He nui nā kāne i haʻalele me ka manaʻo ʻole e hiki ke hoʻokuʻikahi. ʻO paʻakikī ke hoʻopau i kahi haʻihaʻi a aia mau ka inaina a me ka ʻike ʻole inā hiki iā ia ke ola hou i kekahi lā. ʻAʻole ʻike ka poʻe iā lākou iho i ka wā e pono ai lākou e hele i loko o kahi manawa o ka rupture a pehea lākou e hana ai.
I mea e hoʻomanawanui ai, pono ʻoe e nānā i nā manawa e hoʻohuli iā mākou a ma hope aku ʻike mākou i kēlā wahi e neʻe ai mākou i mua. Akā ʻo kēia manaʻo ʻole e uku a ʻo ia ka nui o nā poʻe ʻaʻole lākou e poina i ko lākou 'hoa mua'.
Inā he ʻōpio ʻoe, pono mākou e hana hou i kēlā ʻōpio me ua loli nui ke kumuhana o nā kāne. Mai ka manaʻo o nā pilina he nui i ʻike ʻia, ma nā kāne a me nā wahine, ʻaʻole i lawe hou ʻia ka pili pili i mea nani, pilikino a hoʻokipa ʻoe iā ia he waiwai nui. I kekahi manawa lawe ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he kiola, me ka ʻole maoli ʻaʻohe ʻano hoʻohiki. A laila, i ka wā e haʻihaʻi ai a hala kekahi mau mahina, ʻo ia ka manawa e ʻike ai lākou ua nalowale kekahi mea.
ʻO nā hōʻailona ʻaʻole i poina kou ex iā ʻoe
Nui nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ana e hahai mau ana kāu ex ke kali nei inā hoʻolohe ʻoe. Aia nō ia ma laila, ʻoiai ʻaʻole like me ia, no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka manawa e hui hou ai. Ma muli o kēia a me kēlā mahalo i nā pūnaewele puni honua, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kekahi mea e pili ana i ke kanaka āu i haʻalele ai.
ʻOiaʻiʻo e kipa i nā wahi āu i hele pū ai. He ala ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai a ʻike paha i kēlā me kēia lā i kahi mea āu e makemake mau nei. Inā ʻoe ma kahi hoʻokahi, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēlā me kēia manawa ke nānā aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe, no ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoihoi.
Malia paha e haʻalele ana ʻo ia i kēlā wehe i ka puka i kela hui hou ana a hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka wā ʻaʻole ʻoe i uhaʻi i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. ʻO ia paha ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻōki i ke kākau ʻana iā ʻoe, e nīnau iā ʻoe pehea ʻoe a hiki ke hoʻomau i ka hana me ka hilahila ʻole. Nui ka poʻe e haʻalele i kēlā laina me ka waiho ʻana i ke aloha ma waena o kēlā me kēia lā, a inā loaʻa kahi manawa hou e hui hou.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hoʻomanaʻo pilikino o kekahi i kekahi, a oi aku hoi iaia. Ke haʻihaʻi ʻia kahi pilina, ʻo ka mea hou loa ʻo ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā mea āpau i hiki i kēlā kanaka ke hele mai e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe. Akā inā mālama ʻia kēlā mau mea, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e poina. Hiki paha ke koi ʻoe i kahi mea pilikino a lōʻihi ka manawa e hoʻihoʻi ai, ʻo ia kahi hōʻailona maopopo ʻole o ka haʻi ʻana iā ʻoe ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e haʻalele i kona ola.
Eia hoʻi, ʻO nā pūnaewele kaiaulu ka mea kaua, i ʻole e nalo i nā mea a ka poʻe e makemake ai e hōʻike e pili ana i ko lākou ola. Malia paha ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i hea ʻo ia, ʻo wai kāna i hele ai, ʻo kāna mea i ʻai ai ... a i ʻole e hōʻike ana kēlā kanaka iā ia. No ka mea, kipa kou ex iā ʻoe a makemake e hōʻike i kāu mea e hana nei, me ka manaʻo e hōʻike e holo pono ana na mea a pau. Ma ka nui o kēia mau hiʻohiʻona hiki ke ʻike ʻia kekahi lili.
Nā hōʻailona ua poina maoli kāu Ex iā ʻoe
Makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻohālikelike i nā mea a pau āna e hana nei, no ka mea, ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia poina i nā mea a pau āu i mālama ai hui pu. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua ala mai ka haʻihaʻi ma muli o ka hoʻoholo like ʻana o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua a i ʻole no ka hoʻoholo hou ʻana o kekahi o lāua ma muli o kekahi ʻano like ʻole.
Inā lawe pololei kāu ex i nā mamao a ʻaʻole loaʻa i kekahi ʻano kumu e hoʻokokoke aku ai iā ʻoe, Ke hana wale nei au i kaʻu mea maikaʻi loa no ka pale ʻana i kēlā kūlana. I kekahi mau hihia, a i nā kāne, ʻaʻole lākou e hāʻawi i kahi kokoke no ka mea ʻaʻole maopopo lākou i ka hana ʻana i kēlā kūlana o kahi hui hou.
Akā inā ala ka hui hou ʻana, ʻo ia ka manawa e nānā pono ai kēlā mau hōʻailona koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e poina iā ʻoe inā e lawe ʻo ia i ka mamao o ke aloha, pololei a ʻaʻole hoʻokiʻekiʻe, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e huhū a ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ke kemika. Aia nō ʻoe i mua o ke kanaka nāna ua hiki ke hoopoina ia oe. Aia wale nō kēlā nānā liʻiliʻi me ka huhū, kala a me ka nostalgia kahi e hiki ai iaʻu ke haʻi aku iā ʻoe hala kekahi mea ou.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i kona ola hoʻopiha ʻo ia i nā kānaka āna e hauʻoli ai. ʻO ka maʻamau, hele mākou i loko o ke ana ma mua o ka haʻihaʻi ʻana, akā aia kekahi poʻe e pono e hui pū me nā hoaaloha ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano manaʻo a leʻaleʻa paha i ka ʻakaʻaka ma waena o nā hoahana. Ma laila ʻo ia e hōʻike nei ua hauʻoli ʻo ia a pēlā ke poina nei i kona hala.
A ma luna o nā mea āpau ʻaʻole ʻimi hou iā ʻoeʻAʻole ʻo ia manaʻo inā ua waiho ʻoe i kahi scarf i kāna kaʻa a i ʻole ke kauā ma ka home. E ʻimi mau ʻo ia i kahi ala e ʻike ai i kēlā kumu a hoʻopili iā ʻoe, akā inā ʻaʻole, e manaʻo ʻoe ke lanakila nei na mea a pau.
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