Are you very well with your partner, but have you gone out with your friends, have you taken too many and been unfaithful to your partner? Or capable of the opposite, have you been unfaithful knowing what you were doing?
Many times after infidelity, we usually feel lacking and if you are in the first case, you fear losing your partner. So this question arises: Is an infidelity confessed or kept quiet?
Admitting an infidelity has its pros and cons. I think the only advantage of saying it is that you have been honest with your wife and she has found out what happened from you and not by other means. Capable of this act of sincerity can add to her understanding what happened and forgiving you.
But telling an infidelity has more disadvantages and the main one is that she reacts badly (or in the expected way) and leaves us. Given this, many men decide not to confess and move on with the relationship and with the guilt behind them.
I think they have never been unfaithful to me, although no one is saved from horns and death. How would you react if your partner confesses that he has been unfaithful to you? Would you or would you not tell an infidelity?
Hello, I am not telling you. I was, I had a slip because I was wrong with him, lack of affection, but I do not tell him or I will tell him because if he is not capable of committing suicide or if he continues with me, which is what I believe, we can never have good relationships, Now because of the blame and now also on the side of sex, that if my man does not satisfy me and I have to go in search of another, he will feel guilty and will take a trauma that will never get very hard and firm because it will go to think about what I did. so I definitely do not tell him, but because of the way he is. For example, in case he was unfaithful to me, I would like him to tell me, because I am different and I take it to improve.
I was unfaithful to my last relationship a few months after starting, knowing what I was doing, and when she suspected, I lied to her, because the solution that she would take was to separate us, I did not like the idea much, but she came to believe that to His previous relationships had been unfaithful to them, and when he tried to do the same with me, he could not, and the fact that he maintained an open communication with his previous partner, and it bothered him that I spoke with some girl who seemed affectionate with me, made me doubt her, Currently we are going through different paths, I am fine, although still single, and it seems to me that she already has a new partner.
I was about to be unfaithful but I had already planned to break up with my ex and I was still faithful to him, although now we are nothing
hahaha, of course I would tell him…. I tend to be medium ... direct with those issues, the opportunity for me to be unfaithful has not yet arrived but .... I hope it doesn't come lol so I don't have to deal with those things mainly because women tend to be very reluctant without offending… ..
Ami cheated on me, my husband lived together, I worked, and he didn't get the money, I put it in and in, and he put it in and put it in with my money, he mistreated me but I didn't see him until I discovered his infidelity while pregnant. I found it in writing. . As expected, he denied it at the moment my baby was born, he is 4 months old. He adores his son. I apologize but I prefer to leave him because I don't want to hate him. If he had confessed to me or at least when I cached it, I would accept his guilt. join him believing regret and forgive him. but sorry because he was caught. please. men are not fools. If they were unfaithful to her they do not love her because when you love love does not let you have eyes for another. The excuse that I am a man does not work because as women we do not need to search. They arrive alone and at the right time. Apart from everything, they risk the health of his wife and their babies. are they so foolish to think they are irresistible? Women what happens to us because we are so short
wave …. Now I am going through a very difficult time, I live with my current husband, we have been living for 7 years, everything was beautiful, I always defended him that among friends we had infidelity and those things, I never imagined that he was capable, 6 months ago I found out that he left with another person and as if that were not enough, I also had another, I claimed it and denied everything, this has hurt like hell, because during my relationship with him I never kissed another man, if I had known of course I would never have refused ... I don't believe in loyalty and I don't think I'll ever see him with the same eyes again, and I know he also suffers, but if he had told me I would have been very angry, yes, but it would have been better, that opened
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1o.- Sex, procreation and infidelity is something natural and biological of the human being; It is different that society, religion and feelings have placed limits on it, and today it is about control.
2o.- Infidelity has always had many causes and reasons, according to age, moment, culture, time, circumstances, etc. Today with love reason for the freedom of the couple, the media and the concepts of life.
3o.- We have to differentiate the type of infidelity; in some feelings are mixed (this includes time), others are just an adventure on vacation, work or night (this is for the moment).
4o.- The concepts of life, enjoyment of sex, religious formation, family concept, strength as a human being, the criteria on responsibility of marriage or partner also play; also the trust and dialogue between the couple.
5o.- Based on the concepts of the unfaithful, the "cheated", the reasons for infidelity, it is evaluated, and can be defined if it is commented on, with various purposes, among them: Separation, Overcome it. Reframe concepts. Sincerity. Remove emotional charges from whoever caused it. Etc.
BUT IT CANNOT BE A CONCLUSION OF YES OR NO, MANY FACTORS PLAY, INCLUDING THE ABOVE EXPOSED.
Perhaps it is more frequent that men turn their partner around ... but in my case I had my partner as a lover for 9 years without even thinking about being or kissing another person ... because despite the mistreatment I had from his part .. and possible two unconfirmed infidelities ... I found in a co-worker ... many qualities that perhaps I no longer saw in my partner ... in the end I ended up telling him the truth for two reasons ... one reason why it is horrible to live with that doubt that It kills that they have been unfaithful or not (as he made me live with those two possible infidelities) and because I thought that it would help him feel better in some way ... but in vrdd ... it was not good ... maybe I should have bent and endured that guilt always ... it is obvious that he no longer speaks to me ... what I advise is that from the first moment that you are already considering or liking someone else ... then simply react and remember why you are with your partner ... if it is worth bouncing everything .. and most importantly communication .. talk with your partner CLEARLY inwhat is failing both parties ... do not shut up ... that way you could avoid any infidelity whether it is justified or not ... in the end it is infidelity.
That your wife is unfaithful to you is something that you do not wish to anyone, and even more so when she confesses it 8 years after it happened when the relationship is 100% obvious, the world is coming down on you, it is not easy to make a decision on one side this the pride of a male to imagine your wife sleeping for 3 months with another and on the other hand everything that has been built with so much effort during almost 18 years a great family, it is true when it happened was because I dedicated myself 200% to work and take out the expenses and I did not dedicate time to my wife I do not say that I was to blame, the problem is the lack of communication in speaking and saying hey do not peel me I need attention I feel like old furniture, now that the months have passed since Her confession, no matter how hard I try, I can't stop thinking about what happened and I hate her but I love her at the same time as difficult to choose, I wouldn't want to stay and in 10 years to realize that I should have left it and lost my youth, or leave the happy life that I had and end up just sad now Margado, I am 35 years old, if someone is reading this I give them some advice that cost me dearly, no matter how much work you have, always give yourself 15 minutes a day to ask your partner how it was in his day to talk to you and your children play with them 10 minutes I assure you that those 30 minutes a day will be the best investment of your life