First date: invite or pay half?

dateYou meet a girl and you ask her out. It is the first date they will have and you take her out for a drink at a bar. When the evening is over and the waiter arrives with the bill, a great question arises: Should I invite her or pay half the amount consumed?

It is an uncomfortable situation and more because there is not enough trust with the girl. Therefore, in Stylish Men We will give you some tips so that you can go prepared to your first date.

Society has imposed that it must be the man who invites the woman (monetarily) in the outings they make, since it is considered as a gesture of chivalry and if the woman interests us a lot, that gesture can add points to achieve what we want.

She may also be able to pay her share. In that case, you should insist that you want to invite her, but without giving the signal that you want to leave the date at that time. If she does not resist this insistence, then you can see that she is a correct and supportive person. Now, if she really is stubborn to pay her share, you have to do whatever it takes, and with enough ease, to make her change her mind, at least not on the first date.

If you manage to go on a second date, you will gain more confidence with the girl and be more confident when paying.

In my case, and even though I am retired from the first dates, I always invite them. Not just because I feel comfortable doing it, but because I like to do it. What is your position? Do you invite or pay half?

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  1.   ilidan said

    Well, the truth is to pay half, I regularly take a car or pay the passage of the first date so well ... I hope you take the initiative to pay when we have already had a good time this also tells me how safe it is, personally I like the confident and independent women and one of the details is this of paying for appointments

  2.   oscar said

    Yes, I agree with the first comment that she pays her share or insists on sharing the expenses with you, in my opinion, it makes me see her as an independent girl and that she fends for herself


    Hello, I would like to ask you a question. I have a friend who makes me feel like a fucking mother and I'm in love with her and I don't know if she likes me or not. I took her hand I went hand in hand and maybe later when I left it but you know I don't know .. I asked my friend if she liked me or not and she told me if you have a girlfriend if she likes you I don't know if she likes you or not pos He does not like it much, and maybe you, I still insist, and maybe I don't know what to think, well, if you can reply to the mail, thank you, you answer my mail, ok bss, thanks

  4.   caty said

    how to make my husband always feel good

  5.   Victor said

    Well, if she wants to pay for dinner in half, you say, 'No, woman, I want to invite you. Then you invite me to a drink ». Thus we ensure an extension of dinner in a nice bar, with music, dance, greater closeness ... you understand me.