How to identify a lying woman?

Lying woman

Do you want to unmask lying women? Most of us usually tell the odd lie to get out of a situation that may be embarrassing, to try to show off in front of some friends or because on many occasions we cannot avoid lying to feel good, something difficult to explain but that unfortunately happens. more than most of us would like.

We all also know that women lie much better than any man, or at least they do it with much more style, possibly because they lie less frequently and know how to prepare their lies much better. Men are by nature more clumsy in this regard and we tend to notice much more that we are lying.

Because women lie much better than us, today we wanted to prepare this article in which we are going to try to answer the question; How to identify a lying woman?. If you want to detect a lying woman, read carefully, because today you are in luck and you will discover, thanks to our advice, how to hunt down that woman who is in your life lying to you constantly.

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She is nervous

When we lie we all get nervous and those nerves can be perceived by the other person, especially when the lie is, let's say, large.

No woman is going to get nervous by subtracting a few years from her age since she already does it frequently, surely, but if she's going to get nervous if she's making up a whole life story or a lie, let's say large. To detect these lies we must be very attentive to his gestures, what he does with his hands or if he is able to stare at us without looking away after a few seconds.

Before finishing this section we cannot fail to warn you to be very careful with this aspect since there are women who are very nervous by nature, or who get in that state when they are alone with a man. You may think that she is lying to you when she can only be uncomfortable with the situation and nervous about being alone with you. If you accuse her of something, be very sure of what you are going to do and especially having proof that she is lying to you, because otherwise you may have a very big problem.

Confuse the story or tell different versions

Pinocchio

Being very attentive to the conversation is essential to detect a lying person and especially a woman. Although they tend to have their lies very well studied at any time they can get confused or tell different versions of the same thing. Remembering that you are telling a lie and no matter how much you have practiced it, it is still a lie in which you can easily tell a mistake.

Once again, be very careful with the accusations that you can make to a woman and it is that one thing is to be lying because she is nervous, she gets confused when telling the story and another very different thing that is confused or forgets a detail and you think it is the most liar you've ever met.

Pauses too long or responds too briefly

Anyone who tells a lie on occasions has repeated it so many times that they have come to internalize it and have believed it to the point that they tell it without blinking as if it were a story of their own. As we have already said, women are not usually liars by nature, so when they lie they have to think about the story they are inventing and therefore sometimes they take too long pauses that can make us see that they are lying to us.

It is also possible to realize that we are facing a better liar when she answers us in a very concise way or without giving too many details. This is the first step to avoid having to invent the lie and therefore avoid having to take long pauses that could expose them.

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Makes gestures repeatedly and somewhat strange

Look up to the right to make up the answer and then look down to the right to create the sound for this story.

It is not an unequivocal sign that a woman (or a man) is lying, but according to various studies carried out most of us look up when we make up a story or an answer to a specific question and then we look down to the right to start talking. As we say it is not something mathematical, but if you see a woman look up and begin to speak when looking down to the right you begin to suspect.

Pressing your lips together or running your tongue over them

Woman biting lips

Many women can tell by leagues that they are lying, but others are true experts at lying, so it is quite difficult to catch them lying. Unfortunately for them almost no woman can avoid pressing her lips or licking her lips compulsively when she is lying.

If you want to know if a woman is lying to you, be very attentive to her gestures Because maybe thanks to them you can find out if the story they are telling you is pure reality or just an invention of that woman who lies to you every day.

Our advice to detect a lying woman

Detecting a lying woman is not an easy task at all, because as we have already said, they tend to lie on a few occasions and when they do, they usually have it very well prepared so it is difficult to discover them. However, a gesture, a poorly programmed or too long pause can be some of the keys to discovering a lie.

Of course, to detect all these things in a normal conversation you have to pay a lot of attention, and without losing the thread of what they are telling us, be very attentive to any movement, gesture or sensation that it may produce us.

At the risk of being tiresome remember once more that you must not accuse anyone of lying without any proof and just because you've bit your lip or tell a story with long pauses. Accusing a woman to a man of lying is very serious, so only make the accusation when you are completely sure.

How do you detect a lying woman? You can tell us in the space reserved for comments on this post or through any of the social networks in which we are present.

Beware of lying women

lying woman

Even if you have blind trust in your partner or best friend, their circle of friends may be the one who alters reality to play against you. This is where we find the groups of lying women, and although there are also men of this type, all are characterized by modifying reality or telling "their truth" so that people end up distrusting you.

Surely you have also encountered this type of behavior at some time. How have you detected lying women in your case?


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  1.   anonymous said

    Sometimes the women have described it there ... when after an interrogation ... it is rotting ... they make those looks and that p take a breath and not send FUCK .... and think of a positive way of answering ... you are not necessarily lying ...

    1.    Derek said

      Hahaha, honestly before giving your opinion, go back to elementary school to learn to write, no one will take you into account with such a low level of writing and expression.

  2.   santiago said

    Apart from that what they named is that women try to avoid the subject, either because they do not have time or simply with short answers and as they say it to you in a rude way ... when at that moment it becomes isteric it is because that she is lying and that is where sometimes she will put you between a rock and a hard place ... putting your love to the test ... you have to be more cunning than her ... and put the cards on the month and play blackmail

    1.    lola bella said

      You will not always realize that we see wicked women for whom the art of deception is a day to day where mistakes are not allowed

      1.    fabrizio said

        Yes, but at some point the devil falls asleep, the best way to discover a liar is by pretending that we do not care about the lying story that she tells us, so she will insist and since she already has to think more than twice in a row, it is sure he will make a mistake haha

      2.    REBERT LEY said

        LIES DO NOT LAST ALWAYS AND LATE OR EARLY THE TRUTH IS KNOWN BESIDES EVERYTHING THAT IS DONE IS PAID IT IS BETTER TO TELL THE TRUTH OR BEHAVE GOOD BECAUSE AFTER AN ACTION COMES A REACTION AND AT THE END OF ACCOUNTS THE MOST INJURED AND THAT END CRYING ARE YOU NEVER CHEAT NAIE CHEAT ON YOURSELF

      3.    open the sheets said

        Hello Beautiful
        first I have to tell you that women are the best in life
        that we men could do anything for which we want or for which we like
        and that it is not necessary to lie
        I think you love who you know best more and the lie sooner or later comes to light and then now if you lose a good one, it is better to bet on the truth as it generates stronger relationships
        Everything is a matter of a long-term bet, if you want to win or lose in the long run, a lie is like spitting at the sky and, the truth, it is not a matter of morality at all, but of convenience since it is a better bet

      4.    Eduard Baron said

        My girlfriend, has been very slow to answer me, when I left work I made a video call and was stuck on the cell phone, I told her what she was doing, and she told me absolutely nothing, that she did not have the cell phone in hand, when in reality she I called and he answered right away, through the video call I told him to tell me how much he was doing and he let out a suspicious laugh, seeing that I told him to send me a screenshot, in some it did not take long, but in others he made excuses to delay more, and before he got mad at me ... by the way it's a long distance relationship. HELP ME 😣

  3.   catalina said

    You can tell that this was written by a man, women are not so predictable, at least my type. These "signs" are not always real, what happens is that men believe everything we do. 😀
    Goodbye, exquisite delusions.

    1.    Catalino said

      And because a man wrote it, do you already have to despise it? Look Catalina, predictability is not exclusive to women, men can also be unpredictable, but changes of opinion are one thing and lies are another. There are lying men and lying women, and there are also women who believe men's lies. Regardless of the sex, people who use lies as a 'daily perfume' in their lives, eventually end up suffocated in their own poison. I would believe all your lies, Catalina ... until you end up believing them too. Look exquisite deluded, there is no better lesson in the life of a man than to be caught at some point in the nets of a lying woman, because that makes us noble !. Beautiful kisses!

    2.    joel said

      HAHAHA there has already been one that they have to see caught, I cached one like you, and the jetas that she did, she gave me weapons to leave her, it was what I was looking for a valid pretext not to see her again, her cellulite, her stinky town , I was just going to bite her but it was already a lot of stress, so she fell into a foolish thing because even that was stupid not to delete calls from her cell filth, and send her to oblivion, now poor guy who comes does not know the little card that It will be thrown on top and apart as lean as dough hahaha.

      1.    Peter said

        Joel with all the respect you deserve and I hope I do not make you feel bad with my comment, but I believe that one dies however she is and more if we were ever part of her life, I believe that we should respect her, whatever the separation might be. , first of all there must be sanity in us who believe that we are men and never criticize them and much less belittle them and if I leave you for another, then try to be better in your next relationship and you will see that they will never cheat on you, I send a cordial greeting.

      2.    Brandon said

        You were going to bite her HAHAHA when you go out with many women some of you have to go out a bitch so no problem just protect yourself, I understand you are stressed because they make it difficult and they put you to the test ALWAYS I already know how to skip their shit.

    3.    Oscar said

      Because I can't get out of my head that my wife is unfaithful, he swears to me and he swears that he has not lied to me that I can be

  4.   Juan Carlos said

    I totally agree with Santiago, because I confronted my wife with the evidence in hand and she had the nerve to deny everything and apart from that she blamed me and in a very strong tone, later I discovered more evidence, but I know he's going to deny them or make stupid apologies anyway.
    The situation is that trust no longer exists and not only my daughters make me not leave the house.

    1.    open the sheets said

      This is a very difficult situation because we men have a deep-rooted instinct for protection, that is, protection of our children and we prefer to believe in lies than to leave the children alone, we all lie is a reality, but in relation to what, a liar person She not only destroys herself but also destroys her partner, so the question is, ... if you want them to continue destroying you ... for more mental tricks that one does to oneself, the truth does not change

  5.   EMET said

    IN GENERAL, WOMEN TEND TO GET OUT OF THE SUBJECT TO AVOID THE ANSWER IN SUCH A WAY THAT THEY WANT TO REVERSE THE QUESTION, OR THEY ALSO WANT TO MAKE YOU GUILTY OF EVERYTHING WHEN THEY HAVE THE FAULT IN MY CASE THEY SOLUTELY DENIED ME WITH ALL THE TEST HAS ALONE. IN THE WORST CASES THE ONLY THING THAT HELPS IS TO GRAB IN INFRAGANTI AND EVEN SO I THINK THEY WOULD DENY IT

  6.   PAUL said

    I believe that the woman lies out of necessity or when she was lied to before.
    in turn they lie and they renounce.
    notice how he speaks or how he gestures each word or how he speaks, what he says and what he says.

  7.   mabel said

    To be a liar, you have to have a good memory, ha

    1.    Anonymous said

      Mabel, the best thing for memory is a mineral that many foods contain. It's called phosphorus, and you can find it in fish, cereals, cocoa, etc. If you want to become the biggest liar in the world, you will have to eat well, and train a lot, a lot, a lot ... When you have broken the record of lies in your life, contact me and tell me if it was really worth lying so much for you. Probably, then, you will no longer trust yourself. Ha

      1.    hyacinth said

        They are not experts at lying because you just gave yourself away, they never feel invincible, everything has an expiration date

  8.   mabel said

    They are survival strategies, in short. Attack is the best defense, don't you think? If they lied to you, all you have to do is leave it, even if I swear and swear, the crystal of trust and loyalty has already been broken, and it is no longer repaired. Pegging, it's stupid, really stupid, how to do it, if they don't respect you.

    1.    Anonymous said

      Never, Mabel, never make lies a survival strategy. If you use them as a life saver, you will end up drowning in your own cynicism. Forgiveness is difficult when trust has been broken, it is true and I agree with you. But whoever forgives once shows love, shows respect. Who forgives twice shows submission, who forgives three or more shows fear or fear. Each one who values ​​the lie according to their own criteria. I forgive, only once ...

    2.    open the sheets said

      correcto

    3.    MIGUEL said

      In that you are very right, you have to grab the egss and leave it, an infidelity is not forgiven it is forgotten but with another person you are a man or a woman.

  9.   PAUL said

    I OPINION THAT WOMAN LIES WHEN WISHES NOT TO FACE THE REALITY IN WHICH THEY LIVE. EITHER WITH YOUR PARTNER, FRIEND OR HUSBAND, ETC.
    ALSO THEY BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE NOT EASILY IDENTIFIED. I ALREADY DISCOVERED IN MY BRIDE THAT LIES AND A LOT. THEY INVENT EXCUSES IDIOTS AND ACT DIFFERENTLY ON DIFFERENT DAYS EXCEPT ON WEEKENDS WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER.

  10.   jano said

    women always lie, it is their nature to think they are smarter.
    The woman needs to feel sexy ... therefore she plays to seduce and be seduced.
    In my case, I have been married for 7 years ... and for a year my wife has behaved in a very strange way since I named her manager.
    The woman creates jealousy and then uses it for her benefit since jealousy is not very objective, therefore the best answer they give you is "I can't stand your jealousy" and they get angry, you don't want to go to bed, etc ...
    One day it occurred to me to place an mp3 on the inner lining of her purse, or by chance I heard a woman totally different from what she was when she was my side, a woman who provoked her employees, either by way of flirting, and forms of talk that I had never heard of her »I also remember that she spent every week making zones with each of her salespeople… .when I confronted her and I told her" you are cheating on me "she always denied everything …… and after that, Believe me, she did everything possible to get them fired from her job and thus be with me »
    Today after 2 years, I still hear in my mind that recording that no longer exists because I destroyed it », .. I mean, I will never trust any woman again, because she showed me that we the men we love… we are one idiots to fall in love .. and they just remain "women"

  11.   Jose Luis said

    It is a shame for those women who live lying and their life becomes a sad game of chess in which they illusively believe that they will win ... I know that it is not only in women so this advice goes to everyone: the truth must be good, true and fair for all! the moment we shut up ... we are lying, the moment we are bad we are bad we are sowing the favor of the victim or another person who may be observing or finding out later and when we are not fair we are lying to ourselves themselves wanting to convince ourselves and others that it is the right thing to do, knowing full well that it is not… do not forget about «Sex games» who ends up humiliated in front of society! Take care of the fuck ok? Bay

  12.   Angel R. said

    WITH ALL MY RESPECT. MY OPINION: THE WOMAN WHEN LIES DOES IT VERY WELL, MUCH BETTER THAN MAN. AND THE ONLY WAY TO UNMASK IT IS TO CATCH IT IN THE ACT… AND AS SOME HAVE SAID; STILL, THEY DENY IT.
    THE LIE IS BAD COME FROM WHO IS COMING, BUT TRULY, YOU BELOVED WOMEN ARE THE MAXIMUM AT THE TIME OF LYING.
    THE BIBLE ALREADY SAYS IT: «WOMAN IS A LIAR; HE EATS, WASHES HIS MOUTH AND SAYS HE DIDN'T EAT »
    HOW ARE YOU….

    THAT'S WHY I DON'T GIVE ME A BAD LIFE, IF YOU LIE TO ME, THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM ...

  13.   jerry said

    I lived with a woman of whom I was the first time, after that I trusted her, and which one, brought a person into the house when I was absent from work, and when I called him from work he swore eternal love, she got pregnant, I thought It was mine, the child was born, she got pregnant again, the child was born, I noticed that they did not separate from me, and she said that by holy God, that by the holy virgin they were mine, I made them dna, and I said that I offended her with that , and when seeing the results neither of them were mine, then he had to confess that he messed with one in my absence, and later he messed with another, the dis creatures were from different parents, so it's all over, I don't know if it's liar or something else,

  14.   maxi said

    Cheee crazy, can you tell me where in the bible does it say that?

    I would like to know!
    thank you very much!

  15.   gabriel said

    Jerry, how crazy is your situation?

  16.   fanatic said

    I am totally acceptable with what kind of things my girlfriend does, I'm not jealous and if she gets someone better than me, then better for her so she is happy ……. !!!! 🙂
    that's why you don't have to lie to me 🙂 XD !!!!!!!
    As for Jerry, just let him have the house, get over it and choose the next one 🙂

  17.   YURYEL said

    HE MADE EVERYTHING TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD ... I AM STILL A VIRGIN ... I HAVE NEVER SLEEPED WITH ANY OTHER MAN ONLY WITH YOU ...

    1.    Anonymous said

      Something in your sentence is not true ... You say that you are a virgin and then you say that you have never slept with a man, ONLY WITH YOU !!! If you've already gone to bed, even just "WITH YOU", and you say you're a virgin? Of course, whoever is Mr. »WITH YOU» knows the truth ...

      1.    open the sheets said

        Hahaha

  18.   axel said

    IF YOU CLOSE YOUR LIPS AND SMILE WITH YOUR MOUTH ONLY

  19.   Juan Rios said

    1.-when the woman spends more than she earns, she is lying
    2.-when the woman invents a funeral of a relative already deceased many days ago
    3.-when the woman says that her way of behaving is not changed by anyone

  20.   daniel said

    I met the best it confuses you, you forget the dates, you can't stand being asked for information, but above all you create a parallel truth, for example, you show me your email, but you don't tell me that you have two parallel accounts, you approach a religion to apologize for His lies but not because of what he has hidden, he plays to see which of the two is more intelligent as much as he can know, based on that he tells me when I unmask him he asks me for forgiveness since the untold thing was NOT TO MAKE ME SUFFER, SWEAR TO God and for her mother, but not for her

    1.    Fabian said

      Yes as is. Mine was sick in the head and lied even about her own feelings. I saw it recently in the coexistence, luckily it ended. I feel like I was saved from stepping on a train.

  21.   lola bella said

    For your information, there are women, although there are few of us that the art of deception is a day to day where errors and failures are not admitted, where little by little we will involve you until your whole being is part of this game; we lie to you while we keep an intimidating gaze fixed on yours we never get confused, we never admit anything regardless of evidence …………………… .. unless it is in our plan to play with you
    think about it, you haven't already fallen into the clutches of one of us

    1.    lolo ugly said

      Yes, yes, lola bella ... that is a tempting, charming and seductive game, and it leads you to such an addiction that over time your life revolves solely and exclusively around lies. Over time you end up so drenched in your own poison, that not even do you see yourself capable of getting rid of it, accelerating your decline until you end up without vital energy, and with no one around who trusts you. Keep playing that 'lola bella' game. In a few years you will tell me how you have been… A kiss, pretty witch!

    2.    juancito said

      they are crazy 🙂

    3.    almar said

      Lola; I just remind you that no matter how beautiful you are on the outside and all those who behave with that attitude, they will cry non-stop that will give you pain sooner than you imagine. Poor strays.

    4.    MIGUEL said

      You must have also fallen into the game of a liar, I was once at 3 in the afternoon with a girl fucking beautifully, I bathed, ate, and slept and in the afternoon with the liar who cut, I even He did a fellatio and he didn't even notice, hahaha, when women think they are "bastards" we have already gone around twice, YOU MUST NEVER DO THIS with a woman who, if she is sincere, is going badly for you, with bitches it is simple retribution of situations lol.

  22.   Adriana said

    The man who dares to say that he trusts a woman is because he is crazy. It is very true that we give ourselves to them with all our love, but it is a sad reality. Well I designed in the bible when God is asked if I can marry a divorced woman. God did not design because she has already prostituted herself on the way.

  23.   to all those who have failed him with lies said

    Well, I recommend to all those that women speak lies to them, it is better to end that relationship forever because if they forgive the lies they will fear that they will continue to forgive many more lies because they will realize that it is the same when the woman is unfaithful, she can have many marriages but in everyone will be unfaithful egg dog even burns his mouth continues to eat egg

  24.   "Joe" said

    I think trust is an act of faith or else you are going to get in very big trouble. I think that the same men, since we walk after a woman, we realize her "little defect", but we become foolish or ignore it, because we are interested in the physical or sexual aspect, so how many lies we catch will be conficted or cured with a bed session. Once this feeling passes, we begin to notice strange attitudes in women, some are so innocent that it is preferable to ignore them, especially when the subject becomes an inveterate jealousy, the woman seeks lies as a self-defense mechanism. I insist there are men who look for them like that and then complain. Now, detecting lies in a woman can be a very exhausting process, because initially, if there are lies, she will feel offended and will even do things like cry or swear by her mother, then we will ask for their forgiveness and say that we are perfect idiots. She with the dominated act will make us promise that we will not question them anymore, for the good of the relationship. Then if after a long time and we become real interrogators (with evidence in hand) the woman will feel so cornered that she will want to flee, or she will start crying so desperately that she will create a trail of smoke to distract our police spirit. There will be two results: withdrawal or the creation of a resentment so serious that according to her she will not be able to forgive them. When she feels discovered, she will say that she did it because she feels: 1 Alone, 2 Confused, 3 She believed in someone else and failed her, 4 That we sided them, 5. She did not want us to bother us, 5 She swears and swears that we are slandering her and she runs away to take refuge with a friend, 6 She responds to us with verbal violence, 7 She abandons us pretending to be offended and that she will never forgive us for having mistrusted her. 8 Cry like Magdalena to lose her, help her mother to her children and avoid accepting the truth. 9 She makes us feel stupid because she is the very same that she is, but we look more at her buttocks or her angel face, ignoring women who are worth it. 10 We regret for having trusted someone we "loved" and we feel hurt and alone and we believe that "all women are equal" (eye a certain profile of women). attention.

    1.    open the sheets said

      hooo master haha
      What are we going to do, that `s life

  25.   Paul said

    Everything said is true .. the same thing happened to me .. after having tests .. he denied me everything .. he separated and takes a lot of what I did in my life .. then I did the one that she was right. . I was never unfaithful to her ... now I'm unfaithful to her anyway ,, she is beautiful..but my lovers are more beautiful ... .. and I go after my things .. after I have everything ... I kick her .. see if a woman We are going to shit .. they are all whores x money from a single client: El Husband.

  26.   Oscar Juarez said

    My story occurred in 2010, I totally and completely trusted a woman ... a woman with an unparalleled beauty ... but she was married with 2 children! Even so, with her words I fell in love to such an extent that my life was in danger. . She told me that she had separated from her husband to be with me .. she was (2 months apart) I left my job my university and I went to live in a town to be with her, because she got pregnant by ME !, when she She comes to town .. her parents, sisters, her husband called me and told me that everything she had told me in a year was a lie she never separated from her husband .. the day before she left for the town she took with her husband .. and at the same time he said that he loved me !!!! explain that to me! ?? In the end the husband told me that he also told him that he loved him, I mean that he loved 2 ?????? 2011 was a sad year for me .. I forgot it with alcohol .. with drugs .. I left her .. now she has 3 children, the third child is mine .. he is going to be 1 year old and I don't know him I don't want to know him .. because it is the result of something very dark on her part .. I thought I had met bad and lying women but she was the worst .. the top1 .., you cannot imagine everything she told me how much she loved me and what she died for me .. she left everything for her .., her husband left her .. they got divorced .. until today 1 year after that .. she keeps looking for me .., she is evil .. lustful .., I don't know what more say ..

    1.    BRANCH2012 said

      Look friend that story I lived it .. and you know you should check if any family member, be it dad, mom or brothers or uncles or friends .. you know that sharing is from someone who saw it and copied it that kind of women tend to be astute tenacious and Curiously, choose noble couples with good feelings and unfortunately friend that type of women are selfish and immature you know the net ...! stay away from her friend and resume your studies and become a good woman believe me you will thank me .. PS .. I lived it.

    2.    Anonymous said

      I agree with the advice that RAMA2012 gives you. When such a woman enters a man's life it is to devour everything. Oscar, there are good women, few but there are. Give time to time and you will surely meet some. For now, get rid of alcohol, drugs and everything that can harm you physically and mentally. Go back to your work, your studies, live your life and think that one day your son will be old and mature enough to discover the truth, and he will want to meet his father. It is in your hands that I get to know you as a grown man, healthy, noble and strong. Fight for yourself from now on, so that that day, when it comes (even if it takes time), you are prepared. A hug mate!

    3.    pepper said

      introduce her hehehehe

    4.    open the sheets said

      remember a phrase as a lifesaver when you think you are so good to be true, it is because it is true.

    5.    John cordova said

      A very strong story my brother, I hope that with testimonies like yours, I know how to get to know a woman well, a hug and good luck.

  27.   pedro said

    I think that women believe that they can cheat, but I think that they rather take advantage of their womanhood because they say to see who does not realize when they are lying to us, we all realize it if not because of the very fact that they are Women sometimes feel sad and they put a face of I was not if I do not think that if we would be in the same conditions a while ago they would be with a split face and another is that if you do something to them they have all to win for the same thing that they are sex weak people are no longer going to ask the reason why you broke his face but how it is possible that you have done this you are a wretch. and the truth is I think the best thing is to leave that person because it is not worth it and hen that eats eggs so they cut off his beak
    out the lying trash

  28.   Carlos said

    A lying woman is easy to detect only that we have to see her with the raw reality we cannot let ourselves be carried away by her beauty or being in love with her simply a woman who gets strange stories or excuses very often is why something happens that woman who does not walk Right with her boyfriend you have to get lucky from one xq another will arrive and with a good heart xq if I think there are good women but the liars do not have to give them truce and tell God is the best.

  29.   Anonymous said

    I'm going through a process right now in which I thought I had found the woman of my life, and it turns out that they were my illusions!
    Calls to my house, good treatment at home, emails, etc…. until, suddenly, they began to spread out…. Then he said that "work and business" had to be separated ... until finally he started with the behavior they describe, fitting in perfectly .... Without her realizing it, she checked her cell phone and the "quick trips to the store" are really fleeting encounters with her current heartthrob. It gave me a lot of courage to accept it, but also remembering, a long time ago I helped her to say that she had gone with me on vacation, and it was to stay at the house of her former partner ... I am a few days away from sending the "relationship" to hell. , since he wants us to follow the work version, but the truth is I no longer even want to follow the work relationship, because I think that if he lied to me about something so personal, what will prevent him from doing it professionally? Nothing.
    Goodbye to these treacherous and lying butterflies….

    1.    Anonymous two said

      I have also gone through a similar situation, and I know many similar ones that have happened to friends of mine. This is a very common problem today. And both they and we are cowards when we recognize a new relationship without having terminated the current one. It must be recognized that men can also act in a very similar way in these cases. Sometimes the problem is silenced because the unfaithful part of the couple does not want to harm the affected part, but with that silence the problem is aggravated. Other times the unfaithful party does not want to lose their previous partner, and is only looking for an affair, without realizing the suffering it can cause. If, in addition, the person who suffers infidelity or adultery is in love, then the mental or physical health of the person who suffers it or the person who provokes it can be put at risk. In our case, women think that we do not have feelings and many times they embark on these types of adventures blindly without foreseeing the consequences, and many times they are so stupid that they do not even realize that their lover may be taking advantage or laughing of them.
      Everyone is very free to decide in their life what is best for them. In your case, you can decide to break the relationship and let her decide what she wants to do with her life, for better or for worse. But if you break up with her, don't make any kind of concession to her, since if you let her understand that you are in love with her, she will emotionally blackmail you into having you by her side again if her current adventure fails her. The less importance you give to the problem and the more importance to your life and your own happiness, the more gracefully you will get out of the situation. Surely when you least expect it, another woman will come across your life and make you see life in color again, and your former partner when she finds out will begin to realize her mistake. Do not try to make him jealous, because that will not help, just wait for another love to knock on your door and perhaps in time you will see that fate has paid the girl who betrayed you with the same coin. Forget your cell phone, your encounters, your stories. Think of yourself and from now on, don't do him any favors. If she has decided to leave your life, let her assume the consequences !!! You do not intervene, absolute silence. Just go your way and ignore it, as much as it hurts! Over the years you will realize that that person did not deserve you ...
      A greeting!

      1.    juancito said

        Very good thanks! In my case the mine was partying from the start, me too, but only the normal thing, out of necessity, instead she was perverse, she did things with friends and on several occasions with two friends at the same time, something that I come to find out now 4 months after dating. We dated for 2 years, the last 4 months was a courtship, and now we cut up.
        Now I am very bad, at the end of the year the whole crisis began, although months before I had already been telling him to stop doing bad things, like talking to him when he only talked to her about having sex and she said no but to him he kept talking. He also talked to friends about smoking marijuana together and they agreed on days and times throughout the year, and when his roommate left. Until the last moment it showed no change. He kept going out partying, and he told me "that he was behaving well" but I no longer believed anything, not even without seeing him. And it was at that moment when I started the campaign to investigate everything, although I tell you, it was very bad that I found this woman, and she was very intelligent, knowing how to hide it and keep doing it, while she treated me badly and It made me regret my actions and change ... the truth, a lot of madness that of the mine that touched me ...

        1.    almar said

          Dear Juancito; I will tell you the following, when a woman takes blind times within her day or her week and you are not clear about what she is doing or where or with whom she is going, it is certain that she is on the wrong track. It can be seen by how you describe that you are partying as I think many of us are or have been, but at the same time you are giving yourself your limits, reconsidering an acceptable behavior as a prudent and reasonable person and as I understand you want a healthy, true and solid relationship. I will be very specific in your situation because I have already gone through something similar and although it hurts a lot because you are in love and you want it to work, let me tell you that you are «going out with the enemy» this poor girl is lost in her behavior and does not deserve you, you are much of a man to her. LEAVE HER!! friend and save yourself many bad times, worries and valuable life time that you can surely dedicate to that beautiful young woman who will soon appear in your life. Remember to be careful when choosing, not all the beautiful legs, the exuberant breasts and the angelic faces are what it is worth, GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO KNOW the girl before falling in love with her, and be clear and firm that you want exclusivity and commitment and that you offer the same. Good luck in life Friend. Cheer up and be happy.

      2.    son in law said

        Dear friends; I tell them my situation, I never thought that women would lie, or at least my wife, lately I noticed something strange in her behavior, distant from me, the intimate relationship diminished, she no longer wanted him to touch her when we were in bed, she felt always sick, pain everywhere, the positions made her uncomfortable when acsedia having intercourse; I also noticed a lot of going out to the store to call her mother, they called her on her cell phone and she answered very softly and always looked for the way out of the house and left for a friend, took her good time and then came back and told me that it was A friend asking for a dress or apologies I answered. I believed him. I did not know yet, that he was lying to me to the fullest ... one day the two of them sitting in front of the TV the phone rang, a single ring she said with the selu on the hand a missed call; It seemed normal to me, after the call she felt bad and said that her stomach hurt and she went to the bathroom, I suddenly noticed that something was not right and I went after her cautiously I stopped to the side from the toilet and to my surprise the cell phone rang again, she shut it up quickly, let a few minutes pass, I noticed that she was babbling like when one writes and pronounces what is written, I let her continue with what she was doing, I gave her a prudent time for him to give me sufficient proof of what he was sending through messages and to confirm with whom he was communicating, after a long time I unexpectedly entered the bathroom and snatched the cell phone and I found the pt ... well I had a relationship with a teacher colleague of hers, and the most boar denied me what I had written on the phone and had the audacity to tell me that the messages were sent on behalf of a friend, being that the messages were sent in the first person and to come of a maest Ra couldn't believe it; … ..Now she swears to me that she has not been unfaithful and I don't know what to do, if someone has had this experience can help me, what should I do? guevaa

        1.    open the sheets said

          Friend, the truth is that I have met many unfaithful women and I know it because I have been their friend and they take care of each other as far as you can imagine, if your partner no longer takes care of himself it is because flatly not only is he unfaithful and for a long time, if not that she no longer cares so much about you and the ugliest thing is that her lover is only deceiving her with beautiful phrases ... as soon as you vote her, he will vote for her. She is going to swear to you by the most sacred thing that she does not lie, she is going to cry, she is going to kneel you, she is going to tell you, do it to me the way you want so that you can see that I love you, etc, it is more if a Little is going to tell you that they were just flirting, but it came to nothing .. unfortunately you knew a little about how women are and I mean only the question of liars, remember to hold on to the truth and dignity and you will be happy

    2.    open the sheets said

      And what happened next, did you recover or what happened, but remember the lie is inherent to the human being and the more you use them the more you destroy yourself and this is something that all women should know and, if they are the masters of deception, remember when think you are so good to be true, it is true ... it is not reality or is a hoax

  30.   Miguel said

    Well I tell you my story, I am a 25-year-old man and I have a 5-year-old boy and I am about to end this relationship because the truth is, my wife is a fake, that is what I think of her because I discovered many things on the cell phone on the computer. , rather in everything and more, however, he denies me everything and tells me that I am in a movie, the truth is that I have always been sincere to my wife and I do not understand why he does this to the child and I do not deserve this, the name of She is Leidy, I sometimes say that suddenly it is because she went to live with me very young, starting from the fact that since I met her she told me lies because she told me an age that I was not and when I realized how old I was I was already in pregnancy and then I had to answer for the baby but I also loved her, how sad it is to say, I do not wish this to anyone, I am a very judicious man, I work with music, because you should know that this work is more than all of night, and I have come from work and I have found the child Or only in the house better said if I keep telling you I do not finish the only thing I say to those liars is that they value what they have because they do not know what they have until they lose it

    1.    juancito said

      Oh very ugly friend. It will cost you but leave it. I'm a dj, and I met my ex that's how she danced and smiled at me, very pretty, the most beautiful woman I've done everything with… luckily we didn't have children. She was very deceptive and I, with computer skills and a lot of intuition, started 1 year after being with her to distrust absolutely everything. Today I realize that before, I had seen signs that this woman was like that, but as a colleague above says, I was blinded by the bed and I forgave everything.
      what do I have? accept that I will always be cuckold with the mine that I get?
      or be patient and the day you meet one try to believe again?
      greetings and do what that girl really deserves, advice, do not let her manipulate you saying that she is not what she seems or saying "you also had mistakes" greetings

      1.    juancito said

        and another thing, I work with music like you. I am a dj and I operate sound and on top of that I am studying that.

        But let me tell you one thing. I don't think a "good" woman is going to be with someone like us. A very intelligent woman who loves herself, loves someone with the same characteristics.

        another: protect your son, if possible that he does not go with her.

  31.   Anonymous 3 said

    It happened to me that my girlfriend lied to me a lot, (and not only in fidelity things) I did not realize it, I was very confident, I never investigated or doubted her, we were 5 years old, until I noticed some details the first time I investigate that I begin to discover everything, the details were just the tip of the iceberg. I felt terrible, I couldn't believe it of her, I was depressed for several months (it felt like years) to the point of wanting to die, totally disappointed, disillusioned with life. She didn't seem to care, we tried to be without me and I without her. We had like 3 relationships each. But all that time, the fights and many painful events served us to reflect, to wonder, to lower ourselves to pride, each of us went to therapy on our own, we read among various things about emotional intelligence, we matured and we realized that both of us we neglect our relationship, our respect, our love. I realized many mistakes that I never knew how to recognize before and she was drowned in her fight of lies. We hit rock bottom and from there we saw everything with another perspective, we looked inside. Now we are married and we have two beautiful girls, one of 5 and one of 2. We learned to love each other, although from time to time we have fights, now we know how to communicate and solve things. Now we live being alert to our actions, the lies and manipulations are turned off, the mistreatment, the indifference. I first only judged her as a total liar but now I recognize her as a very skilled person (a lawyer by the way) who knows how to lie when necessary (and it is because the world is full of wild and malicious people) but now she is my ally Before we treated each other as enemies, now we are very close. If you love your wife, know her, investigate well how she is in your absence, without her noticing, open your eyes and do not leave yourself, but also recognize your mistakes, we all lie and hide things, we do not deny it, we better learn to know each other We ourselves, do not fool yourselves by thinking that you are good and they are bad, it is not easy to realize but selfishness, caprice and indifference harm a lot. If in your case you put a lot of desire and feel that the relationship is unfair, talk it over with her and measure it together, but if your old woman continues with idiocies, leave her, let her rot alone, sometimes we only learn that way and sometimes people never stop being crap. This has been part of my experience, I hope it helps you to share them, just as it has helped me to read those of others, thank you.

  32.   juan carlos said

    In this I have a lot of experience, a girl told me that the child she was raising was her "little nephew", whom she was raising because it was the product of a delusion of her old partner with her sister and when she felt terrible she wanted to abort it but she prevented it with the condition that would take care of the child. Then I found out all the truth was her son.
    Then there is a girl "to this one if I believed her with closed eyes" she painted herself as very pure and innocent, she did not kill a fly, all demure she did not want to give me a "little kiss" haha, but one night after a party at a disco , he went to an apartment with a group of friends where they smoked coca and had an orgy, haha ​​my best friend was there, he told me about it but I was always wondering if he also "happened" hahaha, of course after this I sent the skinny woman flying, her pleas were useless, nor did her crying make her pay dearly for her lies.
    Among others, she is a very pretty skinny blonde, who supposedly worked in the Credit bank but when I asked her for details she told me that she had resigned that day because they wanted to transfer her to the outskirts of Lima, of course it sounded more false than a U $ 6 bill. Besides, she said that she had no boyfriend or lover but she makes frequent trips to the interior and goes out often with her "friends" haha ​​I sent her flying too.
    I could go on all day but to show a button.

  33.   Antonio said

    It has happened to me with my wife, for a long time I know that she communicated with her ex, but she always denied it, until one day she left her Facebook and caught her, certainly they were only friendly conversations, no adventure, but the same remained lie, now forgive her but I can still check your Facebook and your emails because I found an old cell phone of hers and I always check of course that she does not know I have two small children and I do not want to end the marriage like that, but if I catch a lie I leave it

  34.   Luis said

    It's funny, but some women who answer here feel very chingonas because according to them they know how to lie better, for which they are accepting that they are more liars and unfaithful than men, but they always pretend to be holy and innocent and it is a characteristic of women. women, who never accept their mistakes and are very liars and invent many things to hide the truth; otherwise they would be men.
    I have caught 3 ex-girlfriends red-handed with their lies, one cached it in person and another 2 even with videos and recordings that I put on their long pinocchio noses, it made me laugh so much and I enjoyed so much grabbing them red-handed, and like typical women who never accept their infidelity and lies, and also get very angry because I caught them in their big lie, so they can lie at the moment, but there are more bastard men than we are going to take them and we are going to send them to hell , in addition to the good publicity that we will do with them as infidels and liars so that they know them well. In the end, lies are always known.

  35.   REXUSS said

    haha I had a girlfriend who always left teaching her cell would be unloaded and when I told her about going to see her or visiting her place of study she would leave me with two stones without so much sheath I left her and although she cried like an idiot she never did I believed half a word
    I do not believe in woman's tears ... everyone dies

  36.   REXUSS said

    Some know that they have problems with their mobile phone but that suits them so they look for excuses not to repair it
    they lose a few hours and when you complain to them they say: no what happens with this device that turns off hahahahaha
    If your girlfriend reacts defensively when you question her jmmmmm there is a mess and they react like this to take care that you don't dare to inquire. YOU HAVE TO HAVE AN INQUISITING CHARACTER

  37.   Mauritius said

    That's true. I like your comment, it is an evil and perverse game. We also lied, I know, recently I am hurt with a friend who I love (would I?) Since we went out very often, we were comrades, we kissed, infin and yes I fell in love with her, but she did not show affection for me, only company , have a good weekend time. Recently, she turned the other way, she is dating a boy 10 years her junior, and she hid it from me for weeks and weeks, telling me that no one was interested. By the way, she is divorced, because she got pregnant by another while married to an acquaintance of mine. Then he sent his daughter's father to fly too ... what will go through his mind?

  38.   Mauritius said

    Your views are excellent. I have verified with the passage of time and my relationship with my partners, that this is how they react when we want to get the truth out of them. And if we fool ourselves, it continues to hurt and it is a thorn in the mind and distrust begins. Geez how complicated relationships with certain people. I clarify: I am not a saint and I have also lied and cheated, due to lack of maturity. But when they do it to me it hurts, it hurts.

  39.   Mauritius said

    Ugh how strong what you lived with that woman Oscar. Mine is almost mild compared. I was dating the ex-wife of a friend, yes, my friend of years, and he never knew, but they were already divorced because she got pregnant with another man, before divorcing my friend, she had her daughter, ´then He also sent the girl's father to fly, and he would look for me, we would go out, friends, for a walk or have a drink. But now he noticed a boy, and he no longer looks for me. There he does not know what awaits him.

    1.    CESAR said

      HELLO MAURICIO YOUR STORY SOUNDS TO ME FAMILY THAT IT WAS ALL THAT AND WHAT IS THAT WOMAN'S NAME

  40.   joel said

    Cache a liar, the good thing we were only lovers, at first the situation always changed, increased people or removed, what killed the unhappy woman is that that day I turn off the cell phone and blame the device that failed, hahaha free me Thank God for her, let her keep her miserable monkey face, now she's the old woman's fart.

  41.   ricardo said

    the truth is that there are many women who lie in everything, the person of whom I live is one of her with it shows when she lies and the truth is that makes me very bad at my age I am not a lie I want to live with a woman who does not you like the lie ,,,,,, excuse me to the other women

  42.   Angel said

    The saddest thing is that no matter how well a woman lies to you, you will always unconsciously notice the absence of her being, and the worst thing is that if you are blindly in love, it will be you who lies to yourself so as not to see the truth, of course they lie better , but that does not make them better people, the man or the woman, who does not know how to live without lying, is condemned to suffer the weight of loneliness, because without sincerity, trust and loyalty are only illusions in the air.

  43.   Dark Knight said

    I have stayed awake tonight because I have been searching the entire network for a way to catch my partner. I still have not proven that she is unfaithful or that she cheats on me, but this morning I have read each comment on this page one by one and I can conclude that she has all those characteristics of a cornered woman, when you demand something from her. My story with this woman dates back many years, and according to what I have learned tonight I am almost certain that she is unfaithful to me for pleasure, that she is one of the women who wants to have two or three romantic relationships, my work now will be unmask it, as a computer scientist I will use this to catch it. at the end I tell you all my story.

  44.   Carlos said

    I WAS GOING OUT FOR 7 MONTHS WITH A GIRL, HER FIRST LIE THAT LLO REMEMBER WAS WHEN I ASKED HER TO GO OUT, DOES IT SAY ARE YOU DATING SOMEONE? I ANSWERED NO, AND AT THAT MOMENT I ASKED HER TO GO OUT WITH ME. AT THE END OF 2 MONTHS I BEGAN TO REALIZE THAT EVERY DAY ABOUT THE SAME TIME I ALWAYS TALKED WITH THE SAME PERSON, SUPPOSEDLY HIS EX-PARTNER, HE GOT IT SO GOOD THAT IT TAKEN 4 MONTHS TO KNOW THAT HE WAS CHEATING AND LYING TO HER ONCE THAT SHE DID IT WITH THE OTHER WITH WHOM SHE ALWAYS TALKED FOR TLF, HER OTHER BOYFRIEND, UNFAITHFUL AND LIAR. WHEN I LEARNED ABOUT ALL HER LIES I CONTACTED HER OTHER BOYFRIEND TO EXPLAIN EVERY DETAIL IN DETAIL, I TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS DECEIVING US AND LYING, HINGING BOTH, HE DIDN'T KNOW BECAUSE WE LIVED 300KM SHE CAME TO WORK WITH ME. GOOD BECAUSE AFTER DISCOVERING ALL THE LIES HER IDEO SUCH LIES THAT MADE THE OTHER THINK THAT SHE WAS NOT WITH ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT LIES I TOLD HER THAT THE CRELLO AND IT WAS I WHO LOOKED LIKE A LIAR .. AFTER I SOLVED EVERYTHING WITH HIM ANOTHER SHE LIKE THAT DOESN'T GO WITH HER KEEPS GOING OUT WITH ME AND I STILL LIKE IT DOES THE SAME ONLY THAT THIS TIME MY INTENTIONS WERE GOING TO BE DIFFERENT TO TAKE SELFINS ON THE BED THE TWO TOGETHER AUDIO RECORDINGS IN WHICH SHE SAYS I LOVE YOU YOU ARE THE BEST BOYFRIEND ETC. ,,,, SO I CONTACTED THE OTHER AGAIN BUT THIS TIME WITH TESTS ,, AND AFTER SEEING ALL THE DECEPTIONS WITH YOUR EYES AND HEARING WITH YOUR EARS !!! AMAZING I DON'T KNOW WHAT NEW LIES SHE TOLD HER AGAIN THAT I REMAINED LIKE THE LIAR, AND IT'S ALREADY 8 MONTHS HAPPENED I HAVE STILL SLEEPING WITH HER AS IF IT WAS A FUCKED FRIEND AND TELLING HIM EVERYTHING TO THE HORNY ONE, AND I CONTINUED TO SEND HIM TESTS AND THE TRUTH THAT THEY ARE GOOD COUNTY LIES THAT FOR EACH PROOF THAT I SENT I HAD A GREAT LIE WHERE THE FOOL IN THIS STORY THE HORNY TODAY BELIEVES ALL THE LIES, SHE IS A COMPULSIVE LIAR, THE STORY IS VERY LONG AND I WOULD TAKE TWO DAYS WRITING HERE… BY THE WAY WHEN HE LIES, HE LOOKS INTO YOUR EYES AND YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING.

  45.   mr rock said

    What balls do they have

  46.   kalr said

    Hello friends, all your answers are very interesting, something happened to me with my partner of 14 years ago, everything started when I discovered a conversation on Facebook, from her it was only friendship, but from him only insinuations and invitations to see each other, then they started talking to each other on cell phone, for more than a year, without my knowing, the child would suspect nothing, until I saw the entire conversation, identified the number, looked for it on his cell phone and of course there were recent calls from his ex, my The mistake was to confront her right away, I should have hoped to have how her next step was .. well I confronted her and of course she denied me everything, she said that there had only been a couple of calls as friends and that they had never seen each other .. Our two children, the truth is that from that moment on, trust has been lost and now almost a year after this, I am looking for conclusive evidence to end this martyrdom. I thank you for any help.

  47.   Alex said

    They know these words are for those who lie since they do not know that perhaps they have a good person by their side and that one does not know what they have until they lose it and there people who are worth more than gold and women who lie sooner or later They are always caught in lies and the truth is worth less than a breath of air!

  48.   George said

    Hello, just guys, women know the power they have in their shell, and most know how to use it, they will no longer find love in a woman, just long fucks at the beginning, and after blackmailing a child, a boring handjob until you get tired and decide to give all your money to leave or part of them. cheers lick boys be so cold and realistic

  49.   Horacii said

    The worst thing that can happen to you is trusting a woman. Sooner or later, if you are lucky, you will realize that he lied to you. Hopefully it will be as soon as possible, so you have the painful pleasure of sending her to hell. They will always manipulate you. Of course, later they complain about men who do the same to them.

  50.   Rosalina said

    Caught my husband cheating how can I stop him?

  51.   Okuninushi said

    well sirs this is my story, I am desperate seeking advice from those who have gone through these situations, sorry if the story is long
    I met her about 7 months ago. She is a beautiful woman, not the kind that appears on magazine covers but the kind that takes hold of a man's heart.
    She is ULTRA Christian, brainwashed level and justifies many of her actions. So far we have not had sex, according to her among several reasons, because of her religion (although it is clearly established that she is not a virgin)

    When we started dating in June, she told me that her ex-boyfriend, who is in the neighboring country (which does not have an army), would come between September 8 and 11. I said ok, let's take the relationship calmly. In the country where we live we are foreigners and she is alone here, without family, we are of the same nationality (Colombia) so I offered to live in my house while she solved her situation
    From one moment to the next she put her foot on the gas and our relationship seemed to grow. One day I was upset because he saw a conversation on my cell phone with my ex-girlfriend (who I broke up with more than two years ago) who was with someone new. I didn't understand why he was upset if I was pushing my ex out of the way, it seemed like a ready-made excuse to argue. So he gave me to check his cell phone and I found a conversation with his ex where they spoke very affectionately. She is a fan of a certain German brand of classic cars so I gave her a glass with the logo, in the conversation she sent her the photo saying that she had it as a gift for when she came. He also sent her a photo of the calendar with the days marked, somewhere apart from the conversation she told him that she didn't love me but he did. During the day I couldn't hide my annoyance and it all ended with her berating me for having looked at my cell phone without her permission, and she never made reference to what I saw. We lasted two frozen days and out of nowhere she fixed everything and became affectionate with me again. we lasted almost a month without touching the subject, until one morning I told her to be honest with me, to clarify if her boyfriend would come or not and if she was really serious with me. He said yes, that I was fine, and at ease and comfortable with me and that Andres had canceled the trip. (I recently found an email that he sent her with the tickets, but he didn't say anything else, what does it mean?) and he assured me that there was nothing to worry about. From there I decided to believe in her and never doubt again, however I realized that she changed the unlock code on her phone which made me suspicious. Without her noticing, I guessed the new password and entered a couple of times and ...

    1. I found that there were messages on whatsapp with his ex, I could not read the content but I could determine that there were several messages deleted
    2. There were messages to another boy in which he sent photos of a trip we made together by land to the border (border with the country where her boyfriend is, by the way ...)
    3. He used to make the same jokes to this other boy that I make to her, and at times I would tell him that he was very cute

    After a couple of months of relative calm one day I went on his phone again and saw a very casual conversation with Andres. He is still looking for her, clearly he contacts her from time to time which tells me that he does not know that she is with me. This is one of the parts that has me scratching my head. I know there is something wrong but I want to understand what it is. When I saw that message I confronted her, I told her that I was sorry for having breached and having seen her cell phone but that I had found this. She went crazy, she told me that I was a psychopath, that I had problems that I was obsessed with, that she would leave me that same night, etc. I told him that if he valued his relationship with me at all to do something about it. Instantly he calmed down and apologized, and we were fine. That's so good, they don't give so much ...

    I recently saw a message from a new guy with the surname Galera, who is in our country of origin, who asked her for her whatsapp and she said she was very happy that he wrote to her. the times that I have been able to enter her phone I have seen that she deletes the messages that she writes herself but the guy responds to her things like "how beautiful you are," "have a nice night" etc. I have limited access to her cell phone but I suspect that she has to identify when I look at it, so I am trying to do it strategically, not when it is obvious, so I miss the messages that she deletes

    There are many other subtle or not so much details, she avoids talking about sex, I ever saw a call to an unknown number, etc etc

    My theories about the situation are obvious to those who see it from the outside, but there are other things (less and less) that make me think that she is honest
    1. She is with me out of interest, the fact of living in my house, I have a better salary than her, I take her and bring her, etc ...
    2. she clearly hasn't left her ex behind, or is playing a double game
    3. this is the most painful. she seeks adventures and flirts with other people to have someone to meet her physical, emotional and material needs

    I know I am very stupid, but I want to believe that I am being paranoid and that she is a good woman, although I doubt it more and more. I tell the story with the hope that someone will give me a productive point of view, even with all the indications that I wrote, maybe someone who reads this knows her, because it seems that it is not the first time that she behaves like this with a man .
    PD
    waiting for comments

    1.    senseye said

      My friend from my own experience, I sent that woman flying, you are seeing her stupid face because you find the messages and she already knows how to lie to you to handle the situation, I already grasp your weakness, that will not prosper, I spent 22 years realizing that my wife did the same to me and every time I discovered her she told me give me a chance that now if I am going to change, until one day I grab her cell phone and I discovered you have been talking to a sweetie for 5 months, the very whore She told everything and blackmailed me to forgive her or I had to leave the apartment and since we have 2 children and the apartment was bought by both of us, I told her that I was not leaving, because the damn thing I made a false complaint and I was imprisoned Woman, the law defends her, even if she tells lies, and the little shit with which I ride the horns I throw her away and I also throw her away since I am processing the divorce, the unfortunate thing is my children that I will continue to support them in whatever is necessary, that happened to end of last year and I'm still not recovering, I hoped or that the advice serves you, it is better to throw it away at the first lie than to wait for it to raise the level of it and everything gets out of control.

  52.   Mike portnoy said

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  53.   Carlos said

    When they say they live somewhere else

  54.   Romina said

    Hello, I am going to tell you about my case, I find myself in a situation in which I do not want to leave two men, both are good, I think more about one than the other but I decided to leave this, I told both of them that I wanted to be alone, one is my partner and the other is my friend nothing more but they both love me but I am a liar, my partner does not know that I have told my friend that I have fallen in love with him and my friend does not know and thinks that my partner is just a boyfriend bone You can't imagine how close we are, so how do I know that this is not right? I decided that neither deserves me, both are good men, I am the one with the problem, but now it turns out that they both look for me, they don't want to lose me and I don't know how to do if I block one totally comes to my house, someone can help me, I'm really trying to remedy it and not look worse but I don't know how to end this

  55.   Manny said

    Senseyese I am very sorry for what happens believe me it is not the last nor the first so there are many in this situation you have been a true warrior to be next to someone who has lied to you a lot but hold on to the saying that says there is no evil that for good Do not come and you gave him a lot of chance and of that abuse if at one o'clock at two a lot at 3 times he does not match anymore, not even with blows it will change if he go from 2 to more opportunities no longer nor why continue to not be That one likes martyrdom, give time to time, it is too early to recover and much less with the time that I have lived with this person and the children who are involved, I will tell you something. It took me 24 months to heal my wounds. My heart, as you say, you met a slightly older woman with two daughters thanks to this myspace social network in 2007, apparently she was emotionally ill. I, in good faith, offered her my medical coverage for which I had to marry her and we got married well in July 2008 with the condition thatIf it did not work we separated so we lasted 4 years I finally decided to join her to live as a couple in June 2011, I put her to study a short career instead of studying she dedicated herself to the whore to be going with one and the other began to Arriving at the house with flowers they already told me that woman is deceiving you and I was a fool trusting her I decided to look for evidence I found it and confronted her and denied everything based on that I told her that if she wanted with one of the many with whom she had been Taking photos she told me no that she wanted me more, it would be my wallet because just as you had a good job and she did not work she needed me to pay the bills and so much that I asked her to change no more until she gave better for To fall in love with another and I was denied the girl that I wanted so much to forgive her and the next day again to be kissing with the boy that was the drop that spilled the glass of water I threw her and then she was going to forgive her that she realized that he wants me to go here Change that is going to work I wanted to try it for two months just by text then I realized that so that with the magnitude of that damage there and everything died for me it was hard to last two years of suffering but thanks to the highest God I am also processing my divorce and God forbid this year better opportunities will come there is always someone for everyone good luck friend cheer up you can

  56.   claudio cesar said

    Thank you for your words they are very successful, but my case is very particular, I met a girl a week ago, at first impression she seemed sincere, days later I accompanied her to pick up her father from the station, I felt a connection with her and her father I felt that she liked me, days later she tells me that they have robbed her in her room where she lives and that also in her work they have robbed the owner, and that she needs someone to lend her, I do not accept my help, but if she wants me to find someone who lend you, the truth is, I don't trust this much, it's weird but I'm not sure, it may be that I'm right or that everything is a lie, I'm just continuing with this but if telling you may be a mistake or not, and if I cry with me several times the I felt bad but I do not know something, it does not give me confidence and I do not know what to do, I like it a lot and I want to help her and I know she does too, but not how to detect her lies, help me, thank you. Lima Peru

  57.   Alex said

    Last Sunday April 30, I searched my girlfriend in bed with another man because on Saturdays there was always a pretext and I did not see her and she was always manipulating me with her daughter's needs in June we were dating for two years we lived for about four months together then we parted ways and she wouldn't let me into her bedroom until I cached her with someone else ... to a woman who from the beginning you give her money that is going to be the value that you are going to deserve and the more you give her the less she will value you because that money is not so much for her daughter that money will go to the man she loves whom she begs. Because I gave her three times 3000 pesos to pay for electricity and she didn't pay it, it was like 230 dollars almost two years ago until I went and paid it like that, I knew her with many deficiencies. And then I gave him for the girl's things and he did not buy them until I took them and paid over time I realized that he had not one but many who gave him money but not what I tried but I tolerated a lot because I fell in love of her but fortunately when I cached her in bed with someone else I took off the blindfold and now that it is going well.

  58.   Mark said

    Companions, women are the maximum and the most divine but you must always be careful about them, especially in cases of lies and deception.

    My story quickly I had a 9-year-old couple and two children, we had problems almost 5 months apart and intermittently we had sex and we looked for each other to go out with children.
    It turns out that the great woman cooked 2 eggs, one fried and the other boiled, in fact, I left home because I felt something strange in the environment and just a month after I stopped seeing her, I was already introducing another husband to her parents' house, who think of this. And in fact, what was my home and my children's home brought it into our house….

    I simply assume that she had that relationship since before I left because of the problems and the thought of the house and the very degenerate one enjoyed both of them, the truth is that some women are cynical and very liars….

  59.   anonymous said

    At least I believe that a woman, even if she is the most beautiful thing in the world, if she does not want to say things, she should not fall into lying, I personally have seen that she lies to me and it is very often even though I do not have the need to resort to lying. We all repeat patterns of our parents and she had a very lying father and mother since they lied to each other about anything.

    Too bad they repeat the learned patterns.

    1.    Jose Alberto said

      I have witnessed so many lying women that I lost count, it does not mean that there are no such men. I dare say that the relationship with the other man existed a little before the problems with you started. When they start a relationship outside of marriage, the time it takes to reject the husband is very short and create conflicts in many cases for insignificant things to create discomfort and begin to open the spaces to let the other in.

  60.   alfonzo said

    I speak from experience, both the man and the woman, when meeting the one or the one indicated. It will not measure the level of lies or gestures for something they say, love is blind, and for the intelligent ones who first observe the characteristics, traits, physical, feelings etc. when you like.! you will not measure failures at the beginning that is done after a while, maybe about 6 months long enough to know personally that it is worth continuing to invest time, love, hopes etc.

    for something (WE LIVE FROM OUR EXPERIENCE GENTLEMEN)

    I wait for the criticism XD

  61.   LUCIO CCONISLLA TRUEVAS said

    4.-LEARNING STYLES: DIVERGENT, ASSIMILATOR, CONVERGENT AND ACCOMMODATING.

  62.   Ricardo said

    I'm just going to say that if my wife cheats on me one day, I WILL BIRTH HER MOTHER AND CONTROL HER THREE METERS UNDER EARTH because she doesn't play games with me and she knows that I don't tolerate any lies, she knows that I can be the best person, the best husband. , the best father of the family and very protective but I have already made it very clear to him that before doing some bullshit, he will not live to tell it and worse for the person who is part of the error (Sancho) because he will also pay with his life.

    I say all this because I am a person with values ​​and a lot of education, I respect and love my wife, therefore I do not allow nor will I allow any bullshit in my relationship, therefore my wife must have the same purpose and not fail.

    I recommend that they be good people and direct with their girlfriends and even more so with their wives because feelings are not at stake and less when the relationship has already been several years and with children in between ...

    It is better to make your partner aware and warn him that the relationship is not a game and that it could cause a serious end if he makes the mistake of cheating on you, then in this way she will measure the water in the broth.

    I do not leave anyone and that is why my wife knows that she can count on me in everything but she must never take a wrong step because the consequences would be very very serious.

    SLUTS or SLUTS women are those who are looking for strong emotions or are looking for the devil, just for 5 minutes of bullshit they end their relationship or marriage and the worst of all is that the bastard who took them only used them to pass the time and then they go around asking for forgiveness and they think it is easy to forget the betrayal.

    If you are a woman and you are reading this message, I advise you to take your relationship very seriously and not to go looking for problems and less when there are children involved, love and value your husband and he should respond in the same way.

    Each one reaps what he sows.

    Believe me what I tell you, whoever wants to play the cock, sooner or later will be discovered.

    KARMA EXISTS AND AT SOME TIME IN YOUR LIFE YOU WILL SEE IT COMING FOR GOOD OR BAD.

  63.   MR. Anonymous said

    Hello Don Juancito, I'll tell you about my problem. Two days ago a girl and a 45-year-old uncle told a friend of mine that I did impure things with their photos, it is totally a lie, what do I do to the girl and the boy ??? Do I kill them? I eat them.

    Thanks for your advice and disarm you lucky bastards.

  64.   Manu said

    My partner asked me for time, from Sunday to Monday he completely changed, he took his things and I see her very strange ..
    There is no physical contact, I see her without wanting anything, the WhatsApp replies are short, a word or two, I talk to her about a topic and she changes the subject ... and I see her very distant.

    I have the feeling that there is another person.

    What is your opinion?

    Thank you