Akwai mutane cewa ainihin zane ana nunawa, a matsayin mutane na musamman kuma tare da ƙaunataccen ƙauna ga kansu wanda mutane da yawa basa ji. Shin kana cikin waɗannan mutanen? Shin kuna jin wannan ƙaunar kai da ke aiwatar da hassada ga wasu?
To shi kenan yana nunawa a yau tare da hanyoyin sadarwar mu, Akwai mutane da yawa da manyan mutane waɗanda ke nuna wannan hoton na bayyana wani abu sama da abin da za su iya tsarawa. Idan a yau rashin girman kai ya dame mutane da yawa, hoton da ya koma baya da 'pibonexia' shine na kama da cikakken mutum, kuma cewa yana kara kyau, fiye da yadda za'a iya kimanta su.
Ostentation, mafarki, fantasy
Me yasa ake kiranta 'pibonexia'?
Wannan kalmar ta samo asali ne daga Susi Caramelo, dan wasan barkwanci kuma mai ba da gudummawa ta hanyar tauraron dan adam ''Wadanda suka bata '. A cikin maganganu guda daya ya bayyana ƙirƙirar wannan kalmar a matsayin cuta wanda ke haifar da yawa tsakanin mutane da mashahurai a Amurka, har ma a yawancin da sauran ƙasashe kamar Spain.
Dalilin wannan kalmar yana nuna ra'ayin cewa akwai mutanen da suka fi kyau daga gare ta kenan. Sun yi imanin cewa suna da cikakkiyar halitta, tare da jiki mai fuska da fuska, kuma kodayake an gaya musu cewa ba su, sun yi imani da akasin haka.
Ga Susi, 'pibonexia' yana da tsari sosai a cikin hanyoyin sadarwar jama'a, musamman akan Instagram. Yawancin mashahuran mutane suna haskaka wani ɓangare na kyansu kuma suna ƙara ta da wuce gona da iri hotonku Ya wuce haddi, tare da taɓawa da shawo kan ruɗin yi kama da cikakke Yana da mafi kyawun matsakaiciyar su, suna haɗuwa ta wata hanyar da zata sa su zama kyakkyawan shirin su don bayyanar da babban zafinsu da narcissism.
Yan wasan da suke jin 'pibonexia'
Susi Caramelo shima yana jin pibonexia. Ta nuna kanta da kirkirarta kuma ta yarda a wata hira cewa ita kanta "tana da zafi koyaushe." Gabaɗaya, duk mutane masu wannan ƙimar suna jin sha'awar kansu, ku sani cewa basa fada cikin kantunan da al'umma suka kafa, amma har yanzu suna ganin suna da kyau sosai.
Donal Trump shine tauraron da ba'a yi gardama ba wanda yake son nuna hotonsa. Kullum yana kara girman hoto kuma har ya kai ga loda hotunan da ba su dace da gaskiya ba, inda ya bayyana tare da jikin da Photoshop ya canza ko sake sanya shi. Ba tare da wata shakka ba, cibiyoyin sadarwar jama'a shine burin sa, wanda ta hakan ne yake son kiyaye mutuncin sa. Kodayake a yau yana da gwagwarmaya tare da adalci don bincikar sa da shi a dandamali daban-daban.
David Guetta Yana ɗaya daga cikin mutanen da suke son bayyana kansa a matsayin mafi kyawun mafi kyau. Wannan sanannen DJ ɗin kuma ɗayan sanannun sanannen, kuma yana loda hotunanshi zuwa hanyoyin sadarwar zamantakewar da ke ɗaukar mafi kyawun sigar sa kuma a saman inganta tare da taɓawa.
Mashahuri Kim Kardashian shine ɗayan mashahurai masu girma da 'pibonexia'. Ita kadai ta gane ta hotunansa da hotunansa shine babban sha'awar sa kuma ba tare da Instagram ba zai zama komai ba tare da yawan mutanen da suke ba sun shiga harkarsu. Babu shakka, ta kuma bayyana tare da taɓa-taɓawa waɗanda ba su da shakku a kan hakan don haskaka wani yanki ko haɓaka ƙimar wasu sifofin ta.
An shiga jerin gwano tare da wasu shahararrun mutane kamar su Kylie Jenner wanda aka kira a matsayin ƙarami a cikin Kan Kardashians inda ita ma aka yi mata tambaya kan sake sanya hotunanta don yin mata kyau sosai fiye da yadda suke. Kendall Jenner Hakanan a cikin jerin akwai waɗanda suke canza hotunansu ba kunya.
Me yasa "sha'awar" yana ƙara girman kai?
Ga duk mutanen da aka haɗa su da hanyoyin sadarwar sada zumunta kuma waɗanda ke bayyana jikinsu ta hanyar su, mutane ne waɗanda ya dogara da rauni na mutuncin kansu. Suna amfani da hanyoyin sadarwa zuwa karɓi "like" kuma ta haka ne suka samar da yanayin natsuwarsu da bunkasa son ku.
Me yasa hakan ke faruwa? Da kyau, kodayake yana da ƙarfafa a ce mutanen da ke da cutar pibonexia suna sha'awar jikinsu da tunaninsu har zuwa matsananciSuna kuma son karɓar "so" da yawa daga mutanen da suke sha'awar su don daukaka darajar kai har ma fiye da haka. Suna buƙatar wannan wadatar don samun sauƙi da kuma karɓar zamantakewar.
Kuma kamar yadda muka riga muka sani, yawancin waɗannan mutane sun yi kuskure don zuwa gaba sosai ta amfani da matatun da gurbata ainihin bayyanarta. A zahiri, suna nuna halayensu, amma a lokaci guda ana sake shi azaman wani abu mai lafiya da nishaɗi.
Kodayake don sharuddan tunanin mutum ba mu sani ba idan wannan yana da lafiya a cikin dogon lokaci. Muguwar hoto da aka zana tare da matattara da yawa ko Photoshop ba ya taimaka sosai don ɗaukaka girman kai, amma yana iya haifar da wasu nau'ikan rikice-rikice na hankali gobe.
Cibiyoyin sadarwar jama'a sune mafi kyawun kayan aiki iya wakiltar wani bangare na mu. Ya rage namu da kanmu mu iya yin amfani da shi a hankali da kulawa. Dayawa suna zargin hakan 'pibonexia' baya kawo kyakkyawan tushe idan da farko zai iya zama mai daɗi kuma idan a ƙarshe ya shafi tunaninmu game da jiki da kuma ƙaunar kanmu.