If you are the most handsome boy in the office, if you like those girls who seem unattainable, the doubt is to flirt or be seduced.
Can happen that you feel that you attract several women, but at the same time it is difficult for you to communicate with the ones that attract you.
The nerves when it comes to seducing
When that girl makes you so nervous that you have a hard time saying three words in a row, you don't need to worry. Actually, it is shown that Men take an average of 15 minutes to create a romantic message.
Why is this happening to us? Either because of the anxiety that everything goes well, the same excitement of that moment, etc. The truth is that we feel very safe, very proud… Until we like a girl a lot.
Flirt and seduce on WhatsApp
Technology has changed everything. It is natural today to conquer that person we passionately desire through Facebook or WhatsApp,
These instant messaging applications allow us to converse with the other person at any time. Besides that, they are ideal for shy or very introverted people. Some surveys conducted among Spaniards have concluded that WhatsApp is the preferred one.
Some tips to flirt or seduce
- The first thing is that make sure that the girl you want to seduce does not have a partner. It's not that it's an insurmountable obstacle, but if you get into trouble ... you'll have trouble.
- How to start a conversation? You have to find the right moment and ask a question that favors communication.
- What interests do you have in common with her? This is data with a lot of potential. If you can figure out some topics or interests that you have in common with that girl, you will be able to communicate much better. The next step may be to start an activity together, based on that theme.
- Smile, don't stop smiling. That builds confidence and the smile is contagious. If you also put a funny or funny touch to the conversation, you will have broken the ice possibly forever with her.
- Be careful with touching. Always with respect, a light caress or a gentle touch on an arm, create a very high touch of complicity. This does not mean that you go too fast and do it too soon. You could generate a negative image.
Finally, the best advice to decide whether to flirt or be seduced, is to be yourself.
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