Yin jima'i

Yin jima'i

Zamu iya magana game da wannan lokacin azaman ƙarin lakabi ɗaya don kasida halayyar jima'i ta rayuwar mutum. Demisexuality kalma ce da ba a san ta sosai ba an fara amfani dashi a cikin mutane da yawa lokacin da suke da nau'ikan bambancin sha'awar jima'i da sharuɗɗan da aka riga aka dasa su.

Mun san maza da mata, bisexuality, liwadi da kuma jima'i kamar kalmomin da suka danganci sha'awar jima'i, ga mutanen da suke jinsi ɗaya ko jinsi daban ko ma ba tare da cikakken jan hankali ba. Abin da ya sa ke nan akwai wasu mutane da aka riga aka lakafta su da kalmar demisexuality, Sun yarda da zama kyawawa amma tare da wani murabus.

Ma'anar lalata mutum

Yin luwadi da madigo kalma ce da tuni aka kirkireshi tun daga 2006, a cewar Network for Asexual Education and Visibility (AVEN), inda yake wakiltar mutum tare da jin daɗi da sha'awar jima'i ga wani mutum, amma kawai kuma na musamman ba tare da fara kulla kyakkyawar alaka mai karfi ba zuwa ga wannan mutumin.

Irin wannan mutane suna kan hanyar zama baƙuwa, Idan ba haka ba, to saboda zasu iya kammala jima'i, amma koyaushe suna ƙirƙirar wannan haɗin mai tasiri da tasiri.

An fahimci cewa wannan gaskiyar yawanci tana tabbatar da cewa akwai mutane da yawa masu irin wannan ji, ma'ana, suna jin sha'awar sha'awa, amma dole ne a danganta shi da alaƙar motsinku. Gaskiyar ita ce gaskiya ne, amma mutane masu lalata da maza suna buƙatar samun fom mafi tsanani da motsin rai don kula da dangantaka.

Yin jima'i

Halinsa a cikin zurfin:

Yawancin lokaci ba sa jin kowane irin jan hankali ga kowane jinsi, ko da yake a fili yana iya son kowa. Amma a cikin batun jiki abin magana ne a gare suWataƙila wani abu ne wanda ya kasance tare da su tsawon rayuwarsu, ko kuma rayuwarsu ta sanya su sake yin tunanin wani aiki da ya janye su ta irin wannan hanyar.

Daga cikin waɗannan sakamakon duka, babu wanda zai iya ba da hujja a halin yanzu abin da irin wannan mutumin zai iya ji. Yawancin lokaci wannan mutumin baya jin sha'awa ba tare da soyayya ba. A kallon farko basu iya jin sha'awar jima'i ba, koda kuwa yana da kyau ko kyau. Za a ƙirƙira abubuwan da kuke ji a cikin lokaci, a cikin wannan mutumin, tare da motsin rai tsakanin su biyu da kuma lokacin da aka magance dukkan lamura don mafi kyau, a matakin ruhaniya.

Ta wannan ina nufin cewa idan mutum ya ƙaura saboda wasu dalilai masu nasaba, mai mutuƙar ba zai yi kewarsa da yawa ba, Wataƙila ƙaramin haɗin da ya riƙe zai sake yin sanyi.

Wannan ba yana nufin cewa mutumin yana jin daɗin batun jima'i ba, kuna iya jin daɗin ayyukan jima'i kaɗaici kamar al'aura ko kallon abubuwan batsa. Wataƙila a nan za ku iya tunanin yanayin da za ku so ku gaya wa wanda kuka hango.

Yin jima'i

Grey jima'i ko rashin lafiya

Sharuɗɗa biyu ne, tare da sakamako daidai da na sakamako. Hanya ɗaya ce ta kiran wannan nau'in.

Mutane ne waɗanda suke rabi tsakanin jima'i da jima'i, Tunda jima'i ba shine asalin tushenku ba don kiyaye dangantaka a farkon gani. Hakanan ba su da ƙyamar sha'awar jiki, saboda za su iya nan gaba kiyaye matakin jima'i da mutumin da ake so, amma koyaushe a ƙaramin matakin, tunda ba shine babban burinsa ba.

Don ƙarin bayani bisa ga AVEN, rabin waɗanda aka amsa sun kasance suna rabawa a cikin jin halin ko-in-kula dangane da jima'i, yayin da sauran rabin ke kula da halin kirki, kawai 16% an yi watsi da shi ta hanyar jima'i.

Yaya dangantakarku take?

Yawancin mutane suna jin wani nau'in abin sha'awa daga farkon lokacin, wanda ke haifar da yin jima'i ta hanyar da ta dace. Demisexuals ba suyi haka ba Zai yi wuya su fuskanci wannan halin idan da ƙyar suka san ɗayan.

Lokacin da amsa mai kyau ga wani mutum ta taso, zai iya ɗaukar lokaci mai tsawo har ma da shekaru don jin sha'awar jima'i a karon farko. Zasu lura da yadda ilham suke farkawa akan lokaci ko rayuwarsu.

Yin jima'i

Kammalawa ba za mu iya ma'ana ta kewaye dukkan salo da fasali ba game da sha'awar jima'i. Sharuɗɗan da aka riga aka sani da waɗanda suke akwai waɗanda waɗanda yawancin mutane za su iya rufewa, saboda yanayin da suke da shi da kuma ainihin jima'i.

Game da tunani na ƙarshe, an kammala cewa akwai mutane waɗanda suke jin sha'awa da sha'awa a farkon gani, wasu da na sani fada cikin sauki, wasu waɗanda zasu zaɓa musamman, kuma wasu da wuya su ji jan hankali a tsawon rayuwarsu. Kowane mutum yana da 'yanci don jin da sanin bambancin jima'i. Kowane mutum daban yake, amma wannan baya nuna cewa yakamata a sanya su a matsayin mafi kyau ko mafi sharri fiye da sauran jama'a. Wannan ya sa ku zama mutum na musamman kuma wannan shine dalilin Ya kamata ku ji kyauta game da jima'i.


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