Holidays unite or separate couples?

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Holidays for couples. Time to enjoy, share, love. Moments to deepen the idyll, romance, passion.

Going on a vacation for couples is a time to get away from the routine, discover new places, taste other flavors, discover the world. And also rediscover the person you love. But it can also serve to separate more.

What for some is the image of paradise on earth, for others it can be the same hell. At the bottom of it all is the situation of the romantic relationship. It is not the same to have some specific disagreements, to really have a distance.

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Statistics usually show a spike in the number of divorces coming into the fall. For some specialists, this is basically due to the fact that the relationships that have been dragging problems since spring and try to solve them by spending the holidays together, usually achieve just the opposite result.

Spending the summer, distancing yourself from everyday life, sharing effervescent moments and crazy nights, usually serves as a balm. But as long as there is no firm will to move forward in the two members of the relationship, the "illusion" of well-being fades as the party ends.

What begins badly ends badly?

Most couples who go on vacation with problems between them, they come back with even bigger problems.

As a general rule, the opposite also happens: solid couples, committed to their union, at the end of the days of rest and relaxation, look renewed and even more in love.

But every rule has its exception. Just as there are ruptures, also through the holidays it can be given an impulse to couples, overcome some specific crises. 

If you have proposed this summer you have the holidays like last desperate recourse to save your relationship, don't give up before you go to battle. Plan well, choose a place full of romance and fill yourself with illusion.

Image sources: More Life Psychologists Malaga / Social Technology


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