You meet a girl and you ask her out. It is the first date they will have and you take her out for a drink at a bar. When the evening is over and the waiter arrives with the bill, a great question arises: Should I invite her or pay half the amount consumed?
It is an uncomfortable situation and more because there is not enough trust with the girl. Therefore, in Stylish Men We will give you some tips so that you can go prepared to your first date.
Society has imposed that it must be the man who invites the woman (monetarily) in the outings they make, since it is considered as a gesture of chivalry and if the woman interests us a lot, that gesture can add points to achieve what we want.
She may also be able to pay her share. In that case, you should insist that you want to invite her, but without giving the signal that you want to leave the date at that time. If she does not resist this insistence, then you can see that she is a correct and supportive person. Now, if she really is stubborn to pay her share, you have to do whatever it takes, and with enough ease, to make her change her mind, at least not on the first date.
If you manage to go on a second date, you will gain more confidence with the girl and be more confident when paying.
In my case, and even though I am retired from the first dates, I always invite them. Not just because I feel comfortable doing it, but because I like to do it. What is your position? Do you invite or pay half?