Pehea e koho ai i kahi makana kūikawā no kāu hoa

makana i kahi mea kūikawā

No ke kāne ʻaʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kahi makana no kāna hoa. Ma waena o nā koho he nui a me nā ʻono o kēlā me kēia wahine, ke hāʻawi nei i ka mea a lākou e makemake nui ai.

ʻAʻole like me nā makahiki i hala, I kēia lā ua paʻa ke kāne e hāʻawi i kāna wahine i kekahi mea e hoʻopūʻiwa iā ia, e hōʻike ana i kou manaʻo e pili ana iā ia a ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻike ʻoe iā ia.

E kōkua i ke kāne e koho, hiki i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻe ke kōkua nui e alo i nā hale kūʻai me ka ʻuhane maikaʻi.

No ke aha he mea nui e hana i ka makana kūpono loa?

Wahi a nā helu helu, hoʻopiʻi ka wahine no ka hewa mau o nā kāne i ke koho ʻana i kahi makana na lākou, he paʻakikī na lākou e koho mea kūikawā. Hōʻike kahi makana i koho pono ʻia e kūlike me nā makemake o ka wahine; He mea nui ka lohe ʻia a hoʻomaopopo ʻia o ka wahine, a inā unuhi ʻia kēia i kahi makana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

Eia hoʻi, aia ke kumu pilihua. Ke hiki mai nei kekahi mau lā nui o ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana, nā lā hānau, nā makahiki hoʻomanaʻo, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, hoʻomākaukau ka hapa nui o nā wahine e loaʻa kahi makana ma kēlā hanana kūikawā. I ka manawa piko, ke wehe lākou i ka mea a ke kāne i hakakā ai e hoʻokō ai, hiki ke kō ka holomua.

Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ke koho ʻana i kahi mea kūikawā nona

makana

ʻImi hoʻokolokolo ma mua

Wale me ka noiʻi maikaʻi e like me kēia hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike no ka mea a nā kāne e makemake maoli ai. Mai waiho i ke koho o ka makana i ka minuke hope loa; ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i kekahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai e makemake paha ʻoe iā ia.

ʻO kahi ala e ʻike ai e hoʻolohe i nā kuhi a ka wahine e hāʻawi ai ma mua o ka hōʻea ʻana o ka lā i manaʻo ʻia. Maliʻa paha e kamaʻilio ana ʻoe e pili ana i kahi ʻeke āu i ʻike ai ma ka puka aniani o ka hale kūʻai a i ʻole he aha kāu e pono ai i kahi kelepona paʻalima no ka hana. ʻAʻole pono e nānā iki ʻia kēia mau "nicities".

ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe i e nānā pono i ka mea a kā mākou hoa e nānā nei i nā hale kūʻai pūnaewele. Hiki i ka papa inoa o nā punahele i nā polokalamu kele pūnaewele ke hāʻawi iā mākou i nā hōʻailona maopopo o ka mea āna e makemake ai e lilo i makana.

Ma ke ʻano he hope loa, ʻaʻole e nalo ka nīnau pololei. ʻAʻole hopohopo nā wahine inā nīnau kā lākou hoa iā lākou e pili ana i kā lākou makemake:

Hāʻawi kālā

Si ua pau nā kumuwaiwai āpau a ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ka mea e hāʻawi aku ai, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa ke hāʻawi kālā. ʻAʻole ia ke aloha nui, akā i kekahi mau manawa hiki ke hana. Ke waiho nei i nā bila i loko o kahi enopope me kahi kāleka aloha loa ʻo ia paha ka koho maʻalahi loa.

ʻO nā kāleka makana ka mana hou o ke kālā ka mea i ka manawa like e kāhāhā ai i ka wahine. Loaʻa i kēia mau momokuʻu lole wahine kēia modality e hāʻawi i kahi mea kūikawā, me kahi huina paʻa.

E mākaukau

Makemake kekahi mau wahine i nā mea, nā mīkini pono, a pēlā aku, i hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaʻalahi i kā lākou hana i kēlā me kēia lā. E hilinaʻi ia i ka manaʻo o kā mākou hoa pili e pili ana i kēia ʻano makana. I kekahi hihia, pono ʻoe e hōʻalo i ke koho ʻana i nā mea maʻamau, e like me ka hao.

Hāʻawi ka mākeke i nā koho he nui me nā huahana hou A ʻaʻole pono ia he mea pono. Hiki i kahi makana maikaʻi ke lilo i mea mālama wahine.

Hāʻawi i kahi ʻike poina ʻole

Ke pili nei ʻoe i kahi manawa lōʻihi a hāʻawi aku ʻoe i nā mea āpau, ʻo kahi koho ʻē aʻe maikaʻi e hāʻawi i kahi mea kūikawā i hiki i ka pālua ke hana pū.

ʻO kahi huakaʻi, kahi hele waho, kahi huakaʻi i ke kuahiwi, kahi lā spa, ʻaha mele. Me ka hopohopo ʻole, he hopena kēia e hoʻopūlahalaha a kahaha i ka manawa like.

mea kūikawā e hāʻawi

He aha nā hewa e hōʻalo ai i ke koho ʻana i kahi makana no ka wahine

Mai hāʻawi i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe iho

ʻO kahi kuhi hewa maʻamau a nā kāne e hāʻawi nei i nā makana e pili ana i ka ʻono pilikino. Manaʻo nā wahine ma kēia ʻano e hoʻāʻo nei ka wahine e hoʻokau i kā lākou ʻono, e hoʻokuʻu iā ia. I kēia hihia he kūpono ka nīnau ʻO kēia kahi mea āna e kūʻai ai nona iho?

Hoʻowahāwahā i ke kūlana

ʻAʻole like ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka makana lā hānau, ka lā hoʻomanaʻo a me ka makana a Valentine; pono e hoʻonohonoho i ka makana e like me ka hanana. No nā lā hānau ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke koho ʻana i kekahi mea nona wale nō, ʻoiai no ka lā male male hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i kahi mea i kaʻana like ʻia ma ke ʻano he kāne.

Koi ka lā o Valentine e noʻonoʻo i kahi mea kūikawā a pilialoha hoʻi.

Ke unoriginal ke hāʻawi nei i kahi mea kūikawā no kāu hoa

ʻO kekahi kuhi hewa kāne maʻamau ke hāʻule nei i loko o nā cliches maʻamau a me nā kūlana. ʻO ka bouquet maʻamau o nā roses a i ʻole ka pahu o nā kokoleka i waho o ke ʻano a ʻaʻole lākou e neʻe ʻaneʻane i kekahi wahine, no ka mea ʻaʻole hōʻike lākou ʻike kā lākou hoa iā lākou.

Inā koho ʻoe i kēia mau koho, no ka mea ua pau kāu mau manaʻo, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e lilo i kumu. kūʻai i nā pua āna i makemake ai, hōʻike ʻia i ke ala āu e makemake ai, loaʻa kēlā mau mea momona āna i hōʻoia mua ai e ʻono ʻo ia, etc.

ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka makana maikaʻi loa i ka wahine. No laila, nā hana āpau i hana ʻia e hōʻoia i ka wā e wehe ai ka makana ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia me ka ʻoluʻolu ke kūpono.


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

E lilo i mea mua e wehewehe

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  1. He kuleana no ka ʻikepili: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.