No nā keikikāne he mea paʻakikī nui e hoʻihoʻi pehea e loaʻa ai kahi hoaaloha. He mea paha ia i hānau ʻia mai kahi ʻike hou aʻe o ke ola, akā naʻe, he ʻoiaʻiʻo ia hiki ke paʻakikī no nā kāne he nui. ʻOiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi kaikamahine no ka mea ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nui nei, akā ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo nei mākou iā ʻoe ma aneʻi mākou e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i ke kumu ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa.
Pono kēlā me kēia kanaka i loaʻa ka pahuhopu makemake me ka oiaio a me ka manaolana. No ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia hana, pono ʻoe e aʻo pono ʻoe e hauʻoli i kēlā me kēia manawa a hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i kou mau aʻalolo e hoʻokō i kēlā hilinaʻi.
Pono ʻoe e hana i loko o ke kanaka
Pono ʻoe e ʻike ʻaʻole nui nā mea hiki ke hoʻokō me ka hoʻoikaika ʻole. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho, Ma ke kino a ma ka pānaehana kaiapili, ʻoiaʻiʻo e liʻiliʻi ka manawa e hālāwai ai ʻoe e nā wahine.
Mai haʻalele i ka lilo ʻana i kanaka palekana, pono ʻoe e hoʻoikaika i kou ʻano i mea e hōʻike ai i kou hiki piha. Nui nā nuances e pili ana i nā mea i hoʻokō ʻia, ma waena o lākou ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi wahine lanakila maoli iā ia.
Pono ke kanaka liʻiliʻi e hoʻoikaika i kahi mea nui e like me kou manaʻo ponoʻī. Mai kēia manawa, he mea nui e like me kou ʻano a me ka hoʻopiʻi wahine. He kanaka u'i paha 'oe, akā, inā 'a'ole 'oe i kēlā 'ōlinolino, 'a'ole e hopu 'ia nā wāhine.
He aha nā ʻanuʻu e hahai ai e loaʻa kahi hoaaloha
Aia e ʻimi i nā wahi e hālāwai ai me nā kānaka hou āu e makemake ai e wehe i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole pono lākou e lilo i mau wahi e inu ai, hiki nō hoʻi ke kula, nā hui, nā hale haʻuki ... inā ʻo kāu keʻena leʻaleʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke kono mau i kēlā kaikamahine komo i ka hanana a i ʻole kekahi mea e pili ana i ia wahi.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i nā mea hana e hālāwai ai me nā wahine, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana mau e noi i kahi hoaaloha e hoʻolauna iā lākou iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i kahi lua a i ʻole ka hoʻolālā e hiki ai ke nānā i kēlā kaikamahine a hāʻawi i kāu kōkua, ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki ke hoʻomaka i kahi mea aloha.
Loaʻa mau i ka maikaʻi o ʻoe A e like me ka hiki, he mea nui ia oe iho. Inā hoʻohālike ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi kumu a ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hōʻike ʻia a hiki i kahi wahaheʻe liʻiliʻi ke hoʻolei i kahi mea i hoʻokumu ʻia.
Aia e hoʻokokoke i nā wahine me ka hilinaʻi piha, ʻO ka manaʻo e hana i nā mea a pau a e loaʻa mau iā ʻoe nā wahine hoihoi iā ʻoe. ʻO ka mea a nā wahine i makemake ʻole ai, ʻo ia ke hele mai ke kāne me ka manaʻo e hoʻokalakupua a ma ke alo o ka pane maikaʻi ʻole, lilo lākou i ʻoluʻolu, haʻaheo, pedantic a me ka makemake ʻole i kekahi mau ʻano.
Pono ʻoe e ʻakaʻaka, hoʻomaha a haʻahaʻa. Hoʻomaka nā mea a pau iā ʻoe iho, no laila hua palapala le `ale` a. Inā ʻoe ma kahi āu e ʻike ai e hiki i nā wahine ke hoʻokipa, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi mea e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā vibes maikaʻi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike pehea e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe iho a hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio, loaʻa iā mākou nā ʻatikala maikaʻi loa "Pehea e launa pū me ke kaikamahine" o "Pehea e komo ai i ke kaikamahine".
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hele i kahi pahuhopu a nānā i hoʻokahi kaikamahine. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i waho no kekahi mau lā a i ʻole pō a hoʻonui i kāu pūnaewele o nā leka uila, mai keia wahi aku e loaa ia oe ka manawa e halawai ai me kela mau kaikamahine nui liilii a e ike i ko lakou manao. Ma kāu mau pūnaewele kaiapili hiki iā ʻoe ke hana like. Inā ua hālāwai ʻoe i kekahi mau kaikamahine pono ʻoe e kaupaona i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kono iā ia e inu i hoʻokahi lā.
E kiʻi e hōʻiliʻili i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo a i ʻole ka hoʻopunipuni hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa me nā kaikamahine āu e hālāwai ai. Manaʻo mākou ʻo ka nui o nā kaikamahine āu e hālāwai ai a me ka mea āu e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka pilikia ʻole, ʻoiai inā ʻike ʻia ke kaikamahine o kāu mau moeʻuhane.
E hoʻomākaukau i nā huaʻōlelo e hana maikaʻi a e ʻakaʻaka iā lākou, a me nā mea hau a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻoheheʻe. ʻAʻole kamaʻilio nui nā kaikamahine he nui a inā ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i nā kamaʻilio he nui paha ʻoe ke hoʻomaka nei ʻoe i kahi mea hoihoi.
E alakaʻi i nā kamaʻilio a hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā lākou i ole e leo ole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau pehea kona lā a i ʻole ua loaʻa kekahi mea hoihoi iā ia i kēia mau lā. Akā, pono ʻoe e ao i ka hooloheMakemake lākou e haʻi i kā lākou moʻolelo a me nā kāne hoihoi i kā lākou ʻōlelo.
Inā hoʻokō ʻoe i kahi hālāwai, pono ʻoe e loiloi ka launa pū me kēlā kanaka ʻē aʻe. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka pili pono e lilo i ke kī i ke komo ʻana i kahi mea hiki ke lilo e hoʻomaʻamaʻa liʻiliʻi, me ka wikiwiki ole. Nui nā mea e nānā ai a e ʻimi ai a pono ʻoe e hoʻolaʻa manawa i kēlā. Ma hope o kekahi kau, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ka manawa kūpono e noi ai iā ia e lilo i hoaaloha nou.
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