa kwakanthawi kumadalira pazinthu zambiri ndipo ndikuvomereza, nthawi zambiri, kufunsa kwakanthawi ndichinthu chofunikira kupatukana. Koma pali milandu yapadera monga tafotokozera m'nkhaniyi.
Ndidapempha kwakanthawi osati chifukwa choti ndimasemphana ndi mnzanga. Pakakhala kusamvana, timakambirana za izo ndikuyang'ana yankho lake ndikuyesetsa kuti tisadzachitenso cholakwacho. Izi zatilola kuti tikulitse chidaliro komanso kulumikizana.
Ndidafunsa nthawi, chifukwa ndidazindikira kuti ndikuyamba kupanga kudalira kwamalingaliro. Ngakhale ndidayankhula kale ndi wokondedwa wanga za nkhaniyi ndikupanga njira zopewera kugweramo, ndimaona kuti sizingatheke popeza ndikumva kuti ndikufuna kuwongolera chilichonse muubwenzi. Pamenepo ndinazindikira kuti ndiyenera kuthawa ndikukonza ndekha, chifukwa sindinathe kumugwira, pomwe ndikudziwa kuti ali ndi ntchito zambiri. Kuphatikiza apo inali nthawi yomwe ndimakumana ndi mavuto anga m'malo momulemetsa. Chifukwa ndimafuna kuti akhale kampani yanga, osati yama psychologist yanga, osati munthu yemwe ndimamudalira.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndili mgulu la 20% yanu, ndikuti ndikabwerera zonse ziyenda bwino. Ndikudziwa kuti kupempha nthawi kumatha kuziziritsa chibwenzi ngakhale kuti pali chikondi chochuluka. Mtunda si wabwino, chilichonse chitha kuchitika.
Wawa, chowonadi ndichakuti sindikudziwa kuti ndiyambira bwanji miyezi ingapo yapitayo, bwenzi langa linandifunsa kuti andipatse nthawi, anandiuza kuti ndichifukwa cha zomwe sindimamupatsa nthawi.
Tsopano ali ndi mavuto ambiri ndipo anandiuza kuti akufuna kukhala ndekha sindinamvetse chifukwa chomwe akufuna kumuthandizira chifukwa sindinakonde kumuwona moyipa ndipo anakakamira kwambiri kuti andilongosolere koma anakwiya pazonse ndipo anandiuza kuti sakufunanso kupitiliza ndi Izi amayenera kukhala yekha chifukwa simukudziwa chochita ndi moyo wake, dzulo ndinamusiyira uthenga wa mawu ndipo sindikudziwa ngati wamva, adandisiya ku wsp ndipo sindilumikizananso naye.Chowonadi ndichakuti sindikudziwa choti ndichite kuti ndipitilize kumukakamiza.kapena amulole kuti adekhe ndikudikira yankho lake
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